Ever fall in love with a massage girl

[jonzzen]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

Recently heard this from a PRC lady. I will write in Mandarin before translating the sentence into English for the benefit of non-Chinese readers. Summarises their objective effectively

只要长期找男朋友，不要找长期男朋友。

It means, over the long term, she wants to keep searching for boyfriends instead of searching for a long term boyfriend. Subtle difference in sentence construction but a world of difference in meaning.

Lol. That's the truth. Keep finding so call bf, those hopping to be her Bf will shower her with everything. Lol.

She also know long term no use lah. Cos many of the not so brilliant men will give alot of stuff to her at the start. Probably unable to sustain for long period of time.

[Leilei]

I did but end up I got hurt.
End of the day it is a endless pit don’t fall into the trap

[francomade]

Originally Posted by Leilei

I did but end up I got hurt.
End of the day it is a endless pit don’t fall into the trap

I once got into relationship with FL as well. About a year and a half. It turned sour thereafter and did not work out well as expected. Glad it is over. This was more than 10yrs ago though.

[Leilei]

Originally Posted by francomade

I once got into relationship with FL as well. About a year and a half. It turned sour thereafter and did not work out well as expected. Glad it is over. This was more than 10yrs ago though.

Not easy man….guess money is the most handsome man

[Jabba]

You will have to money issue to sort out. U will need deep pockets to maintain this relationship.

[JayF]

Originally Posted by whitehead

This is something I can never understand. Why will anyone want to take the trouble to go and impress an ML? If you like their services, just patron them regularly is good enough. Buy them gifts, buy them food, buy flowers....what for? For that few minutes more of extra treatment? Or can apply for their vip membership after that?

Food still okay lah. Show u caring FJ also feel better. Anything more is gongkia, deserve lose money

[jonzzen]

Originally Posted by Jabba

You will have to money issue to sort out. U will need deep pockets to maintain this relationship.

Totally agree need money to play the game.
I know 2 pretty well to do bosses from construction and reno suppliers.
Age mid 50s.
Got wife n got children who are graduated and working.
They keep mistress. They spend like 4k to 6k a mth to keep them.
Something i learn from them.
"No emotion, show them the money but dun give them" "let them come to him and dun go for those who doesn't throw themselves at him."
If any bros wana know how they do it. Can PM me.
I feel they are playing the game right.

[Dandankoh]

Originally Posted by Akim3

I’ve been Cheonging for years so not a matter of being new. All this time I’m super good and separating house life and the FL life. Only recently feel like met the girl of my dreams, want to take her out of FL and try to have a relationship with her. I would do this EXCEPT she is a few years too late. I got married just couple of years ago, no kids yet. Don’t get me wrong my wife is like my best friend but that FL, is what I imagined my wife to be before I ever got a serious relationship but thought cannot get. Now I know why people say don’t marry so early, more money more options more time see the world meet more people. Don’t judge me , I had to come from another country and take time to get to SG, I wouldn’t meet the kind of girl like the FL in my original country so the years just piled on. But if I was not married would go all out for it and take her out of FL life

Not judging u.
Not easy to accept FL as wife Bro.
Treat it as a blessing u didn't the FL to be your wife.

Even harder to sustain. Unlicensed FL gets pretty good 5 figure income mthly. Can u provide her that amount and still have a balance of 2 times the amt you have given to her? Eg u give her 10k a mth, u shld have 20k balance for ur self. Meaning at least 30k income per mth. WHY? Cos u must always have higher income than her. Sense of security for her. If u give lesser than what she can earn, she will be wondering why is she with u?
At her prime age she can make the most. Not when she is old.

Keep her bz while u are working?
When she is too free. She might be meeting up with regulars again. Why not make some spare cash when free.

Can u accept if do part time FL? She might tell you. She wana help out in earning more money. No emotion with customer just fuck nia. Not cheating.

Can u accept if your social network engage her for services before? Sg is so small. Actually we might have been sperm bros before if u choing regularly.

Bro its going to mentally very tired. Can u withstand betrayal after giving money time effort and so call love. Imagine after 3 to 5 yrs then u found out betrayal.

[Dandankoh]

Why a girl wana be ML who provide sexual services or FL?
She can be a factory worker, sales assistant, work in f&b, or just a plain clean massage therapist. Why not.
We all know the answer.

Wake up if u r thinking abt having a serious relationship with a sexual service provider.

[cooolman]

Originally Posted by Dandankoh

Why a girl wana be ML who provide sexual services or FL?
She can be a factory worker, sales assistant, work in f&b, or just a plain clean massage therapist. Why not.
We all know the answer.
Agree with you

Wake up if u r thinking abt having a serious relationship with a sexual service provider.

Agree with you

[superstiffy]

Originally Posted by Dandankoh

Why a girl wana be ML who provide sexual services or FL?
She can be a factory worker, sales assistant, work in f&b, or just a plain clean massage therapist. Why not.
We all know the answer.

Wake up if u r thinking abt having a serious relationship with a sexual service provider.

wah... u talk like maciam u go to a kindergarden class and ask the girls there next time grow up want to become what they will tell u want to become ML or FL...

99% of ml and fl wont do this if got other road to walk lor... u say factory worker, sales assiatant all these.. pls la.. those kind 1 mth earn 2k... fl can earn 2k in 1 day lor.. if need money urgent then got what else can do? smuggle drugs ah?

maybe u sibei successful or rich but no need to look down on people.. they r also making a living.. u think easy u go and try lor... best part is u talk until like sibei high moral then come here for what?

[Leilei]

I feel that falling in love with them is a black hole the money is no end one. What we get in return is just pain and sadness.

So I learned to stay away as far as possible

[Newsasap]

Today I want to share a gem that is sweet and attractive looking, a beauty with acceptable figure.
Fair smooth skin, she is also standout when she removes her makeup, natural with feminine look.
I have returned to her a few times for massage and so far she didn't ask for gift or extra, only bought her lunch on few occasion, her rates are reasonable.
Be nice and gentle to her and she will reward you with an enjoyable no rush session.

Her WeChat of contact
86963539

[Newsasap]

Originally Posted by Newsasap

Today I want to share a gem that is sweet and attractive looking, a beauty with acceptable figure.
Fair smooth skin, she is also standout when she removes her makeup, natural with feminine look.
I have returned to her a few times for massage and so far she didn't ask for gift or extra, only bought her lunch on few occasion, her rates are reasonable.
Be nice and gentle to her and she will reward you with an enjoyable no rush session.

Her WeChat of contact
86963539

She resemble the china actress hou meng sha.侯梦莎。

[Dieheart]

The initial starting point for me is to feel compassionate about their situation, when they first came. And you will try to help them in bits.

Thereafter, you be hard to pull out. You will sink deeper and deeper.

By nature of their job, they will receive endless offers which they cannot resist. And she will accept them one by one. Keeping you in the dark.

Hence, it's always a win-lose situation. Win for her and lose for you.