Why do men stray

[needforboobs]

men stray becuz the wifes girlfriends give them too much problems. men stray to escape the daily problems and shitzzz. men stray becuz there are so many slutty horny girls around who would readily suck us off muahahhahaa

[orneryjoe]

Originally Posted by Alf1977

... Anyway, if you are a girl n reading this, yes your men stray because he don't love you already. Maybe you are a dead fish in bed, maybe you are fat n ugly!!! If he can stray, you think he can make a good husband in future?

Not true. The best science evidence tells us that humans (men as well as women) are a non-monogamous species. We resemble our closest relatives -- the chimpanzees and the bonobos. Both species of great apes are also non-monogamous, like us.

We have been non-monogamous for hundreds of thousands of years and maybe even more.

We took the road to monogamy fairly recently -- no more than ten thousand years ago --- with the discovery of agriculture (and hence, settled existence) and the rise of social forces such as religion.

But we have never got used to monogamy as a species. All the evidence we observe tell us of this ever-present tension between our nature and our culture -- affairs, high divorce rates, booming commercial sex industry and widespread addiction to porn.

The simple fact of the matter is that most, if not all, humans naturally crave variety in many things, including sexual partners.

Alf -- your tag line is very vicious. Don't know what happened to make you so bitter but for your own personal welfare, you should be more magnanimous.

[Alf1977]

Orneryjoe, not too sure if u r a guy or gal, if u r a gal, pls wake up, guys who stray don't love their gfs/wives, why bother to find excuses for them bringing in those apes n chimpanzees or dish out all the animals in the zoo?

If u r a guy, all I can say is you can act as an ape or chimpanzee while I continue to be a man, a human being. What I wrote on my signature is true, don't men programmed to fuxk women n women are borned to be fucked by men???

[cookiemonsta]

it is certainly hard to practice monogamy as a specie
a bold statement, nonetheless a true one at that

partners feel too much pressure not just from work, but work and perhaps even social obligations
everyone has a limit and will even erupt and go astray

perhaps all parties involved in the relationship should consider this:
1. what i like about my partner
2. what i dislike about my partner and would like changed
3. what i'm prepared to sacrifice to achieve this goal

my recommendation is to fix the problems at home first before deciding to 'dine out'

to answer the ops q'... men stray because due to certain circumstances that have become over baring have to chose the easy way out. reason being that the problems brewing may be too difficult to overcome and may inflict further burden than necessary. as men, we (may) have chose to suppress our issues (as we may have already) rather than to face it head on
remedy; it takes two for a relationship to exist, best is to communicate and lay everything on the table to discuss why one (or both) parties are not happy.
negotiate, sacrifice and compromise to keep one another satisfied

hope this helps you get over... whatever needs attention


my 2c

[multiverse]

Originally Posted by orneryjoe

Not true. The best science evidence tells us that humans (men as well as women) are a non-monogamous species. We resemble our closest relatives -- the chimpanzees and the bonobos. Both species of great apes are also non-monogamous, like us.

We have been non-monogamous for hundreds of thousands of years and maybe even more.

We took the road to monogamy fairly recently -- no more than ten thousand years ago --- with the discovery of agriculture (and hence, settled existence) and the rise of social forces such as religion.

But we have never got used to monogamy as a species. All the evidence we observe tell us of this ever-present tension between our nature and our culture -- affairs, high divorce rates, booming commercial sex industry and widespread addiction to porn.

The simple fact of the matter is that most, if not all, humans naturally crave variety in many things, including sexual partners.

Alf -- your tag line is very vicious. Don't know what happened to make you so bitter but for your own personal welfare, you should be more magnanimous.

agreed, we were not designed to be monogamous.

also, morality was invented by humans.

[phallusman]

Drinking - well, too much alcohol would damage the liver and leads to other ailments too.

Gambling - may lead to addiction due to greed or just habit. And then, already we have heard of people committing suicide and multi-millionaires gone bankrupt.

Commercial sex - well, I would say not much harm la. Just spend what you can afford. There is a whole range of genre to suit each taste la. Even FB cost money too. and of course, to keep a mistress, no money no honey la.

I guess it has got to do with money too. If you're earning big bucks, I guess you muz give yourself some rewards.

[phallusman]

Question of monogamy or otherwise.

In our society, we are restricted by religion and legislation.

Each and every man can still go out to taste the forbidden fruit. Some just wanna to try once. Some are just too scared to try. Some are bound by their religion or by their principle. Some are too scared of their wife. But most of the rest would do it.

Some might just go rabba-rabba in a ktv. Others might just have a massage and a hj becos scared of disease. But, most of the rest would go the full course.

Only Islam allows 4 wives. But, even with 4 wives, I guess after a while, you will still wanna to taste different fruits or even better, abalone, young fresh ones.

Well, going back to older times, commercial sex is nothing new. That's why it is called the world's oldest profession.

[Alf1977]

It is sad why girls are borned to be prostitutes to service guys.

[Weissb]

Men juz like to try different kind of pussy, neh neh. As the saying goes, there's no cat who dun eat fish. Further confirm if it's free, nice and good *drool*

[orneryjoe]

Originally Posted by Alf1977

Orneryjoe, not too sure if u r a guy or gal, if u r a gal, pls wake up, guys who stray don't love their gfs/wives, why bother to find excuses for them bringing in those apes n chimpanzees or dish out all the animals in the zoo?

If u r a guy, all I can say is you can act as an ape or chimpanzee while I continue to be a man, a human being. What I wrote on my signature is true, don't men programmed to fuxk women n women are borned to be fucked by men???

You are human. Factually speaking, that means you are also a great ape. There are five species of great apes: gorilla, orangutan, chimpanzee, bonobo and man. This is scientific fact. Check it up in any good encyclopedia.

The vicious part of your signature is the way you give out the number of a girl --probably someone who hurt you in the past. It just seems so unkind.

[Alf1977]

Originally Posted by orneryjoe

You are human. Factually speaking, that means you are also a great ape. There are five species of great apes: gorilla, orangutan, chimpanzee, bonobo and man. This is scientific fact. Check it up in any good encyclopedia.

The vicious part of your signature is the way you give out the number of a girl --probably someone who hurt you in the past. It just seems so unkind.

Anyway, that slut is a sex machine, love sex so much that she can have many sessions in a day.. I just give, in case bros here interested for unlimited free fuxks with a Fiona-Xie lookalike, without paying a single cent.

[stel]

is it that hard for humans to stay faithful to each other ?

[zacarie]

why do men or even women stray?
this is one qns where there is no ans.
we humans know tt it is wrong. and when it does happen, we give all kinds of reasons on y we do it.
man: wife is ugly, nasty, not loving, no sex, etc.
woman: husband is away, lonely, unfaithful, etc.
but are these considered the real reasons?
i feel there isnt really a reason for y humans stray. it's whether u want to stay loyal n true to the relationship that u have in front of you. cause after tt bonk out there the person could well disappear from ur life no matrer what kind of feelings tt u do share or have. but the person tt u have vowed to spend ur life with will be the one who will stick with u thru thick n thin.
dont even know if what i said is understandable or make sense. haha..

[seowlang]

Many reasons.. BUT on a lighter note, its akin to a person changing job. it could be..

Current job:
- lousy boss (OC)
- no bonus for performance (performance bonus)
- boss very niaw and restrictive
- no more prospect in your current position
- job doesn’t interest you anymore
- you see your boss interviewing other candidates!


Potential new job:
- very exciting prospects
- new boss promises a good ‘package’ for you
- new challenges that you like
- grass is always greener on the other side
- possible relocation!
- Sometimes, new boss can offer you expat package even


cheers
sl

[ILML]

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