when i'm expecting

[kittymeow]

1 question - do men / can men purely visit those FL sites and read FRs without making any appts with the FLs?

and BiRd13, during first six months of pregnancy still able to have 3-5 times of love making session is.. envious?

loving = close one eye and open one eye? why not he be loving and not do this(if he had) to me?

[SeeNoEvil]

Originally Posted by kittymeow

1 question - do men / can men purely visit those FL sites and read FRs without making any appts with the FLs?

and BiRd13, during first six months of pregnancy still able to have 3-5 times of love making session is.. envious?

loving = close one eye and open one eye? why not he be loving and not do this(if he had) to me?

Different people different strokes. Not all men that go geylang are looking for prostitutes and not all women at geylang are prostitutes.

How many times you can have sex and whether you can have sex, depends also on your physical condition. Best consult your gynecologist

Honestly men are all different. Not all bad neither not all are good. So it depends on which type you got.

[zuer]

Originally Posted by kittymeow

1 question - do men / can men purely visit those FL sites and read FRs without making any appts with the FLs?

and BiRd13, during first six months of pregnancy still able to have 3-5 times of love making session is.. envious?

loving = close one eye and open one eye? why not he be loving and not do this(if he had) to me?

sis, my simple answer is ... 99% man can not and will make appts with fl if got enough $$ to take action ...

So do you think your hubby belong to those 1%? dont thinks so much, just select close one eye or open both eyes bigger and wider, life is about choice ...

He may also just choose to close one eye to you ... who knows

Originally Posted by BiRd13

First of all, congraz on expecting

Next, ask yourself if you love your hubby? And I do agree that 'A leopard won't change its spots' If you love your hubby, just open and close one eyes ba. And hopefully he had 'protection' on....

ya agree, and lot of people said this to me in the past,

[JadedAngel]

Originally Posted by zuer

sis, my simple answer is ... 99% man can not and will make appts with fl if got enough $$ to take action ...

So do you think your hubby belong to those 1%? dont thinks so much, just select close one eye or open both eyes bigger and wider, life is about choice ...

He may also just choose to close one eye to you ... who knows

Percentage not so high, but definitely there are men that still have some decency of respect for the wife to keep whatever is in their pants during their wifes pregnancy to themselves.

[sgjoey]

Originally Posted by kittymeow

Hey all

appreciate the two cents worth given.

we still make out but that's like after umpteen times of me initiating and this sometimes, do make me feel like he might be just doing his duty and not enjoying it with me.

I always try to do things which make him tick, less of a dictator here. I know the importance of intimacy even when i'm expecting.

I see the idea - 'as long as he comes home, i should let him do whatever he wants outside' is much supported here.. I certainly do not know if I can do that, I doubt so.

I just couldn't discard the negative thoughts that are creeping into my mind.

Of cos you can't help those negative thoughts. You, like all of us, are the product of years of societal indoctrination of the virtues of monogamy. Nevertheless, practically speaking, monogamy is an ideal that is very seldom realised in actuality. And the sooner you come to terms with that, the happier you will be.

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by kittymeow

1 question - do men / can men purely visit those FL sites and read FRs without making any appts with the FLs ?

Originally Posted by zuer

sis, my simple answer is ... 99% man can not and will make appts with fl if got enough $$ to take action ...

So do you think your hubby belong to those 1%? dont thinks so much, just select close one eye or open both eyes bigger and wider, life is about choice ...

He may also just choose to close one eye to you ... who knows

This is a qtn tat is v. close n dear to the sis's heart at the moment. Pls help her wif ur views, bros if u can. Thanks ! As for me, Yes, i agree wif bro zuer's simple answer. Tink no man can resist the temptation for very long if he visits the FL site n reads their FRs regularly cos they are mostly written n presented in v. juicy form unless of course he is really short of cash n can't afford to engage their services. Yes, they may be able to hold n control themselves for 1 day, 1 week, or may be even 1 mth or more...but eventually well u know....Tis jus my 3 cents worth of tot for the sis...

[kittymeow]

Sgjoey>> If the relationship is open enough , nothing to be hidden, I guess I understand the need of finding excitement? Well, in my case, guessed he chose to hide it.

Thanks Rickey bro! And also the rest.

[sgjoey]

Originally Posted by kittymeow

Sgjoey>> If the relationship is open enough , nothing to be hidden, I guess I understand the need of finding excitement? Well, in my case, guessed he chose to hide it.

Thanks Rickey bro! And also the rest.

Open or closed, true monogamy is rarer than most people think. Also, a monogamy scenario is not necessarily healthy either. It could mean a low-sex drive couple, or that the partners are afraid to stray (rather than they do not want to stray). Often the partner with the higher sex drive turns to porn and fantasize about straying.

At the bottom line, homo sapiens are not built for monogamy. This has been the findings from the most recent research.

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by kittymeow

Thanks Rickey bro! And also the rest.

You're most welcome, sis kittymeow ! ...hope the contribution of views n sharing frm the other bros here hv helped you in some ways to answer ur qtns n clear ur mind esp the one by bro sgjoey..

[BiRd13]

Originally Posted by kittymeow

1 question - do men / can men purely visit those FL sites and read FRs without making any appts with the FLs?

and BiRd13, during first six months of pregnancy still able to have 3-5 times of love making session is.. envious?

loving = close one eye and open one eye? why not he be loving and not do this(if he had) to me?

Answer to your 1 Question =D
Yes. I think its possible to read, and not making any appts with the FLs... I'm one of them =) I do frequent and read those FRs other bros posted in the forum before... But yet, never engaged in a FL before... =)

[hotstuffm8]

trolololol

[DYBJ]

Kitty, i think u noe by now wat u wanna do & wat the repercussions will be based on wat ur final decision will be. Good luck

[kittymeow]

I'm still at a loss. Would like to gather more 'info' first before jumping into conclusion.

Well, good to know that some bros actually is able to do that.

And the next qn will be:

After reading the FRs, if you pm whoever in the thread, there's a possibility(or should i say, that's the only possibility) of wanting to get the contact of the FL? Am I right to say that?

And once started with FLs, one can never look back?

[BiRd13]

Originally Posted by kittymeow

I'm still at a loss. Would like to gather more 'info' first before jumping into conclusion.

Well, good to know that some bros actually is able to do that.

And the next qn will be:

After reading the FRs, if you pm whoever in the thread, there's a possibility(or should i say, that's the only possibility) of wanting to get the contact of the FL? Am I right to say that?

And once started with FLs, one can never look back?

I would say that... once he pm for the contact of the FL, high possibility that he will want to get hook with the FL... But again, there's some who pm for contact, yet did not contact the FL...

Not really will get addicted... Depending on how one control ba...

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by kittymeow

I'm still at a loss. Would like to gather more 'info' first before jumping into conclusion.

Glad you aren't jumping into conclusion yet. What do you mean by seeing numbers like those on the advertised site? If you know the site, then you know the numbers. Match means match, don't match means don't match. Numbers that look like fl numbers... means what? If the numbers are really clean numbers, you might have wronged him. Like that ladies next time must choose their new handphone numbers carefully, if there are too many 8s in the number, the ladies might be mistaken as FLs.

If you need help to verify the numbers, why not post 6 out of 8 numbers here and let the guys here help you trace any possible link? Just type something like 9874 **79 for example and let the guys check their own lists. If someone can find you a link, they will pm you the name and number of the fl. Then you will know for sure right?

Not all guys who read FR will want to try FL. A lot of people read to satisfy curiosity and know what is happening out there. Even ladies read FRs. It doesn't mean the ladies want to be FLs right?