How did you convinced yr wife/gf for mmf/mfmf/mff ?

[vinasharaju]

Hi bros,

Just want to discuss how did you guys managed to convinced yr gf/wife for MMF/MFMF/MFF ? I'm pretty sure guys will be the one who will initiated this idea. I hope you guys can share how you guys did that ?

For me, I managed to convince my fiance to involve in MMF for the first time after persuading her more than a year. Whenever we had sex, I will ask to imagine what would she do if there is a dick near her face. She will imagine like sucking it. I will ask her imagine and describe handling another dick. She will act like she is handling it while I bang her. My desire came true on my birthday where she agreed to get fucked by black guy. That moment was like WOW !!! After that we eventually became a swinger. I hope you bros can describe that WOW moments of yrs !

[cataramp]

cool story brother!

[bully]

Originally Posted by vinasharaju

my birthday where she agreed to get fucked by black guy. That moment was like WOW !!! After that we eventually became a swinger.

There is a saying.... Once you try a BLACK, there is no turning BACK.

[westendgirl]

dt flame me. juz a girl perspective. i will run far far. and TS is lucky tht his girl still stay w him after such outrageous suggestion.

i am nt old fashion but there r limits. sharing my secret garden w another man in de presence of my lover is one of them.

well, one man's meat is another man's poison. just my pov

[chnhubby71]

Hi bro, is not a matter of convincing, is a matter of fantasy that make it work out and it needs alot of mutual communication and open up to each others.

I first started telling my wife what is happening in the internet with regards to couple that swing to enhance their sex and married life and ask whether how do she feels about having someone in our fun.

Normally for normal couple, it should be a 4some with another couple but I told her I dun mind her having 1-1 with other male of her preference or having another male joining our fun.

In the end, we found our sex life is improving by having discussion and fantasy before she agreed to meet other couples for a chat without obligation and force to enter.

We met many couples but end up without success.

In the end, we try to arrange for a single male or female to meet to chat and it work much better chance to enter into the game as it just needs our wife to say YES to enter into a great fun if everyone are comfortable and have a great chemistry to enter.

And our first MFF is one of our best till date as she turns out to be a lesbian that love the lick a hot and wet pussy which my wife personally enjoy very much with her legs wide open for hours of great lick from her. hahaha

[westendgirl]

To the SBF mbr who zapped me and called me a holy b, I am neither holy nor judgemental in my posting here. If u disagree w me, pls tell me here and dt be a coward

[Botakhead]

Originally Posted by westendgirl

To the SBF mbr who zapped me and called me a holy b, I am neither holy nor judgemental in my posting here. If u disagree w me, pls tell me here and dt be a coward

I sympathise you for being honest with your feelings and also for getting zapped. Just part and parcel of life in SBF. Cheers.

[westendgirl]

Originally Posted by Botakhead

I sympathise you for being honest with your feelings and also for getting zapped. Just part and parcel of life in SBF. Cheers.

thanks bro botakhead for de support. are u really botak?

i am neither holy or old fashion. but jus feel de sex scene is moving a bit too fast for me, judging from the posting here. i can accept bbbj, anal and 69 now although i would not in the past. but gang bang is still a no, for the moment.

i was in a r/s & used to be a 1-dish girl. ex bf is a tolerant person but cld really felt his frustration after my repeated refusal to experiment. he left after what both of us felt was a loveless r/s. we felt more like fb than lover, hence my signature below.

thanks to a liberal lady colix of mind who introduced me 2 SBF, i can see the larger trend of sexual actiivity in sg now. the stuff here is really eyes opening.

bck to the main topic, my bf or hub dt need to beat ard the bush about such topic but pls give me sometimes to think over and respect my wish if i say no.

[cataramp]

Originally Posted by westendgirl

thanks bro botakhead for de support. are u really botak?

you have fetish for botak head?

[hellogirls]

I think to convince yr partner into this arrangement, u have to focus more on their needs than your very own fantasy.

My ex-gf work on my spot when she first mentioned about having a 3some and said she preferred a FFM. I was reluctant as i was worried abt handling 2 high sex drive ladies. My ex is aldy a handful.

Then she ask her friends to join us for drinks, and on occassion make me flirt with them. There was once when we are sending one of them home, she offered to drive as i was a bit tipsy. And her friend join me in the back seat. She became touchy and gave me a blow job while my ex urge us on. I cum in her mouth and she swallowed.

We had the best sex after we got home. And she even said she enjoyed watching me being fullfilled and served by another. So i was slowly hooked into the circle.

After many more occassion i realize my ex is a bi and she had many gfs. While we are having FFM with her friends, she is also having fun with one of my guy friend. She invited him once to our place and plead with me to do MMF. Of course i cant say no as she has aldy done me many favors, according to her.