Freebie or shopping spree

[Hitch69]

I'm a bit new to the scene so I'm sorry if this is a dumb question. I've visited the same girl at a CAT 150 house several times over the last couple of months. Last visit she suggested exchanging SMS numbers and maybe meeting up on some future day off. I gave her my number, but I was wondering if you guys think its more likely that she is just bored and looking to hang out/date/hook up, or trying to update her wardrobe on my dime?

Just some background info, Im on the young side, Im not dressed well enough to give the impression i have alot money (i dont), definitively not looking or anything serious, and the girl has good gfe.

Anyone with any experience (idk if this is common) or some common sense advice would be much appreciated. Thanks.

[Nato17]

Originally Posted by Hitch69

I'm a bit new to the scene so I'm sorry if this is a dumb question. I've visited the same girl at a CAT 150 house several times over the last couple of months. Last visit she suggested exchanging SMS numbers and maybe meeting up on some future day off. I gave her my number, but I was wondering if you guys think its more likely that she is just bored and looking to hang out/date/hook up, or trying to update her wardrobe on my dime?

Just some background info, Im on the young side, Im not dressed well enough to give the impression i have alot money (i dont), definitively not looking or anything serious, and the girl has good gfe.

Anyone with any experience (idk if this is common) or some common sense advice would be much appreciated. Thanks.

You will not be getting a freebie for sure. Simply because if she is on off during her code red, you think you would be getting some? Naw. If you are going to get a freebie after work, think again. Why would she want to let you screw her for free when you can pay for it????

WLs are still human beings and as human beings, we still crave friendship, though I will be one of the first to admit that the friendship given is definitely going to be lopsided; that is you will be the one paying for sure.

[drekman]

She just want to cheat your money.

[Kelnew]

Originally Posted by Hitch69

I'm a bit new to the scene so I'm sorry if this is a dumb question. I've visited the same girl at a CAT 150 house several times over the last couple of months. Last visit she suggested exchanging SMS numbers and maybe meeting up on some future day off. I gave her my number, but I was wondering if you guys think its more likely that she is just bored and looking to hang out/date/hook up, or trying to update her wardrobe on my dime?

Just some background info, Im on the young side, Im not dressed well enough to give the impression i have alot money (i dont), definitively not looking or anything serious, and the girl has good gfe.

Anyone with any experience (idk if this is common) or some common sense advice would be much appreciated. Thanks.

she just wan u be one of her regular. go out? u better have money in your pocket before going out with wls. free sex? y would they give u free sex when they are doing it with u for money?

[Khoratian]

Hard to say. Different girls varies. I've few exp though. Some go out only want u buy this buy that, some just want someone for company, though Makan expenses etc still I pay, some SMS u to chat , hooking u as their regular.
1 thing for sure, no freebie. Only freebie I got is when I' in Thailand. Thai girls really treat u good when they like u. Chinese? Super rare.

[Hitch69]

Thanks ill keep that in mind

[pojstemp]

China gals--Im not sure but better stay away further.
Malay n Malaysian Chinese--Hv experience. They need company
after work; drinks outside n social. If they like u.
Thai--As what bro khoratian said.

[owl888]

When u visit pros, dunn expect any freebie. Even u get it, u have to pay back double...........

[deelite825]

just re-iterating what bros have said.

i wld say 98% of the time they just want to KC u for more frequent visits to them.
u can go out with them but pls be very careful with ur $ and must keep your emotions intact. all they want is the $ in ur pocket. there are way too many KC stories in sbf here so just very becareful with ur emotions.

one thing i've learnt is to get a temp sim card when u go cheonging (even if u r single). that way u can give ur number whenever u want and also u can cut the connections whenever u want. it's a cheap investment that will come handy. and most imptly, u wont be receiving calls/sms during "dangerous" time. i once had a KTV gal calling me during my family dinner and i answered it w/o thinking. i tell u... it was really a close shave.

just my 2 cents.