Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by lkyin1

hi broz, i want to go Dalat to c c look look.
What are the recommended ways of transport from HCM to Dalat? thank you in adv

Originally Posted by vietboy

Then here looks like dalat thread to u ha? Here discuss about spouses but u also asked here leh. It ok lah as long yur question is about Vietnam, if we know we can help answer, if not we will direct u to other thread where higher chance u can get up to date answers. Did i managed to get yur answers there?

Originally Posted by SingViet

Dalat thread, HCM Thread, Tien Giang thread, Ben Tre thread....... but here is the Vietnamese Life Partner Thread...

ok...already replied him in my thread...please read...http://sammy.services/showpos...ostcount=19000

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

ok...already replied him in my thread...please read...http://sammy.services/showpos...ostcount=19000

Ok then lets get back to discuss viet spouses.

[zion1989]

Originally Posted by vietboy

Ok then lets get back to discuss viet spouses.

haha can i join in the discussion haha, i don have viet spouse. Interested to get 1 !

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by zion1989

haha can i join in the discussion haha, i don have viet spouse. Interested to get 1 !

Pls respect the TS by asking if u can join in.

[zion1989]

Originally Posted by vietboy

Pls respect the TS by asking if u can join in.

TS is who ?

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by zion1989

haha can i join in the discussion haha, i don have viet spouse. Interested to get 1 !

This is an open forum so u are always welcome to contribute to the thread.

Originally Posted by vietboy

Pls respect the TS by asking if u can join in.

TS is not an unreasonable person. No need to be so rigid and formal. This is a public thread, anyone can come in contribute.

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by zion1989

TS is who ?

Go to the very first page of this thread which is 5 years ago and look for the first person who contribute

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by zion1989

haha can i join in the discussion haha, i don have viet spouse. Interested to get 1 !

U will be 'scare' to get one after reading from page 1 to the last page

No lah,is good to read here as knowing their culture,problems and way of doing things is more important if u found one that suit u and want to progress further.

They can be very good spouse as from our experience but u need to spend some time to understand them.

Every relationship or marriage come with lots and lots of problem and happiness but marry one who have different background from a different country needs more time to learn,so are u ready?haha

[zion1989]

Originally Posted by Golden question

U will be 'scare' to get one after reading from page 1 to the last page

No lah,is good to read here as knowing their culture,problems and way of doing things is more important if u found one that suit u and want to progress further.

They can be very good spouse as from our experience but u need to spend some time to understand them.

Every relationship or marriage come with lots and lots of problem and happiness but marry one who have different background from a different country needs more time to learn,so are u ready?haha

haha I did read so far ok la, just wonder why they have be a WL to support family? staying at countryside will cost them how much? need to sacrifice ? my WL trying to save for a house . wonder how much to buy 1 in hcmc or countryside

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by zion1989

haha I did read so far ok la, just wonder why they have be a WL to support family? staying at countryside will cost them how much? need to sacrifice ? my WL trying to save for a house . wonder how much to buy 1 in hcmc or countryside

The question u are asking is exactly what we bro here face before,whether is WL or not,their thinking and ways of doing things is the same.Is their culture and what we share here is our true experience we encounter before.

I think by the time u read finish,u are able to fill in the blank for your all your questions

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by zion1989

haha I did read so far ok la, just wonder why they have be a WL to support family? staying at countryside will cost them how much? need to sacrifice ? my WL trying to save for a house . wonder how much to buy 1 in hcmc or countryside

haha...this is a subjective question...

to build a house in province (what you term countryside)...

1) buy land if dun have
2) build what type of house
3) materials (brick, attap, zinc, wood, etc...diff material diff price)
4) can build in stages...depends on $$$
5) furnishing...

can be just USD5k to indefinite...

so really how much she can earn...

of course if you asked her...she wants the best...haha...if I am you I will pretend dun hear anything...just run far away...

[zion1989]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

haha...this is a subjective question...

to build a house in province (what you term countryside)...

1) buy land if dun have
2) build what type of house
3) materials (brick, attap, zinc, wood, etc...diff material diff price)
4) can build in stages...depends on $$$
5) furnishing...

can be just USD5k to indefinite...

so really how much she can earn...

of course if you asked her...she wants the best...haha...if I am you I will pretend dun hear anything...just run far away...

HJHJ she also never ask me contribute, 5k USD got so cheap ? I did ask her, she say need a lot that all, ask her to give figure. she also dun know . I at sg don't own house , own a house in viet for what?

[casannova03]

Originally Posted by Golden question

The question u are asking is exactly what we bro here face before,whether is WL or not,their thinking and ways of doing things is the same.Is their culture and what we share here is our true experience we encounter before.

I think by the time u read finish,u are able to fill in the blank for your all your questions

Anyone who read from 1st page till here will be graduating with at least a second upper degree in "Understanding Vietnamese Life Partners" !!!

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by zion1989

HJHJ she also never ask me contribute, 5k USD got so cheap ? I did ask her, she say need a lot that all, ask her to give figure. she also dun know . I at sg don't own house , own a house in viet for what?

To them,buy house or build house is number 1.Because of 'face' value.My wife friend use to send back few thousands and thousands back for her family to build house.Build a 3 storey beautiful house already then her father quarrel with her mother and chase her out.Then her mum came and ask her for money to start up a small business.

My wife told her,why she so stupid to send back her hard earn money back and build a nice house but she work so hard in sg but without any saving for herself.She then understand she must not 'spolit' them and must think of herself first

Ai ya full of story one lah,u just know her so learn to act blur or deaf first and dont ask so much cos she will have more things to tell u.So prepare for this vietnam culture ride and hopefully u ride through haha

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by casannova03

Anyone who read from 1st page till here will be graduating with at least a second upper degree in "Understanding Vietnamese Life Partners" !!!

ya ya correct correct maybe TS should present us with MBA or PHD and also the square hat with string to wear haha