No sex after the birth of first kid

[Vortex]

For wives that declines sex with husband, I wonder if the lady secretly hopes that the husband would just take care of it outside and not let her find out.

[Az284]

Originally Posted by Vortex

For wives that declines sex with husband, I wonder if the lady secretly hopes that the husband would just take care of it outside and not let her find out.

Many ways to "take care of it" without going outside. Sex toys are one way - can be less intense on the wife.

[Vortex]

Originally Posted by Az284

Many ways to "take care of it" without going outside. Sex toys are one way - can be less intense on the wife.

Ideally, yes.
Just like ideally, the wife would vocalise whatever issues she has and work together to solve it.

Ideally...

[itguy2008]

Originally Posted by sbwow

I went on Monk mode till I hit 69. HAHAHA.

Bro, now you make me puzzle which 69 are you referring to? Age or ....?

[ttmsbf]

Originally Posted by Vortex

Ideally, yes.
Just like ideally, the wife would vocalise whatever issues she has and work together to solve it.

Ideally...

When women says "it's ok"...

[Aristol]

Originally Posted by ttmsbf

When women says "it's ok"...

I remember reading and also experiencing when women says " its ok...."
That means it is most definitely not ok.
lols

[Piledriver]

Originally Posted by Vortex

For wives that declines sex with husband, I wonder if the lady secretly hopes that the husband would just take care of it outside and not let her find out.

In this case, there can only be 2 reasons.

1, the wife is secretly fucking some other guy outside

2, the hubby is a loser in bed.

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by itguy2008

Bro, now you make me puzzle which 69 are you referring to? Age or ....?

I like to leave it to your imagination. HAHAHA.

[anikisan]

Maybe just give her a nice massage with soft lights and nice music. If she's in the mood...then good. Else, don't pressure her. Maybe just go those massage parlours to get it off for now

[itguy2008]

Originally Posted by sbwow

I like to leave it to your imagination. HAHAHA.

I will start to imagine then.

[hownow]

i'm married for like 15 years and had sex with wife less than 10 times. from about 5 or 6 years ago i started having affairs.

so far had affairs with 3 ladies.

shortest 3 months then 2 years then current one 2 months so far and counting.

2 of them are married.

Last 1 is clear we are for benefits and no strings attached. she has bf now so we stopped.

i prefer affairs cos the ladies are cleaner. develop feelings or not? depends on self ba. the 3 months one we both developed feelings and her husband found out so we ended. the other one, she's not my type so just in for the benefits.

wife seems to have complete trust. we don't check each others' phones... maybe she really think i can survive with self service, or she act blur pretend she don't see then is ok?

[fatuncle]

Bro, u've much better than me.
I'm married for almost 30years. The number of sex we had is less than 10 times. Out of the 10 times, twice is because we trying for kids.

We have separate sleeping together for more than 10yrs.

I am not yandao like u to have affairs.
Can only go for ML & FL.

Sian to the max. 8_(

Originally Posted by hownow

i'm married for like 15 years and had sex with wife less than 10 times. from about 5 or 6 years ago i started having affairs.

so far had affairs with 3 ladies.

shortest 3 months then 2 years then current one 2 months so far and counting.

2 of them are married.

Last 1 is clear we are for benefits and no strings attached. she has bf now so we stopped.

i prefer affairs cos the ladies are cleaner. develop feelings or not? depends on self ba. the 3 months one we both developed feelings and her husband found out so we ended. the other one, she's not my type so just in for the benefits.

wife seems to have complete trust. we don't check each others' phones... maybe she really think i can survive with self service, or she act blur pretend she don't see then is ok?

[hownow]

Originally Posted by fatuncle

Bro, I've much better than me.
I'm married for almost 30years. The number of sex we had is less than 10 times. Out of the 10 times, twice is because we trying for kids.

We have separate sleeping together for more than 10yrs.

I am not yandao like u to have affairs.
Can only go for ML & FL.

Sian to the max. 8_(

bro, i'm not yandao, just know how to melt ladies. ladies don't really go for looks when they are in their 30s and 40s. they go for feelings. make them feel loved and pampered. u don't need to be rich or handsome one. just make them feel they can just melt into your arms and it's the safest harbor in the world will do.

[fatuncle]

I am introvert. Hardly talk to ladies. 8(

Originally Posted by hownow

bro, i'm not yandao, just know how to melt ladies. ladies don't really go for looks when they are in their 30s and 40s. they go for feelings. make them feel loved and pampered. u don't need to be rich or handsome one. just make them feel they can just melt into your arms and it's the safest harbor in the world will do.

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by rachelm

I cannot sleep so looking for anyone to chat on telegram now.

If you are keen, can send me an id of your telegram

Originally Posted by fatuncle

I am introvert. Hardly talk to ladies. 8(

You can try talking to each other.
Go Fuck and Fuck and Fuck. HAHAHA.