if not wrong ..@3000USD goes to the family, the balance goes towards the wedding dinner and on average at 400 people invited at a cost of 5 to 10 SGD per head .....
so what u think ...
I think it's very cheap. But I'm told only 2 tables for guests. 40 tables ? I don't think so. This is becos girls are from the provinces, and once a girl is confirmed the agency will send a coach down to the province to ferry the parents and immediate relatives. I will need 10 big buses if they've got 400 guests.
Bro, get acquainted with the syndicate in HCM lah. Then feed us with more information, and offer cut-throat discount for SMB members.
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Re: Going a Full Circle
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Sometimes it takes a bit of loneliness to give one time to ponder about life and where it leads you.
brudder, seems dat u have been there 4 a long time now... well, everyone does have a soft-spot for a gal everytime (yours truly included).. it's a sign when u r feeling tired n needed to rest at a highway cafe first before moving onto ur long journey 2 happiness....
well, after playing 4 such a long time, i oso will get tired of it as well... but u r d founder of dis program... i wouldn't wanna c u fail... kekekeke....
rem dat she oreadi have a bf.... it'll not b fair to her (n oso make u look bad) if u ask her 2 break up w her bf 2 b w u..... yes, both of u cares for each other but i think it's not right for both u n her 2 continue living in d past... it will stop both of u from moving forward w your own lives...
i think if she's still interested to b w u, she would have waited 2 cum back n talk 2 u b4 making a decision... she still cares for u but since she oreadi had a bf b4 she came back, i do not think dat she cares for you enough 2 wait 4 a decision til she tells u....
brudder, u r d founder but i wouldn't say much... jz dat likewise for u 2 do alot of stuff 2 prove ur interest in a viet gal, d viet gal oso muz do alot 2 prove her interest 2 u as well... it has always been a two-way traffic....
if d gal dun like mi doing smth, she'll tell mi off straight in d face... but if i dun like her doing smth, i'll also tell her off straight in d face as well....
i think it's time u use ur truth policy 2 d fullest... jz tell her u still like her but she got a bf oreadi, blah blah blah... n move on... i'm sure there'll always b someone more suitable... kekekee... remember sum one told mi... 800,000 chiou bu in vietnam vs 1000 in jc.... kekekekee
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at last managed to finish this thread after 2 part reading... very informative bro lament. 'pai say' for not able to meet you in hanoi every time. back in sg on 1feb and till 11 b4 fly back again... any chance to meet in sg?
Almost planning to visit hcmc this feb but on hold cos just change job and bird flu there also.....hope my ban gai will be fine too...wonder when can i make a trip up there....thats my goal this year...Teo Boh Lament...keke!
....I was under the impression that my gal was not working....BUT...knn...she came down at about 1plus to "surprise" me!
Was she worried that you might be "snatch up" by another gal? It was nice of her to come down to see you thought not working....this remind me of ....arrr...memories reflows again...
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....Anyways, kind of u to ask about Gary...he was pretty bored....He said this will not be the last we see of him...so one more kaki liao lor!
Guess it was bad timing....things will get better.
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....I am glad we finally met...catch up soon! All da best for ur case...hope some miracle happen and u can escape scot free! Heh.
The pleasure was mine. My freedom will not be impeded, it is just the inconvience and -$$ that comes with it.
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....Knn....Bro Lament...u last night high ah? I leaving that time say bye to u, u like blur blur...must be beoing charbo until cannot see me! Anyways, u still the master la!
He is always a busy man.
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....Aiyah...now i just take things slow....still looking for the opportune time to break the news to my girl...but i have to do it slowly...don't want anyone to be hurt ma.
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he yet to sms her lah ....knn hugging her like never b4 at u-turn ....so maybe he did uturn on the message to her too ........
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Knn...u teach me la...she came down all da way to find me then i tell her breakup meh? U never see yesterday she wear like go market like that...cos she don't intend to work ma. I also miss her too u know....how to don hug?
This kind of thing must plan slowly ma....I still want her as my friend...just don't wanna get too deeply involved!
As long as you are you do not think that she will chase you after a chopper when you break the news to her, take it easy on yourself. Cheers!!
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then y break-up ..... keep it that way but drop down the no. of times u c each other .....even if once a week she will be ok ...... just say u busy mah ....
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Ya...but my excuses will run out one day. As it is, she already asking me why every sat and sun i not working but don't spend time with her....sigh. See how la....Just go with the flow.
Tell her you have other commitment...spend time with parents...OT or whatever...
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Nowadays i think we also a bit strained...she is not so prompt in replying me...avoids certain questions i ask her. And last night, she seems a lil upset but she refuses to tell me whats troubling her. I don like this feeling cos last time, everything she will tell me.
Gals are sensitive and maybe she sense that you are drifting away from her and she will behave that way...... Let her built up her independence if you want to eventually downgrade to "friends only" from "more than friends". She has to be independent and able to solve her own problem cos you will not be able to be around for her. This is for her own good...something she will not understand now even if you tell her now. Along our course of lives, there will be many gals whom we tot we could help/care for....but there are simply too many of them....remind me of the saying " too little time, too many gals"....
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This past week I have been feeling rather sentimental of things past. Two friends on different ocassion spoke to me of the same thing "Stop going around in circle, when u find a good one, grab and stop."
Sometime it is abt finding the right gal...other timeit is abt not able to commit to devote to just ONE particular gal....(one gal at a time, several time a day/week not counted)
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Each time she back in town and in 51, I behave myself very much for fear of hurting her feelings if she see me hug or talk to other gals too much. ...why do i bother so much about her feelings. The only thing being we are together for close to a year.
You still love her.
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A couple of months ago when she came back, she told me she have a bf liao. So when she came back on a subsequent trip and as some things happen. I seek her help to explain some stuff to 1 of my gal. A casual conversation then became a heated argument. Remembered that my new gal said "I angry cos she say that if I want U, I can have U"
She still love you
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Remember on New Year Eve at 51, I was over at Bro Shagua table for a chit chat, she drop by and just plunge her head on my shoulders. That feeling was so comforting and warmth, without thinking I put my arms around her and hug her for a few minutes till I came to my senses that she belongs to someone else.
She still love you
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Saw her the past few days, she siting with a buddy of mine but then my buddy told me quite a few things that set my mind thinking ...... I would still pretty much love to have her back by my side but just afraid to make that move. All the hugs & bonks I got just cannot be compared to the feelings with her, crazy huh ...
She told him she still love you?
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If you are thinking of giving it one more shot. Go for it. However, you got learn the mistake....the cause the reason leading to the break up. Will the 2 of you not make the commit the same mistakes again? This is important. Perhaps, the 2 of you were not ready then, having being apart for a while, now if both of you had grown more matured, things might work this time round. Cheers!!!
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brudder, seems dat u have been there 4 a long time now... well, everyone does have a soft-spot for a gal everytime (yours truly included).. it's a sign when u r feeling tired n needed to rest at a highway cafe first before moving onto ur long journey 2 happiness....
Dear Ji Pun Kia, please allow me kaypo and offer my views from another pespective...
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well, after playing 4 such a long time, i oso will get tired of it as well... but u r d founder of dis program... i wouldn't wanna c u fail... kekekeke....
Can look at it as he graduate from all this?
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rem dat she oreadi have a bf.... it'll not b fair to her (n oso make u look bad) if u ask her 2 break up w her bf 2 b w u.....
If the so call BF had all along just being a substitute as she had not really got over Lament...then it would be fairer for her to break up with the BF.
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i think if she's still interested to b w u, she would have waited 2 cum back n talk 2 u b4 making a decision... she still cares for u but since she oreadi had a bf b4 she came back, i do not think dat she cares for you enough 2 wait 4 a decision til she tells u....
Maybe it is also a case of substitute as our Lament had also numerous substitute GF during this period of separation?
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Originally Posted by japboy
i think it's time u use ur truth policy 2 d fullest... jz tell her u still like her but she got a bf oreadi, blah blah blah... n move on... i'm sure there'll always b someone more suitable... kekekee... remember sum one told mi... 800,000 chiou bu in vietnam vs 1000 in jc.... kekekekee
Having said all, the decision is still Bro Lament's....he will do what he deem fit but hope he will know when to pull himself back when things dun look right. Lets wish you all the best...Cheers!!!
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brudder, seems dat u have been there 4 a long time now... well, everyone does have a soft-spot for a gal everytime (yours truly included).. it's a sign when u r feeling tired n needed to rest at a highway cafe first before moving onto ur long journey 2 happiness....
well, after playing 4 such a long time, i oso will get tired of it as well... but u r d founder of dis program... i wouldn't wanna c u fail... kekekeke....
i have always been searching for that rest-stop ...... i need somebody to love , its tiring & lonely to be home alone thinking of so many gals ..... i just need 1 good love .......
even when i was with her, i still toyed with other gals for that physical needs.....
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rem dat she oreadi have a bf.... it'll not b fair to her (n oso make u look bad) if u ask her 2 break up w her bf 2 b w u..... yes, both of u cares for each other but i think it's not right for both u n her 2 continue living in d past... it will stop both of u from moving forward w your own lives...
i think if she's still interested to b w u, she would have waited 2 cum back n talk 2 u b4 making a decision... she still cares for u but since she oreadi had a bf b4 she came back, i do not think dat she cares for you enough 2 wait 4 a decision til she tells u....
i wrote to her on friday nite. told her my heart is still with her .... though its been a while since we parted,she never realli left me.... told her to take her time and make her decision ...... she yet to reply to this yet ......
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if d gal dun like mi doing smth, she'll tell mi off straight in d face... but if i dun like her doing smth, i'll also tell her off straight in d face as well....
i think it's time u use ur truth policy 2 d fullest... jz tell her u still like her but she got a bf oreadi, blah blah blah... n move on... i'm sure there'll always b someone more suitable... kekekee... remember sum one told mi... 800,000 chiou bu in vietnam vs 1000 in jc.... kekekekee
i know wat u driving at but then everyone in life will have a "Ke Xin" and she happens to be that nemesis of mine ......
the vietnamisation program will still go on ..... no worries, I will always be here to support all the bros ......
Sometime it is abt finding the right gal...other timeit is abt not able to commit to devote to just ONE particular gal....(one gal at a time, several time a day/week not counted)
You still love her.
She still love you
She still love you
She told him she still love you?
Yes i still miss her very much but love her ....not too sure maybe ??? forbidden fruits always taste sweeter rite ....
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Originally Posted by MoonBlaze
If you are thinking of giving it one more shot. Go for it. However, you got learn the mistake....the cause the reason leading to the break up. Will the 2 of you not make the commit the same mistakes again? This is important. Perhaps, the 2 of you were not ready then, having being apart for a while, now if both of you had grown more matured, things might work this time round. Cheers!!!
the break-up is due to something outside of the relationship, something thats beyond my control........ its not about us not being ready....
seeing her still brings that "rub thump thump" to my heart ..... like a small kid in infactuation ..... ha ha ha
If the so call BF had all along just being a substitute as she had not really got over Lament...then it would be fairer for her to break up with the BF.
i m not too sure about this, cos this guy has been with her for quite a while since last year september I think .....
he gives her quite a lot of money and for this i'm happy for her cos i cannot afford that .......
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Maybe it is also a case of substitute as our Lament had also numerous substitute GF during this period of separation?
i have many gals all this while in my little policy of spreading my risk of getting overly involved with 1 gal ..... but ever since we sort of broke up, i kinda ache for her .......
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Having said all, the decision is still Bro Lament's....he will do what he deem fit but hope he will know when to pull himself back when things dun look right. Lets wish you all the best...Cheers!!!
no worries, the vietnamisation program is alive and well and I'm still in control .....until the day comes .....
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Re: Going a Full Circle
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Can look at it as he graduate from all this?
more like fallen den raised frm d ashes... i think he need 2 pull himself together but smth un-touched waters r a much betta option..... if it's mi, i'll bonk her n get it done w....
maybe it's because i will always have reservations.. keeping back a bit... hence easier to pull away.. .but not for him as his yeu is unreserved.... haiz... n hence d notion of a failed vietnamisation program... i tot he seen it all n shld have learnt 2 b smarter...
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i have always been searching for that rest-stop ...... i need somebody to love , its tiring & lonely to be home alone thinking of so many gals ..... i just need 1 good love .......
not dat i'm worried u r retiring frm sb but jz dat u've let her have d upper hand now.... u shld have refrain from sending dat sms brudder... but since u've met ur nemsis den no choice... others r 4 lust while d only one 4 yeu...
side issue.. how abt her family? goot?....
i know wat u r gng thru brudder... but remember dun let them win d mind games... u oreadi lost d first battle... but jz remember dat dun always hang on to one tree.. dat's wat u wrote in ur second post... so pl... be strong.. for urself n for us... pull urself together, bonk her n move on...
thks for ur pts n ur help 2 tv... i know wat 2 do nx... thks again brudder...
i think u'll need a tirak rehabitation program... kekekeke
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more like fallen den raised frm d ashes... i think he need 2 pull himself together but smth un-touched waters r a much betta option..... if it's mi, i'll bonk her n get it done w....
maybe it's because i will always have reservations.. keeping back a bit... hence easier to pull away.. .but not for him as his yeu is unreserved.... haiz... n hence d notion of a failed vietnamisation program... i tot he seen it all n shld have learnt 2 b smarter...
ha ha ha ...... no worries mah .... even if i were to retire, the program have not failed ....
being a cheongster will one day meet the fate of a cheongster..... like some of the bros out there whom found themselves fallining in love with the very toy they were playing .... i m not the only one with such stories to spare .....
everyone will meet his match one day just that u have yet to ...... so nothing is absolute in this world.....
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not dat i'm worried u r retiring frm sb but jz dat u've let her have d upper hand now.... u shld have refrain from sending dat sms brudder... but since u've met ur nemsis den no choice... others r 4 lust while d only one 4 yeu....
i thought long & hard b4 i send that sms ...... i have no regrets as at least i gave her a piece of mind ........... i never got her out of my mind .....
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side issue.. how abt her family? goot?....
well, as far as i know her mum is about 6 years years older than me and most her relatives that i know kinda sayang me ........
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i know wat u r gng thru brudder... but remember dun let them win d mind games... u oreadi lost d first battle... but jz remember dat dun always hang on to one tree.. dat's wat u wrote in ur second post... so pl... be strong.. for urself n for us... pull urself together, bonk her n move on...
i never lost the battle and i will not bonk her unless she ask 4 it ..... the last time she ask was 3 months into the relationship and i remember that her aunt told me on her behlaf cos her english was still bad then "Why did I not want to make love to her" .....I just replied "I'm not interested .......
I am still strong but weak in her presence ....maybe what i need is new fresh blood in the area to take my mind off her .....but then this is waning and its the start of February and I have to open an account last month .....
anyway, i am targetting a gal but the sad thing is they stay in the same household and that rules her out .......
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Re: Going a Full Circle
