When is enough ? When to stop ? Who calls the shots ?

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by whitegals

Funny sial

U are a Real Estate guy too ha?
My property agents always ensure this clause is in the tenancy agreements to protect my rights...

Make sure the deposit will be forfeited to you for early termination of the FB lease too
Unless it's due to diplomatic reasons. Even then, he needs to fulfill minimum 12months of the lease PLUS the two(2) month's notice; total 14 months hor!

[neinei]

Originally Posted by charisme

For myself i almost went into one w a married guy. but decided to chose the single guy over married one. less complication. he doesnt have anyone to ans to. can head out as n when. no curfew n all.

pros and cons of married guy ....
hmm ...

less sticky, since got commitments?
more understanding, since more experienced?
less time, since got commitments?

no right, no wrong
all depends on timing, feeling

[ConsensualLust]

Originally Posted by zacarie

Know exactly how u feel. what a joke! And he's also a samster. wahahaha. So for sure he'll see this cause he's been following my posts..

Zacarie , Is your so call ex FB married or single ? HEY PAL , if you are reading this ! Read properly !

If you are married ! get a life pal ! what can you promise her ? Give up your family for her ? You sure ? you are in for the game , and if the game is over its over ! What do you gain from the harassments ? Will she come back to you ? Move on cos if things blows up , your family will be at stake too ! You ready to lose everything ?

If you are single ! the cruel fact of the jungle , the female has the ultimate say in a FB relationship . NO Fxxx means NO Fxxx ! pardon my language . Most of the bros here are of the same voice in this issue . You are a LOSER ! The tribe has spoken !

Originally Posted by gazelle

After we broke off or ended the sexual relation. He was still constantly messaging me. Calling me all sorts of names. Putting me down. Criticizing me. I ignored his messages as i don't want to have any more contact with him. But he still bothers me even though i do not reply. He said that my reason for it to end was not good enough.
So was wondering if there is a correct method of ending a FB relationship?

Gal , just ignore the idiot ! no standard resignation procedure . It depends on the guy 's or the gal 's mentality and maturity and tact in dissolving the issue . Honestly NSA ? No strings Attached ? what a joke in many a case .

Originally Posted by charisme

For myself i almost went into one w a married guy. but decided to chose the single guy over married one. less complication. he doesn't have anyone to ans to. can head out as n when. no curfew n all.

True gal , single man can provide additional benefits . However , the maturity of the man in handling issues regarding FB relationship does not equate to being single or married . It depends on mentality , maturity and your own luck in meeting the right one .

[guruking]

Rules of the game must be observed.

Just ended mine...she mentioned she might get too emotional so called to quit. Life still goes on but the memories forever remain...R, if u reading this, Im still thinking of you immensely....

[zacarie]

Originally Posted by ConsensualLust

Zacarie , Is your so call ex FB married or single?

Originally Posted by gazelle

So we are in the same boat. Lol.. What is his status? Single also?

Nah. mine's a married man.

I guess the best thing to do now is to ignore his msges n hopefully nvr cross paths w him.

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by zacarie

I guess the best thing to do now is to ignore his msges n hopefully nvr cross paths w him.

Sorry to hear that gal , but when things are not meant to be ; they are not meant to be .

[charisme]

Originally Posted by ConsensualLust

True gal , single man can provide additional benefits . However , the maturity of the man in handling issues regarding FB relationship does not equate to being single or married . It depends on mentality , maturity and your own luck in meeting the right one .

Originally Posted by neinei

pros and cons of married guy ....
hmm ...
more understanding, since more experienced?

However mature, understanding, experienced married man may be said to have, i would still take a single man over a married man, they also do possess the qualities said of a married man.. as long as u find the right one..
Main thing is there is Much less complications. no wife or other woman to handle. n can kinda say his time is all for me.. unlike married man where u'll have to share it with his family....
But ya, it still depends on a person luck in meeting the right one.. And when u do. cherish them n the time u have together.. =)

[SaintArc]

Change hp num ... End

[gazelle]

Originally Posted by zacarie

Nah. mine's a married man.

I guess the best thing to do now is to ignore his msges n hopefully nvr cross paths w him.

Hope all goes well for u.
Yes. I will be ignoring him. Will see how long he wants to go on this way.

Originally Posted by ConsensualLust

Gal , just ignore the idiot ! no standard resignation procedure . It depends on the guy 's or the gal 's mentality and maturity and tact in dissolving the issue . Honestly NSA ? No strings Attached ? what a joke in many a case .

That is what i am gonna do. I think he is an idiot too. Lol. seeing him this way make himself seem like a pathetic puppy. Just hope he will grow up and snap out of it and let go.

Originally Posted by SaintArc

Change hp num ... End

It is not as simple as changing numbers when he does know where i live. The reason why i am against changing my number is that why do i have to succumb to his threats and fear of him by changing my number and causing inconvenience to myself having to inform friends and families my new number. i guess i will have to live with it for now and hope that he will soon get bored and tired of harressing me.

[Reoxy]

When you start to give someone something for nothing, as time goes by, he/ she will begin to view it as a form of entitlement. So when you try to take it away from him/ her, they will be resentful.

So always make them pay for it someway or the other.

[tapin]

Originally Posted by ConsensualLust

If you are married ! get a life pal ! what can you promise her ? Give up your family for her ? You sure ? you are in for the game , and if the game is over its over ! What do you gain from the harassments ? Will she come back to you ? Move on cos if things blows up , your family will be at stake too ! You ready to lose everything ?

If you are single ! the cruel fact of the jungle , the female has the ultimate say in a FB relationship . NO Fxxx means NO Fxxx ! pardon my language . Most of the bros here are of the same voice in this issue . You are a LOSER ! The tribe has spoken !

Honestly NSA ? No strings Attached ? what a joke in many a case .

It depends on mentality , maturity and your own luck in meeting the right one .

Agree with you bro ! In a FB relationship , cherish what you have and enjoy the moment . It will last longer that you ever expected .

[gazelle]

Thank you all for the response, helpful advice, encouragement ... ... We both have made an agreement and came to a conclusion for the problems that we were facing. He have agreed to stop harressing me and move on. once again thank u all.
if u do have any stories. feel free to continue sharing and keep this thread going so if anyone facing similar situations will know they are not alone..

[aqcmme]

FB = Fuck Buddy. enuff said.

Getting emotionally attached is a common thingy; TS should bail the moment that came about.

My FB got emo, I distant myself until she calm down. get emo again, i run. after a while she realizes its not marriage we are talking. Now, we are still friends, movies n coffee once in a while - no sex.

Both parties have the right to call it off at any time, without reason - thats the rule. wanna play? play by the rules, else get another one. plenty in the ocean.

[Reoxy]

Originally Posted by gazelle

if u do have any stories. feel free to continue sharing and keep this thread going so if anyone facing similar situations will know they are not alone..

My situation is that I have no FB. How to solve this problem?

[gazelle]

Originally Posted by Reoxy

My situation is that I have no FB. How to solve this problem?

Lol... Look out for my next thread then.