Are FLs subjected to all these?

[Sweet&Nice]

This is what happen as to what I know and from my side. Yesterday samster tookara made an appointment with me, initially he wanted MMF but I told him no cos I am not into it cos I am uncomfortable with it. So it was decided that I will meet him at 6-7pm.
Then this afternoon I got a whole list of SMS which made me really disappointed with the whole deal. Totally no basic respect or courtesy at all.

SMS between me and tookara:-
February 18/2/2011 12.59pm
tookara: Bayview hotel later can? 5pm
My this phone dying liao later quick
1.34pm
Me: ok can see you room no?
tookara: later gif u room no
Me: ok
1.52pm
Me: yr appt is 6pm
2.21pm
Me: sorry I am canceling yr appt. Bcos I think u are not meeting me
tookara: I thought say le my fren will take my slot
Me: yr frd is Indian Eurasian is it
N yr frd is actually Sin Cee Cee Cust
Fyi I don't take non Chinese
She told me everything already
tookara: can la Eurasian cannot meh
Me: u guys really don't have the basic respect for others
How can u guys just decide who I meet for me?
I already told her I don't take non Chinese already
tookara: aiyo u doing fl leh wat for so serious
me: anyway this thing will be posted out
Hello I am fl. But u are not my agent. N I am a human also. Does that
mean that I am a fl and u guys can decide for me who I fuck and deal?
tookara: pls lor I not okt mah ok I respect that u don't wan non Indian
2.30pm
Me: I make appt with u and not anyone else. I am really disappointed that you
guys do a thing like this
tookara: ya and I cannot so I help u to fill the slot lah at least u don't loss
earnings mah
Me: hello he is Eurasian Indian
tookara: ok la u a bit racist I understand sorry I respect that u only fuck
Chinese
Me: I am not comfortable with it. U cannot make it u can cancel I don't mind
because u got ur personal stuffs to do also. But for me, I don't feel
comfortable. N FYI I did meet n had a great time with one Indian chi mix
n one Malay chi mix n that is bcos they were upfront clear with me about
their race.
Hello I am not racist
tookara: ya originally suppose to be me I din know u racist vs indians ma
Me: I already said I am not racist ok
tookara: u dun like Indians
Me: hey I have met n deal with two Indian mix
If I am racist would I deal with them?
I am just not happy that u guys arrange things like that
tookara: u just said u don't do Indians then my fren indian mix u dun do?
6pm ai mai
Me: I got no background knowledge of your friend! He is not even from sbf.
And also before I meet non Chinese. They will chat with me a few times
before meeting
3.08pm
tookara: how 6pm for him
Me: no I don't know him. I m not comfortable. N I will be posting yr SMS n
Sin Cee Cee SMS out
tookara: Sin Cee Cee also doing business pls don't break her rice bowl. U are a
racist and I will keep it to myself
Me: ya ya say I racist again please
tookara: basically u don't like Indians. That is a fact
Me: pls don't try to change the subject. U guys have no basic respect and
that's it
3.35pm
tookara: neither do u. U are anti Indians

Note: my whole point of the SMS was trying to point out that I don't like someone else arranging and changing my appointment without even asking me first if I am ok with it. And the fact that tookara claims it's his friend but Sin Cee Cee says it's her client. So who is telling the truth?

SMS between me and Sin Cee Cee:-
February 18/2/2011 1.25pm
9xxx xx82
Sin Cee Cee: can meet me at bayview hotel cafe. On bencoolen st opposite
strand hotel. I am booking you for my client.
Will be paying u $200 and if my client enjoy, he will tip u 50 or more
Me: huh? (at this point I got totally no idea who is this person and I thot it's tookara)
What u mean?
Sin Cee Cee: Sam arranged for u to meet me at 6 to 8 today
Me: who is Sam?
Sin cee cee: but my oversea client want at 5pm
Me: wait who are u first
Sin cee cee: I am Sam friend. He help me book u. Sam say his Nick is tookara
I understand your rate is $180
My client if he enjoy can be generous. Will tip de
Are you interested?
Me: who are u first n what is ur b
Is ur Nick? I am ok with meeting u but thing is I don't like others to book
me on another person behalf without telling me first
Sin cee cee: upfront give you $200. If he happy, he will tip. Sorry I tot Sam
told u. My Nick is Sin Cee

(at this point then I realize who is SMSing me, I kept thinking its a guy friend of tookara)

Sin Cee Cee: I now period cannot do
Me: he never tell me anything
Sin cee cee: he from uk. In town a few days each time. Die die wanna have
sex. I cannot, he ask me help him find.
Bo pian he good client so must help him.
Me: sorry ang mo I don't take
Sin cee cee: so can please help me out. Meet my client.
He not ang mo
Living in uk
Me: I only free before 4.30pm cos after that I got appt already
And why yr words And what he (tookara) said don't match?
And I don't know his background also. Duno he Chinese or not or how old
is he
Sin cee cee: worse case is meet at 6 as planned
How I know. This is the truth. But u supposed to be free 6 to 8?
Me: sorry yr client I won't be taking cos my appt is with tookara n not yr
client. I got another booking made at 7.30pm already yesterday.
Can u call me instead?
through my conversation I told her (sin cee cee) that I don't take non Chinese. Also I found out that she had period last few days already.

I would be consider if i am confortable enough and willing to help if sin cee cee were to approach me personally without going through another person.
But now problem is this one say is friend and that one say is client.
And now I can't help but kept feeling someone trying to be my okt? Trying to set up a deal for me? What is this....and the more I think the more I match all the pieces together.....
Because I refuse to take this appointment, I am being called a racist.

As expected, I haven post this thing out and I got zapped already.

[sexsexsex]

Sweet&Nice,

Why you always bring your problems and cry over here?
You are doing freelance prostitution.
You have to bear the RISKS associated with it.
Period.

[Acidburnt]

Geylang pro, they have to serve all kinds of customers

fat or thin
handsome or ugly
with or w/0 body odour
chinese or malay or indian or bangla


if you work under or engage an OKT, you got no choice.


come out earn money by selling your body, still want to choose this choose that... kns.

your pussy made of gold ?

[bullet999]

Respect anyone means respect to ourselves. Dun ever use own opinion to judge what others should do. Its not abt respect to others, is to our OWN....

[bullet999]

Respect others and others will respect us too. That's it.

[sonicmayhem]

Bros & gals,

Its a goddamn free country here & every1 has their preference.

Its a fucking free market out there too so take it or leave it.. capital market.

Sweet, U're doing the right thing (from my point of view).
Good luck 2u & God Bless Singapore !!

[HondaFitto]

actually.. y bother about these jokers..? dun reply them lah...

[Andoo]

Originally Posted by bullet999

Respect others and others will respect us too. That's it.

Finally someone is talking about respect.

FLs are human, they deserve respect. Who want to sell their body if given a choice. FLs don't need to eat? Fls' family don't need to eat? We guys don't just think that by paying money can mean everything, respect the Dos and Don'ts.

Mr. or Mrs. Acidburnt, I can read from your threads that you are depending on FLs to make your meals and your remark on TS thread made you a real dickhead clown.

Go ahead to zap cos I already got -198 so i don't given a damn to this.

[hermitcr@b]

showing respect for other races does not equate to being liberal enough to have sex with them lor..wat crap to link these two together..
sweetie..the racist term seems to have been used..and repeatedly emphasized so as to wind u up..u haf done the right thing by standing up for yourself..if u had wavered because of the 50 tips dangled at u..then tat would have looked bad on u..u did good!!

[NittoBoy]

Crazy...just tip extra $50 then want to be so demanding...come'n...FL doesnt mean they aren't human...they are doing becoz they need to earn for their living...(better than some who beg for money..>)

Sweet, keep cool...ignore them...i TIP you $100 not to do their business...so what if they are rich?expat?ang mo?...

[bigboy30boy]

sweetie u did the right thing by keeping to your own view.
bros pls learn to respect all the FL thats is here to make a living due to their problems and every FL have their own code of meeting their customer so pls respect them when meeting them as they are still being born by their parent just like u and me.
sweetie be happy and move on dont be sad because of this people as there is a lot of guys here that support you.

[asakura21]

sis just ignore this kind of blacksheep

[Sweet&Nice]

Let me say something n explain myself,
To Sin Cee Cee,
though I do not know you, but I remember I did pm u once before to warn u about a certain samster. And u even replied me also. Why I did that it's becos I think we should look out for each other and help each other. Not for my personal gains, cos what do I gain from it? But this matter now is, you should have pm me personally instead without going through tookara. And having him in the picture now, it all seems so distorted that I do not even want to think further. Also, why I refuse your client is because I do not know his background and it's all according to what you said. Let's put it this way, if today I go ahead and meet him. And something bad happens to me. Who am I going to look for? You? Tookara? Bear in mind that I am retiring soon. And I don't have an agent. If I am injured, I can't work or I have to be hospitalized, will you two take the responsibilities? This guy has zero post here, I can't even trace his history.

To tookara,
from the start of my SMS with u, I already told you I am not into 3some, and when you offered to be my so call punter n intro me to your sbf kakis, I already said no as I do not know them and I wish to be in control of who I deal with. I did explain why I don't do 3some or other races, it's because of comfortability. I do not know about the rest, but to me, if you want me to give u a really good feeling, I must be at least be comfortable enough to be able to achieve that. I don't want to be a dead fish also. And I am not a actress also. I do not know how to fake gfe too. You kept saying I am racist, but to those non Chinese Cust whom I have met before n given them good service, they can vouch that I am not. I do not have to tell you who they are. But there are at least 4. Infact I was still thinking if I want to post this out just now, but instead of apologizing for not respecting me, you had to go on and on about me being a racist. The main point of the whole issue is not respecting me at all and not about racist.

To the rest, I have been keeping quiet about alot of things that happen and I have swallowed all in and not post anything cos it's no big deal. Fly kite only, just treat as earn free time. Got rejected after I strip, no big deal, just treat as I let the guy see and touch for discounted rate.
But this is something I cannot keep quiet. You guys think, if I go and something happens to me, small matter just bleed a few days....big matter is I end up being hospitalized and my private area is damaged or worse. Then what should I do, if that happens you will just say, oh you got yourself to blame, who ask you go deal some more. There will always be someone saying good and bad things about the same topic.
Anyway, most of my contacts already knew that I will be retiring in 4-6 months time. I really do not want to invite trouble. I just want to do my own things and then leave here in one piece.

[maninsinsha]

Allow me to say something here.

I have never engage nor meet up with Sweet before. However, based on the postings here, I would say that Sweet has done nothing wrong in deciding against meeting anyone whom she's uncomfortable with.

For whoever it is, we do have our own rights and codes on who we would like to meet or make friends with. No exception. To impose or coax someone in accepting against their will, to say the least, is an invasion. Each and everyone of us has our personal preference and ways we like to deal with things. What may appeal to you might prove otherwise for some others.

Furthermore, Sweet had clearly indicated in her 1st post on her thread of how things should be proceeded. I think we should all just have the basic manner in respecting her.

[fulham]

Sin Cee Cee: can meet me at bayview hotel cafe. On bencoolen st opposite
strand hotel. I am booking you for my client.
Will be paying u $200 and if my client enjoy, he will tip u 50 or more

Some people just think that their peanuts of money are worth so much...just ignore them..no need to get angry or be sad with this kind of people, they are abundant out there...always protect yourself and do what you think is right