Safe to travel alone with PRC GF back to China?

[uncle gg]

parachutes are equipped with a spare bag, in case the main chute fails.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

After seeing the advices (good & bad) give by bros here & listening to my heart, i decided to show hand take my $1k expenses & just go.

Should be "After seeing the ADVICE....".

"Advice" is a non countable noun, you do not add an "s" to make it plural.

"Advice" is like "Rice". You say... "Please pass me the rice." You don't say "Please pass me the rices" because "rice", like "advice", is a non countable noun.

There are many other examples. To test your knowledge of non countable nouns, go to English Language Quiz - Countable or Non-countable Nouns (I-TESL-J) and take the test.

[colins]

1K is too little. Kinda restrict your options a lot. What sort of hotel are you staying and how many days are you are to be there?

Hotels range from 100plus to around 800 per night. Per meal can be 20plus to 100plus. If you go places, prepare to spend 50-80 per day on cabs. Forget about bus unless she insist. If you sign up for local sight seeing tours, can choose those 100plus per day per person trips, otherwise if she brings you around also that figure. For presents, depends on what image you want to give la. Just put together something like 500plus for some naobaijing for the elder ladies and jian nan chun rice wine for the old boys. But if she got like 4 grandparents and 16 aunties/uncles and 16 cousins, dun be a vege head planning for a ostentious home-coming. Just buy for the elders. Go to the old exhibition hall for shopping, plus buy some stuff for her (although she must have definitely been there for like 2 million times), spending about 2k for shopping should be right. All the above in RMB.

If you like spend 4k rmb on all these, the rest of your 1k rmb will be neither here nor there.

[Serpents]

You worry they not even give you any chute

[dirtyhairy]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

Bro what amt u recommend me to bring over? Me not going to cheong any fun stuff just spend time with her doing the normal couple things.

Yo Bro A, 4 u DirtyHairy will say
bringing Sing$1k is ok
with exchange rate now at RMB $5k
but then does this amount cover your hotel stay?
if yes...then $1k may be abit short leh
becos you should include food, transport & entertainment
and some shopping for her & family, who at least you must give sum presents
otherwise lidat sure confirm you are another kiam siap AMK-TG Singaporean
as this is your 1st trip there, me suggest you bring extra
one more k and then another k in case it's confirmed she's good & for real lah
bcos surely you dun expect her to pay for anything dah
and if she's true indeed, she'll want to show you off to her frens/relatives
whch means rounds of feasting to illustrate both of you are for keeps
sure, if she's like my gal (who's not a WL) she may wanna party at her home
that way, my gal saves me money as feasting outside is ex if done often
enuf said, just go, enjoy and update and tell us what happen

[Looksee]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

She saying she going to find me a driver that will ferries us around when we go to shenyang. My question to all bros all out is it safe to engage a personal driver over there?

Pls advice. thanks!!!

the "driver" might be her shenyang boy friend.....

[otur]

see liao i a bit hot leh bro.
not that i wanna suan u or wat. u did mention on 2 occations that u r shortage of cash, 1 is to sit kopi tiam wait for her, the other is to rush down to GL. if u cant even hv that small amount just to move in sg, whats there for u to lose? as to finding out abt her life, what u wanna find out? the good or the bed?
if i ever wanna consider marry any prc, which i might, my 1st consideration will be the family. imagine if she need to give the family money every month, for wat ever reason, u can tahan a not? again i need to mention, u dun even hv enough cash to take cab to GL at times. even if u can tahan for now, later when u hv kids? then it will be short again n this will create alot of problem n argument. with sg wife or prc wife, same same. so my point is, if u r there to prove that she is poor, forget it la.
as for going to china, i went a couple of times, not in shenyang but in guangdong area. n non is with WL that i met in sg. its not that bad i will say. my 1st trip in shenzhen, my hp was snatch while i was talking n walking on the street. but that dosent turn me fr going back
as to how much is enough, depend on u la. i go there few times only the 1st n the recent trip i stay in hotel few days cos i m meeting ppl in other corner. as cheap as 90rmb a day i stay.

go with a open heart to enjoy the trip n sightseeing la.
whats there u wanna find out?
is she here now>?
did she ask u to remit money?
consider few more things. not about the trip, but about the relationship la.

sorry me very direct. dun get offended

[aczeta76]

Bro Otur..

Wahh.. u read carefully hoh.. I never noticed TS talk about no money for cab etc..

Hiazz if like that, then TS better think thrice before spending money so easily

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Bro Otur..

Wahh.. u read carefully hoh.. I never noticed TS talk about no money for cab etc..

Hiazz if like that, then TS better think thrice before spending money so easily

Ya guys me not that rich I got to admit what I earn is enough for me to spent.

But anyway she told me something 2day she say she sick of geylang already, hinted to me if i could give her $2.5k, she stop work immediately she would scheduled her air ticket to the earliest date & fly back with me.

I am tempted by the offer, bros my logic got clouded again would you all offer me any advices on how to deal with it? Good or bad advices willing to listen. Thanks

[otur]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

I am tempted by the offer, bros my logic got clouded again would you all offer me any advices on how to deal with it? Good or bad advices willing to listen. Thanks

bro, lets put it this way. wat make u feel that she is the right person for u? n u didnt answer me as to what u try to find out.
i m blunt cos u r sg bro. dun get con by prc. i m not saying all no good or wat. but is this the correct 1 for u? try asking, just asking, to do her raw, or wan her ass. why, cos she will not do it for others. this can prove if u the special 1. i m not saying u do it, but just try asking to test market.

2500sdg is 12500rmb, a normal prc's annual income. in other words with that money she can life in china without working for 1 year. wat do u think?
worth a not?

my advice is, ask her to do wat she should do. n u go find her when its time for her to go back. actually i do hv more to share with u. but now too late liao need to koonz. consider what i said n we shall discuss tmr....

[JediSkull]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

Ya guys me not that rich I got to admit what I earn is enough for me to spent.

But anyway she told me something 2day she say she sick of geylang already, hinted to me if i could give her $2.5k, she stop work immediately she would scheduled her air ticket to the earliest date & fly back with me.

I am tempted by the offer, bros my logic got clouded again would you all offer me any advices on how to deal with it? Good or bad advices willing to listen. Thanks

wake up lar!~!~ u wanna KC wif a WL she better dun ask u for any money!~!~ my dongbei girl in shanghai dun ask me for money at all even when I wanna give her!!! the moment she asks for money! she is not in love wif u! coz if she loves u, she wun mind how rich or poor u are and will only think of doing things for u more than wat u can do for her!!!

[colins]

If that request is explicit, then forget it la bro. Find a good place to nurse ur wounds and dun get into PRC girls again.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

Pls advice. thanks!!!

Should be "Please ADVISE.".

"Advice" is a noun.

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by otur

bro, lets put it this way. wat make u feel that she is the right person for u? n u didnt answer me as to what u try to find out.
i m blunt cos u r sg bro. dun get con by prc. i m not saying all no good or wat. but is this the correct 1 for u? try asking, just asking, to do her raw, or wan her ass. why, cos she will not do it for others. this can prove if u the special 1. i m not saying u do it, but just try asking to test market.

2500sdg is 12500rmb, a normal prc's annual income. in other words with that money she can life in china without working for 1 year. wat do u think?
worth a not?

my advice is, ask her to do wat she should do. n u go find her when its time for her to go back. actually i do hv more to share with u. but now too late liao need to koonz. consider what i said n we shall discuss tmr....

I did ask if other guys want to her to perform raw will she do it she say she dun of course without hesitation.

Anyway after she quote this thing to me, not mean to prove anything after I part ways with her yesterday, after 10 min I say I feel unwell she immed cheong to where I am ensure I took got on a cab successfully then she walk away.

Me now am in a stage that whatever things she say I will make excuses for her. I am pathetic.

[Serpents]

Originally Posted by Looksee

the "driver" might be her shenyang boy friend.....

Haha Bro LS, you mean husband ???


BTW, the more this discussion go, the more it stinks .... TS beware ... dont waste unnecessary time on this ger ..