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29-03-2007, 11:37 AM
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How to get out of addiction to sex
I'm in my late forties and have been cheonging HC, FL etc. for many many years. I tried to get myself out of this addiction but didn't really work. Just plain high sex drive and pretty SYTs still turns me on.
 Fellow samsters here have any good suggestions on how to get out of this addiction? This bad habit is burning big holes in my pocket. Average $3-400 a month on cheonging. Sibeh Siong man! It is time I really call it quits...
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29-03-2007, 11:47 AM
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Re: How to get out of addiction to sex
sigh .. if so easy to quit ... think sammyboy boss out of biz liao ... same for the numerous OKTs and WLs ...
once u got hooked not so simple to quit 100% ... maybe can lessen the no. of trips thou ...
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29-03-2007, 11:55 AM
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Re: How to get out of addiction to sex
Sigh, I'm also trying without much success.
What I do nowadays is to restrict myself to the TN/massage places that provides HJ only. I am trying not to go for FJ/BJ. My next target is to reduce the number of times I go, from once a week to once a fortnight. Hopefully in 6 months' time, I can reduce it to once a month max. Thereafter, my new target would be to reduce it to once every two months, and to stop completely after a year or so. I tried going cold turkey but it was really tough, especially with so many temptations lurking around in SBF. 
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29-03-2007, 11:59 AM
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29-03-2007, 12:29 PM
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29-03-2007, 12:37 PM
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Re: How to get out of addiction to sex
i'm facing the same issue too...so below's what i did :
1) tried to work myself to death - but the occasionately late night supper at GL with colleagues ain't helping much. 2) tried taking a hobby to take up my time - end up painting nude anime figuring. 3) tried taking a sport as hobby - spending the weekend roller blading at East Coast just simply back fired. 4) tried forming a team to play soccer - choose the wrong venue, we played at marina south and after some hard tacklings, i end up lossening my aching legs at DHC. 5) when i tried spending my time setting a web site or write blog, i end up surfing SBF and writing "dirty" stories... 6) now still trying....
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人要自信，不要自大, 人要自爱，不要自恋, 人要自知，不要自欺 What's the difference between love, true love and showing off? Spitting, swallowing and gargling. My story thread Mediacock Drama , A Sinful Lust...
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29-03-2007, 12:43 PM
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Re: How to get out of addiction to sex
Pick up a hobby, join a social club (cycling, tennis, driving, painting) take it seriously.. it's food for the soul to cultivate these into an art form.
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29-03-2007, 12:48 PM
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Did u succeed...?
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人要自信，不要自大, 人要自爱，不要自恋, 人要自知，不要自欺 What's the difference between love, true love and showing off? Spitting, swallowing and gargling. My story thread Mediacock Drama , A Sinful Lust...
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29-03-2007, 12:48 PM
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Re: How to get out of addiction to sex
looks like we are all in the same boat. the temptations on SBF is really too much but i just can't help going to the SBF website to read.
- the pics and links exchanges are great - can DIY - the FRs on the local HC scene - can research cheong places overseas - OKT hawking their chicks how to resist the temptation like this? i like the idea of switching over to just HJ and gradually cutting down the frequency. SBF brothers unite!
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29-03-2007, 12:52 PM
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Re: How to get out of addiction to sex
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You might want to call them for help. 
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29-03-2007, 01:11 PM
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Re: How to get out of addiction to sex
Trying my best.. picked up too many hobbies seriously.. spent too much to chiong... photography, pool, blading, tennis, tech toys, cycling, etc..
urge is there.. but really gotta curb the michael douglas syndrome.. I realised also that we think too much about sex when we got too much free time in our hands.. coupled with the fact that most addicts are both introverted and/or extroverted, I feel there should be both ways to solve it. home-boys can play PC MMPORG's, read comics, pick up cooking.. outties can take up social activities... I do both.. especially difficult now as I'm all alone in China with lots of time and freedom from my CO. But as I've said.. I'm trying my best.. it's working so far.. Quote:
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29-03-2007, 01:46 PM
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Bad bad idea... The number of SYTs there blading is shocking! Esp all in wear as little and short as possible!
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29-03-2007, 01:52 PM
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29-03-2007, 02:20 PM
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Re: How to get out of addiction to sex
Change your SBF password and block off all porno sites from your PC. Then delete all your porn files from your computer. Last but not least no DIY for 1 week. If you survive the cold turkey treatment good for you. Most people have gone mad trying it.
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