Feeling hopeless over physical appearance

[real_king]

Originally Posted by Wintermelontea

Please share your story. I will be waiting to read it.

Someday mayb I will.

[Wintermelontea]

Originally Posted by real_king

Someday mayb I will.

carpe diem!

[real_king]

Originally Posted by Wintermelontea

carpe diem!

Fwah ur england si buay chim. heng i got goggle as my good friend.

[Wintermelontea]

Originally Posted by real_king

Fwah ur england si buay chim. heng i got goggle as my good friend.

hahahaha...thanks to mr. google then

[ladylove]

ts, shame on your colleagues that passed nasty comments to you about your looks. a persons’ looks can change anytime, it’s very shallow to go after someone because of their looks.. and it’s sad that society and media wired many to judge people base on their appearances. no doubt having good looks makes the initial attraction easier, but getting a girl takes way more than that.

dude you need to work your confidence, and love yourself before others can love you. good looking guys get self confidence from their appearances (of course there are exceptions), but strip that guy off his awesome body he’s gonna be reduced to an insecure rubble with no sense of true self worth. on the other hand, men with attractive personalities, confident and the ability to make women feel secure are sexy. i get turned on so much more with a man that can make me laugh than one with 6 packs and a head full of hair. as you know, women are slaves to their emotions, if you can connect with her emotionally.. it will be the best.

one can help you except yourself.. it's gonna take time getting that confidence back but you need to know that looks is not everything

[real_king]

Originally Posted by Wintermelontea

hahahaha...thanks to mr. google then

Now still finding inner peace. When the fiasco is over, then perhaps I'll post my life story here as a deterence to other bros.

[StoolPigeon]

Originally Posted by subidowa

Money gives u confident too so try to get more of it. Seriously, when u are financially independent u can enjoy life and do much more. U have more time to date and try different stuffs. Life is not about girls too. On the materialistic term, which sg girl will wanna married a tall yandao but useless guy to suffer for life. U have to improve and get to a point u choose pple instead of them choosing u.

I have been thru ur kind of suffering before so I know. I have so much advices for u but dunno how to type here la. Today I might drop by FCLUB after my date. U can link up with me there. I show u how we play and party there. hahahah. PM me if u are keen.

Yes bro. You seemed like a very confident and driven person. I would badly need some advice and encouragement from you.
It is easier said than done. Sometimes, i tell myself to simply not think too much. But at other times, i feel just very depressive and bleak about my future.

[StoolPigeon]

I just watched X-men: Days of Future Past in the theatre. I noticed that the main villain in the movie Bolivar Trask is played by an actor who apparently has a form dwarfism in real person. Out of curiosity, i did a google search and realised he is actually a critically acclaimed actor Peter Dinklage (never knew about him before X-men).
It was truly inspirational to know that an actor with such a severe physical obstacle can rise to such achievements, particularly in an industry where looks and physical attractiveness are overwhelmingly important.

And when asked about how he felt about his height in an interview, Peter Dinklage said " "I don't know what I would say. Everyone's different. Every person my size has a different life, a different history. Different ways of dealing with it. Just because I'm seemingly okay with it, I can't preach how to be okay with it. I don't think I still am okay with it. There are days when I’m not."

[real_king]

One can nvr be satisfy. Be it man or woman. Be grateful with what you have.

[thaidiscoking]

In my humble point of views,

We must know how to take care things that we able to take care.

Eg: face, try to use good facial product, and do apply face mask every now and then.
Hair, try to use good shampoo, and wax to make hair look good all day long.
Should have a hair problem, try to see doctor if possible, or best shave all the hair, and buy lots of stylist caps out there. Do change your cap every now and then.
: clothes, try to spend a lot of money on how to dress good. Buy good brand, so that clothes able to make a different of you.

: if obese try to have strict diet, and jogging or swimming regularly in order to lose those unwanted fats at the tummy area.


Lastly don't think of having any gf yet, love yourself first before expect others to loves you. Remember you still have your siblings, parents, they're best companions in the world.

Make more money and have confidences, sometimes when you have lots of money the confidences automatically will come.


My two worth of baht.

[StoolPigeon]

Originally Posted by $$$$$$$$$$$$$

In my humble point of views,

We must know how to take care things that we able to take care.

Eg: face, try to use good facial product, and do apply face mask every now and then.

Make more money and have confidences, sometimes when you have lots of money the confidences automatically will come.

My two worth of baht.

A heartfelt thanks to all the bros here for your advices and words of encouragement.