Missed Signals

[lipe]

Bro Laopizhui

Up you 22 points for your missed opportunities.

Originally Posted by Laopizhui

after reading from so many bros experience me too have quite a few

to the younger bros, do not miss ur chance n man up to fuck the girls who hinted u. dont be a hum ji kia. once the chance is gone, it will nvr come back to u

[X30R]

I find a good way for girls to give you a signal is asking.

"Do you still want to hang out/do things or are you tired and want to go home ?"

If she wants to go home, then time to cut your losses.
If not, slow, easy and subtle would give a good chance.
Speaking from experience

[bigmannow]

Originally Posted by bigmannow

Met a china girl SYT at a tourist walking street in Phuket. Chat her up and walked around together. I tested water by putting hands around her waist at times.. no resistance… took her to a noodle stall that was nearby which I tried and was tasty. She stayed at another part of Phuket far from my hotel. During our conversation, she suggested I could stay one night at Patong which I have yet to visit but I couldn’t understand why I needed to stay there when I could travel there and back anyway. My hotel was just around the corner from the noodle shop but it was raining. I suggested her to come up to wait the rain to stop. But she declined and left on her own. Next day , I went to visit Patong and in the evening , she message me she was also there having dinner. I went over and saw her eating but I noticed her head was lowered and her front zip on her dress was unzipped til I could see the shape of her right boob. I thought maybe she forgot to zip up fully ? We chatted and at end of the meal she asked if I booked a room in Patong ? I replied that I already booked my entire stay at my hotel but I could also book a room in Patong for the night. (I actually also brought some clothes also) She thought for a while and said she could send me back on her rented motorbike. I agreed.

When I got back home, I told her that I brought clothes that night and I realised she was giving me signal to f**k her that night. Few months later, I traveled to her home in china where she works and agreed to meet one night. I asked her to bring ID so she can come up my room to eat some snacks I bought for her. She became angry and did not want to meet anymore. I was a bit confused why she rejected me when it was not like this in Patong?

After the dinner with her , she suggested to go buy some things so I accompanied her …she actually just finished wakeboarding and she was still in her wakeboarding suit and the whole time I was eyeing her body and really wanted to take her … at one point she showed me one photo of her doing wakeboarding and I commented she had a sexy body and she looked at me … maybe if I suggested to go room maybe she might still agree …

[lowhc]

Happened more than 10 years ago, I was in mid 30s, was assigned by boss to entertain an executive from a China business partner. She was near 40, and reasonably good figure with a pleasant face. Took her out for lunch after morning meeting, but the afternoon was free. She asked for massage to relax, so I brought her to typical spa (not atas one).

She asked for a double room, and we were in the same room for massage. Just entering the room with her, my dick was hard already. Then she just stripped in front of me while chit chatting casually with me. Wow!. I did so likewise with my duck pointing straight at her. Then we waited on our beds.

The massage girls came in and massged us. We took 2 hours, so we just casually chatted, sometimes about work. After 45 mins, both of us got sleepy and quieted down. Then I heard her telling the masauese to masturbate her. Wow! Girl on girl. She was really enjoying herself and climaxed (soft moans). My dick was so hard, and my masauese was also feeling hot from the scene. I got my handjob and had a happy ending, while I touched my masauese (I wonder if she cummed).

Massage continued after that until 2 hours ended. We got up, dressed up and paid up (she paid the tips for the extra services while my company paid for the official receipt). Then we went off, visited a factory for work and went for dinner.

I asked her about her being so open, and she said, everybody does it, so no need to be secret or ashamed.

But we did not have sex or even touched each other other than shaking hands. Maybe was hinting on sex.

[bigmannow]

Originally Posted by lowhc

Happened more than 10 years ago, I was in mid 30s, was assigned by boss to entertain an executive from a China business partner. She was near 40, and reasonably good figure with a pleasant face. Took her out for lunch after morning meeting, but the afternoon was free. She asked for massage to relax, so I brought her to typical spa (not atas one).

She asked for a double room, and we were in the same room for massage. Just entering the room with her, my dick was hard already. Then she just stripped in front of me while chit chatting casually with me. Wow!. I did so likewise with my duck pointing straight at her. Then we waited on our beds.

The massage girls came in and massged us. We took 2 hours, so we just casually chatted, sometimes about work. After 45 mins, both of us got sleepy and quieted down. Then I heard her telling the masauese to masturbate her. Wow! Girl on girl. She was really enjoying herself and climaxed (soft moans). My dick was so hard, and my masauese was also feeling hot from the scene. I got my handjob and had a happy ending, while I touched my masauese (I wonder if she cummed).

Massage continued after that until 2 hours ended. We got up, dressed up and paid up (she paid the tips for the extra services while my company paid for the official receipt). Then we went off, visited a factory for work and went for dinner.

I asked her about her being so open, and she said, everybody does it, so no need to be secret or ashamed.

But we did not have sex or even touched each other other than shaking hands. Maybe was hinting on sex.

Maybe should have test water and then take her

[Bradly]

I think a colleague in her early 20s is giving me hints ?
I'm late 40s but look early 30s, and I don't think she knows I am married or how old I am.
oh fuck oh fuck, I wish I could but I can't.
I seldom speak much outside of work related stuff.

The thinking is that I subtly tease her to progress the friendship and somehow maybe miraculously become fbs ?
But I am 85% sure she is a virgin tho, a fb is probably the last thing she is looking for and I do not intend to conceal the fact that I am married.
More than enough people in the company knows, any concealment would be futile.

buggers buggers buggers...

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by lowhc

She asked for a double room, and we were in the same room for massage. Just entering the room with her, my dick was hard already. Then she just stripped in front of me while chit chatting casually with me. Wow!. I did so likewise with my duck pointing straight at her. Then we waited on our beds.

The massage girls came in and massged us. We took 2 hours, so we just casually chatted, sometimes about work. After 45 mins, both of us got sleepy and quieted down. Then I heard her telling the masauese to masturbate her. Wow! Girl on girl. She was really enjoying herself and climaxed (soft moans).

Maybe was hinting on sex.

You know she could have gotten whatever she had in a separate single room right? Why did she take the initiative to include you in the double room if you were not in her plans? She wasn't hinting. She was sending out an open invite to test if you have the balls.

How did the working relationship develop after this incident? Did the boss pass the China project to someone else? Are you on closer terms with her?

[loneyheart]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

You know she could have gotten whatever she had in a separate single room right? Why did she take the initiative to include you in the double room if you were not in her plans? She wasn't hinting. She was sending out an open invite to test if you have the balls.

How did the working relationship develop after this incident? Did the boss pass the China project to someone else? Are you on closer terms with her?

U r very sharp bro I agreed ... its very upfront n doing with him beside

[Rat2020]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

You know she could have gotten whatever she had in a separate single room right? Why did she take the initiative to include you in the double room if you were not in her plans? She wasn't hinting. She was sending out an open invite to test if you have the balls.

How did the working relationship develop after this incident? Did the boss pass the China project to someone else? Are you on closer terms with her?

Thanks for sharing info.

[iamnotstupid]

Originally Posted by loneyheart

U r very sharp bro I agreed ... its very upfront n doing with him beside

Agree with you.

[lowhc]

Haha, it was work after all and some people are exhibitionists. Also her company and mine deals with rather big money, so I don't want to be a trouble maker...

After those few days of meetings, she went back to China and we communicate by emails and messages. But no further encounters.

My opportunity lost, perhaps.

[bigmannow]

Originally Posted by lowhc

Haha, it was work after all and some people are exhibitionists. Also her company and mine deals with rather big money, so I don't want to be a trouble maker...

After those few days of meetings, she went back to China and we communicate by emails and messages. But no further encounters.

My opportunity lost, perhaps.

As long as still in contact may have chance next time … never know

[ctan100]

Originally Posted by bigmannow

As long as still in contact may have chance next time … never know

i feel sometimes for work. better to be safe than sorry. in any case later things backfire then jialat.

[Laopizhui]

Originally Posted by Bradly

I think a colleague in her early 20s is giving me hints ?
I'm late 40s but look early 30s, and I don't think she knows I am married or how old I am.
oh fuck oh fuck, I wish I could but I can't.
I seldom speak much outside of work related stuff.

The thinking is that I subtly tease her to progress the friendship and somehow maybe miraculously become fbs ?
But I am 85% sure she is a virgin tho, a fb is probably the last thing she is looking for and I do not intend to conceal the fact that I am married.
More than enough people in the company knows, any concealment would be futile.

buggers buggers buggers...

dont worry u did not missed any signal. u over think n overestimated yourself.
girls at the younger age are smarter then u think. judging by the way u express ur situatution, i suggest u get urself to see the world more.

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by lowhc

Haha, it was work after all and some people are exhibitionists. Also her company and mine deals with rather big money, so I don't want to be a trouble maker...

After those few days of meetings, she went back to China and we communicate by emails and messages. But no further encounters.

My opportunity lost, perhaps.

Given the big business deals between the 2 companies, why will she risk it all in a foreign land? She may have requested for you to be assigned to her. She took the lead to ask for a double room and then waited for your response. You didn't object. She took off her clothes in front of you and waited for your response. You responded with a stiff cock. She asked for sexual service in your presence... you should have gone over to participate lah but you used another lady to service yourself.

Perhaps you should have done some fingering, pussy licking or even comment how sexy she is. Then remain in control by saying there is a limit to what we can do in strict Singapore. Then say if there is a chance in a more private setting, you will like to show her what type of 5 star service （五星级服务） you can provide. 5 star service because the Singapore flag has 5 stars mah. China flag also has 5 stars. Lame joke but it works. Basically, cock tease and remain in control then see what happens.

Anyway, thanks for sharing the experience. Not scolding you ah but just a discussion about sex lah. This section is a safe space to talk about things you cannot chat with others.