Guys with Wife or Good GF still look for pros or flings. Why

[jng1103]

The way I see it: I'm driving a Cherry QQ but dream of BMW (cant afford). I cant give up the car (to carry me from pointA to pointB), but doesnt stop me from "renting" the BMW.

I see woman as an object (FB, ONS, FLs) to fulfill my lust n desire. It's purely a biz transaction, no feelings involved. When I feel like splashing $$$ on drinks n women, I expect ROI.

It's as simple as that... isnt it?

[bigmannow]

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[Freman]

Originally Posted by leonard87

i am not a married man..but to me a married guy shouldnt betray his own wife..shouldnt betray the sacerd laws of marriage..recently i did found out my dad like been visitng prc..becoz at nite i been checking his handphone..and found already 3 evidence..if i find more i will confront him with my elder brother..and if he still denys it i will bring him to the court and sue him for adultery...

hi,

The only country that makes adultery a crime is korea and some Muslim country. So if you go court, the judge will first scold you, then send your parents to counselling....

wake up my friend !

It's not a crime in singapore.

[shinn_asuka]

Originally Posted by Black Dragon

With pros you get a certain level of performance and standard package.

With wife or GF all depends on their mood.

I absolutely agree with bro Black Dragon! With pros and FB, we're just out to get what we set out for, sexual satisfaction. Nothing more, nothing less. Where else with wife and GF, there's just so much restrictions and no-fly zones that just kills off the passion. Sex has just become mundane.

Don't get me wrong. I love my wife like most bros love theirs. But, if she can't give me the satisfaction i crave for, then i'll have to get it outside. I don't want to live my life 'unfulfilled'.

[84gunner]

Originally Posted by easybaby

So if the obligations of a good wife is to give you sex, bear you kids and take care of them, keep your house clean, in addition working outside to help with the family's income, and she fulfills them, means she should be entitled the rights to eat outside (if she wants to) too?

hee hee, bro Aces, this should teach u not to plunge head-on with SGP gals / women's debate or reasoning, by answering or engaging their question / argument point-by-point, or by quoting your contributions, what u have done, etc etc.

They will then argue back, if the gal / woman were to satisfy the same set of criteria / contribution, then they should oso have the same rights! U can oso bet they will work really hard in order to achieve / meet those criteria. This has oredi been encountered by quite soe guys, even in their simple chat / conversation with SGP gals. In SGP, the current legislation, women have more Rights than men.

Again, this goes back to the talk about equality. And I mentioned b4, men & women are not "constructed" to be equal!

[Evianalps]

For me visiting Fl is like a kind of releasing my occasionally needs.I woulnt want to get sian of my gf in the future.So its like i'm treating my gf like having delicacies and try to savour your lust for this dish and with fls as dailys.

[aces68]

Originally Posted by 84gunner

hee hee, bro Aces, this should teach u not to plunge head-on with SGP gals / women's debate or reasoning, by answering or engaging their question / argument point-by-point, or by quoting your contributions, what u have done, etc etc!

yah, bro, you are so right . Actually my point was if a man fulfills his obligation but the woman does not, then the man should have the right to eat outside..of course it also applies vice versa..if the man does not fulfill his obligation, then woman will also eat outside (which is quite widespread in SG anyway).

[leonard87]

Originally Posted by Freman

hi,

The only country that makes adultery a crime is korea and some Muslim country. So if you go court, the judge will first scold you, then send your parents to counselling....

wake up my friend !

It's not a crime in singapore.

yes adultry is not a crime in commercial law but it is in marriage laws,sure the guy cant be send to jail or anything..but when get divorce he must give the wife alimony moneys and alot of things more..seriously think abt it u betray ur wife/gf just because she cant sastify you then your just an animal not even fit to be a human..to say the truth i know even my uncle is betraying his family..he's already near 70 got an accident before so he cant walk properly and has no income..but his wife and his children gave him money..and yet he goes to find prc did he think of how they work and gave him money seriously when i think of it i find it filthy and detestable as i say if your horny go and pcc yourself..because when we guys say what needs is all BS we just wants to shoot our load off thats all.then just go pcc

[debaucherygoh]

Originally Posted by leonard87

yes adultry is not a crime in commercial law but it is in marriage laws,sure the guy cant be send to jail or anything..but when get divorce he must give the wife alimony moneys and alot of things more..

Did you ask your mother whether she want a divorce? Anyway unless your father is rich, otherwise you still will not get much more.

Luckily school holidays is going to be over, at least we will have less students with high moral values.

[EtherC]

Beware Hunter, lest you become that which you hunt.

Originally Posted by leonard87

yes adultry is not a crime in commercial law but it is in marriage laws,sure the guy cant be send to jail or anything..but when get divorce he must give the wife alimony moneys and alot of things more..seriously think abt it u betray ur wife/gf just because she cant sastify you then your just an animal not even fit to be a human..to say the truth i know even my uncle is betraying his family..he's already near 70 got an accident before so he cant walk properly and has no income..but his wife and his children gave him money..and yet he goes to find prc did he think of how they work and gave him money seriously when i think of it i find it filthy and detestable as i say if your horny go and pcc yourself..because when we guys say what needs is all BS we just wants to shoot our load off thats all.then just go pcc

[84gunner]

Originally Posted by leonard87

yes adultry is not a crime in commercial law but it is in marriage laws,sure the guy cant be send to jail or anything..but when get divorce he must give the wife alimony moneys and alot of things more..seriously think abt it u betray ur wife/gf just because she cant sastify you then your just an animal not even fit to be a human..to say the truth i know even my uncle is betraying his family..he's already near 70 got an accident before so he cant walk properly and has no income..but his wife and his children gave him money..and yet he goes to find prc did he think of how they work and gave him money seriously when i think of it i find it filthy and detestable as i say if your horny go and pcc yourself..because when we guys say what needs is all BS we just wants to shoot our load off thats all.then just go pcc

So u wanna see yr parents divorce? U feel happy when they divorce? I believe yr parents & their generation are quite traditional type. How do u think your relatives will react? How u think yr mum gonna face yr relatives, especially those kay poh, gossip-mongers, auntie type? Yr relatives may oso scorn yr parents for having such a "filial" child like u! Dunno feed u wif wat to grow up to things like that!

Oh, u so holy, so righteous. ang moh sai! pui!!!

[oralgal]

Originally Posted by aces68

sis oralgal, so got chance to tau chiak with you or not ?

got got if u come to Penang....lol.....i love married guys coz....no commitment...
samore married guys know how to pleased gals well...wakakakakaaka

[Fauxpas]

Hi bros ... my 2 cents worth ... I visit WLs for the excitement of fucking a stranger, with no strings attached. My wife only enjoys sex once in a while. Also I think most wives don't suck cock like a pro, or AR even their husbands. I have had some of my best fucks with WLs, my "best" was a 24 y/o NL, 27 China gurl and a late-30s massage lady who fucked like there's no tomorrow (she's retiring soon after making heaps!!).

[woohooo]

Originally Posted by Gentle Beast

,,all you need is one 'cave in', and thereafter there will be further 'cave ins'. My take is, it is more stressful thinking about wanting to cave in and not crossing the line. We, men are getting older and woman are younger and prettier (..and some are available!)

yeah... tell me about it. i am quite sure that once i have tasted forbidden fruit the first time, there will be less inhibitions to further .... excursions.

and you are right, the older we get, the more attracted we are to SYTs.

[woohooo]

Originally Posted by WOOHOO

wah bro your nick so simmilar to me wahahahahahahahhaha!!
Well i think you should just cave in once in a while or else you will REALLY cave in. Dun let personal stress ruin yourself. Let go once in a while and it does not only yourself good but your family too. It's a balance la

ya... i tried to register same nick as you, but obviously failed... so i just added another 'o' behind :P.

well... dun really dare to let go in spore. risk is too high i think. but if i get posted for some extended overseas assignment, then... very high chance of straying. especially when sex with wife is practically non-existent & SYTs come up to you willingly when you are abroad, etc. how to tahan forever?