Actually...I think that that she could call you throughout the day is very good already...I agree with the other forumers that u should have picked up the call...
I would love to pick up her call and give her a piece of my mind (but my thai sucks, and not being able to express how i feel is really painful deep down). Or I can pick up her call and pretend that I am ok. But then if I pick up her call, I will expect her to ask me out again. And if she didnt....my heart will be crushed also. And if she did, I am not sure if I wanna go out with her.
In order to avoid all these, I decided to cool down first till the end of the day. As I have said, I finally picked up her call, but some how or rather it didnt connect.....she may think that i hung up on her, and she didnt call again....The next day i tried to call her but I think my card was low on value so it didnt get thru. But at that time, I thought she had off her phone.....I guess its meant to end like this anyway.....
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U know.....I have this friend who had quite a number of ex-gl tiraks....and he tells me that without exception, all of them behaved like this.....they are nice to u when u r their customer, but it will not be so when they go back to their homeland......I think deep down, u know this is how it will turn out too...rite?
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If only I had known this earlier....and i guess i went there partly to find the answer too.
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She has very sweet mouth, saw me say I very handsome, so I returned the compliment and say she is very pretty also. But she saaid gohok. I dont understand why TG WL cant accept compliment at face value. When they say they miss us, should we say gohok as well???
I was leaving that day, otherwise definitely would ask her out
Maybe the first day when they start working as WL, they feel customer cannot be trusted and naturally build a defence wall... whatever we say... they dun really take our words
Many has been hurt more than once already, so much that become immune already. How we expect them to trust customers? The number of times their regulars so called tiraks call another girl in her presence.....
This is good for them also cause in order to stay in this line one cannot afford to have feelings for the customers. The same reason as y never to look a prey in the eyes if u want to kill it.
Different cultures also. Sg guys listen to cinderella,sleeping beauties and snow white's fairy tales from young so we all got this format in our brain to lead a happily ever after life. Back in thai, if u have experienced hunger, poor, unable to help to cure a closed relative because of no money, no shelter......what else will u not do? One will be forced to grow up. Of course got those vain kinds also....
'nu ren xing, hai di zhen'
ps: Travel more not only to BKK but the poorer villages of thailand and u will know the reason. haiz.....ever been to nepal and tibet...those rural areas...
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Maybe the first day when they start working as WL, they feel customer cannot be trusted and naturally build a defence wall... whatever we say... they dun really take our words
Many has been hurt more than once already, so much that become immune already. How we expect them to trust customers? The number of times their regulars so called tiraks call another girl in her presence.....
This is good for them also cause in order to stay in this line one cannot afford to have feelings for the customers. The same reason as y never to look a prey in the eyes if u want to kill it.
Different cultures also. Sg guys listen to cinderella,sleeping beauties and snow white's fairy tales from young so we all got this format in our brain to lead a happily ever after life. Back in thai, if u have experienced hunger, poor, unable to help to cure a closed relative because of no money, no shelter......what else will u not do? One will be forced to grow up. Of course got those vain kinds also....
'nu ren xing, hai di zhen'
ps: Travel more not only to BKK but the poor villages of thailand and u will know the reason. haiz.....
Agree with you bro... esp after many pi chai incident they have experience... perhap only they believe in $$$$ and their family other than anything else... it take alot of effort for them to believe in us...
ps: Travel more not only to BKK but the poorer villages of thailand and u will know the reason. haiz.....ever been to nepal and tibet...those rural areas...
been to the rural areas of thailand before.... seen a couple of house sharing a generator... many of the kids did not even wear proper shoes... some of them are quite easily contented though... give them very simple daily goccery and are very contented with it... The father even treat me to chang beer
Pretty woman only happens in movies as one bro have told me b4 when I was down. I am not richard gere and she is not julia roberts. I already advised b4. Only if u can marry her, give her a good life, move over to thai or able to bring her here than u pursue.
Let them go back and forget everything, live a new life. They had enough here already. Many of them go back with some problems here and there also.
Cheers
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Agree with you bro... esp after many pii chai incident they have experience... perhap only they believe in $$$$ and their family other than anything else... it take alot of effort for them to believe in us...
haha....if got time and money, buy some shoes for the kids, some sweets and toys will be nice. Knowledge is the only way out of poverty.
God has eyes. Whatever we do we know, heaven know, god knows.
ps: Don't know what to say to him when he ask me y I find prostitutes...guess I just have to accept the punishments.
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been to the rural areas of thailand before.... seen a house sharing a electric generator... many of the kids did not even wear proper shoes... some of them are quite easily contented though... give them very simple daily goccery and are very contented with it... The father even treat me to chang beer
Let them go back and forget everything, live a new life. They had enough here already. Many of them go back with some problems here and there also.
Cheers
true... their familly members do have some have some expectation on them when they travel oversea... so sometime they need to have certain $$$ before they can go back...
Many has been hurt more than once already, so much that become immune already. How we expect them to trust customers? The number of times their regulars so called tiraks call another girl in her presence.....
This is good for them also cause in order to stay in this line one cannot afford to have feelings for the customers. The same reason as y never to look a prey in the eyes if u want to kill it.
Different cultures also. Sg guys listen to cinderella,sleeping beauties and snow white's fairy tales from young so we all got this format in our brain to lead a happily ever after life. Back in thai, if u have experienced hunger, poor, unable to help to cure a closed relative because of no money, no shelter......what else will u not do? One will be forced to grow up. Of course got those vain kinds also....
'nu ren xing, hai di zhen'
ps: Travel more not only to BKK but the poorer villages of thailand and u will know the reason. haiz.....ever been to nepal and tibet...those rural areas...
interestingly, i was just reading some forum discussion on the sort of culture shocks there might be
[QUOTE=collin_23]..... Knowledge is the only way out of poverty. ...
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On this point, I would like to add that I found out my ex reg was lowly educated. When she cant read ABC, I already some how know that she is not highly educated. But when i bought a sim card and didnt how to activate it, ask her to look at the instructions, she also cannot help me. Later when my handphone was switched from English to Thai lang, I asked her to switched it back to Eng, she cant do it and she was rather embarrased From then on, I am convinced she dont have much education.....and I was really sad to know that. but i guess if she is smart enough, she will be able to make a good living.
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On this point, I would like to add that I found out my ex reg was lowly educated. When she cant read ABC, I already some how know that she is not highly educated. But when i bought a sim card and didnt how to activate it, ask her to look at the instructions, she also cannot help me. Later when my handphone was switched from English to Thai lang, I asked her to switched it back to Eng, she cant do it and she was rather embarrased From then on, I am convinced she dont have much education.....and I was really sad to know that. but i guess if she is smart enough, she will be able to make a good living.
she might not be very educated but i bet she have a great and high EQ... which i feel it much more impotant in order to survie
[QUOTE=thaigers][QUOTE=collin_23]..... Knowledge is the only way out of poverty. ...
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On this point, I would like to add that I found out my ex reg was lowly educated. When she cant read ABC, I already some how know that she is not highly educated. But when i bought a sim card and didnt how to activate it, ask her to look at the instructions, she also cannot help me. Later when my handphone was switched from English to Thai lang, I asked her to switched it back to Eng, she cant do it and she was rather embarrased From then on, I am convinced she dont have much education.....and I was really sad to know that. but i guess if she is smart enough, she will be able to make a good living.
My Tg is probably a smarter kind. She even exchange her low grade hp with mine & disappear for more than 2 hours. Actaully I knoe she wana show off la. So At tat point of time I had this strange feeling that I trust her with my HP.In terms of face value mine is of coz many times better than hers. her HP model is not even for sale in SG.Sorry not trying to brag about my Hp. I jus wana say up to a certain period of time, there is some kind of trust in terms of honesty...NOT ABOUT TELLING LIES....
Bro about ur TG don feel like going out with u when u jio her. I will like to say its consider quite good tat she is willingly to went out with U eventually & call u after tat.UNlike mine, wana jio her out on a 1st date also so difficult.During my 1st date with my TG, it don turn out so well also. She even brought a friend along without my consent. Halfway, even wana leave early. But now different leow..haha
My Tg is probably a smarter kind. She even exchange her low grade hp with mine & disappear for more than 2 hours. Actaully I knoe she wana show off la. So At tat point of time I had this strange feeling that I trust her with my HP.In terms of face value mine is of coz many times better than hers. her HP model is not even for sale in SG.Sorry not trying to brag about my Hp. I jus wana say up to a certain period of time, there is some kind of trust in terms of honesty...NOT ABOUT TELLING LIES....
Bro about ur TG don feel like going out with u when u jio her. I will like to say its consider quite good tat she is willingly to went out with U eventually & call u after tat.UNlike mine, wana jio her out on a 1st date also so difficult.During my 1st date with my TG, it don turn out so well also. She even brought a friend along without my consent. Halfway, even wana leave early. But now different leow..haha
Mr romance, no offence. But we are talking about WL here. Therefore, i suppose things are more complicated. For normal TG, i just treat them the same.
I have a TG friend. She is crazy about me. wanna have sex with me everytime we meet, but i have told her we are just friend and dont even let her touch me....sexually.
well, I guess the way things turn out for my WL TG and me is just a retribution for me....
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From then on, I am convinced she dont have much education.....and I was really sad to know that. but i guess if she is smart enough, she will be able to make a good living.
