WL As Girlfriend....awkward if she work ?

[Horsepower]

Originally Posted by evo3

So the question is how should this guy going to handle this 2 ladies. Just carry on as per normal like before. Or take only one

The basic fundamental question is does your friend willing to divorce the wife and able to accept a WL as wife ?
Maybe he convert to Muslim so can take up to 4 wives ....

[evo3]

The question is this guy wife dont ask him where he go and he had been going out almost every nite. Their relationship is still very good term, the wife had suspected but never ask him, according to what i heard as long as the guy take care of the family well, she will not bother what he do outside, but also the guy must not go around fooling with so many woman, but only take one. Dont know his wife is joking or serious. For the g/f she is not interested in any status, but just want to get a caring and considerate guy to accompany her.

[Richard L]

Read this headline....
Hot News | Weekend, June 18, 2005
Victim's supervisor nabbed in Kallang body parts case

With Singaporeans reeling at the gory details of the discovery of body parts along the banks of the Kallang River on Thursday, police moved in on the murder suspect and made an arrest less than 24 hours later.

Even without the complete body — the search is still on for the head, calves and feet — the police managed to identify the victim as Miss Liu Hong Mei, a 22-year-old Chinese National who has been working here as a production operator since 2003.

At 8.30pm on Thursday night, the police traced the suspect, Miss Liu's supervisor, to the Serangoon North factory where they both worked.

The 50-year-old Chinese Singaporean was brought in for questioning and arrested at 6am the following morning.

Green translucent plastic bags, similar to those used to wrap the body parts found in two boxes at Kallang Riverside Park, were seized from his Geylang flat.

The suspect will be charged in court on Saturday for murder, an offence which carries the death penalty.

Police also confirmed that the victim, who was from Changchun City in China's Jilin province, was murdered on Wednesday.

Miss Liu had a valid work permit and had lived in a rented flat here. No missing persons' report was filed on her before her dismembered body was found. Her family in China has been informed of her death.

Said Deputy Superintendent Adrian Quek of the CID: "The suspect has briefly indicated to us where he disposed of the rest of the body, but it's not near the area where the first batch he disposed of the first batch." DSP Quek added that he believed the suspect did not have an accomplice.

Investigators are still verifying where and how the murder took place. A post-mortem is being conducted.

The gruesome murder was uncovered on Thursday morning when a cleaner stumbled upon the lower half of Ms Liu's body, severed at the knee and pelvic joints, in a brown cardboard box along the banks of Kallang River.

Police later found the upper torso of the body in another box on the opposite bank. — Lee U-Wen
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Bro.simnon. U don’t want to end up like the “50-year-old Chinese Singaporean” uncle right? Cut it off now!! Look at what happen to the uncle… Apparently he has “踩 進 中 国 龙 女 的 溫 柔 陷 阱. “ “很 難 拔 出 來 ..........” “什 麼 東 西 都 敢 做…。”包 括 把 她 分 尸。。。。What has that 22-year-old PRC done to deserve that? U know I know lah…Cheat on the “50-year-old Uncle”….”Fuck around with other men loh…” he got angry…lost control…Don’t have proper anger management loh…PRC woman only mah…why take it so serious?? Fuck and Forget lah! Pity that he cann’t control himself…I guess the uncle must have sinked too deeply into it…..at his age the CPF saving is enough for his living…Money is not an issue….it is the PRC girl lah….Told U people already (Remember by hard):
唉，
中 国 女 人 长 的 再 年 轻，再 漂 亮、再 性 感， 床 上 功 夫 再 好.......只 代 表 龙 女 專 業 程 度 很 夠 ，很 敬 業 罷 了！中 国 女 人 不 是 你 專 用 的〝愛 人〞，是 兄 弟 们 共 用 的〝妓 女〞,”婊 子” 而 已。何 必 太 认 真 ？“干” 过 后 把 她 给 忘 了 ！ 千 万 不 要 踩 進 去。。。玩 玩 就 好 ！
Somehow I don’t understand, SM Lee kena coned by the Chinese in SUZHOU already…why still open up for these PRC to enter? This is a very very heavy social cost to pay leh…seeing silly Singaporean man collapsed one after another……sad....

[simnon]

Kind of miss her oredi, but will definitely not called her up.
The videos is more for memories.

Originally Posted by Horsepower

The videos will definitely make you think of her and call her.

[simnon]

[QUOTE=Richard L]================================================== ===
Bro.simnon. U don’t want to end up like the “50-year-old Chinese Singaporean” uncle right? Cut it off now!! Look at what happen to the uncle… Apparently he has [SIZE=5QUOTE]

Hi ! Bro Richard

Thanks for the advice.
Too bad, I do not have the CPF monies toblow as I am at least 20 years from the CPF withdrawal age.
Cutting off needs time and hopefully time will wash away the link plus self control on myself.

I hope you have not be smitten by this PRC fever.
Not only sillyporeans, but old malaysian men were conned too in the small towns like sitiawan, one of my best friend uncle in his 50s was conned of his life savings and lost his family in the process.

Cheers

[sri lanang]

Richard, well say! Take up must be able to put down.if not you will not have any hand to take other important things.

Simnon, you must face it and not to avoid her. That will make you to miss her more. What is working is actually from your brain. If you try to forget her, you think of her more. It is only to accept it and take it as a fact then you can get through. Why I know, b'cos I was so once. I had a HC girl b4 many years back. She even say that she can support me when I told her that I no money. After think it through, I decide not to b'cos I know I cannot share my girl with others. What if she got baby, whose baby does it belong then???
When you no more the guy she like then what are you then. So fuck it, if you need her, go see her and fuck her, after that remember to pay her the money, that is to show her that she do not belong to you any more. If you continue to get free, then you will feel that you owe her. therefore please clear your debt.


P.S.: In this world there is no free sex, if there is, I am still finding!

[simnon]

Hi ! Bro

Thanks for the advice.
Well, I have been paying for every fuck that I had with her, although she always said pay next time lah even when I visited her three times in china.
No free meal taken so far and when I had some small bonuses, paid her a bit more too.
Which is why she always tell me that I am a smart man, do not know the game ???

Originally Posted by sri lanang

So fuck it, if you need her, go see her and fuck her, after that remember to pay her the money, that is to show her that she do not belong to you any more. If you continue to get free, then you will feel that you owe her. therefore please clear your debt.


P.S.: In this world there is no free sex, if there is, I am still finding!

[Hasa Sas]

Originally Posted by sri lanang

P.S.: In this world there is no free sex, if there is, I am still finding!

Yes ,you are absolutely correct. If one expect to get free sex from a WL,he will end up paying more at the end of the day because you would have difficulties to reject her request in term of financial or emotional when the days come...pay for what is due.
serious consequences can be undesirable

[Richard L]

Originally Posted by simnon

I have been paying for every fuck that I had with her, although she always said pay next time lah even when I visited her three times in china.

hmm..., that remind me the bitch that I had parted with. I paid her every single fuck that I had with her....In fact she got more than what is required.....some $20k and many more...Hope that she appreciate it. I know it is difficult to part with someone that U care once....that U once feel sorry for. But let's get real, my life have to go on...She know it is impossible for me to marry a fl. She know she is not right for me eventhough I may be good on bed with her. Anyway, I do not own her anything now....I don't even feel guilty when I parted with her....Hope all the best to her as fl....and take care!

I even told my wife about us and she was shocked at first. I apologised to her for overlooked small little details of life in our relationship, not because I didn't love her any more. I said I had commited a mistake that every man on earth would commit. That night she held me tight...for fear that she would lose me again. sign !...I held her in my arms. I promised to her that "till dead it does us apart"....she looked at me, with real tear in her eye. I observed the hurt in her eye. I could never forget that look in her face. Till now..... I woke up...as happy man as before sending children to school....and I think She has forgiven me For the woman who has married and trusted me for the past 15 years of marriage...though "thick and thin" ...I only have this to say: I will change from now on...trust me. I know what is right for me

[CharlieBrown]

Originally Posted by Richard L

For the woman who has married and trusted me for the past 15 years of marriage...though "thick and thin" ...I only have this to say: I will change from now on...trust me. I know what is right for me

Wow bro............ good for you then!

Just remember it's fate that brought the 2 of you together, the rest is up to the both of you liao.

As for your encounter, it's fate that both of you met, but splitted due to the choices (& incidents) made.

Cheers!

[simnon]

Hi ! Bro Richard

It takes time and effort to change.

As for me, still a bachelor and looking for the balance of my life.
This is the first time I fell so deep into this relationship and lost almost myself.

Originally Posted by Richard L

...I only have this to say: I will change from now on...trust me. I know what is right for me

[thaivisitor]

Originally Posted by simnon

Kind of miss her oredi, but will definitely not called her up.
The videos is more for memories.

Bro, follow your heart, not the advises here.

Basically, we bros advise based on what we perceived the relationship to be , or what generally happens in most such relationship.

But, only you know best. Whether your relationship with her is actually superficial or deeper than that, so what if it's going to cost you some money to find out?

I remembered a friend who has this relationship with a Thai WL. All actions, hints, etc points that the guy should forget about the girl and carry on with his life when the girl goes back. She has MANY tiraks and has been digging a lot of money from him.

Well, after having his heart yearns for the girl for quite sometime, the guy finally call the girl, take a trip up, and continued with the relationship. He doesn't mind if he's being cheated by the girl as it's only money and that, you can always earn back. Today, the guy is happily married with the girl with a kid too.

Of course, I also have friends who took the same step and eventually got ripped off. At least they know they were ripped off.

In your case, how sure are you that you will be ripped off? Also girls will ripped off even BFs, but they will know how to look after and protect the family finances when they are married.

My 2 cents worth
thaivisitor

[Richard L]

Originally Posted by simnon

It takes time and effort to change.

唉，
吸 毒 的 人， 往 往 都 不 会 對 外 承 認 自 己 吸 毒。很 容 易 就 滿 口 謊 言，口 口 声 声 给 自 己 一 大 堆 的 借 口。。。什 么 慢 慢 来。。我 会 慢 慢 的 把 “毒 瘾” 给 戒 了。。。给 我 一 点 时 间。。。我 脑 子 可 以 控 制 的 ！。。。放 心 好 了。。。於 是 过 了 不 久，“毒 瘾” 又 来 了。。。又 发 作 了。。。。身 体 緩 緩 下 沈。 心、靈 都 很 爽，呈 現 極 樂 狀 態。。。 然 后 就 無 法 控 制， “很 難 拔 出 來 ..........什 麼 東 西 都 敢 做…“
講 難 聽 些 的 話，我 还 没 见 过 那 个 吸 毒 的 人 可 以 慢 慢 的 把 “毒 瘾” 给 戒 了。。。。“吸 毒“ 是 可 以 控 制 的 吗 ？“毒 瘾” 是 可 以 慢 慢 戒 的 吗 ？

[yanki]

I even told my wife about us and she was shocked at first. I apologised to her for overlooked small little details of life in our relationship, not because I didn't love her any more. I said I had commited a mistake that every man on earth would commit. That night she held me tight...for fear that she would lose me again. sign !...I held her in my arms. I promised to her that "till dead it does us apart"....she looked at me, with real tear in her eye. I observed the hurt in her eye. I could never forget that look in her face. Till now..... I woke up...as happy man as before sending children to school....and I think She has forgiven me For the woman who has married and trusted me for the past 15 years of marriage...though "thick and thin" ...I only have this to say: I will change from now on...trust me. I know what is right for me [/QUOTE]


an important lesson for us here. great that u still have your wife and children.

cheers

[Ah Dez]

Originally Posted by Horsepower

Hi All, I am new here. This is my first new thread so if I for some reasons flout the regulations here "qing duo duo bao han, duo duo zhi jiao".

I would like to start a discussion thread on this topic : Any brudders have (or had) WL as girlfriend ? Do you feel awkward if she .... ?

1. Work in the ktv you frequent.
2. Sit with your friends.
3. Saw her sit with a customer on his lap, hug by customer, massaging a customer ? In some cases, HJ for customer, go 81 earn extra etc ...
4. Customers call her when she's with you ?
5. SBF got forum mention her ?

I used to have a gf but have gone back. She's quite loyal and always contactable and so far never agree to go out makan with any customer (well, cannot be 100% sure and mark all the time. Even Peter Cech also concede goals ) I struggle with the above feelings. I am only a salary man so I can never sponsor more than her potential income. So gotta let her work. Afterall, they are here to make money right ?

seriously, would a proper GF, that u plan to marry...... you still ask her to be in this line?