Tieng Viet lovers club

[pterchew]

Originally Posted by bonbonbebe

With those differences above, should I give up on him now? If u bro see no hope for me, I will stop thinking about him. I ever thought that I should ask him directly about my worries, but that's rude. Just I like him only. We r not in a relationship at all.

Troi oi after telling my story here, I suddenly think if he is a sbf member and read all I wrote. If that's true I will khong con mat mui nao to face him.

juz ask him directly if he suka you or not, if the answer is yes, carry-on.
if is not, than dont waste each other time n move-on.

[tomcat007]

Originally Posted by pterchew

juz ask him directly if he suka you or not, if the answer is yes, carry-on.
if is not, than dont waste each other time n move-on.

Bro

Don't think bonbonbebe understand what is suka... LOL!! Unless she's a super multi-language talented Vietnamese girl who happens to know TV/English/Chinese/Malay...

suka => like

[pterchew]

Originally Posted by tomcat007

Bro

Don't think bonbonbebe understand what is suka... LOL!! Unless she's a super multi-language talented Vietnamese girl who happens to know TV/English/Chinese/Malay...

suka => like

kamu suda picah lobang dong.

[tomcat007]

HUH? I only know picah lobang... LOL....

[miua55555]

Originally Posted by tomcat007

Wish husband sleep well ... I (girl) miss U (boy) many many.

Take a look at this link. Should cover most of the common messages from VBs and save you from having to wait for translation:

http://sammy.services/adult-d...ml#post4250912

Thank you bro ... But i had a hard time figuring things out.

[Hacks]

Ben trong tim e coi a van la ban ma. A da suy nghi nhieu wa.

My interpretation: Inside my heart you are still my friend. You think too much.
Correct?

What does "da" means?

Thanks.

[haha_123]

Originally Posted by bonbonbebe

Many bro here plz give me an advice.
Does the background of the girl make the man not interested in her anymore?
I often texted to my SG guy, talked about a lot of things. Sometimes he insisted that he doesn't like a citygirl, or a girl who loves shopping. The other side, he kept telling me that he was a poor man, his jobs is tough blah blah blah...
Last week I had a trip to SG to meet him and then came back, I felt sth really went wrong. Just feeling. He said I don't need to be sensitive. But how can I pretend not to be?
Then I recovered all the time I stayed at SG meeting him. Only 1 night because I have no much free time. We have dinner and chat about everything only. Nothing bad except I felt some tired because of all day shopping. And then he asked for my major, my coming job or etc. I told frankly and then I saw he got a bit weird.
I don't mind. I nevermind. I thought every is ok until last night we text to each other. He seemed no interested in replying me. What is the problem here? Could any bro tell me, if I give up now?
As I said, he is a cabby. We met at the first time I visited to SG to travel. On the begin of the Dec. 2009. Then we kept in touch n I managed to come SG to met him along my trip to KL last week. He is 31, I'm 23. I studied law and next month will work in the court. My family background not bad, and I'm not comming from a countryside family as he wish.
With those differences above, should I give up on him now? If u bro see no hope for me, I will stop thinking about him. I ever thought that I should ask him directly about my worries, but that's rude. Just I like him only. We r not in a relationship at all.

I guess he is feeling inferior because he is a taxi driver while you are going to work in court. I will feel uncomfortable too if my wife earns more than me. But then this is just my guessing only. It's better to ask him personally and tactfully, without hurting his feelings.

Like my cheong buddy always remind to me: "Mien qiang shi mei you xing fu de" meaning "Happiness cannot be forced".

Few years ago I was in a much worse situation than you. I got smitten by a China ktv girl, and I even travel all the way to Shanghai to find her. Needless to say, I was looking for my "true love" in the wrong place.

At least for you, you are not in a relationship yet. So if not compatible, you can always look for another more suitable man.

[pterchew]

Originally Posted by haha_123

Few years ago I was in a much worse situation than you. I got smitten by a China ktv girl, and I even travel all the way to Shanghai to find her. Needless to say, I was looking for my "true love" in the wrong place.

At least for you, you are not in a relationship yet. So if not compatible, you can always look for another more suitable man.

LOVE and $$$ are the 2 things that can make a man or woman go hay wire.

some say, women can bring trouble to us. is very true, so we must go
along with this game very tactfully. dont get hurt and dont hurt other 2.

[bonbonbebe]

Originally Posted by lovesprout

So far we only know that guy is a taxi driver. It is too general. Believe it or not, cabby in Singapore can have a PhD degree from Stanford University!

A Singapore Taxi Driver's Diary

Therefore, please provide more details about him so we can make better suggestions. There are more than 2 million men in Singapore. Why are you only interested in this one? I am sure you are from a decent family. Definitely you can have many choices.

Originally Posted by Thom07

I think this article will provide a summary on the background of this event.

PhD holder now a cabby

Originally Posted by Thom07

A relationship takes 2 hands to clap in unison.

Originally Posted by pterchew

juz ask him directly if he suka you or not, if the answer is yes, carry-on.
if is not, than dont waste each other time n move-on.

Originally Posted by tomcat007

Bro

Don't think bonbonbebe understand what is suka... LOL!! Unless she's a super multi-language talented Vietnamese girl who happens to know TV/English/Chinese/Malay...

suka => like

Originally Posted by haha_123

I guess he is feeling inferior because he is a taxi driver while you are going to work in court. I will feel uncomfortable too if my wife earns more than me. But then this is just my guessing only. It's better to ask him personally and tactfully, without hurting his feelings.

Like my cheong buddy always remind to me: "Mien qiang shi mei you xing fu de" meaning "Happiness cannot be forced".

Few years ago I was in a much worse situation than you. I got smitten by a China ktv girl, and I even travel all the way to Shanghai to find her. Needless to say, I was looking for my "true love" in the wrong place.

At least for you, you are not in a relationship yet. So if not compatible, you can always look for another more suitable man.

Originally Posted by pterchew

LOVE and $$$ are the 2 things that can make a man or woman go hay wire.

some say, women can bring trouble to us. is very true, so we must go
along with this game very tactfully. dont get hurt and dont hurt other 2.

Thank many bros giving away ur advice here.

I'm really confused. I like him, but not love him. I dont think about marriage at my age. And I dont think about money issue too. I'm not the kind of galz living in countryside hooking up for a man because of his money (n if I'm that kind of gal, I'm not hook into a cabby ).

We argued about money over and over. I remember last time we must make a deal, that never talk about money in our conversation. But I really dont think money issue makes any sense here. Am i wrong? He blamed on me to be a city gal with the materialism in gene , never suffer the poverty blah blah blah.

Be4 my last trip to KL and btw visit SG to c him, he often told that he likes me, he kind of fallen with me, he missed me etc. But after my last trip, he never say that. Some days ago I asked him, do u like me, then he just changed the topic of the conversation.

Ok some bros asked y I like him. To b frankly it's just a weird feeling. At the first sight I caught his friendliness. Maybe because of his job. N then we have time to talk. He work at night shift while my left-hand job is working at night also. Instead of having a break by sipping kopi, I have a break by texting to him. He told me about what he suffered in his life, etc. Of course I half believed, maybe he wants to trick me only. Until someday I think I fell into his trap n liked him.

It's not a love. We just know each other in very short time. And meet each other only 2 times. Not consider about long term or marriage, even to a relationship I also feel worried. 进退两难 lah! Maybe he had put black magic on me!

[bonbonbebe]

Originally Posted by Hacks

My interpretation: Inside my heart you are still my friend. You think too much.
Correct?

What does "da" means?

Thanks.

"da" = 已经
It indicates that the following action is done. It makes the past tense.
"A da suy nghi nhieu wa."
---> U (have) thought so much (yet).

[bonbonbebe]

Originally Posted by tomcat007

Bro

Don't think bonbonbebe understand what is suka... LOL!! Unless she's a super multi-language talented Vietnamese girl who happens to know TV/English/Chinese/Malay...

suka => like

Thank u bro! U say it loudly for me. I don't understand Malay n Hokkien words. I'm managing with Malay. I hope my Singlish will improve, at least to understand what many bros here say.

And btw to bro haha_123, I can understand Chinese, dont need to translate it into English for me

[lovesprout]

Originally Posted by bonbonbebe

It's not a love. We just know each other in very short time. And meet each other only 2 times. Not consider about long term or marriage, even to a relationship I also feel worried. 进退两难 lah! Maybe he had put black magic on me!

His black magic is so powerful. Finally bro Kangtuo find a match.

I think you can just ignore him for a while and see whether he contacts you or not. If not, then that means he is not interested in you so you can move on. This tactic is commonly used by many bros here for their VBs, but should work for you as well. Good luck.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by bonbonbebe

I'm really confused. I like him, but not love him.

this is what gals always confuse themselve and also confuse the guys.

thich = like
yeu = love

to me, both are same. Don't confuse yourself.

Originally Posted by bonbonbebe

And I dont think about money issue too.

Its about inferiority. he is a cab driver working 12hour shift and taking home $2.5K on average. Hardly enough to survive in sillypore. You work in court and you are very knowledgeable.

Originally Posted by bonbonbebe

He blamed on me to be a city gal with the materialism in gene , never suffer the poverty blah blah blah.

I guess he is looking for just an ordinary gal who can stay home, cook and take care of the house. Not someone who shop shop shop.

city gals... there is a lot in sillypore. You are no different from them.

Originally Posted by bonbonbebe

Some days ago I asked him, do u like me, then he just changed the topic of the conversation.

you never listen to a song "dung hoi vi sao anh yeu em" before?
guys don't like such question.

Originally Posted by bonbonbebe

He told me about what he suffered in his life, etc. Of course I half believed, maybe he wants to trick me only. Until someday I think I fell into his trap n liked him.

I guess he did really suffer in life. Working as a cab driver is not easy.
He is not tricking you.

Originally Posted by bonbonbebe

Not consider about long term or marriage, even to a relationship I also feel worried. 进退两难 lah! Maybe he had put black magic on me!

you believe black magic?
In relationship, there bonds to have 1 party loving the other more. The party who love more tends to feel insecure... you are the one now.

you are young and ambitious. He is 31 and if still single, he should be considering marriage now. If both of you don't match, please don't drag... can stay as friend.

[pterchew]

my gal asked her manderin speaking fren to call me this afternoon to say
she has juz received the photo package i sent her. she says she is very very
happy with it and asked when would i be heading back to her breast again?

i'm happy to know she is happy.

well, life is like that, it doesn't mean you have to own someone you love.
you know if someone you love or care for is happy, is good enough.

[haha_123]

[QUOTE=bonbonbebe;4556733]

Some days ago I asked him, do u like me, then he just changed the topic of the conversation.

QUOTE]

He has already given u the answer.
Time to move on.