Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[aman]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

When the WLs sweet talk to me, i also sweet talk back to them.

I always told them that i feel jealous when they r being touch by other men, even more jealous when they go to khack san with other men.

The purpose of my sweet talk is to bargain for sxx......

hehe bro i not need to sweet talk to my gir still get sxx.....

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by aman

hehe bro i not need to sweet talk to my gir still get sxx.....

Becos u different! Maybe u r handsome

[aman]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

Becos u different! Maybe u r handsome

bro most working viet gir here, they don't go for handsome. if you got $$$ they come to you.
yes i jealous also but already knw wat she work as.... so len len.
cant giv her $$ to stop her work. just care abt her..this is wat i win her heart

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by aman

bro most working viet gir here, they don't go for handsome. if you got $$$ they come to you.
yes i jealous also but already knw wat she work as.... so len len.
cant giv her $$ to stop her work. just care abt her..this is wat i win her heart

Majority of the WLs are richer than me! For e.g those working in the KTV minimum they can earn abt $200 per nite. This exclude going to hotel!

Let say they work 24 days excluding sunday, usually no customer on sunday.
They earn 24 x $200 = $4800!!!! per mth, basket more than graduate salary in spore!

That why i hv to sweet talk, or else they won't go hotel becos they earn enough from KTV alone!

[aman]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

Let say they work 24 days excluding sunday, usually no customer on sunday.
They earn 24 x $200 = $4800!!!! per mth, basket more than graduate salary in spore!

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that y i never bother her when she work

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

Is there really true love with a WL?

Frankly I enjoy WLs telling me that they love or like me, but i know that they r lying to me!

sometimes it is shiok to hear sweet talk from WLs

Next time when I c u, I tell u, u r the most handsome guy I ever seen. Pls pass me SGD20.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by aman

cant giv her $$ to stop her work. just care abt her..this is wat i win her heart

I ever spent 2000SGD for 14 days.... She was my most love...

Those were the days.... u can called it stupid or happiness.


Heng o dau???

[chanyboy]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Two virgins la

wa lau, le two ah... virgin here, virgin there...make one horny & fantasise hor. Aiyah, to'row (Tue) go press some existing (*)(*) before the actual thing. Mok has many many fulfillment to make. Me always solo...

SViet can't make it, but the rest do go. The gers come in quite late nowadays (9 to 9.30pm & thereafter..sianz waiting really) - all getting smart.

[SingViet]

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Singapore matchmaker offers Vietnamese factory girls as escorts

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[SingViet]

Marriages to Vietnamese decline

FOREIGN BRIDES: An official said that a rule requiring potential brides to undergo an interview was the reason behind a 70 percent drop in marriages from last year

CNA , HO CHI MINH CITY. Thursday, Dec 29, 2005

The number of Vietnamese women marrying Taiwanese men plummeted this year, mainly because of the resumption of the individual interview program by the government, a liaison source in Ho Chi Minh City said yesterday.

Because of a regulation requiring Vietnamese women planning to marry Taiwanese men to visit Taiwan's liaison office in Ho Chi Minh City or Hanoi to be interviewed individually, the number of Vietnamese woman marrying Taiwanese men declined by 70 percent to 3,461 in the first 11 months of this year from 12,202 last year, said Chen Shan-lin (陳杉林), representative of the Taipei Economic and Cultural Office in Ho Chi Minh City.

Taiwan withdrew the individual interview regulation in 1999 and allowed potential Vietnamese brides to be interviewed in groups, resulting in a record high 13,863 marriages between Vietnamese women and Taiwanese men that year.

The figure averaged 12,000 annually between 2000 and last year, Chen said, adding that the Taiwan office in Ho Chi Minh City approved a total of 90,215 Vietnamese women to go to Taiwan after marrying Taiwanese men between 1995 and last month. The total number exceeds 100,000 if approvals issued by Taiwan's liaison office in Hanoi are included, he added.

Under the individual interview system, the average period between a Vietnamese woman filing an application and departing for Taiwan is about eight months, Chen said, adding that the average wait for an interview in Ho Chi Minh City is about six months because of the large number of applicants.

Consequently, marriage brokers have since this year begun to encourage potential "Vietnamese brides" to submit their applications in Hanoi instead of Ho Chi Minh City to accelerate the process, Chen said.

The average wait for an interview in the Vietnamese capital is only between one and two months, Chen added.

According to Chen, potential Taiwanese husbands usually fly into Vietnam on the weekend, and arrangements are made for them to meet with their potential brides. If the couple hit it off, they usually get married on Saturday or Sunday and then jointly file applications with Taiwan's offices in Vietnam for entry into Taiwan on Monday or Tuesday.

About half of the Taiwanese men marrying Vietnamese women are between 30 and 40 years old, while about 23 percent are aged between 41 and 50. By comparison, some 77 percent of the Vietnamese women marrying Taiwan men are between 20 and 30 years old, while some 14 percent are under the age of 20.

Nearly 67 percent of the Taiwanese men marrying Vietnamese women have a junior high school level education, and about 20 percent have a senior high school education. By comparison, 63 percent of the Vietnamese women have an elementary school education, and 28 percent have a junior high education, according to Chen.

[SingViet]

Singapore girl
Time to play the 'little woman'
Girls here are smarter, driven but do they better good partners than neighbouring girls? Letter in Straits Times. Nov 4, 2004

A FEW weeks back, I was intrigued when two male friends started lambasting the Singapore female and exalting the China girl.

It was not because of the concept of cross-matching across countries. That has been going on for centuries now, and I, being half-Peranakan, should be the last to raise an eyebrow about outsourcing for mates. Rather, it was the mindset of the men that was interesting.

'China girls are so pretty and have lower expectations,' said one. Added the other:
'Singapore girls are too demanding, they have a long list of expectations.'

Each glanced at me expectantly, as if waiting for me to put up an impassioned defence of the hard-to-please Singapore woman.

I half-smiled, waiting for the 'prawn-peeling' issue to surface. This was the mode of conversation I would have expected from 50-year-old single or slighted men, but coming from the mouths of 22-year-old boys with bright futures was a stunning revelation of the mindset of the young Singaporean male.

Either they have no originality or Singapore girls are really too much to handle.

The news of the past two weeks confirmed the latter for me: Young 20-something men going to Bintan for cheap sex; 30-something men going to Vietnam for quick marriages. What is going on here?

I have been to Vietnam, and I love the place. The girls, true to form, are slim, tall and soft-spoken. Every word is punctuated with a smile, even when you are driving a hard bargain with them.

Their speech is melodious, and they work hard without complaining, carrying loads of cloth and vegetables in the market stalls and food places. Simple, gentle and hardworking, it's hard not to fall in love with them.

So too are Malaysian girls. Having friends who are dating these girls, I have observed that they are generally of the 'saccharine' variety. Neither loud nor argumentative, they pander to the boys' needs.

Not as doormats, but as cheerful assistants, who see it as their obligation to help their men without expecting anything in return. Not that they are stupid - oh, no, the Malaysian girls I know are smart and hardworking, with careers of their own.

But when it comes to matters of the heart, they play the docile, giggly girlfriend with as much aplomb as their Viet counterparts.

Again, it's easy to see where their attraction lies.

I cannot comment on the Chinese girls or the girls from Bintan, but I can contrast the Malaysian and Vietnamese girls I know with Singapore girls. We are, generally, extremely driven by ideals and emotions.

In an argument, the Singapore girl is twice as likely as her Malaysian or Vietnamese counterpart to stride away in a huff or throw water on the male's face or hold a public screaming or crying fit.

Not for this girl are soft, barely audible replies. The Singapore girl debates and argues impassionedly. She wants to win at all costs and treats her love conquests like those fought in the office arena.

She may be pretty, yes, smart, yes, but, oh, so demanding.

The Singapore girl, in short, is a challenge to love. Although she may, at the end of the day, be a supportive and faithful spouse, the barbs hiding her soft interior are daunting to the suitor.

She is materialistic, and loves being so. Shopping is a major hobby, and looking good is absolutely essential. The man is but another accessory, a helper, chauffeur, bag carrier.

Her girlfriends egg her on, smiling at one friend as her boyfriend picks her up after class each day and cheering the girl who unceremoniously dumps her cheating boyfriend in the middle of the road.

Girl power, we think unanimously. We are not going to be one of those docile wives who nod their heads and cook for you at the slightest command. We are not going to have wool pulled over our eyes by your romantic nonsense. No way. We are women of the new age, liberal, free and... single?

Somehow the whole idea of women's liberation in Singapore seems to have come at the expense of our love lives. We have assimilated Western role models of strong women without taking into account the men that are alongside us.

I have no answers, short of comforting Singapore women with the fact that pets make quite good companions.

However, for the sake of government procreation policies, I think it's imperative that a compromise be struck between the Singapore woman and man, before the Singapore born and bred woman becomes a relic of the past.

I remember an interview years ago in which a prominent local host, very much an image of the career-driven Singapore woman, said that with her then boyfriend, she played the role of the 'little woman'. Perhaps therein lies the secret weapon that Singapore women need to cultivate: a softer un-barbed personality for matters of the heart.
Wong Mei Xuan (Miss)
Straits Times
Oct 23, 2004

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Singapore girl
[COLOR="Red"][SIZE="5"]Time to play the 'little woman'


1. In an argument, the Singapore girl is twice as likely as her Malaysian or Vietnamese counterpart to stride away in a huff or throw water on the male's face or hold a public screaming or crying fit.

2. The Singapore girl debates and argues impassionedly.

3. She may be pretty, yes, smart, yes, but, oh, so demanding.

4. The Singapore girl, in short, is a challenge to love. Although she may, at the end of the day, be a supportive and faithful spouse

5. She is materialistic, and loves being so. Shopping is a major hobby, and looking good is absolutely essential. The man is but another accessory, a helper, chauffeur, bag carrier.


Oct 23, 2004

I hv read this news about 1 year ago and strongly agree what hv been written above. To be fair not every sporean gal r like that!

My ex is a malaysian, but she hv the above-mentioned attribute......

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by chanyboy

wa lau, le two ah... virgin here, virgin there...make one horny & fantasise hor. Aiyah, to'row (Tue) go press some existing (*)(*) before the actual thing. Mok has many many fulfillment to make. Me always solo...

SViet can't make it, but the rest do go. The gers come in quite late nowadays (9 to 9.30pm & thereafter..sianz waiting really) - all getting smart.

Bro, I can't make it today.

[bonkers69]

happen to come across this thread.
Just wonder , can relation with Viet WL really turn out to be fruitful?

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by bonkers69

happen to come across this thread.
Just wonder , can relation with Viet WL really turn out to be fruitful?

An open question, in this forum it is either can or cannot.... u won't find a definite answer. But to me personally I vote for "cannot".