How many of us have been burnt by China Women?

[tazan]

Originally Posted by Lowell

God, after reading (and posting) in the forums for the past couple days,

I realised that:

(1) The majority of us feel that China Women are not worth it;
(2) A lot of us brothers have been burnt;
(3) With all these syndicates going on......its even harder to trust 'em.

So...how many of you guys have been burnt? or are being burnt?

I've got my own story to tell, and I'm crafting it as we speak...but lets share our woes.

If anyone has his own happy tale which ends in happiness, please share it with us too.

We are all brothers after all.

If you put yourself in China women's shoe, do they feel the same too? most of the singaporean men are not worth it too? Most of them that they get to know are either out for a fling or old single man out to marry young chick to have kids. .. its a cycle.. who started it first? chicken and egg.. dun bother

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by sbfpolis

When his money is used up, the girl avoided him like hell, ignore his phone calls, and went to work in other ktvs to stay away from him. He would call up the other ktv girls to look for her, and knn even cried in the ktv room when he poured out his sorrows to another ktv girl.

haizz, the guy damn stupid. kenna chop liao still dunno.

[yanki1]

Originally Posted by tazan

its a cycle.. who started it first? chicken and egg.. dun bother

correct la theres no supply when theres no demand....

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by sbfpolis

When his money is used up, the girl avoided him like hell, ignore his phone calls, and went to work in other ktvs to stay away from him. He would call up the other ktv girls to look for her, and knn even cried in the ktv room when he poured out his sorrows to another ktv girl.

So beware ! Don't be a robert and a carrot head !

bro, your friend's case is a classic, a sad one. but, who cheated who, who dumped who... what to do? both are willing parties.

people play with fire throughout their lives but how many can control the fire? and whats the worst consequence? definitely not the loss of money becos one good 4D ticket or one good rich friend can still help bring back the good times for you. the worst is when someone murders you or you go kill someone for love and possession.

[SHG-ALIEN]

After reading many threads talking about their bitterness with China mei mei, Sorry if I offend anyone if I say that many a time it not they who are able to cheat them!! It many a time , they themselves let your own mind to play tricks on them so that they can be cheated!! Look at it this way, it their job to make you feel good and like you are special when you go to a ktv, otherwise think you will complain bad service. So you start to believe you are special and mean something to them, for them like all businessman/woman of cos want repeat customers(regulars) otherwise how to make money??? So you ask them go out for lunch, dinner or walk walk of cos must entertain mah (just like us entertain clients in business). Hence, you led yourself to believe that you among all the customers she meet in her line of work , YOU are the special one and different from all her other cusotmers. She ask you for money, HP or etc... you can dun give mah but YOU believe that she so attracted to you cos you very special, different from all her other customers. Then who to blame??

[HuiGe3387]

Originally Posted by sbfpolis

This is true case that is current. There's this guy I know fell head over heels with a ktv girl who is a student here. He draws a 3k+ monthly salary, owns a small car, wife not working and has 3 kids. He would fetch the girl home after school everyday, sell his shares to pay for her school fees and her living expenses, and would book a small room at ktv to "support" her almost 2 - 3 times a week. When his money is used up, the girl avoided him like hell, ignore his phone calls, and went to work in other ktvs to stay away from him. He would call up the other ktv girls to look for her, and knn even cried in the ktv room when he poured out his sorrows to another ktv girl........

Bro, is this story from MG ? Someone told me this story. This stupid guy would book a room and sit by himself and catch hold of that girl's friends to cry. The girl's name is X X ?

[Tai_zi21]

Originally Posted by SHG-ALIEN

Look at it this way, it their job to make you feel good and like you are special when you go to a ktv, otherwise think you will complain bad service. So you start to believe you are special and mean something to them, for them like all businessman/woman of cos want repeat customers(regulars) otherwise how to make money??? So you ask them go out for lunch, dinner or walk walk of cos must entertain mah (just like us entertain clients in business). Hence, you led yourself to believe that you among all the customers she meet in her line of work , YOU are the special one and different from all her other cusotmers. She ask you for money, HP or etc... you can dun give mah but YOU believe that she so attracted to you cos you very special, different from all her other customers. Then who to blame??

Another example pf my own
u already lose heavily in ur soccer betting liao! but then week in and week out u still keep betting! why u wan to bet leh? cos u think that u r able to win back all ur losing and also make some winning! but how truth is that?

Just like 1 bro had mention it to see how well u control urself by playing with the fire! if u already had a wife at home waiting for u liao,and there u r at the ktv hugging other PRC gals and after she leave u,u whin and cry!

Tell mi again who to blame? The PRC gal or u urself at fault?

[GarlicBread]

there are always pros & cons in such a relationship,oni one word 'love is blind'

i've came across such experiences liao,when using the brain to control the situtation,the heart pain but when use the heart to counter the problems than the brain got to crack.

my lessons fr it,is never get involve fr those working in entertaintment line,cos they're the pro in entertaint

never go for those chio chio type,cos they will attract alot of unwanted atrraction during a realtionship,but sometime can't blame them for going for more stable guy in term of money.

there is one hokkien line saying which i always believed (ai hion xui teo ai chep xui) meaning if u wan to enjoy,u mus learn to accept the fact.

but the fact is always cruel

[Jari_Owen]

Originally Posted by ricardo

personally i have little experience with PRC but when i was studying in UK there was a Mongol girl. She was soon cunning. From the start i knew she was there to latch on some guy. The victim was a malaysian guy that stay just 2 doors from my room. one month into the term and she spend more time in his room. soon the guy is head over heel abt her and foget abt his studies. worst she used his notebook for assignments and he had to broow mine to do his at the 11th hour. end of the first semester, the guy fail all the modules he had taken and in risk of not graduating. to compensate, the guy took up 7 modules (usually 3 or 4) the next semester. during the day of one of his papers i saw them outside the U gate. the guy was trying to hold the girl's hip.

Girl: "let me go we are done"
guy: "I can change for u, please dont leave"
girl: "I had enough of u, let me go"
guy: "please no."

*slap*slap" came to the guy face "wake up"
she said and walked away. the guy was left in a haze. I walked to him and ask if he is ok he just walked back to the dorm without a word. he did not turn up for the exam.

overall, he gets his bonk alright but because of the emotional attachment he lost control. the good part is he did manage to pass some of his papers and return with his degree (no honors). as for the girl, she got a 1st class. ironic.

Haaa...same same...This type of gal come from all over the world..EVEN OUR LOCAL TRUELY SINGAPORE GAL.....I WAS IN US...a Spore gal went after another Singapore guy...but from what we saw and expect..the gal was just using her body to exchange for assignment, project, thesis...

She simply not the type to study study...in the end..lucky the guy still end up with honours..the gal manage to pass...haaa...else we reckon we would be back earlier than her...lucky for her to find one (nerdy and studious type)

Now heard from coursemate that they had gone their own way after coming back...*Sigh*



Barter Trading I guess..haaaaa

[Jari_Owen]

Originally Posted by dt3305

Those PRC on student pass working in KTV, beware of them. They are not as innocent as you think...sure they are SYT and will look so innocent, macham like kena force to work in KTV to survive...don't fall for the scam...they should have know better they are here to study and money will be an issue...

I once encounter a student mei at ICA. She was fumbling with the visa form to fill and I help her. Look wise, very sweet and innocent...heart straight away melt...exchange number and sent back(stays around Jalan Besar). I decided to hang around and trail her. Around 6pm, saw her come out...bingo...all dressed up and saw her enter a KTV...never call her again...

Around my workplace there is a hostel whereby many PRC gals working in fty will stay...whenever I am going back around 7 plus, can see hordes of them, all dolled up and dressed sexily, waiting by the road side for their Robert to pickup...

PRC gals are smart and cunning. Don't dream of free bonk with them. At the end , they always want something back...and it is not love tender care.

YEAH..something back...double..triple..or even much more...!!!

[Jari_Owen]

Originally Posted by Lowell

And here is my very own tale of woe.

She's a waitress whom I met some time ago last year. Saw her, chatted with her, enjoyed talking to her, bought her a couple of drinks.

Turned up at her place more often after that, she seems nice. Very concerned, lovely voice. Started to like her.

Time went by, she told me she didn't have a boyfriend. So I told her that I liked her and that would she mind me courting her? She said "only time will tell". So I thought, I really like her so I'll give it a shot.

Not much to tell, went down more and more. Did my best to take care of her.
Would slip her some money from time to time. Not much tho, whatever spare change i had. Try to send her home etc. Wait for her to finish work.

I did buy her a handphone, because she told me that it was spoilt.

After a while, things started (or so they seemed) to get better. She became more responsive. We went out for dinner a few times. We started holding hands. And I was hoping that things would get better, because I genuinely had feelings for her.

To me, money is not an issue. I'm fortunate to have a very well-paying job.

And then first I got a punch to the stomach so hard that all the wind was knocked out of me. She introduced me to a few friends, who seemed to like me. One evening, there was this new guy there. Something was wrong I felt.

The next day I called her, and she told me that she's actually married (!) That was the punch to the stomach. She told me she's separated. Fine and good, I've been out with separated women before.

Then came the next hook to the head. That new guy? her boyfriend.

I was gutted brothers. I was gutted. I was simply rendered speechless. I did not know what the fuck to do. Every gamut of emotion? I went through it. I was sad, angry, hurt, frustrated. I told myself "ENOUGH!"

But did I learn my lesson, no i didn't. Not one single bit.

She went back to China and came back after a month. She messaged me asking "how I was" I replied "I'm all right." Immediately all the feelings came back. I should have just ignored her bloody message.

Instead, I agreed to meet her. We talked for a bit, I had too much to drink and I poured everything out to her. She told me a little more about herself. So I figured...what the hell...I'll try again.

For the past 2 months, I have only had 3-4 hours sleep per night. Every night I am with her, sending her home. After a time, she became more responsive. She would message me, asking me where I was. And fool that I am, I went down running to her. And I get up early. Every day at 7.30 a.m.

I don't really know what to make of her. She obviously cares for me, we've shared tears together, kissed, cuddled. I can see that she enjoys spending time with me. She doesn't allow me to overspend.

Her friends tell me that she can't just break up with her first boyfriend, she doesn't have the heart. She is also having other problems, which she is very unwilling to share with me.

Yet I am unwilling to give her up. I told myself...I will do this with my eyes open, as I have invested a lot of time, a lot of emotion and a lot of feelings into this relationship. Whatever time I can spend with her I will, and I bear no ill-will towards that.

She has told me to wait for her till next year.

The problem is that I don't know what the hell is going on. And it frustrates the fuck out of me. For that matter, I don't allow it to affect my work. I still get my shit done.

But I don't know how long I can last. I am trying to take it easy, not to think so much, but so many images run through my brain that I do not know what to think. But i guess i love her, so I'll see it through to the bitter end.

And let me tell you guys. It hurts. It hurts so bad that sometimes death seems to be preferable. But yet I soldier on. Until the day i drop.

So let this be a warning from a poor benighted soul who has reached his wits end. If you can end it fast, end it fast. Else you will end up like me.

Take care my brothers.

Hmm...she is taking her pick...from all the suitor...to find the best...
THis is fine...unless..she is sucking each and everyone slowingly and steadily..

[wildice]

If the PRC is working in factory or decent place...still can consider but not KTV, TN. I still like Bro yank1 (quote below) ways of dealing with PRC ger from KTV or TN

Originally Posted by yanki1

one prc from a local KTV, we exchange no. i met up with her on her off days. driving her around but mostly to those place that dun require you to spend a lot of $. i would tell her that i dun like crowded places. i bring her to east coast, changi beach. and during the makan, i would order good food and a lot, i mean how much can u spend on that? $100? $200? if compare to paying to bonk the prc, thats more worth it. so that to make her feel that im a bit rich and the most important, a big carrot head for her to chop. ask her to buy drinks, i give her $50, ask her to keep the change for her to use. wow, shes stuck to me like a magnet. that night we check into the hotel bonk whole night, free.

after that i nev meet her again. she called me but i said that im on a big project, no time to catch up with her. soon she stop calling le

[sadsea]

Originally Posted by SHG-ALIEN

After reading many threads talking about their bitterness with China mei mei, Sorry if I offend anyone if I say that many a time it not they who are able to cheat them!! It many a time , they themselves let your own mind to play tricks on them so that they can be cheated!! Look at it this way, it their job to make you feel good and like you are special when you go to a ktv, otherwise think you will complain bad service. So you start to believe you are special and mean something to them, for them like all businessman/woman of cos want repeat customers(regulars) otherwise how to make money??? So you ask them go out for lunch, dinner or walk walk of cos must entertain mah (just like us entertain clients in business). Hence, you led yourself to believe that you among all the customers she meet in her line of work , YOU are the special one and different from all her other cusotmers. She ask you for money, HP or etc... you can dun give mah but YOU believe that she so attracted to you cos you very special, different from all her other customers. Then who to blame??

good one!

anyway those ktv gals are junks, don't be too desperados to be love by those jackasses, just like bro she-alien say, don't blame others for ur stupid act. hope no bros out there fall on this trap again, got extra time go visit ur parents, old friends etc, don't find those jackasses, nice day.

[joemac21]

Just a few days ago, my friend tried his luck with this PRC (from her accent) at PPC. She is very pretty, dressed sexily and appears to be a student because when she was talking to a guy ("chai tou") about her school fees being very expensive and all that. We were almost convinced that it must be her sugardaddy or something.

My friend said that he is confident that he can get her tel and probably scored her a few days later. I cheered him on and he approached that girl and shows her hand sign that he wants her tel phone number. She looked at my friend, smiled and took out a notepad, write her number and pass it back to him WITHOUT stop talking to the sugardaddy on the other side of her phone. My friend even get to sqeeze her butt as he leave.

Thereafter ... everything is as expected.

Given that fact that my friend knows she is at least 2 timer if not more, he is of course careful with his $ he forked out on her. This leave me wondering what happen to her sugardaddy on the other side?

[sbfpolis]

Originally Posted by joemac21

Just a few days ago, my friend tried his luck with this PRC (from her accent) at PPC. She is very pretty, dressed sexily and appears to be a student because when she was talking to a guy ("chai tou") about her school fees being very expensive and all that. We were almost convinced that it must be her sugardaddy or something.

My friend said that he is confident that he can get her tel and probably scored her a few days later.......... She looked at my friend, smiled and took out a notepad, write her number and pass it back to him WITHOUT stop talking to the sugardaddy on the other side of her phone. My friend even get to sqeeze her butt as he leave.

Thereafter ... everything is as expected.

Given that fact that my friend knows she is at least 2 timer if not more, he is of course careful with his $ he forked out on her. This leave me wondering what happen to her sugardaddy on the other side?

There are many chai-taus around. I am determined not to be one. I just got a request to open a new telephone line, whicH I turned down.

BTW I was at PPC today afternoon, should have done the same as your friend to squeeze the butt of any of the many PRCs there remitting $$$ and shopping