Vietnamese Wife in Singapore

[SingViet]

Bro Blue_Swatch,

It seems that most viet gals act the same. Maybe its exciting for them to own assets for the first time?? kekekek

[spasticboy]

my boy now 6 months old.... no.. we not yet marry in sg yet... cos when she told me she preg abt 5-6 months liaoz.. the reason she give is scared i will dump her if i know she got baby.... but ultimately i will hope to bring them over lor.. so whatever advice samsters give here abt DNA testing, i m taking note of it...

Originally Posted by fleaz

Hi Bro spasticboy, looks like we are in the same boat. so how old is your child now? when do u wife plan to come over? are u n your wife already married in sg? will u plan to apply PR for both your wife n kid?

cheers
fleaz

[Rof|maoxz]

Originally Posted by spasticboy

my boy now 6 months old.... no.. we not yet marry in sg yet... cos when she told me she preg abt 5-6 months liaoz.. the reason she give is scared i will dump her if i know she got baby.... but ultimately i will hope to bring them over lor.. so whatever advice samsters give here abt DNA testing, i m taking note of it...

Please get it done soonest. Dun drag too long.

[Leeson]

Originally Posted by Rof|maoxz

I know two more. But they are shy.

i've met a couple irl, but not sure if they come here...

[spasticboy]

nvm lah.... was joking with my wife 1 day... at most i go back there, buy a piece of land, build a house then become farmer lor.,.. morn wake up early till the land... afternoon play with my son... then at night try to make more sons.... kekekeke... then she hear oledi... i kena piak on the head...

Originally Posted by Rof|maoxz

Please get it done soonest. Dun drag too long.

[fleaz]

Originally Posted by spasticboy

my boy now 6 months old.... no.. we not yet marry in sg yet... cos when she told me she preg abt 5-6 months liaoz.. the reason she give is scared i will dump her if i know she got baby.... but ultimately i will hope to bring them over lor.. so whatever advice samsters give here abt DNA testing, i m taking note of it...

my son is 2 month & 20days old. now just have to wait for my gf to settle her stuff and give me a date she is ready to come over to sg. i was hoping to get PR for her and my son without her having to go back to japan. i think it is a waste of $ going back. rather save the $ for our child. really hoping it will be this way.

cheers
fleaz

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by fleaz

my son is 2 month & 20days old. now just have to wait for my gf to settle her stuff and give me a date she is ready to come over to sg. i was hoping to get PR for her and my son without her having to go back to japan. i think it is a waste of $ going back. rather save the $ for our child. really hoping it will be this way.

cheers
fleaz

Actually i was pondering before doing the DNA test. But after a while, i thought... `ICA wants me to prove that the children are mine, so i better get it done' Doing some simple calculations, its still cheaper to do DNA than to fly the kids and wifey between Spore and Vietnam. Without much prove, the chances of getting citizenship is much lower, not to mention getting them to stay for the longer term.

[blue_swatch]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Bro Blue_Swatch,

It seems that most viet gals act the same. Maybe its exciting for them to own assets for the first time?? kekekek

Hahha maybe. But we do have our fair shares of quarrels, since its different culture. And sometimes she have difficulties to understand why i do certain things and get angry at me without understanfing the underlying factors why i did a particular thing for her. Jialat, we quarrel last nite again...

[fleaz]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Actually i was pondering before doing the DNA test. But after a while, i thought... `ICA wants me to prove that the children are mine, so i better get it done' Doing some simple calculations, its still cheaper to do DNA than to fly the kids and wifey between Spore and Vietnam. Without much prove, the chances of getting citizenship is much lower, not to mention getting them to stay for the longer term.

thanks bro Singviet for the advise. thats what i have in mind also. really have to cross my finger.

cheers
fleaz

[Rof|maoxz]

Originally Posted by blue_swatch

Hahha maybe. But we do have our fair shares of quarrels, since its different culture. And sometimes she have difficulties to understand why i do certain things and get angry at me without understanfing the underlying factors why i did a particular thing for her. Jialat, we quarrel last nite again...

Dun let these bickering hamper the "bridge" that both of you put together. Try to understand her dilemma too. Everything should be fine.

Bros
give a little help

xiao de here fell in love with a viet at U turn
found out that she was working at 51 too
went almost everyday
been a week
she takes really good care of me
and i don't know if it is true or not...
but heard her friend say she likes me too

she going back tml le
but the main point is i can't converse properly with them
those of the bros with viet gf or wife
how to break this barrier and any advise to qc if real or fake relationship

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by axcel69

Bros
give a little help

xiao de here fell in love with a viet at U turn
found out that she was working at 51 too
went almost everyday
been a week
she takes really good care of me
and i don't know if it is true or not...
but heard her friend say she likes me too

she going back tml le
but the main point is i can't converse properly with them
those of the bros with viet gf or wife
how to break this barrier and any advise to qc if real or fake relationship

Bro, in a relationship, communication is very impt. Its either you learn vietnamese or she learn english/mandarin. Its very normal for a vietnamese working lady to learn mandarin.

I will say that 8 out of 10 working ladies are out for money. They like anyone with money to give them. It takes time to tell if she really likes you. Don't start showering her with money or gifts, take things slowly.

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by axcel69

but the main point is i can't converse properly with them
those of the bros with viet gf or wife
how to break this barrier and any advise to qc if real or fake relationship

maybe u like someone else.....start to buy a viet dictionary....start to sms....start to translate....start to ask pple....start to learn on ur own.....then eventually...u able to read hold very simple conversation thru' sms....but still unable to speak or listen to viet...

soon....one day u realise that she no longer "love" u and she left.....in the end u used your knowledge writing viet to attract others....and history repeat itself again...and u back to square one....maybe u can get "free" fuck....but one day u will be tired.....

I learned one saying........欢场无真情。。。。。

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

maybe u like someone else.....start to buy a viet dictionary....start to sms....start to translate....start to ask pple....start to learn on ur own.....then eventually...u able to read hold very simple conversation thru' sms....but still unable to speak or listen to viet...

soon....one day u realise that she no longer "love" u and she left.....in the end u used your knowledge writing viet to attract others....and history repeat itself again...and u back to square one....maybe u can get "free" fuck....but one day u will be tired.....

I learned one saying........欢场无真情。。。。。

Bro Sha Gua,

I am glad that you have learnt about this. Now you are no longer Sha Gua, you are now an awaken person.

hmmm
so what is the best advise