Is it possible to like ladyboys but not the plumbing?

[Newtonyork]

I'm relatively new to this whole ladyboy thing, having only experienced up to 2nd base with a few of them back in Bangkok a little while ago. In those bars, at the moment, some of them were so stunning, I was very tempted to have them blow me, but I knew that would mean there was no going back. Ever.

Thing is fellas, some of them still look like dudes. I need them to really look feminine, like you almost can't tell anymore that they were born dudes. That's what I want, but I don't wanna play with the plumbing down there, know what I mean? I'll fuck em in the ass, like I fuck chicks in the ass, but I just don't knpw how I would feel about the dong. I mean, sure, I want them to blow me.

But considering that I really like being rimmed, I think odds are good I might wanna be topped. Or is that bottomed? Put it this way, I don't think I wanna be doing any blowing.

I've come to terms with my attraction to ladyboys, sure, but going beyond 2nd base. That's still something I wonder if I'll do. Next time I'm in Bangkok, I'll find out. I'll drop by bars again, and see if I can resist the temptation.

Here's the thing, since I'm paying the chicks, won't I just be able to tell them specifically what I want and don't want? Say I tell them, don't pull out your wiener, just blow me. That's gotta be ok.

Honestly, I don't mind spending all night just making out with them cause some of them just be real hotties. They seem to be way more fun to hang out with too in the bars. Compared to say the typical nana or cowboy bar.

[al8055]

Originally Posted by Newtonyork

I'm relatively new to this whole ladyboy thing, having only experienced up to 2nd base with a few of them back in Bangkok a little while ago. In those bars, at the moment, some of them were so stunning, I was very tempted to have them blow me, but I knew that would mean there was no going back. Ever.

Thing is fellas, some of them still look like dudes. I need them to really look feminine, like you almost can't tell anymore that they were born dudes. That's what I want, but I don't wanna play with the plumbing down there, know what I mean? I'll fuck em in the ass, like I fuck chicks in the ass, but I just don't knpw how I would feel about the dong. I mean, sure, I want them to blow me.

But considering that I really like being rimmed, I think odds are good I might wanna be topped. Or is that bottomed? Put it this way, I don't think I wanna be doing any blowing.

I've come to terms with my attraction to ladyboys, sure, but going beyond 2nd base. That's still something I wonder if I'll do. Next time I'm in Bangkok, I'll find out. I'll drop by bars again, and see if I can resist the temptation.

Here's the thing, since I'm paying the chicks, won't I just be able to tell them specifically what I want and don't want? Say I tell them, don't pull out your wiener, just blow me. That's gotta be ok.

Honestly, I don't mind spending all night just making out with them cause some of them just be real hotties. They seem to be way more fun to hang out with too in the bars. Compared to say the typical nana or cowboy bar.

You are right that LB are way more fun. It is surely better when they are hot and pretty as well. You don’t have to blow them if you are not keen. But when they start blowing you and letting you top them, they will get horny as well. This is when you will see them getting harder and if start stroking them, they might give you a few fire of joy as well.

Oh, once you let them top you, you are not going to be able to resist anymore. You will be feeling an indescribable sensation when you erupt.

[IamGood]

I was not keen to blow them in the past or being topped. But i engaged a ladyboy and tried blowing her, and in the horniness let her top me for the first time. Very painful but after that no turning back

[LolaBunny]

Originally Posted by Newtonyork

I'm relatively new to this whole ladyboy thing, having only experienced up to 2nd base with a few of them back in Bangkok a little while ago. In those bars, at the moment, some of them were so stunning, I was very tempted to have them blow me, but I knew that would mean there was no going back. Ever.

Thing is fellas, some of them still look like dudes. I need them to really look feminine, like you almost can't tell anymore that they were born dudes. That's what I want, but I don't wanna play with the plumbing down there, know what I mean? I'll fuck em in the ass, like I fuck chicks in the ass, but I just don't knpw how I would feel about the dong. I mean, sure, I want them to blow me.

But considering that I really like being rimmed, I think odds are good I might wanna be topped. Or is that bottomed? Put it this way, I don't think I wanna be doing any blowing.

I've come to terms with my attraction to ladyboys, sure, but going beyond 2nd base. That's still something I wonder if I'll do. Next time I'm in Bangkok, I'll find out. I'll drop by bars again, and see if I can resist the temptation.

Here's the thing, since I'm paying the chicks, won't I just be able to tell them specifically what I want and don't want? Say I tell them, don't pull out your wiener, just blow me. That's gotta be ok.

Honestly, I don't mind spending all night just making out with them cause some of them just be real hotties. They seem to be way more fun to hang out with too in the bars. Compared to say the typical nana or cowboy bar.

Your sexual attraction is common, sexually attracted to feminine features, it can adjust and change, and everyone is unique.

1) attracted to the whole thing, beautiful face yes, male genitals no = no
2) attracted to specific parts, feminine features yes, male genitals no = only involve with feminine features
3) attracted to specific actions example rimming

all attraction can be attached with conditions/preference, example you may want to be topped by someone with a dick, however you want it to be a feminine figure rather than a straight up male.

Most men are attracted to feminine features FIRST visually, you dont get to see the dick straight up generally, most feminine people attracts people with their face/body first. It is very common to be into feminine features.

[hock19]

First of all choose a ladyboy which looks beautiful and to your liking.

Tell her what you want to do. Or not want to do.

If she has a dick, and you dont want to do anything with it, then you dont need to.

If you want to have a ladyboy without a dick, choose one which has an operation.

Just go for it!! You will love it!!

[ArnieArnie]

same here i go for feminine ladyboy. they fulfil my anal fix

[bunkerbed321]

The best sex you will have is with a ladyboy... They know by heart what men want... And when they are horny they are really horny horny....(Not just this fake horny from normal FL) You will have an amazing time...

[zacky25]

Everyone has their own unique preferences to how they want to engage their experience with a ladyboy.

Mine are:
1) Must look close to feminine
2) Good long or thick cock for me to suck. I love sucking ladyboy cock in different positions. Bonus is when they are feeding their cum into my mouth, ecstasy feeling for me.
3) I have never bottomed and will never do that, not my thing. Love rimming and ramming their asshole though.
4) I’ve had my hits and misses in my many years of chionging. Best encounter was in bangkok, stuffing two ladyboys’ cocks in one go in my mouth 🤤

Anyway have fun all, but please stay safe !

[Newtonyork]

Indeed, it's good to know there is as many ways to like ladyboys as there are ladyboys. I think I'm gonna be one of those weird ones that would like to be fucked by one, but not do any sucking. Like, I wanna experience being bottom, but I still want her to blow me. And I still want her to swallow my cum. But I don't know if I'd ever wanna really play with her plumbing. Yet, I have a feeling it's gonna be pretty nice to be fucked. I tried that with actual chicks, like they fingered me, and it hurts, so I've never actually have gone past the pain threshold, but from all that I have read, if I can get past it one day, then it's supposed to be the sexual experience of a lifetime. I'd like to fuck her too, cause I've never fucked ass in my life, chick or ladyboy, so it'll be a first. Hard to believe sometimes that even at my old age, there's this whole new arena of sex that I had no idea about, or at least never thought to discover.
It is an eye opener. I tell ya fellas, the time I spent in WhyNot and CheckIn Bar, just sitting with them, and talking, flirting and making out. Was way more fun than any cowboy or nana bar I have ever been in.

[Newtonyork]

Originally Posted by LolaBunny

Your sexual attraction is common, sexually attracted to feminine features, it can adjust and change, and everyone is unique.

1) attracted to the whole thing, beautiful face yes, male genitals no = no
2) attracted to specific parts, feminine features yes, male genitals no = only involve with feminine features
3) attracted to specific actions example rimming

all attraction can be attached with conditions/preference, example you may want to be topped by someone with a dick, however you want it to be a feminine figure rather than a straight up male.

Most men are attracted to feminine features FIRST visually, you dont get to see the dick straight up generally, most feminine people attracts people with their face/body first. It is very common to be into feminine features.

LolaBunny, I saw your photos in the other thread, you are very attractive!
I don't mind saying, if I ever get to have a first time sexual experience with a trans woman, I hope she's as hot as you. And you look like that without hormones?

[Newtonyork]

Originally Posted by bunkerbed321

The best sex you will have is with a ladyboy... They know by heart what men want... And when they are horny they are really horny horny....(Not just this fake horny from normal FL) You will have an amazing time...

Oh boy, I was super tempted. By sheer coincidence, during my first trips to ladyboy bars, CheckIn and WhyNot, I had no idea that I was sitting with the most attractive ones there. It was Cream in WhyNot and Rainie in CheckIn, and both of them almost had me go upstairs. It took everything I had to say no.
Kissing them and sucking on the titties, right at the bar, it was a very heightened sexual atmosphere, like way more intense than any of the bars in nana or cowboy.
Because, well at that time I was just not ready. I figured it's a line that once crossed, there is no going back. I would question my own sexuality. But now, I think you know what? Fuck it. I like trans women. I like ladyboys. I enjoy trans porn. I wanna experience it. And I think I might just like it.

But again, I feel like I'm gonna be quite picky, they have to be super feminine. Like her:



who also, by the way, if anyone knows where she is now, I would absolutely pay her to be my first time experience. She's just too fucking hot to not be around. That's the kind of beauty that any man would want to just be around. I've scoured the internet to find any trace of her, and it's just confirmed she used to be at Obsession, but is she there now? Where can she be now? I must find this gorgeous woman. I mean look at her! It's like she was created by CGI. She puts actual chicks to shame. No real chick looks this good, and she used to be dude? I tell ya fellas, if all I got to do was just sit with her and talk, and nothing else, I'd be a happy man already. Just to be around such beauty.

[lalaboi1997]

Hi guys, read the responses in this thread and i myself am keen to try ladyboys for the first time. I just wanted to know from the experienced ones, how do you stay safe while doing this? I’ve always wanted to try ladyboys but i’m always hesitant when it comes to the safety of it. Please feel free to share, thank you

[rikki]

Like other posts have mentioned, once you are hooked on LBs there is absolutely no turning back. Ever since my first LB experience >10 years ago, 90% of my paid fun is with LBs. I still do engage normal FLs once in a while for variety but still nothing beats sex with a LB (especially a horny one). I am versatile so I enjoy the best of both worlds being top and bottom.

If you want to experience being topped, poppers are highly recommended and will help tremendously especially for first timers. As with most things, work your way up - start with LBs with smaller dicks before moving on to the bigger ones. The pleasure only increases with size. It is a completely new experience & once you have been topped there is no looking back.

Most importantly, always practice safe sex. I have never done raw anal and will never do it. I almost gave in to temptation in the heat of the moment once or twice when offered, and I am so glad I did not do it. I don't even dare to think about doing it raw now and any LB that offers raw is a huge red flag to me. If you are super concerned about safety, you should seriously consider PrEP.

P.S. Don't waste time with post-ops, its like fucking rubber and I would much rather go for a real woman.

[LolaBunny]

Originally Posted by Newtonyork

LolaBunny, I saw your photos in the other thread, you are very attractive!
I don't mind saying, if I ever get to have a first time sexual experience with a trans woman, I hope she's as hot as you. And you look like that without hormones?

im a genderfluid crossdresser, not trans.
no hormones, pure skill only.

[Newtonyork]

Originally Posted by rikki

Like other posts have mentioned, once you are hooked on LBs there is absolutely no turning back. Ever since my first LB experience >10 years ago, 90% of my paid fun is with LBs. I still do engage normal FLs once in a while for variety but still nothing beats sex with a LB (especially a horny one). I am versatile so I enjoy the best of both worlds being top and bottom.

If you want to experience being topped, poppers are highly recommended and will help tremendously especially for first timers. As with most things, work your way up - start with LBs with smaller dicks before moving on to the bigger ones. The pleasure only increases with size. It is a completely new experience & once you have been topped there is no looking back.

Most importantly, always practice safe sex. I have never done raw anal and will never do it. I almost gave in to temptation in the heat of the moment once or twice when offered, and I am so glad I did not do it. I don't even dare to think about doing it raw now and any LB that offers raw is a huge red flag to me. If you are super concerned about safety, you should seriously consider PrEP.

P.S. Don't waste time with post-ops, its like fucking rubber and I would much rather go for a real woman.

Exactly, that's what I'm afraid of in a way. It's the line that I still dare not cross. Cause I know there's just no going back. I'll start questioning myself, bla bla bla. But I know, at some point I'm going to fall for the temptation, it's going to be too much to say no and I'll have a ladyboy suck me off. But I really want that to be from a super feminine one, and maybe if I'm real horny from that, even fuck her ass.

It's weird ain't it? Even as ladyboys, knowing the post ops have a fake pussy, somehow it's the ones that are pre op that I want to have time with, yet I'm afraid of the plumbing. What's going on with my mind? I wanna go all in, but at some point, it's probably gonna destroy my sphincter, hah!