Vietnamisation Program - Page 58

euphoria777 · #**856** 01-02-2007, 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

U think vietnamese man in the province are hardworking? ........

they will gather in a group and drink local snake wine from noon till night, get pissed then go home and beat up family.

SingViet · #**857** 01-02-2007, 01:10 PM

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Originally Posted by euphoria777

they will gather in a group and drink local snake wine from noon till night, get pissed then go home and beat up family.

Bro.. well said. Clap Clap

chanyboy · #**858** 01-02-2007, 05:14 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

this shows that you do not know the normal vietnamese family at all. If they don't need money, why the gal has to be working gal to support her family? U think vietnamese man in the province are hardworking? They will rather someone else feeds them and they just take the money to spend on other working gals

buying/building a 2nd big house, hv farm, use latest handphone, buy motorbike, study in University... I don't hv either! Ain't these extra (+vagant!)? Why need the gals to support them & their bros in their life? Self-sufficient lah..if cannot afford don't demand such things..putting pressure on the gals to find money...they hv $ from the farming..wouldn't it be so? (and I don't understd why the gals have to support it too? What mentality is tat?)..

naemlo · #**859** 01-02-2007, 06:04 PM

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Originally Posted by chanyboy

(and I don't understd why the gals have to support it too? What mentality is tat?)..

U will get use to it after more encounters... This is life of WL in Vietnam. U will be surprised, she treasures her family more than u....

Sha_Gua75 · #**860** 01-02-2007, 07:20 PM

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Originally Posted by chanyboy

buying/building a 2nd big house, hv farm, use latest handphone, buy motorbike, study in University... I don't hv either! Ain't these extra (+vagant!)? Why need the gals to support them & their bros in their life? Self-sufficient lah..if cannot afford don't demand such things..putting pressure on the gals to find money...they hv $ from the farming..wouldn't it be so? (and I don't understd why the gals have to support it too? What mentality is tat?)..

Welcome To The World Of Vietnamese

naemlo · #**861** 01-02-2007, 11:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

Welcome To The World Of Vietnamese

Anh nho sha_gua nhieu nhieu....

naemlo · #**862** 01-02-2007, 11:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

Welcome To The World Of Vietnamese

Anh nho sha_gua nhieu nhieu....

ok69 · #**863** 02-02-2007, 02:49 AM

can ani pro vietcons start a thread on "Viet lesson is on" ?
like the one in geylang scene?

chanyboy · #**864** 02-02-2007, 08:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

Welcome To The World Of Vietnamese

Bros, haiz... lets lift our cup and cheers for ourselves.... I've learnt..maybe go cheong other places as well.. maybe go join dating companies... maybe go to the real marriage agencies... maybe go up to China (not CP, SZ, etc..but Shaolin to be a monk)..

My conclusion
The gals were asked (maybe not always, anyway) & those who really did venture out to other countries are trying to prove they are prospering oversea, that they are able to find a good 'husband/boyfren/dependent' that could provide them a better living. In order to leave such an impression, ocassionally they have to 'show off' by buying/sending gift/contribute back home. I'm not sure about the other stmt whether they value the other side better than the husband - who's the person living with for the next 20-40 years - means the more important to maintain relationship - isn't it?

(the above does not apply to those who's purely here to earn $, to squeeze as much so they could go back & open a big fat $ account. u can tell those WLs apart indeed)

MoonBlaze · #**865** 02-02-2007, 10:47 AM

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Originally Posted by chanyboy

What mentality is tat?..

It is a cultural thingy, it will take a few generation of evolution for things to change....if it does change eventual.....dun think it will happen in our life time. Sad and cruel but it is the truth. Take it easy on yourself.

SingViet · #**866** 02-02-2007, 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by chanyboy

buying/building a 2nd big house, hv farm, use latest handphone, buy motorbike, study in University... I don't hv either! Ain't these extra (+vagant!)? Why need the gals to support them & their bros in their life? Self-sufficient lah..if cannot afford don't demand such things..putting pressure on the gals to find money...they hv $ from the farming..wouldn't it be so? (and I don't understd why the gals have to support it too? What mentality is tat?)..

Bro, its never too late to realise something. Good that you learnt something from this forum

Sha_Gua75 · #**867** 02-02-2007, 03:22 PM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

Anh nho sha_gua nhieu nhieu....

Con Cac...Tai Sao nho em nhieu lam? Em la Con trai...ko can nho em nhieu....di nho Heng cua anh nhieu nhieu

KangTuo · #**868** 04-02-2007, 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by chanyboy
(and I don't understd why the gals have to support it too? What mentality is tat?)..

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Originally Posted by naemlo
U will get use to it after more encounters... This is life of WL in Vietnam. U will be surprised, she treasures her family more than u....

I also don't understand why the viet gals like to shoulder all the burden of the family.

My viet g/f have 6 sibilings, she is the 3rd in the family. 2 elder sister was married and living their own life, don't seems contribute to the family after marriage. 1 younger sister about her age who work in massage parlour and always chiong and take 'pills' and never like by her parents. 2 very young sibling still to know the real world. Now she carry the burden to feed her parent (both 60+ years) and young siblings.

Now my viet g/f parents shifted back to Mekong and left on her and her 'bad' sister in HCM. But both sisters are not staying together. My viet g/f rented a house with a friend to stay. Recently, my viet g/f borrowed her 'bad' sister her motor for her sister to go out to have fun. But the next day, her sister told her that she sell the motor away. Furthermore she took all the money and never even return her some. What kind of sister is this. If i got such a sister, i will sure beat her till she wake up her idea. But my viet g/f still care for her, never tell parents about it. Try to borrow money elsewhere to buy a motor to replace so that parents will not know. I wonder how much is a new motor in Vietnam.

With so many siblings, why they cannot share the burden? She has sometime complain to me that she is really very tired.. i feel that she want to get out of such hard life. I see already also very heart pain. She always worry for her family even when bully by her 'bad' sister, she still care for her. She told me that after all, they are still a family.

I am really in two minds.
1) i want to give her a better quality of life by marrying here and bringing her back to singapore
2) but i am not ready and never will be ready to shoulder the burden of her family.

SingViet · #**869** 04-02-2007, 12:53 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

I am really in two minds.
1) i want to give her a better quality of life by marrying here and bringing her back to singapore
2) but i am not ready and never will be ready to shoulder the burden of her family.

If you are not ready to shoulder the burden of her family, u can forget about marrying her. or be prepared to be divorced 1 year after marriage. Cruel and Sad

lament · #**870** 11-02-2007, 09:19 PM

Well ...viets go heavy on confusion ethics ,......i mean confucian .....

if they have the choice, who wanna take the burden ..... the woman tends to have the heaviest burden ...if they are single .....cos the man literally are shits over there.....

cos money comes easy so they tend to give the good life the family never had but this means they spoil their family ........