Famous Samster and his HFJ PRC Story.

[see see only]

Originally Posted by newyorker88

BEST STATEMENT IN THIS THREAD.

They are here for the money, and we spend according to our wishes, and let our better judgement take over ego.

They are here to RAKE IN MONEY, not KC. All sort of stories, they can create, just to gain $$$$$.

Thank you bro newyorker ... my face red red liao

Anyway i was once almost a fool to this HFJ game - luckily my senses woke me up just in time .......... there was this case, i promised a singer (who stayed together with me for months) that i will contribute XXXXX amount of flower for her "say goodbye" show ... which i was ready for it ... but someone else surprisingly threw in XXXXXXXXXX amount of flower just before me ....

Immediately within that split second - out of pride and ego ... i rise my hand to the manager and was ready to go for XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX amount of flower .... it was that 3 to 4 second time when the manager came running to me, i felt a slap on my face virtually from my senses ......

At that moment, i bitterly swallowed my pride and ego and asked for the bill instead --- though i felt an immediate "look down" kinda of look at me from everyone in hall.

I took a deep breath, turn to the cheering table of the "fighters" gave a friendly smile and walk out of the joints gracefully after paying my bill for my drinks


To my surprise, the particular singer sms me "lau gong dont be angry ... i go supper with them first and you pick me up an hour later hor?"

That night i "drove" her crazy on my bed with my XXXXX amount still in my wallet

It was then, i realised how a man could do crazy things just to spike another in these HFJ and realised it is just a pussy that will not stay with you forever so why do things out of impulse .... to keep them and their bosses smiling

Anyway i did went back to the same joint, standing up high with the manager forgetting what had happened and continue to introduce me new singer when that particular singer left home .... but somehow deep inside me ... i gracefully smile to myself ..........

[newyorker88]

Originally Posted by see see only

To my surprise, the particular singer sms me "lau gong dont be angry ... i go supper with them first and you pick me up an hour later hor?"

That night i "drove" her crazy on my bed with my XXXXX amount still in my wallet

It was then, i realised how a man could do crazy things just to spike another in these HFJ and realised it is just a pussy that will not stay with you forever so why do things out of impulse .... to keep them and their bosses smiling

Anyway i did went back to the same joint, standing up high with the manager forgetting what had happened and continue to introduce me new singer when that particular singer left home .... but somehow deep inside me ... i gracefully smile to myself ..........

There was a thread on HF gals, and talking about how they wash money thru HF gals... No point joining them in such things. They have tons to wash, and you give becos of pride?

Money is not easy to earn, and those who earn it fast, goes fast too. We have our business to run and cash flow can be disturbed unexpected at times as well. Money given to thee gals are better off kept for unexpected times.

I still stick to my comments that these gals are here to rake in as much money while they can, and we guys should not be stupid to throw money at them just becos of pride and ego.

[hardrocksg]

Originally Posted by cuntarow

bro, dun get upsad lah, i was zapped too for sharing my opinion there was even a comment saying that i am still you for this trade needs to start learning wiser. but thye sore loser zap me off 3 points and never leaves his name so called for me to learn from him. haha

Not upset about it just that I took an objective approach while the mongrels or mongrel thought I was subjecting them to scrutiny for persecution.

In fact my previous post already highlighted I did not want to hijack this thread but I think they really have Berlin wall smacked right between the ears.
So unless they tear down their own Berlin walls, I rest my case

[Chengdu dog]

The economy outlook are predict to be slow & bad next year. I am wondering whether will those big bosses continue to bao & feed these singer for about $15,000 a month

I would think high end & big joints will not be affected by bad times as their singers are still well-feed by the big bosses.

At the same times, those budget KTV in Geylang shall be the ones affected most because they are patronise by working masses

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

All HFJ singers fundamental objectives are to maximize their return on their "Staging Investment" with the highest possible ROI percent in the quickest time possible by choosing the fastest "simulation" target(s)

Let's be very honest with ourselves here: All of us cheong HFJs to have fun with singers to get them under our sheets. How many cheongsters NEVER HANG A SINGLE DOLLAR EVER in a HFJ here? I bet the answer is :ZERO.

Always to cheong within your game plan, allowable limits and budgets. If you lose out in a flower bid or had wasted some money with singers with no returns or pumped petrol for a singer but others driving your car, be a good sportsman and move on..... cos every few months there are new arrivals.

Regardless of whether one is able or unable to accept this fact: You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink if it is not thirsty. Singers didn't cheat you or your money cos hanging flowers, gifts, parting with your money and ruining your life are all out of your own free will/choice coupled with a soft ears and a weak mind of letting small head taking over big head. In an ATM, you need password to withdraw cash.

[newyorker88]

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

All Singers didn't cheat you or your money cos hanging flowers, gifts, parting with your money and ruining your life are all out of your own free will/choice coupled with a soft ears and a weak mind of letting small head taking over big head. In an ATM, you need password to withdraw cash.

It is about pride

[omnia]

gee wiz...never tot i wld c quotes fm Marcus Aurelius in SBF!!...

as for places like HFJ joints...basically its just an arena providing a platform for a game revolving ard social interaction between the opposite sexes...such arenas hv existed in some form r another since the start of mankind...u wanna play the game than u take a risk of getting burnt...cannot take the risk than dont play the game in the first place...

also remember all 'Angels' shall inevitably age n lose their charms one day...

Originally Posted by Mr_don_juan

You can't game without inner game. KC traps are deployed to eradicate your emotional control. Those hanging flowers singers are masters of having triangles with different customers, creating competition in a bid war. They simply have the remote control to your emotions by eg.. making you jealous as and when they need to, not returning your smses, act interested and then indifferent like as if they don't know you. Hot and cold treatment. Jealously is very fatal is making you fall into KC.

They are very experienced, like a social butterflies, making you hang more and more flowers doing them favors, compete for their attention. The lao jiaos are social teasers always hunting for newer fresher richer preys, playing the pulling in and pushing game.

One after another fall deep deep losing all respect for himself, lose dignity and emotional control. To avoid falling, simply control your own emotions and be self-sufficent. My advice by the words of Marcus Aurelius, "Each man must learn to live within the citadel of himself."

Become the Lord of that citadel.

[otur]

Originally Posted by see see only

That night i "drove" her crazy on my bed with my XXXXX amount still in my wallet

Anyway i did went back to the same joint, standing up high with the manager forgetting what had happened and continue to introduce me new singer when that particular singer left home .... but somehow deep inside me ... i gracefully smile to myself ..........

bro u hit the pt. some may say you lao kui. but still, after supper, u pump all ur bullets into her. i would say in this game u the winner. she got KCed by you and have feelings for u.
it also prove that big $$ cant really do the job espacially in smaller joints.
and u see, the management of that place dun reall care. u might not hang as big or wat so ever, but u bother to go back n spend. this is their income. regardless big or small.

[songest]

Originally Posted by newyorker88

It is about pride

Sunday morn ramblings....
You can lose pride to the one you love but not lose love over pride.
Paraphrasing in the context of HFJ, you can lose dollars to the one you love but not lose dollars (in HFJ) over pride.
What price is pride? To each his own and play within his means. Untamed pride coupled with uncontrollable passion can swallow one up easily.

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by songest

You can lose pride to the one you love but not lose love over pride.

I like this phrase. I ever lost love because of my pride...

Would have upz ur rep of not becoz SBF don't support iPhone in its upping script

[MoralEpitome]

Wow, what a thread, reminded me of the time when I was KCed by this singer, go there everyday hang her a few hundred, her first show still blur blur and hang for her a cannon, she told me she love me and wants to be together with me and ask me to break up with my gf, told me her story of how her father was saboed by frens and became a bankrupt, and came down to earn money for her mother, how her county gave her family some land and she wants to earn 300K to build a condominium on the land and can earn 3million, ask me to invest in her and the land and live happily ever after, my life evolved around her and while driving home I was thinking about her and got into an accident....she always sing this hokkien sing to me but I potato dun understand hokkien....the sing lyrics is our love is just a dream just a dream....now I finally understands what she means...so remember KC is expensive and always be on your guard

[esssinine]

Never been to a hfj and never intend to. Dont make sense to hang money on a girl for zero services rendered.

Its like giving money first and then hope for her goodwill to give something

Wtf shouldnt it be the other way round? She provide good service and then i give according to the quality?

[Liquid@cid]

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

All HFJ singers fundamental objectives are to maximize their return on their "Staging Investment" with the highest possible ROI percent in the quickest time possible by choosing the fastest "simulation" target(s)

Let's be very honest with ourselves here: All of us cheong HFJs to have fun with singers to get them under our sheets. How many cheongsters NEVER HANG A SINGLE DOLLAR EVER in a HFJ here? I bet the answer is :ZERO.

Always to cheong within your game plan, allowable limits and budgets. If you lose out in a flower bid or had wasted some money with singers with no returns or pumped petrol for a singer but others driving your car, be a good sportsman and move on..... cos every few months there are new arrivals.

Regardless of whether one is able or unable to accept this fact: You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink if it is not thirsty. Singers didn't cheat you or your money cos hanging flowers, gifts, parting with your money and ruining your life are all out of your own free will/choice coupled with a soft ears and a weak mind of letting small head taking over big head. In an ATM, you need password to withdraw cash.

very well said bro, i am a newbie in the HFJ scene, but i do noe how to work within my budget, dun let your ego led the way, cos there is always someone richer den you with the ability to hang bigger flower den you, let your mouth do the trick rather den your wallet.......

some of the bros here may wonder, why go spend a few hundred to bed a girl while you can get one here in SBF just by spend 120, room included somemore??? but i guess it is the process of flirting with her that is more seducing, that is the beauty of the KC game, i guess.....

but i strongly disagree for those bros with wife and children to cheong HFJ, cos if you fall into the KC trap it involve more than you yourself, and i agree that no cheongster is immune to KC, so dun ever think that you are in control..... 见好就收，吃了就走

just my 2 cents worth

[DO_YOU_BJ]

We're always telling everyone we can control this that blah blah.
It's not meeting any singer that will drive u crazy, it's meeting "THAT" singer that will make u do things u always felt it was impossible to do!

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by esssinine

Never been to a hfj and never intend to. Dont make sense to hang money on a girl for zero services rendered.

Its like giving money first and then hope for her goodwill to give something

Wtf shouldnt it be the other way round? She provide good service and then i give according to the quality?

This is totally not revelant.
only when u enter a pit of fire n walk out then u can say ur never walking there again.
Maybe u shud try then u know what ur missing.
HFJ n kio kuay is totally a diff boll game