LOL...I thought ppl like us is play until sian alrdy then will settle down?
I got married last year and started "playing" actively again last year. In fact, I'm probably at the apogee of my cheongster days right now. Go figure.
Before that, I was rather semi-active, like one visit every 1-2 months.
Used to go to YF last time too. I found she's quite good.
But sadly she out of scene already.
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Last time, I only go for YF and her so-called disciples. That's when I started JG. Laura I never tried before. Nowadays, I go JB for my regular JG sessions.
The tomboy May is good, but the pain is unbearable and her nonsense too. Keep scolding and cursing. Other than that, the after effects are the best. And her advise for the diet and exercise is really solid.
Many other shops also have JG, but only a handful of them really know how to do JG and prostate massage. Have to tried them out yourself to get the best results and get healthy.
I got married last year and started "playing" actively again last year. In fact, I'm probably at the apogee of my cheongster days right now. Go figure.
Before that, I was rather semi-active, like one visit every 1-2 months.
Sometimes the cheemest words are found in this forum. Lol had to go and google apogee. I'm single now but I really find it hard if someday I have to juggle between married life and chionging outside.
Sometimes the cheemest words are found in this forum. Lol had to go and google apogee. I'm single now but I really find it hard if someday I have to juggle between married life and chionging outside.
Ironically, some of the fiercest cheongsters are actually the best family men.
LOL...I thought ppl like us is play until sian alrdy then will settle down?
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I second that.
Nope, it's just that you haven't found the one
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Ironically, some of the fiercest cheongsters are actually the best family men.
I love this quote. And I met a lot of them in KTVs. Some of them even bring their wives there. Without the wives around they are hungry wolves, hunting for their likely prey. With the wives around, even the KTV girls will shy away and let the guys behave like they are the in contention for "Husband of the year"
And I shamelessly will say I am one of them. Wife and family always comes first. And the girls will respect and trust you more when your actions speaks louder than your words.
It's always the boring daily things you do that determines who you are, than those big beautiful parties you throw on big occasions. It's not always the amount of $$$ thrown in, but the effort you put in.
Many rich white knights can throw in few Ks just to have 1 shot, which many of the girls won't reject. Afterall they are here for the $$$. But if you want to have meaningful relationships, millions of dollars also cannot buy it.
It's the daily mundane things you do for her that determines whether you are worthy of their love and time. Just try buying a meal for a girl everyday, be it breakfast lunch or dinner. Especially a ML/FL. You don't have to book a session with her to send it over. Just ask for a small window of 3-5mins to send over the food. It's always the time and effort that determines the outcome.
I love this quote. And I met a lot of them in KTVs. Some of them even bring their wives there. Without the wives around they are hungry wolves, hunting for their likely prey. With the wives around, even the KTV girls will shy away and let the guys behave like they are the in contention for "Husband of the year"
And I shamelessly will say I am one of them. Wife and family always comes first. And the girls will respect and trust you more when your actions speaks louder than your words.
For some reason, ladies (WL and non-WL alike) seem to find married guys more attractive, don't know why. I seem to get this impression, do you?
Whatever it is, at the end of the day, we will still go back to our families.
I got married last year and started "playing" actively again last year. In fact, I'm probably at the apogee of my cheongster days right now. Go figure.
Before that, I was rather semi-active, like one visit every 1-2 months.
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Sometimes the cheemest words are found in this forum. Lol had to go and google apogee. I'm single now but I really find it hard if someday I have to juggle between married life and chionging outside.
Lol ... I google it, after found the word really cheem too...... Family life is really not easy, especially the 1st year or the "honeymoon year". Many things are really difficult even though we maybe staying together way before marriage, and thought marriage is the next step to take.
Lesser things to talk about , more conflicts about everything. I even went for marriage preparation classes and marriage counselling, and things only get worse, not better.
That's why I feel you bro, on the apogee of your cheongster days. For me, I met my 红颜知己, which I felt I am lucky. And she feels my frustrations, though she's much younger and not married yet. She's planning to do so next year. And now I am much like a 白老鼠 to her.... Lol .... I am just enjoying whilst it still is honeymoon-like
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It's true....women have the sharpest 6th sense. Can hide one meh? Or sometimes they just 闭一只眼?
Women always 闭一只眼, just don't go overboard and stay within their limits. Every woman have different limits though. You have to test it in order to know the limit. The second chance is always there. But do it only once. Trust broken no easy to get back.
Initially pocket hurts a lot more. But eventually, they invested more in me than I invested in them. And be pleasantly surprised that some of them are quite business savvy. I actually made more money when I am with them. But the pain is double when they left around the same time. Leaving me with nobody to replace them within the short time.
Just have to blame my own bad luck that they got caught and got sent back within one period of big big wind operation.
For some reason, ladies (WL and non-WL alike) seem to find married guys more attractive, don't know why. I seem to get this impression, do you?
Whatever it is, at the end of the day, we will still go back to our families.
Yes, i do now, especially after I told them I just got married this year. even to those who I knew for years way before, they seems to be more open to relationships and lower their defences to me. More heart-to-heart talks and some even hugged and kissed me without any initiations from me.
Last time, I always maintained that I am single and available to make myself more appealing, even I am attached. Nowadays, married men are actually the most sought after. 好男人永远都是别人的老公
Yes, we still go back to out families end of day. We eat shit outside, and never to bring the food and shit back home.
For some reason, ladies (WL and non-WL alike) seem to find married guys more attractive, don't know why. I seem to get this impression, do you?
Whatever it is, at the end of the day, we will still go back to our families.
Maybe it represent a certain level of income?
And maybe know how to take care of ladies better?
For many non-WL gals, they also will think this chap is safe to us coz already married.
As a single, the most common accusation of me was 'im choosy', 'playboy', 'anti-social', 'pervert', 'potential rapist' and even to some extent....rumors among company I'm gay.
Yes, i do now, especially after I told them I just got married this year. even to those who I knew for years way before, they seems to be more open to relationships and lower their defences to me. More heart-to-heart talks and some even hugged and kissed me without any initiations from me.
Last time, I always maintained that I am single and available to make myself more appealing, even I am attached. Nowadays, married men are actually the most sought after. 好男人永远都是别人的老公
Yes, we still go back to out families end of day. We eat shit outside, and never to bring the food and shit back home.
Next time, I should just say Im married n get cheap ring to put around my finger.....
interesting experiment.
can only say a bit lah ... cannot say too deep ... LOL ... Me considered very lucky at that time. And one of them got 偏财运, always kena 4D every month, so I just ask her to buy a bit more of whatever number she buy, and ride on her luck.
2nd one is actually close to a director of a listed company, she hooked me up with him and I got a nice-paying job. 3rd one enlisted my help for her sisters who wished to come here for jobs - real jobs, not those ML/FL things. I just googled and help them look for employment agencies. After things are successful, they gave me 红包 and treat me to meals after they settled down here.
Being married mean you're less likely to fall deeply in love with them (WL).
Heard many cases of Singaporean guys fall deeply for them which can either turn ugly or too sticky for them.
I got married last year and started "playing" actively again last year. In fact, I'm probably at the apogee of my cheongster days right now. Go figure.
Before that, I was rather semi-active, like one visit every 1-2 months.
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Yes, i do now, especially after I told them I just got married this year.
Actually, what drove you guys to sought for such services since after married for just one year??