Match making

Uncouth · #1 28-08-2012, 11:04 AM

Hi bros,

My friend's Vietnamese wife is asking me to help setup a online site to do some match making for her friends in Vietnam with Singapore guys. The girls might be in Singapore for a short holiday or might be in Vietnam but can be arranged to come over. Note that these are not working girls and also not working in Singapore. Just wondering what you guys think?

Should be setting up a site soon for her since I personally think it is a good idea to introduce them but of course, it would be like those marriage agency where girl and guy meet for 1 or 2 times and decides if they want to get married. And the rest is up to them as my friend's wife and the site is only for the initial communication setup and to the point before signing on the paper.

singmarine · #2 28-08-2012, 11:21 AM

From my experience, marriage is not a mere transaction or game. Money cannot simply buy love. If u marray the wrong person, u cannot change forever. My friend & me went thru that before and regret.

jj_jj · #3 28-08-2012, 12:20 PM

Higher chances of the girls just getting screwed and left thinking WTF happened.
Pls don't use the word "match making" so loosely.
How different is ur idea from online dating sites? just bcos only Viet ladies?
What about candidates' screening?

Will u be paid to manitain the website or it's foc?
If foc, how much time and effort are u willing to commit?
Seriously, u think it's a good idea for ppl to get married after a couple of meetups?
LTVP issues etc..

Uncouth · #4 28-08-2012, 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by singmarine

From my experience, marriage is not a mere transaction or game. Money cannot simply buy love. If u marray the wrong person, u cannot change forever. My friend & me went thru that before and regret.

Totally agree with that but having said that, I have also seen guys who married VN girls and are still going strong. Same goes for Thai or other foreign brides. I had a 5 year relationship with a Singapore girl and it failed eventually so sometimes, I think it is not about the nationality or love. Love set off the sparks and commitments, compromising and understanding are the factors that determine a relationship or a union.

But I am assured that the girls introduced by my friend's wife are girls who are not working in Singapore and are determined to find a husband. And of course, the guys who are interested should be sincere as well.

Regards,

Uncouth

singmarine · #5 28-08-2012, 09:55 PM

Honestly, it is easy to get married to foreign brides but difficult to recourse. Bear in mind they came from different culture & knowledge level.

jasdude · #6 29-08-2012, 01:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Uncouth

Totally agree with that but having said that, I have also seen guys who married VN girls and are still going strong. Same goes for Thai or other foreign brides. I had a 5 year relationship with a Singapore girl and it failed eventually so sometimes, I think it is not about the nationality or love. Love set off the sparks and commitments, compromising and understanding are the factors that determine a relationship or a union.

But I am assured that the girls introduced by my friend's wife are girls who are not working in Singapore and are determined to find a husband. And of course, the guys who are interested should be sincere as well.

Regards,

Uncouth

Well there are pros and cons of a foreign bride and it really depends on the character not on the nationality of the bride. However your efforts and thoughts are admirable. My 2 cents worth TS, this is a sex forum, asking opinions about marriage matchmaking here is inappropriate. Don't you think so?

ObamaRocks · #7 01-09-2012, 02:10 AM

Why look out when there are single eligible girls still available here? Even if you marry a 3rd world gal, she come here, won't take long before the material expectation bug infects her too.

Greatking · #8 01-09-2012, 04:16 AM

Hey I think its worth giving it a try.

But please be careful on screening of males as most of them turn out to be animals.

It will be very bad if your wife's friends get hurt tru your jap hands.

singmarine · #9 01-09-2012, 06:17 PM

Honestly Singaporean girls are still the best. At least you know their pattern upfront. Dun be deceived that foreign girls are innocent, simple or honest.

MoUnTaInChIcKeN · #10 02-09-2012, 09:40 PM

Character not nationality is the issue here.

sean69 · #11 03-09-2012, 01:43 PM

u are planning to set up a match making biz and you are asking for advice/opinions in a sex forum where 99% of the men here cheats on their spouse/gf ( ... me included ..... sigh.. sad but true... )

what is wrong with you!!!??!! ... most of the men here will be more interested in bonking the ladies you bring over from vietnam than marrying them...

see see only · #12 04-09-2012, 07:43 AM

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Originally Posted by sean69

..... what is wrong with you!!!??!! ... most of the men here will be more interested in bonking the ladies you bring over from vietnam than marrying them...

不问就听不到假话 lah ....

Bro TS,

Take our dearest bro sean69 HONEST opinion ... gladfully ...

these are the opinions that you should be taking seriously

Anyway he've just gave you a REAL mental consideration for your proposed business ...

EXTEND YOUR BUSINESS FOR BROS IN SBF with imported wife that agreed unconditionally in the first place .......... that their husband will be cheating outside after marriage