Need serious advice from you bros !

Good morning bros .. it have been a long day for me. Anyway i have a problem that i would like to share with you all and hope someone really can give me some advice and views on this matter.
I went to a ktv with a group of buddies. I met this prc by the name CQ .. anyway we went down that same ktv for 4 days in a row .. and everytime it is CQ who accompany me. I paid her tips for e first 3 days .. e 4th day i asked her to go to e hotel after work with me and she agreed. The last thing that came to my mind was FOC .. well she shocked me when she didnt want the money. She said i looked like one of her ex in china and she just enjoy my company. I went back to e ktv a couple of times and now she dont even want to accept tips from me.
Today i just went out with her and bonk her again .. i asked her whether she did e same stuff with other customers .. surprising she bust into tears saying i insulted her ! .. and then told me she didnt wish to work in this line and stuff .. about how other guys tried to offer her alot of money for e night and she didnt even accept it ... then she brought up her current situation .. she cant afford to pay for her school fees and her student pass will be cancelled soon and she may not get to see me again. But she didnt ask me to pay for her either .. she said she mentally prepared to go back china.
ok i admit after those days with her .. i started to have alittle feelings for her .. but i always remember what the other bros warned abt the prcs.
Any views or comment ?

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by PissDog

Any views or comment ?

bro, enjoyed, bye bye and move on.....

[waypastprime]

Originally Posted by PissDog

ok i admit after those days with her .. i started to have alittle feelings for her .. but i always remember what the other bros warned abt the prcs.
Any views or comment ?

If u remember what we have said previously, what other comments u wished to hear? Go ahead and marry her?

This thingy is just like a plate of dish. The name might have changed but the ingredients still stay the same.

[MoonBlaze]

It may not sound nice to your ear but chances of she telling the same old story to many other ppl like you is very high...... If you are even thinking of going further with her from here....ask yourself one question...Are you a person who can accept her past eventually catching up with you one day?
Dun forgot to bring your heart home after a night's out. Cheers!!

[QUOTE=PissDog]Good morning bros .. it have been a long day for me. Anyway i have a problem that i would like to share with you all and hope someone really can give me some advice and views on this matter.
I went to a ktv with a group of buddies. I met this prc by the name CQ .. QUOTE]

Bro just pay her the $$$. 1 poke = $100 if u get her
for 3 poke = $300. maybe get a 20% discount =
$240. then say bye bye to her... or u can just play along
and act blur and get FOC but this is quite bad things to do...

[zhu star]

Originally Posted by PissDog

Good morning bros .. it have been a long day for me. Anyway i have a problem that i would like to share with you all and hope someone really can give me some advice and views on this matter.
I went to a ktv with a group of buddies. I met this prc by the name CQ .. anyway we went down that same ktv for 4 days in a row .. and everytime it is CQ who accompany me. I paid her tips for e first 3 days .. e 4th day i asked her to go to e hotel after work with me and she agreed. The last thing that came to my mind was FOC .. well she shocked me when she didnt want the money. She said i looked like one of her ex in china and she just enjoy my company. I went back to e ktv a couple of times and now she dont even want to accept tips from me.
Today i just went out with her and bonk her again .. i asked her whether she did e same stuff with other customers .. surprising she bust into tears saying i insulted her ! .. and then told me she didnt wish to work in this line and stuff .. about how other guys tried to offer her alot of money for e night and she didnt even accept it ... then she brought up her current situation .. she cant afford to pay for her school fees and her student pass will be cancelled soon and she may not get to see me again. But she didnt ask me to pay for her either .. she said she mentally prepared to go back china.
ok i admit after those days with her .. i started to have alittle feelings for her .. but i always remember what the other bros warned abt the prcs.
Any views or comment ?

Another cheongster about to fall into KC trap! Bro how much do you believe in her? And even if her story is true, are you prepared to spend alot of your hard earned monies or time with her? If your answer is yes go ahead if no then it is wise to back off many pac!

Let me tell you an experince I have, I know of a Viet gal who like your current PRC gal say she love me alot and she is always sending sms to express her so call love to me, Unforunately for her, she also sat with a number of my friends, so happened one day she sent a broadcast msg to all of us with the same msg. Imaging our shock and laughter when we compared the msg.

[MoonBlaze]

If it makes you feel better....pay her a lump sum for all the bonk she had given you....you dun have to tell her it is for for her bonking fee. She will eventually take it....

[Spursgetz]

bro..if you are very rich, earning big bucks every month and dunno where to spend, and deep in your heart, you would like to continue seeing her, continue this relationship, and the amount she needs is relatively small to you, then why not offer your help. I mean after you help her, you can continue to be with her, and get to bonk her for free tio bo?

But then hor, how u know she telling the truth, and she not repeating the same sob story to other man? And even its truth, but if you are not that financially capable, please dun help her.

Coz once you help her, chances are your feeling for her will growth, and somehow, you will feel that she is obligated to be with you only. You will get jealous easily when she continue to work in KTV, and in your heart, you will want her to stop working, concentrate on her study, and be with you only.
But if you can't afford to support her, and its pain you to see her with diff man every nights, then in the 1st place, let her go back.

Also, remember that by helping her out this time, there will bound to be more "opportunity" for you to help. Look...say few months down the road, she tell you that she need some $$ urgently for some other reasons, maybe family members real sick or whatsoever, and if you can't help, she might have to sleep with other man to earn more quick $$, or there's another man who willing to "bao" her, then how will u feel?

Will you feel cheated, regret helping her before. And for some pple, in order not to make them feel that their initial help has gone wasted, they will lend their helping hand again and how long can you help.

Have you really consider? Actually, by asking for help here, you already show you have the intention to help her, as you can't bear to see her go. So..have you talk to her, find out after you pay for her sch fees, will she stop work at KTV. (Guess that's what you want, be her only man) And can you support her if she dun work at KTV.

Please consider carefully, and end of day, the decision is yours. I sort of been thru this before so I can understand how u feel. One final reminder, never loan/borrow, never get yourself into debt to help them.

just my 2cent worth of comment.

cheers

[sunzi]

Hi, enjoyed and move on, the best is still paid for it after each session. Juz tell her the monies for her to buy make up or other woman accessories.

Pls dun be emotional especially to all this prcs. juz whack and go

Juz my 2 cents worth of comment

[teraterm55]

Originally Posted by PissDog

Good morning bros ..
ok i admit after those days with her .. i started to have alittle feelings for her .. but i always remember what the other bros warned abt the prcs.
Any views or comment ?

Hey bro, i think this must be the 100th time i heard the same story.
not sure if your case is real or not (as in the girls feeling for you),
but the tactic of :

1st - treating you nicely,
2nd - dont take tips
3rd - give free fuck
4th - say no money pay skool fees, parents sick in china, dog got
run over by train, airplane crash into house etc.
5th - if no money soon have to go back china, cannot see you because
have to give body to ah long etc.

Is pretty common. if you do a search on the threads you will most porobably
come up with at least 20 postings of similar nature. and alot of the bros
end up having alot of problem with the girls after the cash is given. this tactic is being used by prc, singaporean, thai, viets and malaysians alike.

so bro are you a gambler ? if you are you can gamble on this girl and
pay for the skool fees/rent/debts. if you are not. better safe your money.

no matter what advice the bros give you here, your heart already have the answer. so just go do it lah. but whatever decision you take, dont regret.
if you regret then it will make you misserable. so if you have extra cash
and want to bet.. do so. but PLEASE PLEASE DONT borrow money just
to pay her OK. dont want you to end up like some bros i know.

[plman2002]

Another story of a ktv cheongster who falls in love with PRC.
This looks like a serial TV drama broadcasting all over again in SBF.
The fact that she did not mention anything from you is because she is using pyschology method.
Please leave your emotion in your safe box.
All the best to you.

cheers,

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by PissDog

Today i just went out with her and bonk her again .. i asked her whether she did e same stuff with other customers .. surprising she bust into tears saying i insulted her ! .. and then told me she didnt wish to work in this line and stuff .. about how other guys tried to offer her alot of money for e night and she didnt even accept it ... then she brought up her current situation .. she cant afford to pay for her school fees and her student pass will be cancelled soon and she may not get to see me again. But she didnt ask me to pay for her either .. she said she mentally prepared to go back china.
ok i admit after those days with her .. i started to have alittle feelings for her .. but i always remember what the other bros warned abt the prcs.
Any views or comment ?

if u want to hear what u wish to hear, ie that she is being genuine n love u, sorry bro, i am not in a position to say that.

however, what i can say is that such tactics r very common n even the mms can tell me the charbor r trying to hook u. some charbor say they dont sell, but:

1. most do or
2. they already been pao n they dont want to spoil the deal or
3. they dont want to sell to the guy cos they dont like him n dont want to insult them.

of course she can be genuine n treat u different, but based on what she say, sounds like a typical ploy. becareful n dont part with more money than the market rate she is entitled to. of course if u want to pay for her school fees n student pass fees, its your decision.

[Spursgetz]

Also, if you decide not to help, not because you can't afford to help, but you scare that she is lying or you dun want to fall into all these KC traps, then please try to stay firm on your decision.

Ask yourself, when she is due to leave you, say at the airport, and she sure cry tio bo..will you regret then? 记得。。如果你是那些感情很丰富的， 对她也真的有感觉，也觉得她是一个好女孩， 那别说她的眼泪你无所谓。。。 别等她走了才后悔！
不是每个中国女孩出来做这种工作都是不好的。 如果经济许可， 好多就不会要做这些工作了。

I know many bros here will advise you to fuck and forget, which should be the right way but for some pple (including me), its not that easy. Its better to follow our mind when making decision, but once a while, we may want to listen to our heart.

You know her, been with her for sometime, we dunno her. So ask yourself have you know her well enough, if she worth your help, if she those who will appreciate your help.


cheers


P/S I know I will sure kana deduct point by posting this message, instead of telling you to forget about her. But then, I just want to say what I feel, thats all.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by PissDog

ok i admit after those days with her .. i started to have alittle feelings for her .. but i always remember what the other bros warned abt the prcs.
Any views or comment ?

Another case of not following the rules of the game. I was f b4 now my turn to 'teach' u.

Drill this into your brain if u hav 1, she is here to make money n not for fun of having hundreds of guys around her. Are u prepare to pay her monthly allowance n ask her not to work?? If yes, good, keep her by yourself. If not then f n forget. Think carefully instead of feel blindly.

[Spursgetz]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Another case of not following the rules of the game. I was f b4 now my turn to 'teach' u.

Drill this into your brain if u hav 1, she is here to make money n not for fun of having hundreds of guys around her. Are u prepare to pay her monthly allowance n ask her not to work?? If yes, good, keep her by yourself. If not then f n forget. Think carefully instead of feel blindly.

ya bro...thats what i want to say. After helping her, sure must come out with monhtly allowance to support her, where got man after helping, still can tahan her with diff man every night.

But if the threadstarter can afford...