Need Help On How To Make My Wife Sexually Active? - Page 4

Anel King · #46 14-07-2010, 06:54 PM

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Originally Posted by yang punk

Women are so fucking strange...own husband don't want but other's husband than want!
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But funny thing ... now with one foot in the grave wifee wants intimacy but I am not interested!

Bro
I think you might be on to something. Why can't all the sexually active people meet each other, while those who are dormant meet each other. Then they can enjoy each other better because they know what to expect from each other.

But like the saying goes, opposites attract. So the attraction must be really good not to divorce. And in some cases, still can eat outside & come home to wife as a good hubby.

Regards
Anel King

Anel King · #47 14-07-2010, 06:56 PM

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Originally Posted by laudiko

mine only allow sex every 2 weeks....so consider lucky???

Brother,

Compare with many of us here, You Si Beh Heng Ch**Bye F***ing Lucky ah!!!

Regards
Anel King

samyboys · #48 14-07-2010, 11:01 PM

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Originally Posted by yang punk

Women are so fucking strange...own husband don't want but other's husband than want!

Why I say this? Cos my experience similar. Wife when busy climbing career ladder and caring for 2 kids (with my help of cos) was not interested in sex. Had to pcc myself whilst sleeping next to her! Until I connected with an office wife. She was married with 2 kids and a busy husband. So we took care of each other at the end of each work day and both go home to our respective families happy.

Even after the relationship ended cordially (she was transferred to another office) I had no problem finding another replacement. Another married woman with busy bizman husband. So no sex at home but got sex in the office! Can't complain.

But funny thing ... now with one foot in the grave wifee wants intimacy but I am not interested!

u are lucky that u got back up, wished i were u

ch18 · #49 14-07-2010, 11:12 PM

Sigh..... Seemed that many Bros here are on the same ship....

Rickey · #50 15-07-2010, 06:12 AM

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Originally Posted by yang punk

Women are so fucking strange...own husband don't want but other's husband than want!

Why I say this? Cos my experience similar. Wife when busy climbing career ladder and caring for 2 kids (with my help of cos) was not interested in sex. Had to pcc myself whilst sleeping next to her! Until I connected with an office wife. She was married with 2 kids and a busy husband. So we took care of each other at the end of each work day and both go home to our respective families happy.

Even after the relationship ended cordially (she was transferred to another office) I had no problem finding another replacement. Another married woman with busy bizman husband. So no sex at home but got sex in the office! Can't complain.

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Originally Posted by deptrai4u

Let me unfold the whole thing in completion for ur perusal. I will type slowly so that u can really understand it clearly.

Somehow most (I would not say all, but most here means anything between 98 to 99%) feels that sex after kids is really what the chinese saying "draw snake add legs". In fact if a whole bunch of mummies get together, the talking topic will be kids, or shopping, fashion, and if 1 of them says "and I still like very much about making love with my husband", do you know what will happed to her???? She will immediately be seen as out-cast and will not be invited for the next group outing. I am not making this out, this has been written in one of the magazine before (either Female or Her World kind of mag).

IMHO, there is NO WAY to escape from this for those who married the 98 to 99% of Singapore girls... u can take whatever precautions but u will get into this trap 98 to 99% of the time. ..

Let me tell u the facts... my wife (by default referring to the Singapore one.... I still got a few others outside of Singapore by the way..) before marriage, we quite active sexually.. after marriage, very active quarreling (as a means of communication, which is still ok), and a lot less sex.. after 1st kid, 1 more time and kenna 2nd kid and no more.... and that was 6 years ago.

Most of my friends go thru this... kids stick to mummy, mummy sleeps in kids room ... etc.. and then SUDDENLY when kids reach teens, they usually dun want mummy anymore.. that is when trouble starts... wify by then either late 30s or early 40s, she suddenly want the husbands again.. by then husbands used to greener pastures already and dun want old vege anymore.. guess wat happens??? Divorce!

So nowadays, when some young men tells me they are going to ROM with their Singapore gf.. i tell them ROM = Registry Of Mistake. I even tell them dun ever invite me to their wedding if they are marrying a Singapore girl.. because it will be no different from attending their funeral...

Since u have already married a Singapore girl (my deepest condolences to you), i suggest that u should live ur life in such a way that u will have little regret if you should die in ur sleep tonight and not wake up tomorrow. Go for what u think u deserve, but try not to jeopardize the family... and trust me that this is a lot easier and better than to try to convince ur wife that u need sex to stay sane.

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Originally Posted by unger

I have quite some lady friends whom we talk openly. I understand from them,
that some women, after birth, will lose interest in sex. They become very dry
, even with KY.

Personally i felt that singapore women, not all, tend to be too, overly self-centered. Like one of the brother here said, His wife commented, "not happly eat outside........." see, women tend to say this but when they file for divorce, this are things they used against you, but alway forgooten that they have neglected their husband, and they think it is legal and right. They think they are there just to bare the family 1 or 2 kids and they have done their duty. So they are not for their husband to f*&k.

I do feel sorry for you and those suffering the consequences.

My advise to all brothers out there, try to talk to your wife to solve the problem.

Looks like there are no other better ways out for most of us bros here than to look for FLs or FBs etc. Our OCs seems to be all the same as mentioned by bros above.

When will they ( and the likely up and coming potential 1s ) ever learn to treat their husbands as lovers rather than children long after the wedding day. They all seems to fall into the same trap. The very moment all of them are able to do so, the world's oldest profession will cease to survive..

And its no point trying to talk to them, they are simply not interested in sex anymore.... the econ principle of diminishing returns applies beginning from day 1 (wedding day) to having 1 child after another til .... sigh. Actually 1 can say tat almost every wedding we see today will end up in tis sad situation...just a matter of time, ....and more so if they are SG gal and holding high position and high salary jobs. The risks are yours to take....

So beware bros, be warned.....think hard before u walk down tat aisle and say "i do" wif whoever tat gal is. An Angel b4 marriage can turn into a Devil after. And once said, its irreversible !!.... Now i know why many pple choose to remain single...sigh

ch18 · #51 15-07-2010, 06:18 AM

An angel b4 marriage can turn into a devil after. And once said, its irreversible !!....

This is so damn RIGHT leh......

Anel King · #52 15-07-2010, 12:06 PM

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Originally Posted by ch18

Sigh..... Seemed that many Bros here are on the same ship....

Yes bro, yes we are in the Same Ship!!!!

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Originally Posted by ch18

An angel b4 marriage can turn into a devil after. And once said, its irreversible !!....

This is so damn RIGHT leh......

Well bro, sort of right.

For me is
A boy who became a Devil in School & NS.
Then an Angel during Courtship and Marriage.
Now am getting a call from the Devil to come back again.

Regards
Anel King

Anel King · #53 15-07-2010, 12:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Rickey

Looks like there are no other better ways out for most of us bros here than to look for FLs or FBs etc. Our OCs seems to be all the same as mentioned by bros above.
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So beware bros, be warned.....think hard before u walk down tat aisle and say "i do" wif whoever tat gal is. An Angel b4 marriage can turn into a Devil after. And once said, its irreversible !!.... Now i know why many pple choose to remain single...sigh

Bro, Very well said.

And I am beginning to agree with with what most brothers here say. But it's like a bitter pill to swallow. It's still stuck in my tonsils, but starting to slip down to my throat.

Regards
Anel King

Anel King · #54 15-07-2010, 12:34 PM

Hi Sistas of SBF

I would like to get some of you views as well. At least we will know what the females think as well.

I am really hoping to work thing out with my wife before I finally conclude that if I fail, the playground is always there for me.

Would really appreaciate if the Sisters here can join in the discussion.

Regards
Anel King

sgiceboy · #55 15-07-2010, 01:09 PM

guess lots of bros in the same state.. no sex after kids...

is this a growing trend?

like i says life still goes... sex or no sex...

FL, HC, PCC..... its all up to you....

samyboys · #56 15-07-2010, 02:41 PM

there's hardly any ladies around here

kgbkgb · #57 15-07-2010, 02:53 PM

whoah. i'm surprised so many women are disinterested in sex. Mine dun mind to have it evryday. I have an intimate female fren who also said she doesnt mind evryday.

kgbkgb · #58 15-07-2010, 02:56 PM

1 more thing i notice is this. Women tend to be disinterested in sex if interval is too long. The more frequent it is, the more she becomes interested. TS might wanna try this out

tomvoyeur · #59 15-07-2010, 03:47 PM

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Originally Posted by kgbkgb

whoah. i'm surprised so many women are disinterested in sex. Mine dun mind to have it evryday. I have an intimate female fren who also said she doesnt mind evryday.

Women like sex too. They just did not find the right man. So to all husbands - be wary when ur wife is not interested in having sex with u - they just released it somewhere else.

Anel King · #60 15-07-2010, 06:22 PM

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Originally Posted by kgbkgb

whoah. i'm surprised so many women are disinterested in sex. Mine dun mind to have it evryday. I have an intimate female fren who also said she doesnt mind evryday.

Bro

Thats what they all say before Marriage. But the reality come after marriage. As you can see from all the responses in this thread and others.

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Originally Posted by kgbkgb

1 more thing i notice is this. Women tend to be disinterested in sex if interval is too long. The more frequent it is, the more she becomes interested. TS might wanna try this out

That might be true if they don't have kids. Unless other bros can say otherwise.

Regards
Anel King