Guys with Wife or Good GF still look for pros or flings. Why

[Starlite]

Originally Posted by WOOHOO

..Many married men do not need sex from these PRC it's all about company and communication, attention and respect!! The way of being treated that is so diverse from being treated at home!!...

Bro Woohoo,
Well said, agree with you.

[newyorker88]

Originally Posted by Toyota Honda

Bros here, let me say something and debate.

There is a saying that..
Men who were very 'guai' (doesn't fool ard) before marriage or in the younger days tends to stray after marriages.

while guys who flirt and sleep ard are less likely to stray after marriage.

I find that statement quite untrue.

Those who stray before marriage are likely to do so as much after marriage. A number of my friends are proof to it.

[Gentle Beast]

Originally Posted by newyorker88

I find that statement quite untrue.

Those who stray before marriage are likely to do so as much after marriage. A number of my friends are proof to it.

ALL my male friends are testimonies to straying too: before, during and after marriages

Most of us live stressful lives, straying help to keep us sane!

[old_yet_horny]

Originally Posted by leonard87

i am not a married man..but to me a married guy shouldnt betray his own wife..shouldnt betray the sacerd laws of marriage..recently i did found out my dad like been visitng prc..becoz at nite i been checking his handphone..and found already 3 evidence..if i find more i will confront him with my elder brother..and if he still denys it i will bring him to the court and sue him for adultery...

Hmm...Leonard87...


Headline on newspapers:


"Fillial" son exposes father's adultery affair in court...


U know how many readers will laugh at such naive act from the children??

There are many ways to resolve such matter and why bring shame to the household??

Think twice before u act.

[aces68]

Originally Posted by easybaby

You mentioned about the balance between rights and obligations... so what are your obligations? Have you fulfilled them to balance up with your rights to eat outside? No offence

Just my opinion, I think if you can provide your lady with a home, good food to eat, go holiday once a year, some luxuries, shower her with love, then you would have fulfilled your obligation, correct ? ...

[fourDhunter]

Why?
Because before marriage, my gf willing to BBBJ, CIM, lick her pussy and with a lot of foreplay. After marriage, became my OC..for the first few years was ok after then and especially after birth no BJ not to say about BBBJ, and therefore no CIM, disallow to lick her pussy and zero foreplay !
For outside fling and pro.. BBBJ, CIM, lick pussy and many foreplay....

[woohooo]

funny that i came across this thread. i've been faithful for more than 10 years of marriage... but, i find myself increasingly drawn to other women (younger women). i guess a lot has to do with what bro WOOHOO mentioned in his post (the respect, intimacy, etc) & many points other bros shared (no sex, out of bounds, & other nonsense).

i dunno how long i can remain faithful. if one day, a good opportunities presents itself (or should i say herself), i might just cave in...

[Gentle Beast]

Originally Posted by woohooo

i dunno how long i can remain faithful. if one day, a good opportunities presents itself (or should i say herself), i might just cave in...

,,all you need is one 'cave in', and thereafter there will be further 'cave ins'. My take is, it is more stressful thinking about wanting to cave in and not crossing the line. We, men are getting older and woman are younger and prettier (..and some are available!)

[nk7610]

Originally Posted by fourDhunter

Why?
Because before marriage, my gf willing to BBBJ, CIM, lick her pussy and with a lot of foreplay. After marriage, became my OC..for the first few years was ok after then and especially after birth no BJ not to say about BBBJ, and therefore no CIM, disallow to lick her pussy and zero foreplay !
For outside fling and pro.. BBBJ, CIM, lick pussy and many foreplay....

bro, i share the same feeling as you. Nowadays, sex is a 15 mins tingy. No foreplay at all. Just wet the pussy, silent mode fuck and washup. haiz..

[opps]

Originally Posted by nk7610

..Nowadays, sex is a 15 mins tingy. No foreplay at all. Just wet the pussy, silent mode fuck and washup. haiz..

Bro nk7610, I got similar experience, nowsaday sex with wife is very SOP.

[WOOHOO]

Originally Posted by woohooo

i dunno how long i can remain faithful. if one day, a good opportunities presents itself (or should i say herself), i might just cave in...

wah bro your nick so simmilar to me wahahahahahahahhaha!!
Well i think you should just cave in once in a while or else you will REALLY cave in. Dun let personal stress ruin yourself. Let go once in a while and it does not only yourself good but your family too. It's a balance la

[Black Dragon]

With pros you get a certain level of performance and standard package.

With wife or GF all depends on their mood.

All said, in the end we guys just want to be guaranteed a good time. Nothing more. Or as some people would put it... there are certain things you just cannot do with your wife or GF (ie. I cannot put my penis into the mouth that kisses my children goodnight)

[easybaby]

Originally Posted by aces68

Just my opinion, I think if you can provide your lady with a home, good food to eat, go holiday once a year, some luxuries, shower her with love, then you would have fulfilled your obligation, correct ? ...

So if the obligations of a good wife is to give you sex, bear you kids and take care of them, keep your house clean, in addition working outside to help with the family's income, and she fulfills them, means she should be entitled the rights to eat outside (if she wants to) too?

Anyway, i thought of something. Many replied talking about it's man's nature (or animal instinct) to spread his loads around... then what is the rationale for women to be able to have multiple orgasm? Not really linked, but just quite curious to how people will reason about this..

[Black Dragon]

Originally Posted by easybaby

Anyway, i thought of something. Many replied talking about it's man's nature (or animal instinct) to spread his loads around... then what is the rationale for women to be able to have multiple orgasm? Not really linked, but just quite curious to how people will reason about this..

Hmmmm let me give it a try...

Rationale for women to be able to multiple orgasm is to accomodate as many sex partners! Just as it is man's nature to spread his load so it the woman's nature to be able to receive them!

[leonard87]

Originally Posted by old_yet_horny

Hmm...Leonard87...


Headline on newspapers:


"Fillial" son exposes father's adultery affair in court...


U know how many readers will laugh at such naive act from the children??

There are many ways to resolve such matter and why bring shame to the household??

Think twice before u act.

i wont expose my dad at court if its not needed..i will collect more evidence against him and confront him with my bro.but if he dunno how turn over a new leaf i will just expose him and ask my mum to divorce him..i dun mind bringing the shame to my dad..i want all the guys out there to know even ur own child can turn his back against you when you betrayed your own family..if you want to turn back on your wife then why get married at the first place?too me i detest people who betray marriage who betray their wife/husband..and when your wife is bearing your children..how much is she suffering and you still want to have sex outside..if your horny then just pcc yourself..i am not saying i am a saint myself but i still know what is to honour marriage what is to honour your wife your other part