Stephen Leather's Private Dancer

[thaigers]

Originally Posted by Mr.romance

Agree wat u say Bro...Thinkin of this issue also for quite sometime.
playing TG with feeling is always dangerous.I cannot afford her to call me often also..gana caught very Jia lat.its damn costly & unsafe to maintain such long distance relationship also...

So are you still maintaining a relationship with your tg?? what is your purpose of doing that? Is it the sex? if not, you must have feeling for her right?
We are talking about long distance relationship. If u are maintaining the relationship just for the sex, its definitely not worth the effort. So if not for the sex, what is it you are after? Friendship?? Are you telling us you have no feeling for your TG?? muahaahahaahah

[cyrus]

Originally Posted by thaigers

So are you still maintaining a relationship with your tg?? what is your purpose of doing that? Is it the sex? if not, you must have feeling for her right?
We are talking about long distance relationship. If u are maintaining the relationship just for the sex, its definitely not worth the effort. So if not for the sex, what is it you are after? Friendship?? Are you telling us you have no feeling for your TG?? muahaahahaahah

I guess for some, it started with getting up close with a TG means free sex ... then after awhile, relationship developes ... and one thing comes after another. And now its as sticky as glue ..

I am always very careful when I visit Bangkok.
I don't even tell my wife I am going to Bangkok even for work, so that she don't get suspicious. I never buy anything back from Bangkok since I have to pretend I am not in Bangkok. I never take picture because it is just too dangerous.

As for my TG, I will try to hint to them that I am have someone back at home. My current TG know that I have a wife and kids. She is still willing to be with me. She don't have my phone no. so she can never call me.

I always make myself feel better by giving TG money. When the feeling seem serious, they don't usually like that. Maybe I am a fool but I always pay when I play. It is a bit dangerous as I am playing with some what "feeling". I just want to feel "in love" again and forget about all the real life problems.

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by merfolk

I am always very careful when I visit Bangkok.
I don't even tell my wife I am going to Bangkok even for work, so that she don't get suspicious. I never buy anything back from Bangkok since I have to pretend I am not in Bangkok. I never take picture because it is just too dangerous.

As for my TG, I will try to hint to them that I am have someone back at home. My current TG know that I have a wife and kids. She is still willing to be with me. She don't have my phone no. so she can never call me.

I always make myself feel better by giving TG money. When the feeling seem serious, they don't usually like that. Maybe I am a fool but I always pay when I play. It is a bit dangerous as I am playing with some what "feeling". I just want to feel "in love" again and forget about all the real life problems.

When things come "free", always have a price to pay. In one way or another.

It's always better to pay, so that no strings will be attached. Also things when you pay for it, you feel better throwing it away rather than having a gift.

SC

[Titans]

Originally Posted by merfolk

I am always very careful when I visit Bangkok.
I don't even tell my wife I am going to Bangkok even for work, so that she don't get suspicious. I never buy anything back from Bangkok since I have to pretend I am not in Bangkok. I never take picture because it is just too dangerous.

As for my TG, I will try to hint to them that I am have someone back at home. My current TG know that I have a wife and kids. She is still willing to be with me. She don't have my phone no. so she can never call me.

I always make myself feel better by giving TG money. When the feeling seem serious, they don't usually like that. Maybe I am a fool but I always pay when I play. It is a bit dangerous as I am playing with some what "feeling". I just want to feel "in love" again and forget about all the real life problems.

What happens if your wife checks your passport?

I agree with you when you pay you are telling yourself it is just transaction, nothing more.... hopefully

[tirak69]

Originally Posted by Titans

What happens if your wife checks your passport?

I agree with you when you pay you are telling yourself it is just transaction, nothing more.... hopefully

again its the problem with guys and their ego at times. knowing that pay can get u wat juz isn't enuff lor. sometimes juz want to "kao" a TG so that can say - look! she's in it for love, no $$. but it becomes scary if the relationship really develops and she demand more and more from it. eg, time and commitment. if we are attached or married, can we afford it?

its always the case of trying to eat the forbidden fruit. haizzzz...

[Titans]

Originally Posted by tirak69

again its the problem with guys and their ego at times. knowing that pay can get u wat juz isn't enuff lor. sometimes juz want to "kao" a TG so that can say - look! she's in it for love, no $$. but it becomes scary if the relationship really develops and she demand more and more from it. eg, time and commitment. if we are attached or married, can we afford it?

its always the case of trying to eat the forbidden fruit. haizzzz...

Good point... afterall a true blue, hardcore cheongsters will never put feelings into it.

hmmm... wonder how many bros here can really match up to that?

Originally Posted by tirak69

again its the problem with guys and their ego at times. knowing that pay can get u wat juz isn't enuff lor. sometimes juz want to "kao" a TG so that can say - look! she's in it for love, no $$. but it becomes scary if the relationship really develops and she demand more and more from it. eg, time and commitment. if we are attached or married, can we afford it?

its always the case of trying to eat the forbidden fruit. haizzzz...

Yes, I totally agree it is ego. I get tried of the same TG very fast since it is so easy to get them. I know it is wrong but my "hunter nature" just demand me to move on.
I like to think myself as a good guy. I even have to feel ashamed when I give them money. I would just put the money in their hands and come up with some stupid excuse.

What I am amazed is that girls from KTV is so easy to get. They may be doing all these for the money but they don't talk money with me and willing take care of me like no other women. For example, they would remove the shell of prawns for me, sit quietly when I am working.

All I can say is that they are hard to resist.

Originally Posted by Titans

What happens if your wife checks your passport?

I agree with you when you pay you are telling yourself it is just transaction, nothing more.... hopefully

I am sort of lucky. My wife is not the suspicious kind. I like to think of it as a translation with feeling. I guess that is the fun part.

[Titans]

Originally Posted by merfolk

Yes, I totally agree it is ego. I get tried of the same TG very fast since it is so easy to get them. I know it is wrong but my "hunter nature" just demand me to move on.
I like to think myself as a good guy. I even have to feel ashamed when I give them money. I would just put the money in their hands and come up with some stupid excuse.

What I am amazed is that girls from KTV is so easy to get. They may be doing all these for the money but they don't talk money with me and willing take care of me like no other women. For example, they would remove the shell of prawns for me, sit quietly when I am working.

All I can say is that they are hard to resist.

Most Thai are brought up that way. To Serve. I am sure all bros have the same experience.

What there is another school of thoughts.... these girls know our soft spot so well that they can press buttom and our knees goes weak and then ... ah arai kor dai na!

Originally Posted by Titans

Most Thai are brought up that way. To Serve. I am sure all bros have the same experience.

What there is another school of thoughts.... these girls know our soft spot so well that they can press buttom and our knees goes weak and then ... ah arai kor dai na!

It is that feeling that I keep me going.

[liketoplay]

We always like to think that when we pay , its no strings attached. However , if you really like a girl and start becoming her regular , sooner or later there'll be feelings involved and thats when trouble starts. Most TG (dunno whether acting or their upbringing ) will take very good care of their bf . This will definitely make our knees go weak.

[thaigers]

Originally Posted by liketoplay

We always like to think that when we pay , its no strings attached. However , if you really like a girl and start becoming her regular , sooner or later there'll be feelings involved and thats when trouble starts. Most TG (dunno whether acting or their upbringing ) will take very good care of their bf . This will definitely make our knees go weak.

i must say this was exactly what happened to me. However, when we pay, i am quite sure they are definitely acting

[Darkstorm]

Originally Posted by merfolk

Yes, I totally agree it is ego. I get tried of the same TG very fast since it is so easy to get them. I know it is wrong but my "hunter nature" just demand me to move on.
I like to think myself as a good guy. I even have to feel ashamed when I give them money. I would just put the money in their hands and come up with some stupid excuse.

What I am amazed is that girls from KTV is so easy to get. They may be doing all these for the money but they don't talk money with me and willing take care of me like no other women. For example, they would remove the shell of prawns for me, sit quietly when I am working.

All I can say is that they are hard to resist.

For girls to treat u so well, u must be better than other guys in one way or another..........u ought to feel fortunate

[Darkstorm]

Originally Posted by liketoplay

kopi , sure . long time no see liao .

are u tirak99 in sawatdee forum? or his friend?