Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by lovesprout

In fact, the Goddess in Chua Ba is 媽祖. She is from Hokkien province in China originally. Surely she understands both Chinese and Hokkien.

Lidat how she understand vietnamese???

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by jackbl

Lidat how she understand vietnamese???

she will need one of these:

[lovesprout]

Originally Posted by jackbl

Lidat how she understand vietnamese???

Well, I think another related question is how she ended up in Vietnam. And in China, 媽祖's job is to protect fishermen or seamen, but there is no sea in Long Xuyen.

I asked my vietnamese friend, and she told me that many years ago, a plane carried 媽祖's statue crashed in vietnam. The locals found the statue and built a pagoda there. That is the origin of that temple "Chua Ba". I don't know whether this legend is true or not, but it seems plausible.

[fcukger]

Originally Posted by ekemono

she will need one of these:

lolx... u redi made mine day...

[leecs]

Originally Posted by ekemono

she will need one of these:

Wahahahaha

[Betrayed]

any bros know roughly what would be the cost to engage a private investigator in vietnam?

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Betrayed

any bros know roughly what would be the cost to engage a private investigator in vietnam?

Wat happen bro .... things turn out so bad that u need a private investigator in VN?

[Ange|Boy]

Saw your nick , guess you have a tough time, take care Bro.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Betrayed

any bros know roughly what would be the cost to engage a private investigator in vietnam?

bro...dun waste money on paying PI...just fly there without telling her and spy on her for a few days...you will see things that they can not staged or acting to show you...good luck...if you need advice, feel free to pm me...there are enough seniors here who knew the Vn culture very well...good luck...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Betrayed

any bros know roughly what would be the cost to engage a private investigator in vietnam?

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

bro...dun waste money on paying PI...just fly there without telling her and spy on her for a few days...you will see things that they can not staged or acting to show you...good luck...if you need advice, feel free to pm me...there are enough seniors here who knew the Vn culture very well...good luck...

Got your pm...also replied you...plenty of similar cases here...pls face the issue bravely and make decisions after consulting your lawyer...pls dun feel sad...you had endured enough and dun deserve to be cuckold...

Already said many times that Vn gers have alot bfs even though they are married...just live your life as per normal...

I think you should voice out and so other brothers will beware...bro naemlo always said "my ger is different from other gers"...esp, WL cannot be trusted...

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

I think you should voice out and so other brothers will beware...

Received PM too For so many years of relationship, this type of things also happened ... really sad ...

Hopefully we can chip in some help ..

bro naemlo always said "my ger is different from other gers"...esp, WL cannot be trusted...

Like Bro Naemlo say ... I also wanna say ... My GeR Really Really DifferenT from other GeRs .. Really

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Like Bro Naemlo say ... I also wanna say ... My GeR Really Really DifferenT from other GeRs .. Really

This is great quote from truely great intelligent guy.

[big wood]

Hiaz so many sad case one of my frd marry a viet girl(ex jc girl), get her a long term visa now she has been mia for 1 month sometimes i wonder what are they thinking, i totally speechless when a hero come to save them they choose to jump in again

[fcukger]

Originally Posted by naemlo

This is great quote from truely great intelligent guy.

sure or nt??? thn when r u getting married huhx??? awaiting your "red eggs"... lolx...

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by big wood

Hiaz so many sad case one of my frd marry a viet girl(ex jc girl), get her a long term visa now she has been mia for 1 month sometimes i wonder what are they thinking, i totally speechless when a hero come to save them they choose to jump in again

i think we have discussed about this many times in this thread. Vietnamese culture is just so different from ours. They are more interested in short term gains than looking to Long term. Often, marrying a foreigner in a foreign land is just the way to gain long term resident status so that they can earn more money to support their useless family members at home. Think about it, these WL can earn more than the normal Singapore guy when they work, why do they want to marry Singapore guys? Unless they are seriously thinking of settling down, which is rare. The thing that they lack is the permit to stay here for the longer term. The demands from their family is huge, want to built house, want to buy bike, want to start business.. all sorts of rubbish. So with little or no education, open leg is the easiest to earn. After getting used to that sort of lifestyle, they find it difficult for their family to cut down on expenses. These gals will start to worry if their family will have enough to eat and spend. So they better earn when they can, why will they want to settle for a mere few hundred for their family a month when they can have a few thousand? Wait till they become old and unattractive, then they will regret what they gave up because of their lazy and useless family back in the province.