Need help on how to revive my bird with other females

[stiffness]

Originally Posted by freezetheDB

i think the main problem is psychological

you keep wanting to get it up. The desire to get it up supercedes the true lust, hence the brain is not fed with enough stimulation to get it up as it is too obsessed with just getting hard.

learn to relax and enjoy it without stress. The reason you are a bull with your gf is because you are already comfortable enough and instinct can thereby take possession of you.

Recently tried visiting FLs and have had performance issues too.. can't get it up. In the end, instead of FJ it was HJ and cumming from a semi-hard dick that refused to listen to me. My namesake failed me.

You're right bro. I think thinking "get up you bastard" is self-defeating.

For me because it was my first experiences with FLs at the back of my mind I was keeping an eye out for STDs (warts? bleeding gums? etc) and that made the session less personal, and killed the mood too cos I was not comfortable enough.

Plus in my 40s, need to take meds some of which can cause erectile dysfunction, can't take viagra for risk of heart attack.. guess it's DIY and MP HJ for me.

[johnleee]

Maybe it's Christmas and the itch is greater or something, but bro stiffness, got the same problem happen to me too! Tried a FL for the first time and flag just not going up the pole you know what I mean?

In my case, I think a number of factors are affecting my performance:

1. First time experience, so already nervous
2. Worried about STDs so thinking about what other precautions I need to take, what did I forget?
3. Past history of erectile dysfunction before
4. The FL didn't stimulate me in the way I needed it maybe
5. I'm really not comfortable with the FL experience I guess because it can't beat an intimate relationship

Would I try again? I don't think I want to waste more money doing experiments on myself! I have no problems with my existing partner, Leee Jr is hard as a rock at the slightest touch from her, so physically that's not a problem. It's psychological lor!

[pokagreentea]

One reason - Ur gf is a pro and cfm better than others coz only she manage to make ur rod hard and ur dick wont accept anything below that standard. Professionalism

[kenl8888]

Is your GF a local/ty/indonesian.. as there is a charm called woh hup kong by which a girl can make a man want her only and cannot have sex with other women.. it's available in thailand, indonesia;

[clarence9]

Originally Posted by see see only

Yo bro TS ...

I have this experience ... from some 2 years back ... I can hit it hard with my FB and GF .....

But when come to FL ... or even ONS ... i cant even stand .... even after long & deep blow job ... It was SUCH A SHAME ...


Anyway i guess we grow up liao ... our didi's "lust for sex" .... can no longer generate enough blood level without the help of our heart & emo & the right touch ...

That's why i stop all FL, ONS, MP, and those sex without feeling ... However short term gf with some feeling still can

Bro,

Strongly agreed with you. I thought something is wrong but it works normally with wifey. :-)

Regards,

[desmond_lee]

some people can fuck around like an animal, some need to feel there's love involved before they can fuck.

nothing wrong with TS, just that there are 2 camps of people in this world.

[steroidfreak]

for me, i got no choice but to find someone else, try fl for the first time today, but cannot perform also, get hard quite fast, she sit one me, move a while, soft liao, change position, my turn to move, a while also soft liao. Jialat, i tot ED but with gf no problem...but the thing is she do not like sex, she say pain but I always make sure she is wet before I move in.

Imagine, I only can have sex with her 5times or less in a year(only special occasion - vday bday oversea trip) then can. How siah... if I dun go for FL, tell me what to do? I already quarrel with her for not having enough sex with her liao.

really toh, but beside sex, she really treat me well in terms of others factor.

any kind soul tell me what should I do? I have already endure this for many years finally I make a break today, enough is enough, since she dun want to give me, I need to find others before my dick malfuction soon... I have my needs too and too much PCC is not good.

[Communist]

i think its your mindset...i used to have this problem last time,you too attracted to your gf sexualy