Safe to travel alone with PRC GF back to China?

[Beiyang Army]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Well, if you got the $$$ to spend, you will not think in your lite.
Remember, all these while, she never asked....I gave....
As for the place in Chengdu, I got my people to go there 2 days after she went back to throw all occupants out......but by then, already move out liao........House still there since i still go up there quite often......so not really a loss.....

That's Y i keep saying, the stress level here is not the $$$$$, but the heartpain at the end.......

Money lost can always be gained back but the important thing is never let it get you down! Take care man.

[White Lion]

Actually a friend of my just recently broke off with his PRC girl. He lost some money but was actually glad to be rid of her. Unlike your usual cheating case the girl did not cheat him but was so stupid and careless in managing the money that in the end she lost everything! At that time my friend had already written her off and refused her offer of marriage (he had originally planned to marry her after saving for 2 years even after her failure to get her business going).

He was only too glad that he did not go ahead eariler on when she offered to ROM with him to proof that she was willing to be with him.

[colins]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

No worries mate.....
I am willing to share as long as it can prevent another bro from falling in......
Like my 3rd mistress said, at the end of the day, who is rite, who is wrong.....
She didnt beg you to stay.....you didnt beg her to stay either.....you went in it willingly....so u can only blame it on yourself.
But good thing is that, you didnt loose much material wise but she lost an opportunity to be a person.......and forever stay in the path of a WL......so stupid of her.....

But the story here is not about her, if about guys falling into this trap.
Till now, bro azarro has replied to many threads but still have not mentioned his findings...i sense he's got somethings he cant say......well his choice..

Bro I think the reason you still can relate the entire affair in such details shows that it truly matters a lot to you. My ex used to be like that too, sometimes they also know they are living in very tight space trying to match lies after lies, but its a shithole they dig for themselves until there's no return.

I also feel that azzaro is withholding something which is quite crucial, and becos he is not telling, whatever we say is not directed at what he really want, so it has very little effect.

[colins]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

Well not say I didn't mentioned my findings, it is just that she didn't do anything like picking up calls & acting strange or doing things which arouse my suspicions.

Everything she does is pretty normal. My suspicions which I have is those I imagined out due to the fact I don't trust her enough.

Or maybe I am too dense or dumb to notice it.

Maybe bros can enlighten me what are the typical things which I suppose to look out for and i try to recall from my memory see it got happened.

Suspicion is a feeling, given the fact that you know you're not a trusting person, if you 'see' something that confirms your suspicion, you wouldnt be here talking about this and being neither here nor there. You probably have this feeling from your general contact with her, or your prejudice on her previous job had already started.

If you dun trust anybody, at least trust yourself. Personally, anybody who doesn't stand to gain from my trust is also trustworthy.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by colins

I also feel that azzaro is withholding something which is quite crucial, and becos he is not telling, whatever we say is not directed at what he really want, so it has very little effect.

At the end of the day, one's life is in one's palm.
Suspicion is the root to all evil...you dun fall in love wif someone and have suspicion out of the blue........there has to be a root...

That's why i decided to relate the whole story out so it can bring lite.....
I had suspicion, lots of it but i decided to lie to myself & paid the price.....
From his postings, can tell he's quite a normal guy, so, also guess he doesn't have much $$$$ to be cheated but more heart.....
Again, gals arent dumb. Sometimes they choose a simpler guy for more security reasons......rich men are hard or near impossible to control!

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by colins

Bro I think the reason you still can relate the entire affair in such details shows that it truly matters a lot to you.

How to forget.......biggest booboo of my life plus as per my fortune teller, still got one last act then the show can finish......best of all, he says not like bump into each other but she'll seek me out for reconciliation....how to store in archive?????
So, I am waiting for that day to come so i can end it once and for all........honestly, i still do have fear....cos if i see her, i may just melt again...though i'm mentally strong now, the truth will be revealed at the moment of truth!
Scary.......but for my fortune and future, i know i can force myself to kill my demon

[colins]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

........honestly, i still do have fear....cos if i see her, i may just melt again...though i'm mentally strong now, the truth will be revealed at the moment of truth!

haha bro, I know I would. So I can't tell you anything about that! But you give me support, I give you support la. At least its not just one weak mind.

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by colins

Bro I think the reason you still can relate the entire affair in such details shows that it truly matters a lot to you. My ex used to be like that too, sometimes they also know they are living in very tight space trying to match lies after lies, but its a shithole they dig for themselves until there's no return.

I also feel that azzaro is withholding something which is quite crucial, and becos he is not telling, whatever we say is not directed at what he really want, so it has very little effect.

Nah bro I not see the need to hide anything as I feel since I am into something which a lot of bros say it is shitty stuff so I don't see the need to hide anything.

For start I am clean about my lack of trust for her afraid might dig up skeletons in the closet, me approached the bank to borrow a sum of money to give to her, been spending a sum of money buying things for her, thinking about her so much that I mess up with my work to a extend I almost got fired, the time when she in GL I go down everyday to find her, missing her quite a lot, afraid that I am not able to repay the loan bring her already to see my parents....

Guess that sum up anything I can think of in regards to this realtionship I am facing...

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

At the end of the day, one's life is in one's palm.
Suspicion is the root to all evil...you dun fall in love wif someone and have suspicion out of the blue........there has to be a root...

That's why i decided to relate the whole story out so it can bring lite.....
I had suspicion, lots of it but i decided to lie to myself & paid the price.....
From his postings, can tell he's quite a normal guy, so, also guess he doesn't have much $$$$ to be cheated but more heart.....
Again, gals arent dumb. Sometimes they choose a simpler guy for more security reasons......rich men are hard or near impossible to control!

Yes Bro for start I am just a average wage earner of $2.5k per month not good looking and plump weighting 90kg...

Actually I also don't what she see in me also beside the point I am really there for her in her times of needs,,,

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

Yes Bro for start I am just a average wage earner of $2.5k per month not good looking and plump weighting 90kg...

Actually I also don't what she see in me also beside the point I am really there for her in her times of needs,,,

Ok, now more light is shed........and very important.
Azzarro, my advise to you is, BE A MAN! Pen every mutha thing down here so everyone can get a very clear picture of what is really going on...what you're doing based on this last post is still trying to safe some face for yourself..........

Here is what i can tell you. You have betrayed yourself......lied to yourself...paint a good picture but really.....same shit...why??? Bcos like you said, $$$ not involved.....well, that's a lie again......30k a year is already very difficult to maintain a family in singapore. Now you went prolly get credit card ready credit to pass to her......bro she's draining you.......
Why not do this, if you dare.....

Can tell you're quite in a sentimental mood nowsadays......let this weekend pass.......monday evening, call her, force yourself to be damn sad...cry even.....make it as real as possible.....tell her you're FIRED!
Now you very stressed...dunno how to fulfill your loans and will be declared bankrupt soon.........play this for a good week or 2..........you will buy me dinner after or go into complete hiding....stamp chop guarantee!

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Now I will reveal part of the conclusion that I didn't pen down.

On the very last day, after i threw all her stuff outta door, I took out my checkbook and wrote a cash check of SGD50,000.00
Of cos, my 2 other mistresses bear witness to this and they were shocked....
I told her, "YOU WANT RMB250,000.00 YOU WHORE, TAKE THIS, CASH IT FUCK OFF & NEVER APPEAR AGAIN OR I SWEAR TO YOU, YOU COME YOUR FAMILY WILL NEVER HEAR FROM YOU AGAIN!"
You shud see the look and expression on her face after.......a look of total defeat......then i said, told you before, dun let me ever start using my brains on you....u will surely die....i am wat i am today cos of my brain & FYI, i got no heart...only to my wives!
I forced her to take the check, her hands were trembling then i said again, you think i'm broke....you think i'm bankrupt????hahahahaha
I can feed my descendants 3 generations even if they dun work.......then she kneeled down & begged for forgiveness and told me to give her another chance that she's wrong & will never betray me again....
I told her, now you not only insulted my integrity, you insulted the whole family....you insulted our surname
Your 2 姐姐is here, if they plead on your behalf, i will consider.......I was shocked, someone with so much pride can kneel her way to my mistresses and beg for forgiveness....damn drama. Just like the HK serial we watch all the time.......
Well, my no.2, who's my fav and confidante gave her a slap......telling her after all the family went thru, you still dare to do this
My no.3 from hangzhou gave her a kick...she fell and said to her, it's people like you who disgrace us PRCs, you had your chance to be a person, a rich mans woman....live a luxurious life and best of all....finally be loved by someone who loves you as a person........since you've already given up your humanity, continue being the WL you r.........remember loa gong's sifu's word....it'll haunt you cos his words are damn choon!
I added, you never need to dream of even bearing a child for me anymore.....

See what happens was that 1st time she went back, she went to visit a very famous fortune teller in Chengdu. I was mentioned in there and that fellow told her it's the only 1 in her entire lifetime and no more.........meaning heart...the rest that ensue will prolly be $$$$$$....exact same words as my sifu here! 2 diff parts of the world, 2 diff sifus...same prediction...even more scary rite
She stood up, went to the dustbin, tore the check and walked out, that was when she said she'll be back! And left

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Ok here's a little bit on my 2 mistresses who are of cos, very much a part of my life......
My 1st mistress is a graduate from a Canadian Uni and is in her mid 30s now and is a general manager of a fortune 500 company.....i dun feed her.....no need wat.....we've been together for 10yrs...thru thick n thin.......

My 2nd mistress was from the night scene.....Now 29yrs old. She was working as a GRO at Xin Tian Di years ago.....what i liked about was no matter how much money you throw at her, she'll never bed you.....cos i tested the 1st 5 times i went there, booking all the time somemore
She has since become a PR here, has several retail outlets of her own, 1st was sponsored by me lah of cos and now totally financially self sufficient, her biz grew without my help or interference in any ways.

All these years together, all the 2 got from me was a condo unit each, in the same building............and best of all, they 2 are now best friends, best sisters or watever you call it...you can understand where i'm coming from.....and for those sickos out there, i do not engage in threesomes......better say before someone ask........
They do so many things together...shopping....tennis, golf wif me and they're always in the loop of wats goin on.....i don't keep secrets from them....NONE!
Sometimes when i hook a new chick, i will bring them there to visit that chick, as always, most of the chicks will be damn stressed out.......hahahaha

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Ok, now more light is shed........and very important.
Azzarro, my advise to you is, BE A MAN! Pen every mutha thing down here so everyone can get a very clear picture of what is really going on...what you're doing based on this last post is still trying to safe some face for yourself..........

Here is what i can tell you. You have betrayed yourself......lied to yourself...paint a good picture but really.....same shit...why??? Bcos like you said, $$$ not involved.....well, that's a lie again......30k a year is already very difficult to maintain a family in singapore. Now you went prolly get credit card ready credit to pass to her......bro she's draining you.......
Why not do this, if you dare.....

Can tell you're quite in a sentimental mood nowsadays......let this weekend pass.......monday evening, call her, force yourself to be damn sad...cry even.....make it as real as possible.....tell her you're FIRED!
Now you very stressed...dunno how to fulfill your loans and will be declared bankrupt soon.........play this for a good week or 2..........you will buy me dinner after or go into complete hiding....stamp chop guarantee!

Honestly to say bro I can't really make myself to do it... I just don't want this relationship to go that way...

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

Honestly to say bro I can't really make myself to do it... I just don't want this relationship to go that way...

Bro, no one is asking you to end it.
See, in any relationship, there're lots of sacrifices to be made by both parties....
Where got 1 side give only...of cos, if you can afford her to be a tai tai sure but that is not applicable for you.
Based on your reveal, I believe she's the 1st and only that ever made you feel so wanted, so loved, so important, so hunky, so macho, best fuck, long thick cock etc rite.......
No one says she lying but sorry, the traits are all too common liao......

Would you make your woman go near broke for you????? Answer is no.....
Same applies other way.......
Honestly, you can't deny that you're already wrapped around her finger

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Bro, no one is asking you to end it.
See, in any relationship, there're lots of sacrifices to be made by both parties....
Where got 1 side give only...of cos, if you can afford her to be a tai tai sure but that is not applicable for you.
Based on your reveal, I believe she's the 1st and only that ever made you feel so wanted, so loved, so important, so hunky, so macho, best fuck, long thick cock etc rite.......
No one says she lying but sorry, the traits are all too common liao......

Would you make your woman go near broke for you????? Answer is no.....
Same applies other way.......
Honestly, you can't deny that you're already wrapped around her finger

sorry for sound like a whining puppy, I am really not keen in walking down towards the stage of testing her out at this time as i am afraid to find out things that I am not supposed to find and caused my dream to shatter.

But i do understand the fact I have to test her out in one way or other to see if she willing to stick with me for the long run in better or worse....