Haha yeah it's from your posts and johndick's posts that I realise I'll probably have a better time if I just try this. I'd rather cuddle than have a half assed massage. Problem is i'm not much of a talker but eh, i'll just try lah.
Sit up on the bed and pat the spot next to you. She will know what to do.
First few times doing this, you might feel a little weird.
Hahaha thanks. Tbh i still feel weird just visiting ML let alone lying face up immediately. i havent been in the hobby very long at all.
EDIT: actually wanted to ask a noob qns cos i'm planning my next appointment. My last one was enjoyable and I was there for a full hour but i would like 2 shots actually. Just wondering if i ask for a 90 minute sesh will the lady be more receptive to such a request and should I make clear my expectations over text or when i'm in the room? Cheers.
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Hahaha thanks. Tbh i still feel weird just visiting ML let alone lying face up immediately. i havent been in the hobby very long at all.
Agree with bro Franco, most of us felt weird at the start, but with several visits will come experience and a certain level of familiarity with SOPs.
Welcome to the club, long may you enjoy
Hahaha thanks. Tbh i still feel weird just visiting ML let alone lying face up immediately. i havent been in the hobby very long at all.
EDIT: actually wanted to ask a noob qns cos i'm planning my next appointment. My last one was enjoyable and I was there for a full hour but i would like 2 shots actually. Just wondering if i ask for a 90 minute sesh will the lady be more receptive to such a request and should I make clear my expectations over text or when i'm in the room? Cheers.
Don't worry too much, you will get used to it. You are feeling weird cos in polite society and in normal social situation, you are conditioned to hide away any exposed genitals from girls. But now in the presence of ML, can just freely expose the dick, lie face up, I mean who cares cos they are supposed to service our dicks right? They have seen and handled so many dicks and there is nothing to be shy about.
As for your question, I feel that should just go ahead book the 90min and also state that you want 2 shots before session start. SOP for 90min is usually 1st shot then massage, then last 15 to 20 min the 2nd shot. A good ML will be able to time it nicely if you stated clearly your intentions for 2 shots.
Don't worry too much, you will get used to it. You are feeling weird cos in polite society and in normal social situation, you are conditioned to hide away any exposed genitals from girls. But now in the presence of ML, can just freely expose the dick, lie face up, I mean who cares cos they are supposed to service our dicks right? They have seen and handled so many dicks and there is nothing to be shy about.
As for your question, I feel that should just go ahead book the 90min and also state that you want 2 shots before session start. SOP for 90min is usually 1st shot then massage, then last 15 to 20 min the 2nd shot. A good ML will be able to time it nicely if you stated clearly your intentions for 2 shots.
Thanks! How to say in chinese though. 要出两次?? HAHAHHA
Lmao yeah, i actually managed to get an appointment with her on Saturday after a personal friend with existing phone number record put in a good word for me. My first two sessions were with other ladies in August and while I had a good time then, i thought it was quite boring and didn't bother going trying other ladies until now. Finally found someone that I would like to see regularly but now find out she's leaving at the end of the month, bad timing sial.
Hoping I can get an appointment with her again the next couple of weekends
Thanks! How to say in chinese though. 要出两次?? HAHAHHA
要打两次
Do bear in mind though not all MLs want to work hard to get the second one off if it takes too long.
When I first started I would go for 2. After all, more value right?
But now older and possibly more desensitized. 2 shots in an hour more often than not is a chore.
I belong to the “give me one time good one” club now.
But I guess if one before and good massage+Build up in 90 mins, 2 shots could work for me.
Sit up on the bed and pat the spot next to you. She will know what to do.
What are the different reactions y'all got from this? Saw this and out of curiosity I'm contemplating to do this next visit onwards, but kinda wanna know what to expect as well hahaha TIA
Yes she did just move. Maybe she was hoping that her current visa/permit would be extended but it wasn't. Anyway, I didn't probe further. This is her third tour of duty. Not always so long a period of time though.
No wonder... will just have to make the best of it while stock lasts.....
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Just when I found a regular RTM ML, it comes to an abrupt end..gotta uncover "Gems" again in the present limited market.
Same sentiments exactly.
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Thats why i always say - give them a reason to give you gfe. Sure money talks. But I know also works is being polite, respectful, cleaned and well groomed. You'll be in the preferred list for sure.
That is how i present myself as well, not sure about being on their preferred list but I’m just being myself and enjoying their company and service.
As for your question, I feel that should just go ahead book the 90min and also state that you want 2 shots before session start. SOP for 90min is usually 1st shot then massage, then last 15 to 20 min the 2nd shot. A good ML will be able to time it nicely if you stated clearly your intentions for 2 shots.
This will prolly include some form of massage though. I only tried a 90 min session once. I love Vivian and all, but even so was struggling for things to chat with her over the period of time, sans massage.
This will prolly include some form of massage though. I only tried a 90 min session once. I love Vivian and all, but even so was struggling for things to chat with her over the period of time, sans massage.
I tend to go for 90min with MLs who I have already build up rapport with and most importantly can massage well. I find it too taxing and rushed to squeeze out 2 shots within 1 hr.
For the issue of struggling for things to chat, this one I think boils down to your Chinese speaking ability, how you converse with the ML and of cos the ML's attitude also.
Sometimes, I find that it is the ML who will happily initiate conversation and then you no need worry about what topics to talk about cos the conversation flows from there. Other times if that day ML a bit quiet or no topic to talk about, just let her do her massage. 90 min will flow by very quickly.
That's why I emphasise 90min/2shots should only be reserved for those MLs that massage well and you feel comfortable with.
Regarding the issue of booking >1 hour session, just don't ever do it during the first time. Rationale for that is simple.
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What are the different reactions y'all got from this? Saw this and out of curiosity I'm contemplating to do this next visit onwards, but kinda wanna know what to expect as well hahaha TIA
I do this very naturally, so not much surprise from the other party during the first session.
It's when you're awkward then the feeling might rub off on her.
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