Guys Point of View

[fenni]

Hey guys,
I know it's weird for a gal to post here. but just to gather some views.
caught my guy surfing this website
anyway, would u guys rather "do it yourself" than with ur partner?
cause everytime i'm asleep or i'm away, he will have his own "past time".
which i find annoying. n he tells me that it's way easier n less effort to do it himself!
any guys feel that way too? I don't know whether he's telling the truth or he's just sick of me.

and pls do not give lewd comments ya?

[Criminalz]

First of all, there is nothing wrong with surfing this website.

Well, i dunno about other guys, but eventhough we have partners to keep happy. Sometimes just sometimes, we just desire some personal time. It is during this time, we allow ourselves to visit that TCS actress we dream about, the neighbour wives and for some other samster his 50plus year old auntie.

I seriously dun think you should be angry at this point, i guess you would rather your guy have his personal time than going out to seek "personal time". Try to talk to him, not about surfing this website or his ECA, but more on sex topics. You will be delightfully surprised with how entertaining the conversation would be.

Perhaps, just a suggestion...No harm asking him if it is ok if your best friend join in for once, just to try out. (TO the bro samster, YOU OWE ME BIG TIME HERE, unless her best friend is a guy then OPPS)

[fenni]

Which gal won't be unhappy when we realise our guys are doing that. oh well, i've tried talking to him but he just says that everything is fine.
hmm. and again, ask my best friend to join in to what? a threesome u mean?

[Cntl_Alt_Del]

Originally Posted by fenni

anyway, would u guys rather "do it yourself" than with ur partner?

I rather do it wif my partner than to "do it myself". Reason is this simple, making love will strengthen the whole r/s.

Originally Posted by fenni

cause everytime i'm asleep or i'm away, he will have his own "past time".
which i find annoying. n he tells me that it's way easier n less effort to do it himself! any guys feel that way too? I don't know whether he's telling the truth or he's just sick of me.

What is his "own past time"? Surfing SBF and masturbate himself? Well, if u find it annoying, u should tell him straight to his face instead of making yourself more angry toward him. Then for ur ownself 's thinking, how did u fare abt u guys' love making session? Izzit u r like a deadfish that he rather DIY him? This can be a possible reason too, no offence pls.. There so many other reasons behind it that leads to his thinking now. Furthermore, a r/s wont improve w/o much communciation. Same does to your assumption (ass_u_me) that he is juz sick of u, if u dont ask, u will never find out any reasons behind his acts. If u treasure him, pls find some time n haf a heart to heart talk wif him.

My personal view...
CAD

[fenni]

thanks CAD for your opinions. i did talk to him and ask him what we can do to improve on the sex life. he just said nothing. so, i seriously do not know what he wants and he's not that kind to like tell straight in the face.

[Criminalz]

take the first step...watch porn together...suggest to him you wan a bukkake...have sex outdoors...have sex in the car....have sex in the living room...have sex in the cinema..ok you get the drift.

See, sex is just like a relationship, after awhile, both parties get a little too used to each other, it is up to both of you to spice it up. If he does not talk much about it, then you take the initiative and be bold.

spend some time going thru this forum, you will find a lot of guys fantasies, perhaps you might wanna try it...

Last but not least, own some sort of uniform...not KFC uniform though.

[fenni]

i did suggest outdoor sex, but he's not into it anymore.
what's bukkake?
uniform?? get from where?

[Cntl_Alt_Del]

Originally Posted by fenni

so, i seriously do not know what he wants and he's not that kind to like tell straight in the face.

Hmmm.. Ur guy scenario is the same to those child who got bad childhood. Think abt it, when this child got such a bad childhood experience, when u ask him abt his childhood, do u think he/she will tell u abt it? Same apply to a gal who got rape b4, will she like sex after that? Try considering using the writing form method, be it writing on a paper or on email, ask him to write his feeling, tots and even wat is lacking in ur sex life that he is behaving like dat. I believe this will help but the impt factor to make it work is, u muz let him noe that u r realli trying to save ur own r/s instead of giving him those face that u dun like his current "past time". Also, u cant stress him like example, if u write this, i will get angry etc. Human beings tend to open up when u show those sincereity in themselves.

CAD

[Criminalz]

you dun suggest outdoor sex???!!!!

outdoor sex is always a passion thing. never a prearranged appointment!

outdoor sex is like having half a dozen of oyster, sitting on the beach, kissing, licking, a whole lot of touching, going down on him, pulling up your skirt and going on top of him. All the while looking out for peeping toms, but the whole thing about someone is peeping adds to the excitement. THAT IS OUTDOOR SEX.

ok..for bukkake, plse spend more time in forum researching.

as for uniform, you can find it in a lot of places....hehehhe...nice uniforms too...nurse is a fav among guys.

[fenni]

Criminalz! hello hello wake up wake up. i said i DID not DUN. hahaha
hmm but buying uniforms...isn't that weird? or in other words. paiseh

[Cntl_Alt_Del]

Originally Posted by fenni

Criminalz! hello hello wake up wake up. i said i DID not DUN.

Haha, think bro Criminalz is too "high" when talking abt outdoor sex, bukkake & cosplay bah? I suppose bro Criminalz got all those fetish on tat?

[Criminalz]

OK....i did not mean "you did not suggest outdoor sex" but wat i meant was outdoor sex is not something to be suggested, more like a spur of moment thingy...But its alright.

Uniforms are never weird...infact, there should be at least 1 set of uniform in every girls wardrode...hahaha...

see...try to break the norm you guys are having now...norm = boring..remember that..which is why uniforms are good..they bring you guys to another world.

[Criminalz]

Originally Posted by Cntl_Alt_Del

Haha, think bro Criminalz is too "high" when talking abt outdoor sex, bukkake & cosplay bah? I suppose bro Criminalz got all those fetish on tat?

hahhaha....bro. how not to get high in this forum with all the pics and videos....speaking of which...i gotta go for some personal time.

[ang076]

Bukkake is the form of sexual humiliation where two or more guys take turns to cum on your face, body etc.. (it is not recommended for the gal like you, unless you want threesome where 2 guys and 1 gal doing that kind of thing.)

Adult fantasy uniform can be found in every adult shop selling condoms, sex toys, etc..

Originally Posted by fenni

i did suggest outdoor sex, but he's not into it anymore.
what's bukkake?
uniform?? get from where?

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by fenni

thanks CAD for your opinions. i did talk to him and ask him what we can do to improve on the sex life. he just said nothing. so, i seriously do not know what he wants and he's not that kind to like tell straight in the face.

In short, your man is tired of you.

But fret not. U can participate in the activities that he is engaging in. meaning to say, he surf sammyboyforum, u surf also lah. He don't know your nick then one night after sex, he woke up saw ur computer on and then check out your history u visiting this site.

He then decided to communicate with you.....then its time for him to suspect u not u suspect him.

Actually u can get this storyline in the "Affair with own wife thread"

hahaha
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