Guys with Wife or Good GF still look for pros or flings. Why

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by Toyota Honda

Men who were very 'guai' (doesn't fool ard) before marriage or in the younger days tends to stray after marriages.

while guys who flirt and sleep ard are less likely to stray after marriage.

This one I tend to agree

For the guai guai type, it only takes ONE bite of the forbidden fruit to fall on the dark side - whether an accidental trip to GL or an opportunitistic fling.

Then, with the internet and "social networking" aspect of it being more pervasive in our generation, the fallen jedi can easily find (and will seek) "comfort" with birds of the same feather... so online sex forums like SBF contributes to that trend. Whether the owners agree or not is another debate too.

That's why we're all here right?! Cum'on...

[MeiEnQianEn]

hahhaha.. i think its the hunt that excites us men...well.. at least that is in my case. The process of "hunting" and nabbing the "prey".. is the conquest.. hahhaha

[slyer]

Originally Posted by longwinter

once u hav come to taste of the sweetness of the forbidden fruit, can u stop the cravin for it?

Maybe initially when have gf, u will stop, but after a while, u will wan to taste the forbidden fruit again de lor.

got WL/FL ask me when u have a gf le, will u stop all these activities, l smiled and didnt replied back cos l oso dun noe lor.

haha true true. i can't stop the crave for more forbidden fruits

guys every time eat the same dish will feel sian so we will go explore greater variety of dishes
last time 1 FL ask if i gt gf i say yes then she say y u still go look for FL

another time 1 FL ask the same qn i say no gf, then she say u look cute y no gf

seems like no matter what answer i give the FL not satisfied. next time i better don't answer their qn

[oralgal]

This is the thing!
i am not a chio gals perhaps my customer or fb wives n gf nice figure n chio then me but they tend to meet me for real game once in two months....
u know wht they said, its to change appetite another thing after thau ciak liao....go bek can treat wife or gf better....coz of GUILTY!!!!!
coz, some of them, thier wife dun reli have sex wif them nowadays, n dun perform certain things/ actions to please them...so mah come out n thau ciak lo!!!!!

[sexhorny]

but i think if i have the chance to eat shark fin or bird nest (beautiful wife and happy family) true love is better eveyday i think i wont stray away. but i dun think i would have the chance. no look and no money bo bian need to find fl to release.

[sexhorny]

and most of sg girls are piratical . they are nicer to handsome guys and sweet talk guys. no look and no sweet talk they tend to look down. do u all agree? cos my friend who has looks told me a chio bu glaze at him while at mrt i dun have that experience how i wish i have the look of bradd pitt.

[Wins88]

Originally Posted by vkoolboi

I think it will be good for men to tell their wives truthfully that men just love sex, wild sex and more sex with same attractive woman and then moving on to more women.

Like that, if they accept then when married already, she will be more tolerant of their men eating occassionally outside.

Bro, that's like IMPOSSIBLE! No women can accept this. WOMEN cant share. Selfish creatures. If women (and not men) learnt how to build a fire during prehistoric times - we will still be in the stone ages!

[roslee7]

hi, i dont agreed with etherC. Althought ia m not muslim but i disagree with a comment about muslim can married 4. Everyone thinking that its advantages for them to marry 4 but if you looks into the history, you must know why prophet muhammad marry 4 wife. There's a reason in it. But if you look around us, more worse guy by having mistress in china or everywhere. At least , islam do legal way. Hope i am not offending you guys. cheers. Its just a stereotype to some. They taught that muslim guys also fling around. But to marry a 4 wife , is also depends. I mean, why i want to marry 4 wife? I guess any religion can marry as much as they can right?

[aces68]

Originally Posted by Toyota Honda

Bros here, let me say something and debate.

There is a saying that..
Men who were very 'guai' (doesn't fool ard) before marriage or in the younger days tends to stray after marriages.

while guys who flirt and sleep ard are less likely to stray after marriage.

I have heard of this saying also, but honestly I think it only applies if the girl you marry is super-sexed minded.
If the OC is like what most bros here have, then I think LL no choice but have to stray also..

What will you do if your OC tell you :-
1. No frenching - cos very wet
2. No licking - cos it's dirty (well some guys don't mind but for the pussy lickers, this is torture esp if your OC got full brazilian wax , then you wonder why the heck did she get waxed in the first place if you don't get to enjoy it)
3. No BJ - cos dirty (no need to even talk about BBBJ liao)
4. Only insert and cummm (like dildo machine )

I think if you kena any one of the above taboo already quite chiam, but if kena all 4 of the above (like myself ), might as well become monk immediately..correct or not..so how not to eat outside ??


Just my 2 cents worth !

[EtherC]

What are you disagreeing about?
a) That man is polygamous by nature
b) Muslim law allows marriage of up to 4 wives
c)Muslim martyrs get their houri in the afterlife

I never said that it is advantageous to have 4 wives. In fact the Quran advises Muslims to marry only the number they can justly treat with a maximum cap of 4, which I feel is a very enlightened form of thought that acknowledges the weakness that men have for women and a good sociological application to the tumultuous times in which Islam was founded. The prophet himself had 12 wives(some are for political reasons naturally). No problem either as he could afford it and he wasn't a monk!

It is the civil laws & modern Christianity(influenced by greek culture) that bind us to monogamy. It is not that bad a move considering that Man is over utilizing Earth's natural resources. Allowing too much of our progeny only accelerates resource depletion. Perhaps in the future after horrible world wars when the population of males drop drastically we will start taking multiple wives again.

Originally Posted by roslee7

hi, i dont agreed with etherC. Althought ia m not muslim but i disagree with a comment about muslim can married 4. Everyone thinking that its advantages for them to marry 4 but if you looks into the history, you must know why prophet muhammad marry 4 wife. There's a reason in it. But if you look around us, more worse guy by having mistress in china or everywhere. At least , islam do legal way. Hope i am not offending you guys. cheers. Its just a stereotype to some. They taught that muslim guys also fling around. But to marry a 4 wife , is also depends. I mean, why i want to marry 4 wife? I guess any religion can marry as much as they can right?

[aces68]

Originally Posted by oralgal

This is the thing!
i am not a chio gals perhaps my customer or fb wives n gf nice figure n chio then me but they tend to meet me for real game once in two months....
u know wht they said, its to change appetite another thing after thau ciak liao....go bek can treat wife or gf better....coz of GUILTY!!!!!
coz, some of them, thier wife dun reli have sex wif them nowadays, n dun perform certain things/ actions to please them...so mah come out n thau ciak lo!!!!!

sis oralgal, so got chance to tau chiak with you or not ?

[nolucknoob]

Originally Posted by yandaoking

I think the main difference between OC and pros in bed is: You serve your OC whereas pros serve you.

yandaoking

quite true. there's many a times where my OC only lets me finger her to her satisfaction, but refuses me entrance by saying that she's tired already, & make my cock stand the whole nite. she dun allow me to paint her tho.

but with a FL, i can try all sorts of things with her, even boink her in the slightly cramped shower room & shoot my load all over her body. my oc dun even allow me to shoot my load on her tummy.

[vkoolboi]

Originally Posted by oralgal

This is the thing!
i am not a chio gals perhaps my customer or fb wives n gf nice figure n chio then me but they tend to meet me for real game once in two months....
u know wht they said, its to change appetite another thing after thau ciak liao....go bek can treat wife or gf better....coz of GUILTY!!!!!
coz, some of them, thier wife dun reli have sex wif them nowadays, n dun perform certain things/ actions to please them...so mah come out n thau ciak lo!!!!!

Got chance to try you out? Can pm me for your service and price?

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by slyer

haha true true. i can't stop the crave for more forbidden fruits

guys every time eat the same dish will feel sian so we will go explore greater variety of dishes
last time 1 FL ask if i gt gf i say yes then she say y u still go look for FL

another time 1 FL ask the same qn i say no gf, then she say u look cute y no gf

seems like no matter what answer i give the FL not satisfied. next time i better don't answer their qn

ya lo, that is why sumtime jus dun answer them back, giv them a smile back, can riaos..

sumtime they ask de questions very funny and weird one, let me tio stunned oso, so l jus keep quiet and smile, leavin a air of mystery.

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by Toyota Honda

Bros here, let me say something and debate.

There is a saying that..
Men who were very 'guai' (doesn't fool ard) before marriage or in the younger days tends to stray after marriages.

while guys who flirt and sleep ard are less likely to stray after marriage.

cos the 2nd kind of guys, probably had enuf of the fun liao and see enuf of such things le.

but as for me, l still dun noe abt myself, whether l still will continue to stray after my marriage.