What are my options?

[Balaallen123]

I can't lie. I've always had the urge fuck every 2 days. I can go for a week without masturbating but the thought of not having sex only diverts my attention to using my hand for pleasure on a 2-3 days basis.

I'm short but lean and a little muscular. Similar to swimmer built. No girl ever approach or shown any interest in me even when I to do the leg work. so the thought of having a gf is out.

Paying for sex is fine but I don't have the money to pay for sex all the time cause leaves a dent in my wallet to be honest.

Online dating hookup... Well no one wants a short malay guy regardless if I were to be good looking or not. Tried every kind of dating app, zero no swipes, no chat. I even used a decent pic etc yet even my Chad friends are baffled at why I don't get any matches or replies when they're help me see through my profile. Yes, even the fat and unattractive ones don't reply or ghost me thereafter.

My only option at the moment is to go to a doctor and get this horniness fixed permanently like pill suppressant or vececstomy.

Or just play with my right hand until I die.

I'm not picky. Just unlucky.
No money for long term commercial sex, no gf, no fwb, no online dating but am fucking horny over the moon.

[lucuher]

Originally Posted by Balaallen123

I can't lie. I've always had the urge fuck every 2 days. I can go for a week without masturbating but the thought of not having sex only diverts my attention to using my hand for pleasure on a 2-3 days basis.

I'm short but lean and a little muscular. Similar to swimmer built. No girl ever approach or shown any interest in me even when I to do the leg work. so the thought of having a gf is out.

Paying for sex is fine but I don't have the money to pay for sex all the time cause leaves a dent in my wallet to be honest.

Online dating hookup... Well no one wants a short malay guy regardless if I were to be good looking or not. Tried every kind of dating app, zero no swipes, no chat. I even used a decent pic etc yet even my Chad friends are baffled at why I don't get any matches or replies when they're help me see through my profile. Yes, even the fat and unattractive ones don't reply or ghost me thereafter.

My only option at the moment is to go to a doctor and get this horniness fixed permanently like pill suppressant or vececstomy.

Or just play with my right hand until I die.

I'm not picky. Just unlucky.
No money for long term commercial sex, no gf, no fwb, no online dating but am fucking horny over the moon.

dude, a vasectomy wont help!!! Take it from me - I had it done - its to make you baby-proof, not to make you less horny. Also suppressants would mean chemical castration, which has a shit load of other health problems - no sane doctor will prescribe that. If you really cant help it - you need a shrink. Sex addiction is a real thing. They might prescribe something to keep you happy - maybe xanax or who knows what.

[newyorker88]

Originally Posted by Balaallen123

I can't lie. I've always had the urge fuck every 2 days. I can go for a week without masturbating but the thought of not having sex only diverts my attention to using my hand for pleasure on a 2-3 days basis.

I'm short but lean and a little muscular. Similar to swimmer built. No girl ever approach or shown any interest in me even when I to do the leg work. so the thought of having a gf is out.

Paying for sex is fine but I don't have the money to pay for sex all the time cause leaves a dent in my wallet to be honest.

Online dating hookup... Well no one wants a short malay guy regardless if I were to be good looking or not. Tried every kind of dating app, zero no swipes, no chat. I even used a decent pic etc yet even my Chad friends are baffled at why I don't get any matches or replies when they're help me see through my profile. Yes, even the fat and unattractive ones don't reply or ghost me thereafter.

My only option at the moment is to go to a doctor and get this horniness fixed permanently like pill suppressant or vececstomy.

Or just play with my right hand until I die.

I'm not picky. Just unlucky.
No money for long term commercial sex, no gf, no fwb, no online dating but am fucking horny over the moon.

Find a sport or hobby. Keep ur mind occupied. Make urself some friends n exercise. My guess is u still young.

[Siamdiu5evas]

Maybe you're in the wrong hunting ground?
Perhaps try to expand your circles, meet more people.
I think girls like guys who can carry a conversation. While most girls are superficial, I think it is character that has a greater appeal on girls in the long run.
Don't be too dejected, it is normal to feel the urge, just need to channel it in the right places.

[Balaallen123]

I play sports and go to gym on a daily basis. Cant help but see milfs and syt at the gym also. Once one milf actually caught me staring at her while my south was erected. She gave me sigh and shake head and immediately walk away from the area. And it wasn't even like I was staring at her all the time, just a brief turn and that was it

[Balaallen123]

Then what are my logical options? Unless some kind soul want to throw me a bone of a FWB for me, I see my chances close to zero for everything else

[bigmannow]

My teacher last time said go and play some sports

[p u r e]

some thoughts/suggestions/questions:

1) find other hobbies that you genuinely enjoy, that are not expensive and not difficult to start.

2) also, how do you view women in general? how are your interactions with SYT, women around your age, and MILFs? what sort of things do you talk about with them? yes, there is the primal urge of sex, but I find that having interactions/discussions about topics/interests changes your outlook towards sex.

3) make sure you get enough sleep so that you can filter your thoughts and urges.

4) how's your life looking like in general? are you happy? feeling lonely?

i was thinking maybe you could look up for psychology services but not sure if your wallet would allow. could be very helpful.

[SerflySGR]

Bro Balaallen123, if you don't mind me saying/asking:

Originally Posted by Balaallen123

I can't lie. I've always had the urge fuck every 2 days. I can go for a week without masturbating but the thought of not having sex only diverts my attention to using my hand for pleasure on a 2-3 days basis.

How young are you? If you are young, it's normal to have such urges. If you are much older, congratulations cos it's a rare blessing! You don't know what you have until you lose it bro!

Originally Posted by Balaallen123

I'm short but lean and a little muscular. Similar to swimmer built. No girl ever approach or shown any interest in me even when I to do the leg work. so the thought of having a gf is out.

No offense bro but even in today's day and age, girls will always prefer that guys approach them first, unless you are talking about cougars. You are muscular - that's a plus, you should work on your strengths. Go out more and go to different places. For sure you will hit the jackpot one day.

Originally Posted by Balaallen123

Paying for sex is fine but I don't have the money to pay for sex all the time cause leaves a dent in my wallet to be honest.

Nobody is asking you to go for paid sex regularly. I mean, my son loves to eat Swensen's but that doesn't mean I bring him there very weekend, am I right?

Originally Posted by Balaallen123

Online dating hookup... Well no one wants a short malay guy regardless if I were to be good looking or not.

You are Malay?

Wow! I don't mean to be racist but Malay girls are the horniest and I know of some Chinese girls willing to date Malay guys. Again, you are sitting on something that Chinese and Indian brothers can only dream of.

So, what are you waiting for?

Originally Posted by Balaallen123

Tried every kind of dating app, zero no swipes, no chat. I even used a decent pic etc yet even my Chad friends are baffled at why I don't get any matches or replies when they're help me see through my profile. Yes, even the fat and unattractive ones don't reply or ghost me thereafter.

Bro, dating apps don't 'work properly' unless you are a paying or paid member. There could be girls responding to you but because you are not a paid member, they are unable to respond to you.

Also, you need to remember that guys outnumber girls in these apps so if you refuse to pay then you have to have better 'typing skills' than the other guys out there.

Originally Posted by Balaallen123

My only option at the moment is to go to a doctor and get this horniness fixed permanently like pill suppressant or vececstomy.

Like one bro posted here, no point.

I have a friend who castrated his dog because vet says this will reduce its urge to 'mark territory' or hump legs.

Guess what?

The dog still does it.

Originally Posted by Balaallen123

Or just play with my right hand until I die.

This is a better idea! But play using your right hand, not with your right hand because I don't see how the latter could be enjoyable? Heh heh!

Originally Posted by Balaallen123

I'm not picky. Just unlucky.

Well, at least you know where your problem lies or like one of the brothers mentioned - you are hunting in the wrong pond. Trust us when we say this cos most of us been there and done that; you are just fishing in the wrong pond bro.

It's like you are going to a satay stall to order vegetarian meals.

Originally Posted by Balaallen123

No money for long term commercial sex, no gf, no fwb, no online dating but am fucking horny over the moon.

Bro, trust me when I say that gf is not the end of your problems. Unless you find a girl with an equally high sex drive.

I had one who wanted to save her virginity for marriage. Another who gets sore easily. In the end, I had to 'DIY'. And not forgetting that you need to 'maintain; your relationship with your gf.

FWBs are another issue. Might not solve your horny issue.

Just my humble opinion, Bro Balaallen123. Just don't want you to make the same mistakes as me last time, that's all. No offense.

[ipwnyou]

Did you try wearing chastity cage? Then get someone to hold the keys or I can keep for you

[angelle]

To be honest what I do is simply to just rub it out. Change my genre of porn once in a while to 'keep it fresh'. My horniness now is more like periodic. Sometimes I will also have the urge to fuck for a couple of weeks, sometimes I just don't have the urge, so can go a while without jerking off. FLs will also dent the wallet if for the two weeks I'm horny I keep booking FLs so I just tell myself to masturbate one time good one then I can save money for that day already.

[p u r e]

Originally Posted by p u r e

some thoughts/suggestions/questions:

1) find other hobbies that you genuinely enjoy, that are not expensive and not difficult to start.

2) also, how do you view women in general? how are your interactions with SYT, women around your age, and MILFs? what sort of things do you talk about with them? yes, there is the primal urge of sex, but I find that having interactions/discussions about topics/interests changes your outlook towards sex.

3) make sure you get enough sleep so that you can filter your thoughts and urges.

4) how's your life looking like in general? are you happy? feeling lonely?

i was thinking maybe you could look up for psychology services but not sure if your wallet would allow. could be very helpful.

just wondering if someone could bump up my reputation point if you find this post of mine thoughtful? would appreciate that!

[hi2u]

Totally agree with you bro on the changing of porn genre haha. Yes, sometimes the regret after spending is just sian. Not about affordability, more of what we could have done with the money spent.

Originally Posted by angelle

To be honest what I do is simply to just rub it out. Change my genre of porn once in a while to 'keep it fresh'. My horniness now is more like periodic. Sometimes I will also have the urge to fuck for a couple of weeks, sometimes I just don't have the urge, so can go a while without jerking off. FLs will also dent the wallet if for the two weeks I'm horny I keep booking FLs so I just tell myself to masturbate one time good one then I can save money for that day already.

[sky_liner2]

Since you intend to go to the doctor, ask the doc if he has any medication to help you grow taller.....this will help I think.....

[LordVader]

Originally Posted by Balaallen123

I'm not picky. Just unlucky.

It's not the looks. You just have no game.

Read this book for reference (not guidance).

If you cannot find an e-source, PM me.