How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

[Beemer]

Originally Posted by sy605181

halo to all shifu.after spending hours reading thru all stories! I like to share mine.bear wif me cos english not good. Get to know tis local milf fl thru a okt. I rtf her a mth later.while we waiting to check in we had drinks and chat like long lost fren.@the sidewalk cafe.after tat day we wil exchage sms almost everyday.we wil also meetup for dinner during her off day. Normaly i wil bonk her b4 i send her hm(i wil paid her.not free bonk.)at 1st my feeling 4 her just fren or fb.kc her never come into my mind ,i just enjoy her company and so do her.but when time past my feeling for her getting stronger and stronger ! My mood swing when she didn't reply my sms.i know she a fl and i am a married man,but sometime emotional very hard control !what i can do now is not to send or reply her sms and calls .i know its hard just let the time heal me......

Continue to bonk her until you are bored, everday eat prata, sometimes also want to take chapati.

[Beemer]

Originally Posted by eRicKz

Well said bro, this is the #1 rule that all bros need to instil in the mind.

IMHO, this KC game is just like any other BGR, except that the KC game involves 2 parties with hidden agenda. The man wants to KC the WL/FL/KTV gal but not KC-ed by her, and the WL/FL/KTV gal wants to KC the man but not KC-ed by him too. The man may feel that he has already KC the gal, but who knows if the gal is real KC-ed or just an act of KC-ed. Vice-versa, it can be the gal may feel that she has already KC the man, but is the man really KC-ed or just an another act of KC-ed too? Haha.. of course you can lay down all the rules, but end of the day, it really depends on how well you can control your emotions in the KC game. Many people can say that they won't be KC-ed not matter how, but no one knows for sure what will happen if you chanced upon THAT SPECIAL ONE gal (as they say in chinese - yi shan hai yuo yi shan gao mah). If you want to play KC, just make sure you are really prepared for it, and it is really not for people with wife & family/ stable GF loh I think.. Because you are risking a LOT more mah.

Also, the chances of a WL/FL/KTV gal being real KC-ed by a man is extremely low and in most cases it is the man who is real KC-ed by the WL/FL/KTV gal. I think this is because humans all have emotions and feelings mah, and especially SG guys because we are all so kind-hearted hahaha.. Lonely guys get easily KC-ed too, IMHO.

A man wants to KC a WL/FL/KTV gal for the thrills,fun and excitement, without being KC-ed by her. But there may be a 1% chance (or more??) that someday, somewhere, someone may finally KC you back lor.. LOL..

If really by chance any bro here are KC-ed by THAT ONE WL/FL/KTV gal, just try not to be deeply KC-ed until out of control (wu fa zi ba). Make sure you still got that one last resort that you can parachute yourself out of the situation (like a pilot in a crashing airplane). Or like in a casino, make sure you do not bet away your one last chip, saved it for another good day.. haha

But life is short and we only live once, so just enjoy the fun while you can, but be prepared for the unexpected since you choose to play the KC game.. hehe..

Hunter Hunted...

The challenger got challenge...

- Cause I am one of them...

[namelesssoul]

thank you bro. I really fell for this one girl. I tried to visit other girls to see if it was the same. Unfortunately its didn't work as i didn't get the same connection. ideally i wanted to have the same wonderful feeling with all the girls, then I would know it's nothing special). however it makes me want her more because other girls dont make me feel the same.

[jnewwit]

Originally Posted by namelesssoul

thank you bro. I really fell for this one girl. I tried to visit other girls to see if it was the same. Unfortunately its didn't work as i didn't get the same connection. ideally i wanted to have the same wonderful feeling with all the girls, then I would know it's nothing special). however it makes me want her more because other girls dont make me feel the same.

You should try harder, there are more trees in the forest ;-)

Anyway, you should not fall for girl in such joints.

[ThaiBeautiful]

Originally Posted by jnewwit

You should try harder, there are more trees in the forest ;-)

Anyway, you should not fall for girl in such joints.

jnewwit, remember me?

[jnewwit]

Originally Posted by ThaiBeautiful

jnewwit, remember me?

umm, no I don't remember. PM me to chat.

[AAconnection]

Originally Posted by Oldman66

I got KC 5 girls ....all become liabilities...

I spend 500K on them for 5 yrs....sad

The WL must be attractive or processed or emit woman fragrance that man will spend money on them. Some women do emit woman fragrance that the man cannot forget.

[SHalone]

Originally Posted by prccuntlover

Bro you played the game well 190/day
Imagine ktv sit girl butterfly here and there..

Yes I reckon that bro played the game well. I wish if my gal would ask me for more $ and I can harden my heart to break off with her.
My situation is different. Initially, I have the same mind set on how much I want to spend before I call it a day. For the first 6 months, I helped her on 3 occasions for a bill of about $10k. I get to fuck her every night if I want because she will come to my place after work. Of course, I spent more than 10k because I buy things like computer for her, peforume, watches, makan and holiday we take together but I dont think anything of these because you would spent the same with any woman together. Normal stuffs as a couple.
She has not since asked me for money other than the 3 occasions mentioned.
Next week we are going to be together for 1 year. And she has quit her job, now working as accountant in her relative company, she is also taking English lesson. But the worse thing is she does not want money, she want my freedom. She is talking about marriage, want to bring me home to see her parents which I have tactfully rejected. And she want to go Singapore to visit my parents. I am damned, I need to think of a way to stop this shit. But the thing is she is so "nice", I can't find a reason to break off. Of cos, I am human, I have feelings for her, so I am finding a reason or excuse for myself to be a bastard to break off with her.
FYI, she has spent 2k on my bday present and offered to pay me back the $10k but I just asked her to keep by her side for now.
I still have another 2 chic by the side, 1 in ZH and 1 in Singapore.
But at this moment, don't know who KC who yet. The SG one, met her at LV. Sat with me for 2 hours, I tips her $150 and I have to leave. Next day, met up bonk twice, offered to pay her but she turned down. All this while, she knows I will be leaving back to shanghai the following day.
Now we are planning to go HK for holiday, I tell myself, I am willing to spend about $3-4k for her shopping to compensate a 4days 3 night company. Let's see if she would bring out her knife.

[padaone]

These are just my opnions. I think one of the reasons so many guys get burnt so badly by the kc game is that they try to get the wl to stop working. No work= no income. The moneys gotta come from somewhere. After a period of time subsiding her expenses she puts the guy into the carrot zone. Thats where everything goes downhill. Personally I make it clear at the start that im not her atm. Pay for food etc is ok. But never for sex. She can continue to work for all I care. Better someone else pay for her expenses than me. Just my 2 cents

[chickenlittley]

very true..thanx for sharing

[anthonyKKW]

Can we re-define KC as healthy KC? Kam-Ching as in close friend kam-Ching? A close friend, a soul mate and a FB. There is no need to be in head-over-toes love-to-death type of relationship like those in Korean dramas.

If we are talking about this type of KC, then, both side should KC each other.

[muscleboi]

Bros, i'm still a newbie in the cheongster world.

a couple of days ago, i just patronised a pretty PRC MM for the first time. Halfway in the middle of doing the deed (past that one hour mark liao still haven't shoot), she threw tantrum complaining so long why i still haven't shoot and she tired liao and said she don't wanna do anymore. i was like then my didi began to shrink. coaxed her (ya...seriously..) for a while and then managed to continue to finish the deed. she got alot of don'ts such as no wet kiss, only bj etc. And she doesn't look you in the eyes despite I repeatedly telling her give me her CFM look. after the deed, we actually chatted for over an hour before she meets her next customer..and she's back to happy mode (smiling and laughing) again...wtf..

the strange thing is...I think I kenna KC-ed by her liao. after reading bro Harvest's guides, I tio quite a few points (eg. kept thinking about her even until today). her attitude is not good but i tio KC. wth right? cos she fitted my requirements (eg. bj only. no bbbj.) and she's very straightforward..wth...i like her character leh ..itching to RTF. but have to tahan. have to tell myself that its afterall a commercial transaction.

heng i got come here and read about all bros past experiences. thanks for sharing. I have come to the conclusion that there's ABSOLUTELY NO "SHE'S THE SPECIAL ONE"...even if there is, I wouldn't want to take the risk since the percentage is tiny..

we should keep this thread alive, seriously. it warned me of the underlying dangers of kenna KC. now I will wait until the KC feeling subside and disappear before I continue chiong. chances are I won't RTF her because of one reason..we pay to release and NOT to see tantrums..

[ahpui99]

Hi bro


I know the feeling what you faced.
Before mid 2011, i used to be sucker for this type of behaviour. But after going to china, you realize that there are tons of woman that want to please you and do not give you shit.

Dont get me wrong. Can get bad experiences in China or any other place.

But once u can control your heart, you can control your dick and you can play safer.....

[ALonelyPerson]

I so young and i get so ruin terribly by these FL , especially PRC .. they really do anything to make things happen .. there will not be any kind one here in this earth ...

[justl00king]

Many bros fall into kc trap because they cross the line and break the rules of engagement.

You book FL because you want to release, she is in FL because she wants money. It's a purely commercial transaction, but we bros want to have more than just the sex.

So after meeting the FL, some bros want to be knight to save FL, some want to date them and have bgr, some want to built relations to better chemistry in bed.

So we bros have many different agendas when engaging a FL. But for her there is simply just one, MONEY.

I am pretty sure a fl wouldn't be doing it for the purpose of hopefully meeting a future bf or husband.