Meet a girl 2 years ago name also Lisa also work in TAM. I bounds into her when I was taking a lift and found her attractive decided to make a deal with her. We went to the lobby to lay my T&C She agree and follow me to my place. Confident and Alpha type. Arrived at my place she asked permission to look around I agreed. After she inspected my place we settle down to have a bottle of red wine. She told me that she is from Shanghai studying in Shanghai Arts Academy and just arrive in SG a few days only. I am not interested in her story but her body. After drinking I lay her on the bed start my SOP. Her response was not to my expectation. After carefully inspect her body and play with it for 3 hours I decided to end my session with her when she says that she don't like me to use fingers on her pussy. In this case you can exit, I told her and we have agree that in the event I decided to exit I award you SG100 and if you exit you did not to compensate me. Yes she is slim tall and nice looking but not good in bed. She wanted me to send her to TAM I firmly say no ask her take your own transport there. Before she left my place I told her I like you but I don't need you.
Very detailed forum about Alpha Male. At least now I understood what is all about.
I shall just avoid the alpha male if any.
Cheers.
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Originally Posted by warbird
Bro,
I'm sure many bros here are very successful in many fields, including education, career, business, social status, income, self mastery n getting n keeping all the pretty gals of your type.
Unfortunately, there will be many "friends/colleagues/former classmates/relatives" aka losers who will be very jealous of you. They are usually the loud mouth, know it all type. Actually they feel empty, insecure n needy inside.
They will try to put you down, even mock you, in front of ur relatives/colleagues/friends or gals.
Here is how to deal w/ these jealous losers. The best is to avoid them as if they r lepers. Hard to do if they happen to be your close male relatives.
From a famed RS n sex guru Carlos Xuma.
How to Handle Guys Who Play Alpha Games With You...
The TRUTH About How To Handle Guys Who Try To Mess With Your Confidence...
Has anyone challenged you today?
Put you on the spot?
Made you feel like you were being tooled or ridiculed?
Played a game with your self-confidence?
I've got an UNBELIEVABLE newsletter for you today, because this topic goes WAY beyond just pickup and attracting women.
It speaks to the heart of who you are as a MAN.
And I'm going to show you - right now - how to blow out the most common "Alpha" game there is between guys.
Read on...
QUESTION ABOUT HANDLING SOCIAL GAMES:
Carlos ...In the past few months I've noticed that there are special dynamics that go on when interacting with guys, especially in front of women. It seems that there is always one (sometimes two if it is a large group) alpha male in the group. And of course, the female is attracted to him. I find that I have a strong desire to be the alpha male, but am not always able to be.
For example, I'll be bringing value to the group... when all of a sudden, one of the males tries to screw with my game by calling me names or making fun of me, and the thing is that honestly I am
sensitive, and sometimes I can't hide the fact that it annoys me or hurts me, and therefore I can't come back with a stronger frame and out-alpha this guy back.
For example, the yesterday, I walked up to a group of my college friends, and asked a random question about where our class was being held...
As soon as I asked the question to the group, one of the guys says, "You're gay!" And then everyone laughed.
Now, it didn't bother me too much at first, because I'm a confident guy, and I don't usually let things like this throw me off, or at least I try not to... but when I just let the laughter pass and kind of rolled my eyes, and asked the question again, he did the same thing again even louder, therefore making the group laugh even louder again at me.
This time, I just got pissed off, though probably not visibly (at least to the guys, because they're not as good at reading body language, and there were two girls in the group, and about 4 or 5 guys, just so you get a better picture).
I knew that since I was pissed off, I was already in a weak position, one of reaction, and I tried to make some sort of comeback, but my frame was already thrown off, and basically he had succeeded in doing exactly what he wanted to.
So I just walked away, angry as hell and wondering why I didn't just clobber him right on the spot... which yeah, on second thought was probably not a good idea anyway.
So my question, now that you have a better picture of my full situation, is how do I avoid being out-alphaed, if you know what I mean? How can I be a leader instead of the guy that gets made fun of?
You're the Man, man.
-Aaron
CARLOS XUMA ANSWERS:
Yowza... I totally know where you're coming from on this one...
I remember being tooled like this by guys in the past and getting REALLY frustrated by it.
There was this guy I remember way back when in high school that used to spray kids at random with the fire extinguisher in the halls. The one thing he counted on was that no one would call him on it because he was a big guy. He used to laugh and wink at the girls when he did it.
Same kind of juvenile behavior.
But there IS a cure for this kind of social shaming, and it's something you can use right away to reclaim your inner and outer Alpha Man Confidence.
Because this situation happens to guys at every age. I used to have constant issues with a guy who would make sly comments whenever he felt threatened or intimidated in meetings.
He was in his fifties, believe it or not.
There's a realization you must have about the dynamic in groups like this, and especially when guys start to interact in front of women.
First of all, despite what you're saying to the contrary, you ARE getting shaken up by this guy. Hey, most guys would get a little pissed, especially when group dynamics create an uncomfortable
situation.
And he's trying to embarrass you in front of the women in the group. I used to get very unsettled when I would be talking to guys in front of a group of women, because inevitably, they would try to make me look like a dork so that they could look better.
(Remember: This is the universal game of the Weak and Feeble - attack someone with underhanded insults to lower your social value and to raise his own.)
This is the "pecking order."
The typical response most guys have to being picked on is to react and let it get worse and worse, and their anger gets stronger and stronger.
And, yes, these guys will probably fall to the dark side. The dark side is when you start responding by finding someone else you can push around or tool to establish your place on the social ladder.
I wish I could say that we - as 'intelligent' human beings - have overcome this kind of behavior, but we haven't. It's part of the way people are. (Even women have their own pecking order.)4-CD set Approach Women - NOW!
So the reality is that you are letting them get to you because you believe that they are somehow being effective in lowering your social status.
When you get shaken up like this, you will find it very tough to come up with an intelligent comeback or witty response to put him in his place.
That was always the worst part for me. I'd get five steps away from a situation where someone had made me look like a fool, and THEN I'd come up with the perfect thing to say... "I should have said....!"
TOO LATE.
And it's because your mind can't be resourceful when you're in an anxious state like this. The worst time to try to be at your best is when you believe you're at your worst.
I received a PM from a senior bro re my free tours at KTV joints yesterday. And my honest reply to him.
Bro,
Since TAM joints at Havelock closed in early 2015, I hv been going to Peace Centre KTV joints about 3 times a week. Mostly for brief tours, which is free of charge. It takes abt 30 minutes or less. I usually go there around 6 pm and sometimes 9:15 pm.
I'll try to look at every girl/woman inside and outside the joints and in the cafeteria downstairs. Oftentimes, I also wait by the roadside or outside nearby schools around PC.
In the rare occasion that I see a girl I like, I'll get her contact info. I'll try to look at her from different angles first. But often this is impossible as these girls move fast. It's hard to access her true attractiveness because of the brevity of interaction, which is usually not more than a few minutes, and the dim light of these joints. Her makeup, hairdo and high heels are other confounding factors.
I'll then look at her photos n video in her Wechat Moments at my leisure. I often want to see her again before deciding if she is good enough for me. If I think she may hv met my standards, I'll organize or join an outing n get her to butterfly at Jade or China Doll or book her at Dynasty.
I used to organize very frequent outings to or join my friends at these and other joints years ago. But I seldom do so now because I hv had difficulty finding girls good enough for booking or butterfly. I often bring a LP to such outings as I don't want to sit alone.
I like FOC tours because it may take me many weeks before I find a girl who is mildly interesting.
Give me your contact if you want to join my free tours at PC joints.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Hello Warbird,
Good to read your post.
I pass by Dynasty KTV frequently esp. around 6pm to see the hostesses walk up.
I only been inside once - but I don't drink much and I hate the smell of cigarette so I don't patronize the KTV scene.
I met my friend in a hfj. Then, a ktv saw me otw toilet. She walked to me and asked why never looked for her when I was there. Told her just arrived and for awhile only. We drank some. When it was 12am, I told her that I was going home. Asked her if she got customer or not cos she accompanied for about an hour. If no customer, I told her that I could send her home. She told me that she got 2 customers but alright to go with me. When we reached her house, she said where got people like that. I asked what she wanted. Her reply "抱抱". I told her that it was late. I could see that she was getting disappointed. So, I held her hand. Straight to nearby hotel. Ended in raw and she asked if I was always so power.
I met my friend in a hfj. Then, a ktv saw me otw toilet. She walked to me and asked why never looked for her when I was there. Told her just arrived and for awhile only. We drank some. When it was 12am, I told her that I was going home. Asked her if she got customer or not cos she accompanied for about an hour. If no customer, I told her that I could send her home. She told me that she got 2 customers but alright to go with me. When we reached her house, she said where got people like that. I asked what she wanted. Her reply "抱抱". I told her that it was late. I could see that she was getting disappointed. So, I held her hand. Straight to nearby hotel. Ended in raw and she asked if I was always so power.
Yes, dun settle for any gal but make sure she is outstanding.
Hope you enjoy yourself.
Cheers.
Bro, tks.
Be highly selective, go after the best girls of your type.
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Originally Posted by fortworth
Bro WB reply again was classic.
Marriage is legal prostitution. I think there is ample examples how many young women married rich old guys.
We all knew reasons why the young women chose to marry dirty old men. Has been dynasties where the emperor gets fresh pussies daily.
Anyway good forums.
Cheers.
Bro, I miss bro RRK.
I don't think he ever answered my questions about him.
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Originally Posted by twinv
Oh bro thats a waste man
No, we should never touch a woman who is not 100% alert and 100% willing. I couldn't run away fast enough from an intoxicated woman.
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Originally Posted by NabyKeita
Enjoyed bro WB's reply to bro randyrockhard too.
Thanks bro WB for a great thread.
Have a nice weekend.
Tks, bro.
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Originally Posted by pusahit
Hope to join you one of these days!
Bro, send me a PM.
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Originally Posted by ferrerowang
Hope can kio some hot and sexy girls outside ktv
Bro, of course you can.
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Originally Posted by impossible
Bro WB,
Free tour. Would you share more information.
Thanks
Bro, free meaning we don't pay a penny. Yet we are able to see many of the girls there. And we get ctc of those we like. It's different from an outing.
In the very unlikely event that you happen to see a gal you like very much, you could book her instantly n go to sit in the hall of one of the joints. It's very affordable.
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Originally Posted by Jay Chou
Up u bro. 😊
Tks.
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Originally Posted by denton
Bro WB
Let me congratulate for a thread well done.
It was really a privilege to be able to read the thread and master the skills. It was an honour to review some of the skills and practice the skills on girls.
I hope you will continue to share more with us.
The forum below was unbelievable.
So please continue.
Bro, tks.
It behooves us to remember this:
"People are designed to select in favor of higher survival and replication value. When a woman observes two men, her circuitry will quickly assess the survival value and replication value of each man. She will then emotionally
perceive the result of this calculation. She will naturally be attracted to the man with the highest value. The healthiest man, the most intelligent man, the most socially-connected man, the most financially independent man, the most sexually pre — selected man — these sorts of traits will attract the woman because such a man provides survival and replication value to her, as well as to her offspring."
Bro, tks.
It's a matter of survival and replication. A gal is usually not consciously aware of it. It's in her S mind n hardwired n her primitive brain. It is so powerful that it could overrule all her social, cultural and religious conditioning.
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Originally Posted by denton
Bro WB
Thank you for the unbelievable and unequivocal truths you share with us.
Please continue to share.
Cheers.
Bro, tks.
I prefer LT sexual n emotional relationship.
The last gal I saw whom I wanted to BY was TY just over a yr ago. She is still aloof, unsociable, reticent and even arrogant to people she doesn't know very well.
I took her to Paul at Ngee Ann for dinner last night. She was talking 80% of the time. She told me a very good Indian movie she watched online recently. Gave me a good synopsis. Dangal, a 2016 film.
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Originally Posted by dolot
Fully agreed. Bro WB always have classic replies.
Have a good week ahead.
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Originally Posted by PlaneCola
Very good thread, thanks TS!
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Originally Posted by vaggo
Wow really unbelievable!
Nice share by bro WB.
Have a nice day.
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Originally Posted by Broadings
Haha ya man, meat already at the mouth then kana snatched away
Bros, tks.
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Originally Posted by sniper968
I regularly pass by Dynasty KTV to watch as the showgirls go up to work.
So many chio girls. Is there an Escort agency that handles some of them?
Unfortunately, my Mandarin is not that good.
Bro, tks.
Yes, some of these gals are Fls. Not sure abt agency.
In 2007-2009, there were many GL streetwalkers and singers-FLs n they sometimes would go to TAM where you would hv to pay 2-3X the damage. I met more than a few of them there.
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Originally Posted by ChurchillDowns
Good story and really cool.
Bro, tks.
When you say "I like you, but I don't need you," your eye contact, body language n voice tonality must be congruent w/ your words. Otherwise, the gal will call your bluff.
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Originally Posted by ChurchillDowns
Bro WB
Very detailed forum about Alpha Male. At least now I understood what is all about.
I shall just avoid the alpha male if any.
Cheers.
Yes, be a prestigious man or badass gentleman.
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Originally Posted by USDollarKiamGan
Fully agreed, very cool.
Have a nice Sunday.
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Originally Posted by sunshots
Very good thread for ktv newbie like me.
Thanks bro WB!
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Originally Posted by camtom
Fully agreed, very detailed indeed.
I also understand about Alpha Male now.
Thanks bro WB for an awesome thread.
Have a good weekend.
Bros, thanks.
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Originally Posted by eattoomuch
Anyone regularly visit First club or Second club KTV here?
The viet bus working there all very chio.
But wanna buy them away for the night very fucking expensive.
Anyone got any experience of fucking them inside the room?
Bro, I hv never been there. I hv been to Starlight and Zara.
The two best Viet gals I hv met were working at Lido. One was a French-Viet.
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Originally Posted by sniper968
Hello Warbird,
Good to read your post.
I pass by Dynasty KTV frequently esp. around 6pm to see the hostesses walk up.
I only been inside once - but I don't drink much and I hate the smell of cigarette so I don't patronize the KTV scene.
I just like to fuck chioby p4p.
Let me know when you are doing your tour.
Bro, tks.
I'm a teetotaler and I abhor the smell of cigarette/cigar.
I hv your PM. Let's meet soon.
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Originally Posted by desmondtok
Great info sharing👍
Bro, tks.
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Originally Posted by saltwet
I met my friend in a hfj. Then, a ktv saw me otw toilet. She walked to me and asked why never looked for her when I was there. Told her just arrived and for awhile only. We drank some. When it was 12am, I told her that I was going home. Asked her if she got customer or not cos she accompanied for about an hour. If no customer, I told her that I could send her home. She told me that she got 2 customers but alright to go with me. When we reached her house, she said where got people like that. I asked what she wanted. Her reply "抱抱". I told her that it was late. I could see that she was getting disappointed. So, I held her hand. Straight to nearby hotel. Ended in raw and she asked if I was always so power.
Bro, tks for sharing your FR.
You're doing great.
Your action remind me of my American friend Charles Sledge's three mindset switches to get laid 10X more often.
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