When is enough ? When to stop ? Who calls the shots ?

[msGot]

If you really want to do something, there is nothing that can stop you.

I guess you have already stated your wish to end the FB relationship so clearly there is no need to keep reminding him why you wanted the split in the first place. If it has to take you not replying his messages nor answering his calls, then I guess you just have to do that. Eventually (but god knows how long he might take to get over you, right?), he will stop. All guys do. After a while, they "get the idea". : ) Don't mean to preach; don't flame me-ha! Just my two cents' worth. Ciao.

[zacarie]

Originally Posted by msGot

If you really want to do something, there is nothing that can stop you.

I guess you have already stated your wish to end the FB relationship so clearly there is no need to keep reminding him why you wanted the split in the first place. If it has to take you not replying his messages nor answering his calls, then I guess you just have to do that. Eventually (but god knows how long he might take to get over you, right?), he will stop. All guys do. After a while, they "get the idea". : ) Don't mean to preach; don't flame me-ha! Just my two cents' worth. Ciao.

True tt nothing can stop a person once they are firm on a decision they have made.

Yea, if a relationship is to end it should end regardless of how it was done. right way or wrong. Even if the other party do not agree to it. arent we grown adults to knowit is time to let go n move on. esp in a relationship tt have no ending where one or both party are married.

U may have had a wonderful time when u were together. but when one party calls to end it. u should know it is game over. At least part in a nice way so that the other party still have some respect for u being a matured adult to be able to accept the parting of ways.

Cant guys just get over the fact the girl is gone? I dont get y still have to be after a while?? Do they find joy in taunting the girl? does it give them pleasure to be a bully n hoping the girl will give in to their threats? N return to them?

[HunterJ]

You did well sis !!! =D *thumbs up with a big hug* hehe. Hoping to be of more use to you !!!

[KevinJacob]

I apologize to see you stuck in this scenario. On a lighter note, i believe this incident will only shape up your character and actually gives you the ability to overcome other tedious obstacles in your life. Just my 2 cents worth