Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl

[_AXL_]

Originally Posted by yinyang

Such life giving (s)experiences.. Thank goodness (which has nothing to do with me), our young friend wised up. And didn't dilute his yield.. As for his raw feelings, he will be all the better for it when next bait comes along.

aye, wisening up is good! was nearly baited last nite... set up by kimchi no less!!! luckily, i was drinking my martell and not other drinks, which allowed me to be sober enough to spot a trap... thus i muttered the magical words "no, u know i have gf!!!"

as for bro peggie83, replied and tried to share some experiences with him cos i liked the name peggie... nice memories of a syt and correct year somemore...kekeke... but nonetheless, i think he already knew what to do even before we told him the stories. he sounded smart enough...

[yinyang]

Originally Posted by _AXL_

...nearly baited last nite... set up by kimchi no less!!! luckily, i was drinking my martell and not other drinks, which allowed me to be sober enough to spot a trap......

Saving grace of cognac.. just watch your archiles heel get spiked ..I mean beer and rest la.

......share some experiences with him cos i liked the name peggie... nice memories of a syt and correct year somemore..

OIC.. more than ring your bell(s)? Btw, I tend to gravitate to your reasoning that no 1's here (not the least, anonymously) have the judicial right to openly crucify some guy's decision -not this specifically, but rest lovelorn threads. For better or worse, protagonist lives with his decision -however informed (or mis-informed). Kudos for advice by well meaning bros though.

[dominion]

Originally Posted by yinyang

Kudos for advice by well meaning bros though.

chairman free tonight to dispense wisdom to young kids like us ar?
nv jio lim kopi instead?

[yinyang]

Originally Posted by dominion

..dispense wisdom to young kids like us ar?
nv jio lim kopi instead?

See you giving me back for my kachau hint in your own thread arh? How's beer? Caffeine makes 1 sleepless in ..sillypore

Btw, this reminds me of your pal's similiar tight spot. Hope he bailed out..

[dominion]

Originally Posted by yinyang

See you giving me back for my kachau hint in your own thread arh? How's beer? Caffeine makes 1 sleepless

Hope he bailed out...

lao da, your hint vv hard to decipher leh, must more lucid a bit for those with less comprehension abilities.

We all need to learn our lessons the hard way in life I guess. Maybe one day me too

[Peggie83]

Originally Posted by dominion

500 enough to bao a gal?
wa such a good deal ar

What she meant is after I marry her we stay at my parents house then I provide her foods & other usage on top of that she take $500 from me monthly.

Of course I must let her earn enough first.

[Peggie83]

Originally Posted by littleme

Bro.. you did the right thing. If a gal can "earn" extra without even thinking of your feelings, you should let go. Like me, my prc gf was a mistress before and though she is not seeing the sugar daddy anymore, they still keep in touch over the phone (she is in china while he is in SGP)

Like you, I am not marrying her because I treat her as a companion and sex partner, not a wife material.

such a woman cannot marry lah phone contact means still have

[_AXL_]

Originally Posted by yinyang

Saving grace of cognac.. just watch your archiles heel get spiked ..I mean beer and rest la.

OIC.. more than ring your bell(s)? Btw, I tend to gravitate to your reasoning that no 1's here (not the least, anonymously) have the judicial right to openly crucify some guy's decision -not this specifically, but rest lovelorn threads. For better or worse, protagonist lives with his decision -however informed (or mis-informed). Kudos for advice by well meaning bros though.

if there was just a single mug of beer somewhere last nite, then i would have blissfully stepped into the trap... actually, come to think of it, i really should have taken the beer and blame it instead!!! very tempting to go all the way, but guess have to be content with the short rabba rabba session...

the nick was what attracted me to his post, did more than rang my bells!!! but my posts were all sincere and well-meaning... seems like there r quite a few bros here afflicted with the same problem, although all in different threads...

Originally Posted by dominion

lao da, your hint vv hard to decipher leh, must more lucid a bit for those with less comprehension abilities.

We all need to learn our lessons the hard way in life I guess. Maybe one day me too

this yy yr laoda ah??? his words damn siong one lah!!! dont bother to read when slightly tipsy, cos even sober that time, i wont understand 50% of the time...

[yinyang]

Originally Posted by _AXL_

...words damn siong one lah!!! ..even sober that time, i wont understand 50% of the time...

Originally Posted by dominion

..must more lucid ...We all need to learn our lessons the hard way in life I guess. Maybe one day me too...

Err.. only trouble is that I myself still learning ropes in my twilight years. No substitute for hard knocks, but if we can try to alleviate risks by sharing y not? So bro do dun blame me if you get misled (but at least you get to enjoy in your wayward ways kekeke). That, we all under-stand.

Axl, you a nocturnal owl (tend to see your posts in wee hours)? I'm better in mornings, oops excuse the pun.

[littleme]

Originally Posted by Peggie83

What she meant is after I marry her we stay at my parents house then I provide her foods & other usage on top of that she take $500 from me monthly. Of course I must let her earn enough first.

Bro, thats a lie. After the marriage, she will pester you to get her a PR on the excuse "to be with you"...

Next, she will use sex to pressure you for more money and worse the Woman Charter in SGP. You are dead duck then.

If you do not give her money, she will go "earn extra" outside and you will be the cuckoo all the time.

Reformat your brain and get her out of sight and mind. Don't even continue bonking her becoz sometimes the small head rules over the big one.

[Rof|maoxz]

Originally Posted by littleme

Reformat your brain and get her out of sight and mind. Don't even continue bonking her becoz sometimes the small head rules over the big one.

So have you reformat yours yet?

[Mr.romantic]

Originally Posted by Peggie83

My decision: She still call me but I decided to carry on with her until I find another good girl. If you guys call this is a game so let it be. I had woke up & won't cry foul at the end of the day.

Originally Posted by Peggie83

At the end of day she will realise that she isn't getting much from me. No doubt now I still look after her as a bf make her happy, give her bf feeling & assurance. I still bring her out to chinese restaurants, PartyWorld & shopping centres. I will again spend the bare minimum & let her carrying working.

I ever offer to give her $1,000 a month if she stop working but she said $500 is enough if I paid for foods & other usage. OK LIE right !!!

Now I will make her realise all this are FAKED too

good call that you can wake up. however one might be soft hearted even if you decide to detach your feelings for her. there is always a "danger" when you are still seeing her. i wish you good luck.

[littleme]

Originally Posted by Rof|maoxz

So have you reformat yours yet?

Quarantine.. no need to reformat becoz my big head still rule over small head.

[Peggie83]

Thanks Bro WilliamSH for upping my points

[Peggie83]

Originally Posted by littleme

Bro, thats a lie. After the marriage, she will pester you to get her a PR on the excuse "to be with you"...

Next, she will use sex to pressure you for more money and worse the Woman Charter in SGP. You are dead duck then.

If you do not give her money, she will go "earn extra" outside and you will be the cuckoo all the time.

Reformat your brain and get her out of sight and mind. Don't even continue bonking her becoz sometimes the small head rules over the big one.

You are right, I meet my KTV gf on Sunday. The feeling is disheartened liao no more feeling to screw her anymore.