Any Brother can sleep around with OC permission?

[beyonder]

just ask youself this Q will you let your gal sleep with another? just a tip for some thought.

[starcrosser]

My OC said if she ever find out i eat outside, she will cut my little brother off.

[rokosickfredi]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

....the modern way seems to be hotwifing or swinging. now if you want variety in your sex life after marriage, convince your wife to swap or swing. sexual equality....

Further to bro comment, I think for both man & woman to truly enjoy swinging lifestyle, both actually must be thinking of stealing makan outside la. Like that, they can then live out their desires without fear since there is now mutual consent. If wife consent to swinging simply in order to cling onto the guy, then lifestyle is not ideal liao.

Actually now a days with women getting better education, work, better pay & therefore more independant, they are less inclined to tolerate their guy tow chiak. So they oso steal makan; if not out of thrill, then simply to spike their guy. Like dat, swing lifestyle oso does not solve the problem.

Swinging is only ideal when the gal is also a thrill seeker (guys are always thrill seekers la becos of their hormone) & both actually do get a kick out of seeing their partner humpin' around!

[tkwok]

I envy those brothers out there which their oc allow them to go outside to roam and have fun.

But woman is another type of species. You never know when they will change their mind. i rather eat behind their back rather then letting them find out.

[bangbangben]

grass is always greener on the other side...

Some gets the green light, some don't...
If want to come clean, you must be prepare if you ask the same question.

[Banana_leg]

noob here, pls advise wat means OC?

Regards

[nimrod69]

Originally Posted by Banana_leg

noob here, pls advise wat means OC?

Regards

Er...Orifice-in-Charge of happiness.

[ol'coyote]

Originally Posted by nimrod69

Er...Orifice-in-Charge of happiness.

hehe...well described...

[HCKing]

if u need to ask for 'permission' then i dont think u will get it. if really want to eat outside one will have to be ball enough to just do it and worry later. for wat i understand abt girls even if they do give u the 'permission' there will be one fine day where she will find a chance to get even for betraval of her love. girls r very jealous in nature they will never allow their guys to be shared with other girls, be it openly or discreetly.

[ward1967]

Well my friends tell me it is a Chinese thing. I have a Chinese Singaporean GF, and while she is a great girl she is not how would you say what I am looking for in a perm GF. So about 2 months ago we had a huge fight where I basicly told her we were through, and main reason was sex was not all it should be. So said i wanted to go play else where. Her reply was go play all all you want as long as i am happy, but as stated above She said just dont tell me what you are doing. Since that time I have had a couple of Chinese ladies in there 40's tell me they expect there husbands to have a gf on the side but they dont want to know about it. So to finalize message still with GF but play 2 to 3 times a week else where lol.

[Softcore]

Actually women these days are more open to the idea of having flings beyond a relationship or a marriage. They are also almost always better at concealing what they do as compared to men, hence the disproportionate number of stories involving men cheating on their wives and vice versa. That said, if you want to fool around outside of your committed relationship or marriage, you'd have to take the chance that your significant other is doing the same as well. To do otherwise is to be a hypocrite.

[mldue]

Originally Posted by starcrosser

My OC said if she ever find out i eat outside, she will cut my little brother off.

at least, you have a OC with normal behaviour.
if she allows you to eat outside, you will start thinking if she will do likewise.
or worse still, already done so.

[virginboy]

My OC told me to look for a wife in PRC, so that she can look after our business in China........but I know she's joking only!

[darkafac]

Originally Posted by Oralcraz

I have to say that there is no OC/gf that like or allow the husband to F... outside.
Many years ago, my OC told me she don't like sex anymore. We do sex once a month or even never. I told her then I have to satisfy my sexual needs outside. She told me "go loh, go and find loh!" I said Ok. But when you tried to sound it out by talking about PRC, WL/FL, you can tell by the change of mood and face that actually, she doesn't like it. My conversation with other's wives also gave me this impression. Maybe some married sis here can comment or correct me.
You see, no wife like to share their husband with other women. They may say, "sure go loh. Is OK" but I believe deep down inside, they feel hurt and don't feel good.

wah seh.. u damn poor thing sia bro.. then u nw always have to DIY ar..

[ward1967]

Originally Posted by beyonder

just ask youself this Q will you let your gal sleep with another? just a tip for some thought.

Would i let her sleep with another, hell yes i would. Then if she is playing and i am playing and we both know about it, then the issue if cheating is gone. Then the sex between each other is usually better, as each can share stories of what each did.
I was ina relationship for about 6 months, we were a swinger couple who had the right to see others. Best sex i ever had is doing her best friend while watching her get rammeed also on other side of the room. but i am sure that is not for most ppl in here.