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Yes, i agreed. If there are any misunderstandings or quarrels, be it big or small, have to sit down at clear it out with yur wife. Try explain to her yur views n try understand her views too. Have to "da shi hua xiao, xiao shi hua wu". If not, it will snowball n next time when the 2 of u quarrel again, all will be brought out again. Then it will be nvr ending. So like wat u n shysaint said, it boils down to communication n it takes 2 hands to clap!
The thing is mine will still be stubborn even after hearing my point of view.She will think i make things difficult for her and always say i look down on her which i am not.But that was the first few years,now slowly we start to understand each other point of view.Learn to close 1 eye and i try to look at her good things which she do for me.All this take a lot of patient and understanding for both of us.
She know i change a lot and i can also see her change in her stubborn attitude.Is a good sign
The thing is mine will still be stubborn even after hearing my point of view.She will think i make things difficult for her and always say i look down on her which i am not.But that was the first few years,now slowly we start to understand each other point of view.Learn to close 1 eye and i try to look at her good things which she do for me.All this take a lot of patient and understanding for both of us.
She know i change a lot and i can also see her change in her stubborn attitude.Is a good sign
Same for me for the first few years. Whatever i say about her family, she will say i look down on them, damm a lot of pride. Many years later today, she understands what i say and i also understand her point of view. We learn to close one eye and things are so much better now.
Same for me for the first few years. Whatever i say about her family, she will say i look down on them, damm a lot of pride. Many years later today, she understands what i say and i also understand her point of view. We learn to close one eye and things are so much better now.
My blood will boil and my blood pressure will shoot up when i quarrel with her.Damm full or pride and very stubborn.Some of the things she say to me like dont think she come from poor country,i can bully her.Dont look down on her,dont lecture her on what to do and she always insist she is right and ask me to say sorry to her after our quarrel and why i make things difficult for her.
WTF.I am just telling her my point of view on why i think she is wrong but she think i look down on her.I told her if saying the word sorry or admit that she is wrong is so difficult,i can do it for her.
Sometime no point in telling them the reason,just close one eye and let them do.But that was all the past,now at least she listen.Most of them is 'mouth hard but heart soft'
My blood will boil and my blood pressure will shoot up when i quarrel with her.Damm full or pride and very stubborn.Some of the things she say to me like dont think she come from poor country,i can bully her.Dont look down on her,dont lecture her on what to do and she always insist she is right and ask me to say sorry to her after our quarrel and why i make things difficult for her.
WTF.I am just telling her my point of view on why i think she is wrong but she think i look down on her.I told her if saying the word sorry or admit that she is wrong is so difficult,i can do it for her.
Sometime no point in telling them the reason,just close one eye and let them do.But that was all the past,now at least she listen.Most of them is 'mouth hard but heart soft'
Troi, exactly same as my bxa....
Really runs in the blood!
WTF.I am just telling her my point of view on why i think she is wrong ....
Sometime no point in telling them the reason,just close one eye and let them do....
recently know a vb...known as para bx...
during her previous trip, i listen to alot of her stories about her family. After hearing, I told her that her family members are using her as a tool to earn money for her family to spend. she told me off by saying its her family, its her mum and dad so got to take care.
Today, she started complaining about her family. Last week send S$1000 to vn (family stay in province), today her mum called to say no more money to go temple. Only left with S$100. She say she won't be able to stop working as WL if her family spend this way.
sometimes really need them to "see the light" themselve rather then explaining to them.
recently know a vb...known as para bx...
during her previous trip, i listen to alot of her stories about her family. After hearing, I told her that her family members are using her as a tool to earn money for her family to spend. she told me off by saying its her family, its her mum and dad so got to take care.
Today, she started complaining about her family. Last week send S$1000 to vn (family stay in province), today her mum called to say no more money to go temple. Only left with S$100. She say she won't be able to stop working as WL if her family spend this way.
sometimes really need them to "see the light" themselve rather then explaining to them.
I believed her family doesnt know she working as over here in sgp. they think she work good job can earn alot very fast. But if they dun know nvr made known, they will carry on to be like this...
Moreover, they have no concept of savings. Just spent 1st today, tml then think again. Cos they r not educated to the idea of saving up for the future.
recently know a vb...known as para bx...
during her previous trip, i listen to alot of her stories about her family. After hearing, I told her that her family members are using her as a tool to earn money for her family to spend. she told me off by saying its her family, its her mum and dad so got to take care.
Today, she started complaining about her family. Last week send S$1000 to vn (family stay in province), today her mum called to say no more money to go temple. Only left with S$100. She say she won't be able to stop working as WL if her family spend this way.
sometimes really need them to "see the light" themselve rather then explaining to them.
Your para going back soon isn't it ?
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I believed her family doesnt know she working as over here in sgp. they think she work good job can earn alot very fast. But if they dun know nvr made known, they will carry on to be like this...
Moreover, they have no concept of savings. Just spent 1st today, tml then think again. Cos they r not educated to the idea of saving up for the future.
I know 1 VB that her mum know that she work KTV and still force her back cos her mum know she can earn more tien to pay off her gambling debts
I know 1 VB that her mum know that she work KTV and still force her back cos her mum know she can earn more tien to pay off her gambling debts
Theres a lot similar cases, cos it not them who r working ma so they think its easy money.
Also bcos of them somewat being lazy in their culture. Just look at their daily way of living so laid back. 1 example u can see is at their airport! Took 30 to 40 mins to clear immigration! Everytime my bx waiting 4 me outside TSN will always ask: "what took u so long? Ur plane landed more than half hr ago."
03-12-2011, 01:32 PM
khg hieu...
