If your wife is pregnant, will you bonk her?

[absoluticeberg]

My wife is pregnant and yes we do bionk quite regularly. The only time we'll stop is probably at the end because bionking does induce labour. Don't want my kid to also come out with a bruised forehead haha

[overair]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

Wonder if you will agree. Type B, fearful of not able to lose the weight gained during pregnancy, eats lesser as a result during pregnancy which in turn leads to a small mal-nourished baby being born. Their logic, once the baby is born, the baby can drink more milk to gain the weight needed for healthy growth.

Rigorous skincare refers to anti-stretch mark cream?

bro, i stand to be corrected, however, i disagree. our children are few of the healthiest ones at birth according to pd, even when their mummy were well groomed throughout pregnancy and well fed.

tips for mummies: remain active during pregnancy and eat balanced diets. weight gains during pregnancy is the same as how people gain weight overeating and inactive! pregnant ladies have a higher chance to gain weight because of the 'excuse' or misconception of eat more and eat well for baby.

[TyLa_BaBy]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

Wonder if you will agree. Type B, fearful of not able to lose the weight gained during pregnancy, eats lesser as a result during pregnancy which in turn leads to a small mal-nourished baby being born. Their logic, once the baby is born, the baby can drink more milk to gain the weight needed for healthy growth.

Rigorous skincare refers to anti-stretch mark cream?

I would disagree. A lot of women eat a lot (or don't eat) because of changes in appetite and general well-being. If always nauseated how to eat? I was suffering morning sickness (and actually vomited often) for most part of my pregnancy with #2, ate little, still gained 16kg by the time I went into labour, baby came out 3.72kg with no jaundice whatsoever. So it's no guarantee eat less = gain less weight = malnourished baby, neither is it true that eat more = gain more weight = "nourished" baby. There are women who gain more than 20kg eating a lot, baby come out 3kg with jaundice and must be kept in hosp even when mom has been discharged... Baby's size and health is often largely determined by genetics.

Also purepulp said "glowing complexion" so I assumed for rigorous skincare for face only. Not stretchmarks cream lah.

Originally Posted by overair

thanks for thinking upz me ... the thought itself counts!

I used up my upz today lah. Cannot up liao, so you on list for tmr!

Originally Posted by overair

i rather think being well groomed even during pregnancy is a matter of personal choice of how to live a life. i had shown my wife how to without costing us an arm and a leg or substantial inconvenience on her end and she did it twice. it is all about determination and mind. she is just a normal ordinary woman. she can do it so can every lady out here and there. again, it is your choice, either way.

Funny how you're the one showing your wife how to be well-groomed without costing an arm & leg... RESPECT! While I have to agree it can be done, I also have to be honest that it costs at least an arm for me to be well-groomed during pregnancy... Comfortable maternity jeans that fit well don't come cheap! My first pregnancy I lived in stretchy clothes and dresses that were non-maternity, and I've been somewhat spoilt since my 2nd pregnancy.

Originally Posted by overair

tips for mummies: remain active during pregnancy and eat balanced diets. weight gains during pregnancy is the same as how people gain weight overeating and inactive! pregnant ladies have a higher chance to gain weight because of the 'excuse' or misconception of eat more and eat well for baby.

You forgot to mention how pregnant ladies often give in to their many unhealthy cravings... LOL. Though honestly there are women are forced to be inactive due to unstable pregnancies, or simply by the fear that if they were "too active", their babies' viability would be compromised. All the would-be grandparents like to scare pregnant women about "don't do too much later miscarriage"...

[giggsgiggs]

Originally Posted by fun11142

Actually it true that there are many man out there dun dare to make love with their wife when their wife is pregnant.

few year ago...one of my client who is pregnant for 3 or 4 mth at that time... we alway joke and talk about very thing. she was stress and sad that her hubby din want to have sex with her when she pregnant .Said her hubby too worry that will hurt the baby.
After she find out that i have sex with my pregnant wife.
she asked me enjoy good sex with her...b'cos she really need it.
Well.......i did with her...nearly every once a week.

wah lau, U the Man, nice job.

[daymiddle]

can still have sex.. but not after first 2-3 months... some where there...

dont really remember now

[Lumiere7]

From my experience... If the wife needs some loving, it's better to give... Even if it's during her period, can help her reach orgasm without going to the pussy, the nipples can work too..

Women have their needs too, don't starve them and they'll stick by you..

[Stageboy]

Remind me of a joke few years ago..
my best fren wife is pregnant then they have sex aft the child was born till now always hit the father head. u kn Y? (LOL)

Anyway it really depends on individual some guy worry n some woman worry too. 1st few mth n last few mth confirm cannot. (the doc say so) Do it when 3th mth to 6th mth period is save ba..

HAVE A NICE WEEKEND TO ALL!!!!!!!!

[purepulp]

Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

Future interpretation of your 2 types:

Type A - Typical married lady who is thrifty and/or feels that looks are just exterior beauty, that's why won't spend on attractive maternity clothes. Likely having children because it is part of her wifely duty, or simply because "it's time".

Type B - Enjoys shopping and being well-groomed, deems it as part of keeping oneself in check during pregnancy, as well as a way to remain attractive. Glowing complexion is the result of rigorous skincare and makeup regime. Likely having children because she enjoyed sex a bit too much, or because she desires having children.

And actually if you guys take a closer look, well-groomed women usually remain well-groomed even during pregnancy. It is those married women who typically don't care much about self-grooming who go into being "Type A". At least that's true for 99% of the pregnant women I know.

Exactly right.

Apparently a woman is at her most beautiful when she is pregnant. In reality, this is hardly the case most times (from an unbias perspective) and since a part of intimacy is about how one feels about oneself, if she thinks she's fat and ugly why would she even agree to a romp in the sack? Unless again it is to fulfill 'wifey duties'...

So a man may think that his wife is the most beautiful being on earth who is coincidently giving him a raging hard-on but if she thinks she's Shrek's cousin, that hot sweaty session is not gonna happen... It does take two to tango... apart from other things...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by purepulp

Apparently a woman is at her most beautiful when she is pregnant. In reality, this is hardly the case most times (from an unbias perspective) and since a part of intimacy is about how one feels about oneself, if she thinks she's fat and ugly why would she even agree to a romp in the sack? Unless again it is to fulfill 'wifey duties'...

So a man may think that his wife is the most beautiful being on earth who is coincidently giving him a raging hard-on but if she thinks she's Shrek's cousin, that hot sweaty session is not gonna happen... It does take two to tango... apart from other things...

good comment...giving birth is a miracle...I greatly respect those women who willingly do so...so nothing wrong with it...

[bluefin_tuna]

The answer is YES YES YES!! Can cum without any preventive control, SHIOK!

[overair]

Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

I would disagree. A lot of women eat a lot (or don't eat) because of changes in appetite and general well-being. If always nauseated how to eat? I was suffering morning sickness (and actually vomited often) for most part of my pregnancy with #2, ate little, still gained 16kg by the time I went into labour, baby came out 3.72kg with no jaundice whatsoever. So it's no guarantee eat less = gain less weight = malnourished baby, neither is it true that eat more = gain more weight = "nourished" baby. There are women who gain more than 20kg eating a lot, baby come out 3kg with jaundice and must be kept in hosp even when mom has been discharged... Baby's size and health is often largely determined by genetics.

Also purepulp said "glowing complexion" so I assumed for rigorous skincare for face only. Not stretchmarks cream lah.




I used up my upz today lah. Cannot up liao, so you on list for tmr!



Funny how you're the one showing your wife how to be well-groomed without costing an arm & leg... RESPECT! While I have to agree it can be done, I also have to be honest that it costs at least an arm for me to be well-groomed during pregnancy... Comfortable maternity jeans that fit well don't come cheap! My first pregnancy I lived in stretchy clothes and dresses that were non-maternity, and I've been somewhat spoilt since my 2nd pregnancy.



You forgot to mention how pregnant ladies often give in to their many unhealthy cravings... LOL. Though honestly there are women are forced to be inactive due to unstable pregnancies, or simply by the fear that if they were "too active", their babies' viability would be compromised. All the would-be grandparents like to scare pregnant women about "don't do too much later miscarriage"...

holy shit!!! sis, u r so powerful, man! as said, i appreciate your thought and now your deed blown me away! joined so long and never seen my point raise till this day! thanks sis!

nah, sis, me no great husband... just an idiot who think it is possible ... and lucky to have a wife who is willing to follow this idiot.

yes, like i always tell every lady including wife ... being a lady is no easy enough, don't make it difficult for another lady, including yourself, a lady! misconception has to be rid off!! and true support to the lady lah!!!

thanks again sis!

[overair]

ok ok ... i am not sure about this but a xiao mei mei mummy ... very knowledgeable lady who is younger than me with 2 kids, she just told me ... no no sex during pregnancy as it will ruin the kids' hair!!!! ... i scratch my head and ask her sure or not??? she said trust her! .... true or not ... bro/sis here be my guest!

[overair]

Originally Posted by bluefin_tuna

The answer is YES YES YES!! Can cum without any preventive control, SHIOK!

tuna ... fishy ... u and me wife think the same ... i like!

[comics00]

Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

A bit of a stupid question, but a lot of my female friends are somewhat prudish and don't talk about sex at all. I know there are both women and men here, so I ask here lah.

One of my female friend who is pregnant said that they don't have sex when she's pregnant because her husband find that "the pregnant form is very unappealing". I'm very shocked.

Guys, will you continue to have sex with your wife when she is pregnant? (Provided doctor never say cannot lah.)

Ladies, did your men refuse to have sex with you when you were pregnant??

Personally I find guys with pregnancy fetish a bit weird and gross (how you make yourself fuck a woman who is pregnant with someone else's baby huh??) but between husband and wife should be normal what! Bigger tits, swollen pussy... what's so "unappealing" huh?

Ok, stupid question end.

We had our best sexual experience when she was carrying our babies

[TyLa_BaBy]

Originally Posted by overair

ok ok ... i am not sure about this but a xiao mei mei mummy ... very knowledgeable lady who is younger than me with 2 kids, she just told me ... no no sex during pregnancy as it will ruin the kids' hair!!!! ... i scratch my head and ask her sure or not??? she said trust her! .... true or not ... bro/sis here be my guest!

Confirm not true. My 2 boys have got great hair from birth.