A fling that turn my life upside down

[tigershark75]

TS,

Always remember, history is written by winner. If DD can't bear to break the news to the bf, you should do the job. Best if you can show him some intimate photo of you and DD.

So what if he fall back into depression? Doesn't concern you anyway and you don't lose a single cent even he commit sucide. Not to worry about the guilty part, my current gf was engage and suppose to tie the knot with her fiance in Jan next year after 2yrs of courtship, still I manage to win the battle although it real tough during the 2mth I woo her. I know in the beginning that she is getting marrige, still I stepped in. I remember clearly that when she intro her fiance to me during the initially meeting up to make me give up hope of pursuiting her, I didn't even bother to shake the guy hand even though he stretch his to me. Told him 'Don't smile to me, I might be your biggest competitor'.. That joker thought I was joking back then.

To be frank, when that bum call my girl friend saying that he wants to end if life if she doesn't return to his side, deep in my heart, I was hoping that he would really do so and I will be the last man standing because my girl sometime do mention to me that she feel she is indebt to him etc etc.

Sad to say he is still alive after the threat cause I saw him in Butter factory last Saturday..

[BlackerKnighter]

Hahahahaha. Nice thread. Was in a similar position a few years back. Except I lost. But in the end that was a good thing lah.

Anyway Bro TS it doesn't sound as if you have been burnt too badly by the whole affair so whatever that may happen you oso wouldnt come off that worse for wear.

No matter what happens never ask someone to stake something very important and fundamental and yet not be prepared to back up with similar. A close friend of mine was caught in something similar. She called his bluff. He called hers. In the end she still maintain the lifeline to the other party so what you think?

No one will exactly know your situation so the best of luck!

[fazer6s]

Love hurts Love scars - Nazareth

[JIKED D]

Welcum to the "Mistress" club

remember to have fun and not a whiny time here

[GoldenMonkey1]

Time will heal you. Take it as a lesson learnt and move on, you have done your part by stepping out of the relationship, it takes great courage to do that. I salute you for that. What cannot kill you, will only makes you stronger!

[Cheonging101]

Hurray! Wedding bells!

Bro TS, glad you finally let go.

Go Butter Factory to up chabor and find kindred souls liao!

[davepower]

Good story...Many many ups for u TS.....Dun be sad...Dun give up 1 forest becox of 1 tree....Still got many Trees around......Cheers....

[washabi]

I would like to thanks those bros who up me and taken time to read.

This will be the last installment of this story as all stories need a conclusion and this is the up to date conclusion.


Yes, we did talk occasionally on msn and met for lunch. I knew that as long as we are in the open public place, we are safe; safe from getting intimate, safe from having sex with her. I wanted to; to me that is making love more than having sex; so passionate so loving, I really missed that.

There is one thing that she always do since we started this relationship and that is she would make an effort to call me every day at least once, usually in the morning as we both travel to work separately.

During a week before her engagement, she called me saying she burnt a CD of my favourite animation and asked me to meet her for lunch and to collect from her. I agreed. After we had our lunch, she told me she left the CD in the office and asked me to go with her to collect. I wanted to wait for her downstairs, but seeing me perspiring so much from the hot afternoon, she invited me up for some aircon. I didn’t want to, but she told me its lunch time and I only stayed a while so it’s ok.

Passing through the staircase up her office brought back lots of memories; afterall, we have some many memorable time there. I rebuked myself for thinking that even though the thought did make me hard.

We stepped in the office and I was surprised to see it empty. I asked her where her colleagues were and she replied they went for the company trip leaving her behind to mend the calls. She then stepped forward in front of me and pecked on my lips which caught me by total surprise. What is she thinking and doing? I stepped back and told her I needed to go and headed off even though I wanted that peck but I knew I shouldn’t do anything further.

Very soon, she called me on my mobile and she apologized to me what happened as she cried. She asked me to go back and picked up the CD and said that she did that because she misses me and she will not do it again. I was softened by her crying and I went back. Once I reached there, she was crying and I went over to comfort her. I wanted to hug her but I restrained myself from doing it. I stood just beside her and comforted her; but as she cried she moved over and hugged me tightly. I was lost, but in the end I caved in and returned the hug. The hug was so tight that I am sure she can feel my harden dick. She then looked up to me as our eyes met. Her eyes were tearly and sweet; it melted me and I knew I wanted her very much. I grabbed her head towards me and our lips met. Our kiss slowly raised the heat as it now turned into a very fast pace. We were kissing breathlessly and the next moment she was “tearing” my shirt apart. I stopped the kiss and asked her whether are there any camera, which she answered in a fast “no”. Ok, what happened next is very direct.

After that, foolishly, my hopes of her being with me surfaced again. I asked her one last time, but she again seeks my understanding for her decision and she ended the conversation with a “I’m sorry”.

A few days later, she was engaged and after which she still called me daily.

One week after she was engaged, she called me and asked me to go up her place as she bought a present for me, it was an underwear again. I smelled something not right. It was quite obvious what she wanted. I rejected her. Three days later, she called me and asked me to meet her for lunch to pass me the 2nd part of the CD, again I rejected. Ever since then, she stopped calling me, not even msning me when both of us are online.

Am I sad? Of course I am sad. Am I happy? Yes, in a way that this thing is finally over. Does she really love me? I really don’t know. All I prefer to know is that it has been a sweet memory being with her.

All the best my DD, and wish you happy with him.

[baby85]

有缘无份 , 相识恨晚

wishing u will be happy in e road ahead , got fate u will find someone else

take care bro ~

[AD69]

Originally Posted by baby85

有缘无份 , 相识恨晚

That is exactly my feeling too.

[coolfire69]

maybe DD's fiance can't satisfy her?? lol

On a more serious note, i feel strongly that she was playing with your feelings, bro washabi... and I am glad that you resisted the urge to get into a web of mess again. You will find someone better!

Thanks for the great, albeit sad story...

[otacon]

it's really a sad story that will engrave into ur heart

[Darknite]

Ahhh very nice story and very well written too

[newscapegoat]

Originally Posted by tigershark75

TS,

Always remember, history is written by winner. If DD can't bear to break the news to the bf, you should do the job. Best if you can show him some intimate photo of you and DD.

So what if he fall back into depression? Doesn't concern you anyway and you don't lose a single cent even he commit sucide. Not to worry about the guilty part, my current gf was engage and suppose to tie the knot with her fiance in Jan next year after 2yrs of courtship, still I manage to win the battle although it real tough during the 2mth I woo her. I know in the beginning that she is getting marrige, still I stepped in. I remember clearly that when she intro her fiance to me during the initially meeting up to make me give up hope of pursuiting her, I didn't even bother to shake the guy hand even though he stretch his to me. Told him 'Don't smile to me, I might be your biggest competitor'.. That joker thought I was joking back then.

To be frank, when that bum call my girl friend saying that he wants to end if life if she doesn't return to his side, deep in my heart, I was hoping that he would really do so and I will be the last man standing because my girl sometime do mention to me that she feel she is indebt to him etc etc.

Sad to say he is still alive after the threat cause I saw him in Butter factory last Saturday..

I agree with you, bro Tigershark.

I strongly believe in Darwin's theory of natural selection.

Those weakest will die/be killed first. Similarly, in life, those who cannot master their inadequacies and commit suicide from depression, don't deserve to live anyway.

Their weakness and stupidity must not be passed on to their offspring through their genes. Which is why they are slated to kill themselves before having any offspring, as nature intended. If you keep such people alive, you will pollute the gene pool, upsetting nature's balance, and instead of the human race becoming stronger and better, you promote weakness.

I don't think it's heartless to tell a potential suicide victim to 'go ahead'. I believe it's more of helping society rid itself of those too weak to go on with life by themselves.

[newscapegoat]

Thanks for sharing, Washabi.

Very gut-wrenching to read, but I think you are very brave and strong to be able to reject DD's advances after her engagement.

I hope you find someone else who will love you as much as you will love her.