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Old 26-12-2011, 09:02 PM
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Re: Will you marry HFJ (Chinese) singers ?

Very rare cases.... i got 3 friends, one marries singer and 2 of them marries ktv gals. Happy to say that they are still happily married with 2 kids except one of them, 1 kid. But one thing to mention, hard to ask them out to cheong now.... it's a privilege if they can come out to ktv with me. hahaha. anyway, god bless them...
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Re: Will you marry HFJ (Chinese) singers ?

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Not all hanging flower singers are whores. Some of the singers are actually talented, and sing extremely well. Very expensive to bring in. Customers love them because of their remarkable singing and looks.. There are some bad fishes though, and is very costly if a HFJ license get revoked due to anti-vice activities. Enjoy this song

This song is more suitable to play in Dayview2004's funeral
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Hope its not one sided love, singers r the no. 1 killer in the KC game hope u dunn fall into it next time, $100 becum $1,000 then $10,000.....never ends
Yeah agree 100%, it always starts with $100.....ha ha ha ha!!
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I don't know where to find talented singers.. i went to a pub along jalan besar.... all i can said is... my angmo friend sing better than all of them on mandarin songs... and they.. not .... very sexy
You mean the one beside sim lim square opposite rocher hotel.. better don't go that one lousy ktv.. come to havelock one cos minister of manpower also support haha the best of all

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Funny how come singers want to get married to me but less so ktv girls, is it because they are smarter? use marriage to fish for more? hmm hmm hmm....actually nowadays i find singers easier to read and upz than ktv girls....simply because as long got money can upz leow..how a matter of how much...

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Re: Will you marry HFJ (Chinese) singers ?

For bros who are sceptical abt HJF singers, I will share a personal experience and let the audience decide.

2 years back, I visited a big joint HJF (but was then a relatively unknown joint when i went there then) in Chinatown and really liked the atmosphere there.

Honest, the decor was splendid and the quality of singers really high. By that i mean the looks & real singing/performance talent; in case some bros here start inferring to their "other" talents.

I was really smitten by her looks and talent, she can really sing better than a lot of the so-called singer artistes in the records market.

I really felt for her as I do sense that she likes me as well. At that time at this joint, $100-$200 flowers was like the "wow" feeling for the singers.

Of course i show my appreciation of hanging flowers then w/o really thinking abt any after transactions (still green & honest then )

However whenever I visited the joint, she will never entertain me for long even when i hang $100 flowers (big at that point time) but I am ok as I was really mesmerised by her powerful voice.

After quite a few visits, I realised that she is jealous of me hanging flowers for other singers as well. I told her since this is a HJF, no harm of me hanging other singers flowers as most jie-meis will always urge their regular supporters to help out their jie-meis in distress.

She then hinted to me to be "discreet" abt hanging flowers for other singers if i really support her. Note that i didnt even promise her i will be her long term supporter. She didnt really need my "miserly" flowers as i knew from the mgr that a lot of rich towkays are willing to splash $$$ to support her due to her powerful vocals and her svelte figure. She is easily the most prominent singer on stage. I also know many singers dun like her due to her aloofness and also the competition that she threatened.

After many visits and smses with her, I am really stunned when she sms me one day to ask if i am indeed serious abt her. I was thinking to myself "hey i wasnt even in the towkay catergory & she knows it well that i am just a working class customer, why did she ask me such a qn?? Is she trying to KC me then?

I really begin to feel troubled as i think i like really her as well. I didnt dare to commit to her overtures as i am fully aware of the rules of this game. The winner will be the customer that can hang the biggest flowers on show nite.

The nite before she did her show, she confessed to me over the phone that she likes me, despite no promises of any big financial commitment which is usually attached to the bf or supporter of the ang pai singer during show nite.

She revealed her feelings for me & I did the same too. The sour note of course is when she ask me if i can afford to be her long term bf during her stint in sg. One thing to note is she has no lack of big time customers who can and is able to be her bf. I just said i will try and she didnt reply me t/a.

fast forward === show nite. I was worried for her as no one hang for her after she performed 3 songs. My budget that nite was 2k max to support her. so b4 she begin her fourth song, i hang her a crown (1k flowers one shot!!) She thanked me profusely on stage as though as i am her saviour. Immediately after i hang, one big time customer hang her 1k/1k/2k/2k in quick sucession. Of course I pulled back as I know i have lost the battle.

It was normal for customers to “fight flowers" to determine the winner who can go supper with her after work. I lost the war as well as she did not contact me again after this show.

I really tot are HJF singers really so realistic that there is no real love....naive thinking from me at that point of time. I was really sad and depressed for a period of time, while she went on to be the queen of that HJF, easily bagging 80-100k per personal show. Heard her personal best was a staggering 180k per nite

Actually I would like to persist on as I i really felt sore that i "lost" her this way. I must thank her for terminating our "relationship" or else I will be a bankrupt by now.

Some bros are bound to condemn my foolishness for sinking in. But I think she saved me from leading a life of ruins if I were to be her bf then.

Just my own humble experience....and in support of some of the outright condemnation that all HJF singers treat us like suckers. They are human being with feelings after all.
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Re: Will you marry HFJ (Chinese) singers ?

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For bros who are sceptical abt HJF singers, I will share a personal experience and let the audience decide.

2 years back, I visited a big joint HJF (but was then a relatively unknown joint when i went there then) in Chinatown and really liked the atmosphere there.

Honest, the decor was splendid and the quality of singers really high. By that i mean the looks & real singing/performance talent; in case some bros here start inferring to their "other" talents.

I was really smitten by her looks and talent, she can really sing better than a lot of the so-called singer artistes in the records market.

I really felt for her as I do sense that she likes me as well. At that time at this joint, $100-$200 flowers was like the "wow" feeling for the singers.

Of course i show my appreciation of hanging flowers then w/o really thinking abt any after transactions (still green & honest then )

However whenever I visited the joint, she will never entertain me for long even when i hang $100 flowers (big at that point time) but I am ok as I was really mesmerised by her powerful voice.

After quite a few visits, I realised that she is jealous of me hanging flowers for other singers as well. I told her since this is a HJF, no harm of me hanging other singers flowers as most jie-meis will always urge their regular supporters to help out their jie-meis in distress.

She then hinted to me to be "discreet" abt hanging flowers for other singers if i really support her. Note that i didnt even promise her i will be her long term supporter. She didnt really need my "miserly" flowers as i knew from the mgr that a lot of rich towkays are willing to splash $$$ to support her due to her powerful vocals and her svelte figure. She is easily the most prominent singer on stage. I also know many singers dun like her due to her aloofness and also the competition that she threatened.

After many visits and smses with her, I am really stunned when she sms me one day to ask if i am indeed serious abt her. I was thinking to myself "hey i wasnt even in the towkay catergory & she knows it well that i am just a working class customer, why did she ask me such a qn?? Is she trying to KC me then?

I really begin to feel troubled as i think i like really her as well. I didnt dare to commit to her overtures as i am fully aware of the rules of this game. The winner will be the customer that can hang the biggest flowers on show nite.

The nite before she did her show, she confessed to me over the phone that she likes me, despite no promises of any big financial commitment which is usually attached to the bf or supporter of the ang pai singer during show nite.

She revealed her feelings for me & I did the same too. The sour note of course is when she ask me if i can afford to be her long term bf during her stint in sg. One thing to note is she has no lack of big time customers who can and is able to be her bf. I just said i will try and she didnt reply me t/a.

fast forward === show nite. I was worried for her as no one hang for her after she performed 3 songs. My budget that nite was 2k max to support her. so b4 she begin her fourth song, i hang her a crown (1k flowers one shot!!) She thanked me profusely on stage as though as i am her saviour. Immediately after i hang, one big time customer hang her 1k/1k/2k/2k in quick sucession. Of course I pulled back as I know i have lost the battle.

It was normal for customers to “fight flowers" to determine the winner who can go supper with her after work. I lost the war as well as she did not contact me again after this show.

I really tot are HJF singers really so realistic that there is no real love....naive thinking from me at that point of time. I was really sad and depressed for a period of time, while she went on to be the queen of that HJF, easily bagging 80-100k per personal show. Heard her personal best was a staggering 180k per nite

Actually I would like to persist on as I i really felt sore that i "lost" her this way. I must thank her for terminating our "relationship" or else I will be a bankrupt by now.

Some bros are bound to condemn my foolishness for sinking in. But I think she saved me from leading a life of ruins if I were to be her bf then.

Just my own humble experience....and in support of some of the outright condemnation that all HJF singers treat us like suckers. They are human being with feelings after all.
Thanks for sharing your story, for such AP singer, I gather it is at the former Macau, I think do not bother unless you have at least 20K to spare every month to feed her, when I was a noob although I still am now, I also fell to the same trick when she told me she was doing her show and worried that she will not have enough flowers, I myself prepared a few k to support her but luckily I read the situation well and only hung her $500 after realising that to win the battle that night I must hang more than 10K with no guarantee that she will give me her pussy, hence no way in hell I will fight a uncertain battle....your last statement is abit contridictory though..
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For bros who are sceptical abt HJF singers, I will share a personal experience and let the audience decide.

2 years back, I visited a big joint HJF (but was then a relatively unknown joint when i went there then) in Chinatown and really liked the atmosphere there.

Honest, the decor was splendid and the quality of singers really high. By that i mean the looks & real singing/performance talent; in case some bros here start inferring to their "other" talents.

I was really smitten by her looks and talent, she can really sing better than a lot of the so-called singer artistes in the records market.

I really felt for her as I do sense that she likes me as well. At that time at this joint, $100-$200 flowers was like the "wow" feeling for the singers.

Of course i show my appreciation of hanging flowers then w/o really thinking abt any after transactions (still green & honest then )

However whenever I visited the joint, she will never entertain me for long even when i hang $100 flowers (big at that point time) but I am ok as I was really mesmerised by her powerful voice.

After quite a few visits, I realised that she is jealous of me hanging flowers for other singers as well. I told her since this is a HJF, no harm of me hanging other singers flowers as most jie-meis will always urge their regular supporters to help out their jie-meis in distress.

She then hinted to me to be "discreet" abt hanging flowers for other singers if i really support her. Note that i didnt even promise her i will be her long term supporter. She didnt really need my "miserly" flowers as i knew from the mgr that a lot of rich towkays are willing to splash $$$ to support her due to her powerful vocals and her svelte figure. She is easily the most prominent singer on stage. I also know many singers dun like her due to her aloofness and also the competition that she threatened.

After many visits and smses with her, I am really stunned when she sms me one day to ask if i am indeed serious abt her. I was thinking to myself "hey i wasnt even in the towkay catergory & she knows it well that i am just a working class customer, why did she ask me such a qn?? Is she trying to KC me then?

I really begin to feel troubled as i think i like really her as well. I didnt dare to commit to her overtures as i am fully aware of the rules of this game. The winner will be the customer that can hang the biggest flowers on show nite.

The nite before she did her show, she confessed to me over the phone that she likes me, despite no promises of any big financial commitment which is usually attached to the bf or supporter of the ang pai singer during show nite.

She revealed her feelings for me & I did the same too. The sour note of course is when she ask me if i can afford to be her long term bf during her stint in sg. One thing to note is she has no lack of big time customers who can and is able to be her bf. I just said i will try and she didnt reply me t/a.

fast forward === show nite. I was worried for her as no one hang for her after she performed 3 songs. My budget that nite was 2k max to support her. so b4 she begin her fourth song, i hang her a crown (1k flowers one shot!!) She thanked me profusely on stage as though as i am her saviour. Immediately after i hang, one big time customer hang her 1k/1k/2k/2k in quick sucession. Of course I pulled back as I know i have lost the battle.

It was normal for customers to “fight flowers" to determine the winner who can go supper with her after work. I lost the war as well as she did not contact me again after this show.

I really tot are HJF singers really so realistic that there is no real love....naive thinking from me at that point of time. I was really sad and depressed for a period of time, while she went on to be the queen of that HJF, easily bagging 80-100k per personal show. Heard her personal best was a staggering 180k per nite

Actually I would like to persist on as I i really felt sore that i "lost" her this way. I must thank her for terminating our "relationship" or else I will be a bankrupt by now.

Some bros are bound to condemn my foolishness for sinking in. But I think she saved me from leading a life of ruins if I were to be her bf then.

Just my own humble experience....and in support of some of the outright condemnation that all HJF singers treat us like suckers. They are human being with feelings after all.
When the singer is "YOURS," the oldest trick in the book is to let all those hopefuls hang as much as possible during the show.
Then, at the end, blow them all away.
Thus the term, crouching tiger hidden dragon

BUT

If she isnt, dun bother at all.
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Then, at the end, blow them all away.
Thus the term, crouching tiger hidden dragon

BUT

If she isnt, dun bother at all.
Words of wisdom and experience! well said.
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She revealed her feelings for me & I did the same too. The sour note of course is when she ask me if i can afford to be her long term bf during her stint in sg. One thing to note is she has no lack of big time customers who can and is able to be her bf. I just said i will try and she didnt reply me t/a.

fast forward === show nite. I was worried for her as no one hang for her after she performed 3 songs. My budget that nite was 2k max to support her. so b4 she begin her fourth song, ...........
Bro syntex,

1 question have you reached her "south" already? before you hang that 1 k during her show??
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For bros who are sceptical abt HJF singers, I will share a personal experience and let the audience decide.

2 years back, I visited a big joint HJF (but was then a relatively unknown joint when i went there then) in Chinatown and really liked the atmosphere there.

Honest, the decor was splendid and the quality of singers really high. By that i mean the looks & real singing/performance talent; in case some bros here start inferring to their "other" talents.

I was really smitten by her looks and talent, she can really sing better than a lot of the so-called singer artistes in the records market.

I really felt for her as I do sense that she likes me as well. At that time at this joint, $100-$200 flowers was like the "wow" feeling for the singers.

Of course i show my appreciation of hanging flowers then w/o really thinking abt any after transactions (still green & honest then )

However whenever I visited the joint, she will never entertain me for long even when i hang $100 flowers (big at that point time) but I am ok as I was really mesmerised by her powerful voice.

After quite a few visits, I realised that she is jealous of me hanging flowers for other singers as well. I told her since this is a HJF, no harm of me hanging other singers flowers as most jie-meis will always urge their regular supporters to help out their jie-meis in distress.

She then hinted to me to be "discreet" abt hanging flowers for other singers if i really support her. Note that i didnt even promise her i will be her long term supporter. She didnt really need my "miserly" flowers as i knew from the mgr that a lot of rich towkays are willing to splash $$$ to support her due to her powerful vocals and her svelte figure. She is easily the most prominent singer on stage. I also know many singers dun like her due to her aloofness and also the competition that she threatened.

After many visits and smses with her, I am really stunned when she sms me one day to ask if i am indeed serious abt her. I was thinking to myself "hey i wasnt even in the towkay catergory & she knows it well that i am just a working class customer, why did she ask me such a qn?? Is she trying to KC me then?

I really begin to feel troubled as i think i like really her as well. I didnt dare to commit to her overtures as i am fully aware of the rules of this game. The winner will be the customer that can hang the biggest flowers on show nite.

The nite before she did her show, she confessed to me over the phone that she likes me, despite no promises of any big financial commitment which is usually attached to the bf or supporter of the ang pai singer during show nite.

She revealed her feelings for me & I did the same too. The sour note of course is when she ask me if i can afford to be her long term bf during her stint in sg. One thing to note is she has no lack of big time customers who can and is able to be her bf. I just said i will try and she didnt reply me t/a.

fast forward === show nite. I was worried for her as no one hang for her after she performed 3 songs. My budget that nite was 2k max to support her. so b4 she begin her fourth song, i hang her a crown (1k flowers one shot!!) She thanked me profusely on stage as though as i am her saviour. Immediately after i hang, one big time customer hang her 1k/1k/2k/2k in quick sucession. Of course I pulled back as I know i have lost the battle.

It was normal for customers to “fight flowers" to determine the winner who can go supper with her after work. I lost the war as well as she did not contact me again after this show.

I really tot are HJF singers really so realistic that there is no real love....naive thinking from me at that point of time. I was really sad and depressed for a period of time, while she went on to be the queen of that HJF, easily bagging 80-100k per personal show. Heard her personal best was a staggering 180k per nite

Actually I would like to persist on as I i really felt sore that i "lost" her this way. I must thank her for terminating our "relationship" or else I will be a bankrupt by now.

Some bros are bound to condemn my foolishness for sinking in. But I think she saved me from leading a life of ruins if I were to be her bf then.

Just my own humble experience....and in support of some of the outright condemnation that all HJF singers treat us like suckers. They are human being with feelings after all.
So what's your moral for this story?
1) Singers have feelings but they buried their feelings for money?
2) Singers are all fakers of feelings?
3) Money Talks, Bullshit Walks?
4) Singers 感情的事情是用金钱来衡量的?

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So this is HFJ.
  1. I never been to one.
Where is this chinatown joint?
  1. What is meaning: Fight Flower?
Must go look see look see
Hey bro IK,

Let me try

"I never been to one" -- that's becos you went to a few hfj a nite and never stick to 1 joint in any night ....

"What is meaning: Fight Flower" -- Bro IK - this you will never get to understand - Everyone fears you - and NO ONE will dare to hang any singer hanged by you regardless how little you hanged
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Hey bro IK,

Let me try

"I never been to one" -- that's becos you went to a few hfj a nite and never stick to 1 joint in any night ....

"What is meaning: Fight Flower" -- Bro IK - this you will never get to understand - Everyone fears you - and NO ONE will dare to hang any singer hanged by you regardless how little you hanged
Bro SSO, you very fast hand fast leg in reply..
Too late for me to edit my post... Shhhhh.......Not so loud, my Dage (大哥) is just few post above
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