my tragic story with a thai FL.

[AhKel]

after reading all the posts here......really regreted why i did not read this section earlier though i am a old timer in sbf....well...too late for regrets....

early last yr...got to know a thai FL thru sbf.....her working name in sg is ninky...(some bros whu chiong fl section might know).... well nothing special at 1st...juz fuck, pay and go....in total i go to her 3 times when she's in sg.

a mth after she went back in aug last yr, she started calling me quite often...nothin much except the usual sabal deee mai stuff...until one day in sept....she gimme a call...ask her where she is and she said she's in ch airport and wanted to see me be4 goin back to bkk...being the easy going and laid back guy i am....i agreed.

Was quite surprise after meetin her and ask her wats she's doin in sg since she's not working...after "interrogating" her for 2 hrs she finally told me she had a sugar daddy in sg for 3 yrs and she's here for her "tour of duty" oh ok....actually i sort of expected it...nothing surprising for me...asked her why she still come sg workin as FL since she got a rich carrot....told me she got too much problems...dun wana take $$ from him everytime...(DUMB ASS).

she wanted to stay in sg with me for a few days....so i took leave, book hotel and bring her ard in sg...juz as some bros mentioned here....during the time in hotel...she intiate all the sex(raw) and told me abt her sad sad story....blah blah blah...

after she went bk...didnt tink much as the whole ep is juz a fling to me....but as time goes by...i begin to see te good side of her (dedicated hsewife, caring) as well as the bad side (materialistic, bad temper, attitude).

after 5-6 mths of staying together....either i go bkk or she come sg...she wanted me to marry her....i was like..!!!!!! well....i admit i did fall i n love with her i bekieve the feel was mutual and real....after workin out the finances...i have to pay abt $600 -every mth for her 2 sisters edu expenses...ok for me...then she sold her car, i go chiang rai country side meet her family...blah blah blah(u all noe the drill).

before marriage i TOLD REPEATEDLY i m not a rich guy, what i can give her...wat kinda lifestyle she can expect in sg(she knew since she stay with me for a few mths). her only reply was LOVE CAN WIN EVERYTHING (and i was gullible enough to believe). the sugar daddy offer to buy a house for her in chiang mai IMMEDIATELY if she dun marry me....well she rejected....promise me to stop all contacts with him and go thru thick and thin together...(sounds good rite)

married in january...spent all my savings and even borrowed tons of $$ frm bank to finance the marriage, her expense and buy a flat...

throughout the 9 mths while we were married...she never broke contact with the sugar daddy....smses...calls....almost everyday...(i am very pissed off) but it breaks my heart to see her lonely and sad everyday....(although she cld speak eng....she dun even dare to go buy things herself) i even agree to let her go out with the sugar daddy(for coffee and meal) once in a while(I AM THE DUMBEST ASS IN THE WHOLE WORLD).

all things come to a head this aug...she say wana go back chiang mai see sister...late sept told me she wana take $$$ from sugar daddy do business in cnx...and if possible dun wana come bk sg again....enough is enough...i request for divorce...she die die dun wan...say love me blah blah....and she only taking $$$ from him for her family...no need to have sex or anything (WHERE GOT FREE LUNCH IN THIS WORLD!!!!!) ya rite...

anyway, con her back to sg, forced her sign seperation deed and drove her outta the house. 2 days later the sugar daddy called me and told me i misunderstood her...the $600++ coach wallet she newly possessed is bought by herself and he never go TL look for her ( i actually believe all this rubbish)

call her and ask for forgiveness and kena fucked lef right center(tables are turned) she say since i drove her out FOR NOTHING, there's no way we can be 2gether anymore...

i took the next ava flight to bkk and told her i will be waitin there till she forgives me and she juz tell me i can die there for all she care.....I SPEND 4 FUCKING DAYS IN BKK AIRPORT!!!!4 DAYS!!!! zzzxz in toilet and smoking area and she TURN OFF HER HP....gd.....went bk sg a broken man...

next i concentrate my anger on the sugar daddy, hired a PI and got to noe KNN I WAS CONNED ALL ALNG. since the day she went back...already planning to meet him there....everyday smses consist of darling, honey tilak kitung...WTF...he book a hotel early sept in chiang mai then go look for her...(no wonder he can agree to give her $$) and she had the fucking cheek to tell me she did nothin wrong..... during the 4 days i was in bkk....she dun gimme a shit but can go cnx airport fetch her sugar daddy....

anyway...juz come bk from cnx...dump all her stuffs outside her sister's school. went there with another FL called eve (my translator).


DUN EVER MARRY A WHORE IF U DUN WANA END UP LIKE ME
THINK TWICE BEFORE COMMITTING TO A FL?

MY ADVICE IS DUN EVER THINK ABT IT!!!!!

for all the curious bro here whu wana noe whu she is...juz search for ninky in the FL section and u shld be able to find...

KNN i now cannot divorce her...have to wait 3 yrs...if i see her in the FL section...i sure go reeport ( i tink chances not high since sugar daddy taking care of her....or she can go HK work anyway)

[naemlo]

Everyone has to pay for his stupidity... Anyway, good write out, an info for those who intent to follow your initial path.

[Big Sexy]

mate.. you should also read the health forum too.
and there is no need to think twice before committing to FL
being with a whore should not even be a consideration.

you are right about the other point though..
DUN EVER MARRY A WHORE

Originally Posted by AhKel

really regreted why i did not read this section earlier though i am a old timer in sbf....well...too late for regrets....

DUN EVER MARRY A WHORE IF U DUN WANA END UP LIKE ME
THINK TWICE BEFORE COMMITTING TO A FL?

[AhKel]

no worries mate...of cse i went for checkup and stuff.....when i applied long term social visit pass for her got checkup for both of us.....only regretted reading bro harvest's thread 10 mths late......

1 thing that cannot be denied is tat i knew both of our love for each other is real....but in the end she eat her words and choose money

[NewMike1304k]

Bro Kel,

I only hope that you will learn from your experience and be a stronger person. Do not live in hate lah, you just put yourself in a position to be chopped and of course, someone will chop lor.

But seriously, please remember that those who work in this line and other lines of the "night trade" are in it for the money. Perhaps it is for some personal reason or perhaps it is just that they can earn more using their body than their minds or muscle. So when you cheong, try not to get any emotional attachment and just pay and go... If they want your company, enjoy it and then if it is to end, let it end.

Hey, this is not only for Thais, VN, PRC, and even locals too. There are those who want to manja you just so that they can maintain a walking ATM or a pillar to support them. I have been through all that before and though it feels like shit, you will... you have to get up, dust yourself, and just carry on. Do not fall into the cycle of self pity and hatred.

[AhKel]

Originally Posted by NewMike1304k

Bro Kel,

I only hope that you will learn from your experience and be a stronger person. Do not live in hate lah, you just put yourself in a position to be chopped and of course, someone will chop lor.

But seriously, please remember that those who work in this line and other lines of the "night trade" are in it for the money. Perhaps it is for some personal reason or perhaps it is just that they can earn more using their body than their minds or muscle. So when you cheong, try not to get any emotional attachment and just pay and go... If they want your company, enjoy it and then if it is to end, let it end.

Hey, this is not only for Thais, VN, PRC, and even locals too. There are those who want to manja you just so that they can maintain a walking ATM or a pillar to support them. I have been through all that before and though it feels like shit, you will... you have to get up, dust yourself, and just carry on. Do not fall into the cycle of self pity and hatred.

yah bro....thanks for the advice....im a soft-hearted guy by nature....always will try to help frds in evry possible ways....but after kena this....haa....my life is changed forever...

LIABILITY I AM STUCK WITH NOW

1. savings all gone
2. HDB flat that i cant sell (since i cant divorce within 3 yrs)
3. FLAT installment (1.2 k every mth)
4. bank loan ( 40k 5 yrs loan)
5. Name being dragged in the mud....(cant marry now even if i found a good woman)
6. shame and disgrace (family , frds all knew wat happened)

people says life starts at 20.....i 30 oreadi then shit happens......duno need how long to recover

[NewMike1304k]

Bro,

YOu lost money, face and saddled with debts. But what are all this compared to a future with or without her? Smsing her sugar daddy or daddies and wanting you only because you give her things?

Look to the future, once you settle the debts, you are a free man.... In a few years, economy will pick up and once you sell your place, you may even make a profit!!! Now you have a woman who loves you, perhaps she will accept you and not mind your mistake. If she does, you champion liao... So what if your family knows about your past? Screw them man... I have seen many guys climb out and become better and stronger... It is only whether you want to or not.... 30 years old.... so what?? You can live until 60 at least, you still have 30 years to grab life by the horns and live it man.

[Lion Cub]

Bro Ahkel, yours is indeed was a very sad encounter. But first thing, dont blame her. You choose to believe her and you gotta stick to your life now and you signed the paper of committment too early.

Love is never right or wrong . But most of us dont understand or dont agree.

The problem is when both of you are happy. Whatever you all discuss or choose will be correct and ended up in good ending.

But when things turned sour. Everyone will point finger to the other party and curse the other party.

Im not trying to be a bad guy here. What happened is already over now. No point blaming yourself as it will make you feel more miserable and heart break. You have to start thinking for yourself and make time for your family. You must start managing yourself now. If not your life will be worse.

Take time to cool it off and go for a short break. For your debts burden. You have to slowly repay it. 30 years old is not old. Its the start of a men world.

I always believe that eveyone will have their luck down in their life. Now your luck is very bad. But Im sure good luck will turn to you in the later part of yor life. Trust me. Good luck will return to you and you will be happier in the future.

Take this as a expensive learning experience and it will make your life stonger. And with that, I wish you good luck and may you be stonger than ever.

[Cheonging101]

Ninky, the SYT who cannot CIM from OKT sexythaiboobs?

Wah, do raw arh... Confirm the sugar daddy also do raw liao loh.

I hope that all bros who tried Ninky also go for checkup.

Yo, Ninky's sugar daddy! Faster do check up also hor! I don't think she did raw with just the two of you!

[AhKel]

Originally Posted by Cheonging101

Ninky, the SYT who cannot CIM from OKT sexythaiboobs?

Wah, do raw arh... Confirm the sugar daddy also do raw liao loh.

I hope that all bros who tried Ninky also go for checkup.

Yo, Ninky's sugar daddy! Faster do check up also hor! I don't think she did raw with just the two of you!

pls la....i did raw AFTER checkup with her and she already stopped FL-ing...
as for the sugar daddy...ya of cse did raw also...but she knew him way before she knew me.

after marriage she still had the cheek to tell me she tried to have a baby with the sugar daddy before....knn....no fucking shame

[Cheonging101]

Originally Posted by AhKel

pls la....i did raw AFTER checkup with her and she already stopped FL-ing...
as for the sugar daddy...ya of cse did raw also...but she knew him way before she knew me.

after marriage she still had the cheek to tell me she tried to have a baby with the sugar daddy before....knn....no fucking shame

Alamak, bro!

You should have said that you kena AIDS from her mah! The sugar-daddy confirm got come here to see see one leh. Make him kancheong also shiok, right?

[sammyboyfor]

I don't see any tragedy. All I see is utmost stupidity.

[Peggie83]

Luckily I quitted the ideas of marrying someone from KTV industry that I had from 2 years ago.
In fact I think I have become a better man since distancing myself from people making a living in KTV industry &
some evil cheongsters.

This group of people are just looking for their personal interests, gains & money.
I will never consider them as ordinary friends let alone becoming life partners

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by AhKel

yah bro....thanks for the advice....im a soft-hearted guy by nature....always will try to help frds in evry possible ways....but after kena this....haa....my life is changed forever...

LIABILITY I AM STUCK WITH NOW

1. savings all gone
2. HDB flat that i cant sell (since i cant divorce within 3 yrs)
3. FLAT installment (1.2 k every mth)
4. bank loan ( 40k 5 yrs loan)
5. Name being dragged in the mud....(cant marry now even if i found a good woman)
6. shame and disgrace (family , frds all knew wat happened)

people says life starts at 20.....i 30 oreadi then shit happens......duno need how long to recover

You made an choice and it didn’t work out. That’s it.
Too late and no time for self pity.
Work on your point 3&4, these will be your headache
Point 5&6, no worries. When you recover with money…all these will fade away….

[alphonse]

What a big mess and betrayal! Should have invested in a lie-detector machine if you EVER decided to commit to a FL!!!!

Face the consequences and move on, thanks for sharing.