Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[xyman]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

i give my girlfriend
year 1-2 $150 monthly....
year 2-3 $200 monthly....
year 3-5 $300 monthly....

plus occasional request for more....

If you write here one year ago, it will be good for me..

Now I give one Ban gai usd 150 a month. I ask her why she dun work in Vietnam as with my allowances, she have more money, she say work in Vietnam little money. They rather do nothing at home and wait for money to come.

One vn girl tell me in Vietnam, if a guy has no money to take care of the family, people will say is the fault of the wife... She say is their culture..

For guys that think that marrying a vn girl is good due to this, you are wrong, you are the rich foreigner.. Is in their cultures also.. Haha

[batty]

Vietnam's per capita income is about US$1010 per year. Or US$84 per month.

[hayhay]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Too much ??? How much is too much ... Who can tell u is too much? It's ur WIFE n I believe no one can specifically tell you how much.

Unless you are talking that she is JUST ur ban gai ,,, yes ... Maybe you can ask for a reference guide .... I believe if u follow or read the thread, you will get what I mean

There are many discussion On how much we give to our Vn 'gf' so that we fo not appear that we are rich to them ...

As for WIFE, basically they are not much discussion as it is your wife n you are committed to take care of them ... GF is a different case altogether

Like bro hurricane said ... Why not tell us how much u give ? Is she ur wife or is she ur gf ?

fuck you lar, im just asking, if you dont tel me is ok, why talk so much fucker.
becosz i dont know how much is enough to her, i give her $800/- plus to her parent in vietnam thats why i ask. fuck you again if you want to zap me go ahead, but i'm still around here fucker

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by hayhay

fuck you lar, im just asking, if you dont tel me is ok, why talk so much fucker.
becosz i dont know how much is enough to her, i give her $800/- plus to her parent in vietnam thats why i ask. fuck you again if you want to zap me go ahead, but i'm still around here fucker

1st ... I already answer you ....

This is just my another comment ... This show that you never read the post properly ...

Anyway it's a Good comment ..... I won't zap u ... Zap you for f**k ... I UPZ you ... UPZ you for f**king me. Long time never F**k already ... Shiok but abit pain lah ....

Cannot understand the comment n you want to f**k people off. Come in here for wat? Come in here to being spoon-feeded ????

Want to F**k me again?

U around here or not , u think I care or other people care?

[Ange|Boy]

Originally Posted by hayhay

fuck you lar, im just asking, if you dont tel me is ok, why talk so much fucker.
becosz i dont know how much is enough to her, i give her $800/- plus to her parent in vietnam thats why i ask. fuck you again if you want to zap me go ahead, but i'm still around here fucker

Are you asking us whether 800 is too much to give or are you telling us that you can afford to give 800.

Either way, your attitude is too bad, this is a forum, u ask and people answer, thats it, why go around "F"ing around....

[xyman]

Originally Posted by hayhay

fuck you lar, im just asking, if you dont tel me is ok, why talk so much fucker.
becosz i dont know how much is enough to her, i give her $800/- plus to her parent in vietnam thats why i ask. fuck you again if you want to zap me go ahead, but i'm still around here fucker

Read my comment to Kangtou, if he provide me the range earlier for me one year, it will be good.

I used to give my ex $1k.. Haha, it is way too much. Now the most I give me new ban gai is usd200.

They practically do nothing at home. They survive so long without our allowances, what make you think they will die if we give them lesser.

Also, do not be rude to others la. Shysaint is one if the helpful and friendlier people in the forum.

[wishy51]

bro.. its practically impossible to do so without agent unless she's a highflyer here w/PR status..

[SING_IN_HCMC]

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that's for his legal married wife and a new born baby...[/QUOTE]

Ok, noted in this context, then it is fair...wife and child, not ban gai.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by xyman

Read my comment to Kangtou, if he provide me the range earlier for me one year, it will be good.

I used to give my ex $1k.. Haha, it is way too much. Now the most I give me new ban gai is usd200.

They practically do nothing at home. They survive so long without our allowances, what make you think they will die if we give them lesser.

Also, do not be rude to others la. Shysaint is one if the helpful and friendlier people in the forum.

my girlfriend has different thinking from most viet gals. she don't laze around at home. she also don't like her sisters and abled family members to laze around. she will scold them if they laze for too long, help them find work. scold them again if work half way give up. my girlfriend practically cannot rest and laze around. even off day also find things to do.

i have only give allowance to this one and only real girlfriend and soon to be wife.

as what shysaint said.... a wife.... i can give her everything.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by SING_IN_HCMC

Ok, noted in this context, then it is fair...wife and child, not ban gai.

Hahaha the amount I guess I just right ... I guess lah .... If got more I give more, slowly keep in the bank of Vietnam ...

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

i give my girlfriend
year 1-2 $150 monthly....
year 2-3 $200 monthly....
year 3-5 $300 monthly....

plus occasional request for more....

Bro kt ... Now is 5 years n more roi ... So is $450 n above plus +++

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by chen_zhen

This thread is created by singviet

Thank You and with contributions from fellow samsters, this thread has grown.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by hayhay

fuck you lar, im just asking, if you dont tel me is ok, why talk so much fucker.
becosz i dont know how much is enough to her, i give her $800/- plus to her parent in vietnam thats why i ask. fuck you again if you want to zap me go ahead, but i'm still around here fucker

Troi oi Bro, don't f**k here and f**k there la. I can understand your feeling. Sometimes when we ask a question, we expect to get a direct answer, but when such respond doesn't come, we get agitated. But sometimes, fellow samsters need more information so that they can give you a better answer.

I feel that $800 is too much to give to a ban gai. Of course it depends on how much you earn per month and what committments you have. You got to let your ban gai know that she and her family members should work and your monthly contribution is just something extra to supplement her income. $800 is around 13 million VND, if she and her parents stay in province, they do not need so much money. Have one thing in mind, if she's meant to be yours, she will be yours. If you attract her by money, she will only stay with you when she feels you have the money, when you don't have the money, she will go off. Often, they will come up with special request like Handphones, Motorbikes, parents sick etc. So keep eyes open and pocket shut, if want to give, $300 to $400 a month is more than enough.

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

my girlfriend has different thinking from most viet gals. she don't laze around at home. she also don't like her sisters and abled family members to laze around. she will scold them if they laze for too long, help them find work. scold them again if work half way give up. my girlfriend practically cannot rest and laze around. even off day also find things to do.

i have only give allowance to this one and only real girlfriend and soon to be wife.

as what shysaint said.... a wife.... i can give her everything.

for this,i beg to differ cos i think i will not give my viet wife or sg wife everything cos i believe man must always have at least your own money at your side without letting her know

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by xyman

If you write here one year ago, it will be good for me..

Now I give one Ban gai usd 150 a month. I ask her why she dun work in Vietnam as with my allowances, she have more money, she say work in Vietnam little money. They rather do nothing at home and wait for money to come.One vn girl tell me in Vietnam, if a guy has no money to take care of the family, people will say is the fault of the wife... She say is their culture..

For guys that think that marrying a vn girl is good due to this, you are wrong, you are the rich foreigner.. Is in their cultures also.. Haha

for this i agree,is most of their mindset already.they prefer not to have around 150 usd per month salary for normal resturant waitress than to laze around.no money spend already then borrow here,borrow there.

i ask my wife why she no ask her sister to work as waitress,she say money little bit and tired.i told her is better than having zero income every month.but seriously is very little,i must admit thats why the traffic police there or civil servant earn a lot cos of corrupted mind