Group for divorced/sexless marriage/singles

[Apollo]

Originally Posted by I Love Boobs

I had a sexless marriage.
Ex also put on 20kg+ after marriage and 2 kids.
Blamed me for everything, like unrealistic ideals on female beauty.
Scolded me for looking at pretty girls outside.
When we went for my friends' wedding dinners, made inappropriate comments on the brides - out loud! - "Stick insect, go back and eat your celery stick!"
Embarassing me in public.
Reluctantly I started going for FLs.
Wife gave all sorts of excuses - taking care of kids, tired.
Sex was bad - her thighs were 3 times my size, and tummy flabby with stretch marks.
Then she had an affair with a 70 year old man - some men will fuck anything.
And she chased me out, hoping he would marry her.
She got dumped later, and tried to crawl back.
Fuck off!
Finalised divorce.
I'm much happier now.
Fucking FLs, if my preferences are not kosher to others - you would now understand why.....

bro understand your feeling. Seems everywhere woman same

agree you made a smart choice and better life now

[Shadow_warrior]

should just combined the 2 threads

https://sammy.services/showthread.php...8#post16253788

[trichard]

Group still active ????????????

[maxman]

Originally Posted by I Love Boobs

I had a sexless marriage.
Ex also put on 20kg+ after marriage and 2 kids.
Blamed me for everything, like unrealistic ideals on female beauty.
Scolded me for looking at pretty girls outside.
When we went for my friends' wedding dinners, made inappropriate comments on the brides - out loud! - "Stick insect, go back and eat your celery stick!"
Embarassing me in public.
Reluctantly I started going for FLs.
Wife gave all sorts of excuses - taking care of kids, tired.
Sex was bad - her thighs were 3 times my size, and tummy flabby with stretch marks.
Then she had an affair with a 70 year old man - some men will fuck anything.
And she chased me out, hoping he would marry her.
She got dumped later, and tried to crawl back.
Fuck off!
Finalised divorce.
I'm much happier now.
Fucking FLs, if my preferences are not kosher to others - you would now understand why.....

Not totally sexless, but I suspect you meant sexless after kids arrived? This appears to be very common. When wives or lovers become mothers, they often change to a different mode.

Reading your story, I cannot imagine the bad times you lived with her.

[maxman]

I have said this many times, that sex is rarely, if not never, free. All men will eventually pay for using pussy, especially if the pussy has produced their children for about 20 years as ordered by the courts.

Tougher for ex-spouses to skip paying maintenance

http://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/tougher-for-ex-spouses-to-skip-paying-maintenance



Part-time clerk S. Chia has been waging a 16-year battle.

Since her divorce in 2001, she has been trying to get her former husband to pay the monthly maintenance of $500 for herself and their two children aged 18 and 20.

Following amendments to the Women's Charter in 2011, a new measure implemented by the authorities gave her extra ammunition: She was able to apply to court to get his employer to pay her directly from his salary. He was then working as a manager.

But he resigned the next month.

So she had to go back to court to apply for yet another enforcement order. He owes her about $10,000 in maintenance arrears.

Her headache underscores the continued challenges that some broken families face in compelling breadwinners to provide financial support, despite more efforts since 2011 to make them do so.

Lawyers say the number of enforcement applications has been gradually falling since 2011, when a host of measures were implemented to tackle the problem.

For example, the courts can direct an employer to pay the defaulter's wages to the person entitled to it, as Ms Chia did.

Divorcees who are remarrying must also make a statutory declaration if they have any maintenance arrears. This is to remind them of their obligations to their former partners and to ensure their new spouses are aware of this.

If the person refuses to make a declaration or if the Registry of Marriages (ROM) suspects he or she is not telling the truth, the ROM will not issue a marriage licence for the couple, said a spokesman for the Ministry of Social and Family Development, under which the ROM comes.

[maxman]

Yet again, I say that sex is rarely, if not never, free. Around the world, laws are written such that men will be made to pay for the pussies they have used, especially if it has produced their children until they become legal adults (about 20 years).

Credit blacklist effective in getting defaulters to pay up

http://www.straitstimes.com/singapor...ters-to-pay-up



For years, the authorities have been scratching their heads trying to find ways to get deadbeat husbands to pay the maintenance owed to their former wives and children.

And they have found one method that works - putting defaulters on a credit blacklist, making it harder for them to get credit cards and loans such as for housing. Some 80 per cent of the 229 claimants so far on this scheme recovered at least some of the money owed to them.

A credit information and debt recovery firm has collected about $2.5 million on their behalf since the scheme started in 2011, its spokesman told The Straits Times.

A person who is owed maintenance can take the court order to DP's SME Commercial Credit Bureau, which will record the debt and share the information with its more than 800 members, which include banks, retailers and moneylenders.

Being on the blacklist makes it harder for these individuals to obtain loans, said those interviewed.

[stonned]

Originally Posted by trichard

Group still active ????????????

You mean the Wechat group? Yes we have increased by a number of members lately :-)

[trichard]

Originally Posted by stonned

You mean the Wechat group? Yes we have increased by a number of members lately :-)

Can add trichard8888

[Tubeboy]

Add me also..Kel9898

[stonned]

Originally Posted by trichard

Can add trichard8888

Add you on Wechart bro :-)

[stonned]

Originally Posted by Tubeboy

Add me also..Kel9898

Add you too bro :-)

[Ihowlian]

Love Is Blind

Marriage open your eyes.

[Jeretai]

Maybe i shld not come here.

Seeing these threads & i'm about to attach.... (sweats...)

[Ihowlian]

Attach can still detach. But once vow is made...till death do u part. Anyway all the best bro jeretai

[JacqueMerlin]

Originally Posted by maxman

I have said this many times, that sex is rarely, if not never, free. All men will eventually pay for using pussy, especially if the pussy has produced their children for about 20 years as ordered by the courts.

Tougher for ex-spouses to skip paying maintenance

http://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/tougher-for-ex-spouses-to-skip-paying-maintenance



Part-time clerk S. Chia has been waging a 16-year battle.

Since her divorce in 2001, she has been trying to get her former husband to pay the monthly maintenance of $500 for herself and their two children aged 18 and 20.

Following amendments to the Women's Charter in 2011, a new measure implemented by the authorities gave her extra ammunition: She was able to apply to court to get his employer to pay her directly from his salary. He was then working as a manager.

But he resigned the next month.

So she had to go back to court to apply for yet another enforcement order. He owes her about $10,000 in maintenance arrears.

Her headache underscores the continued challenges that some broken families face in compelling breadwinners to provide financial support, despite more efforts since 2011 to make them do so.

Lawyers say the number of enforcement applications has been gradually falling since 2011, when a host of measures were implemented to tackle the problem.

For example, the courts can direct an employer to pay the defaulter's wages to the person entitled to it, as Ms Chia did.

Divorcees who are remarrying must also make a statutory declaration if they have any maintenance arrears. This is to remind them of their obligations to their former partners and to ensure their new spouses are aware of this.

If the person refuses to make a declaration or if the Registry of Marriages (ROM) suspects he or she is not telling the truth, the ROM will not issue a marriage licence for the couple, said a spokesman for the Ministry of Social and Family Development, under which the ROM comes.

S Chia has another option.
Walk out of the toxic relationship completely with her head held high. Don't take anything from her ex and save her children from the parental maintenance act in future.