Re: Anyone u sex with before that u never thought of....
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Originally Posted by OlympusHour
Please do not flame me. Been a silent reader all these years and initially I did not have any intention to share my story. Please skip this sharing, if you detest guys who date married ladies. Those who enjoy do not have to up my points because many years as a silent reader, I have no idea what those points can do.
A little fuzzy with the details. Got to know a mature elegant lady (let's call her L) around 7-8 years ago who is a naturalized citizen. Back then, I was in my 20s. From her profile picture, I knew she is a mature lady and someone who is older than me which fit the profile I was looking for. There is just something about matured ladies that I find attractive in. Was previously in a relationship with 2 older married ladies which explained why I was so keen to meet her.
I must clarify, it is not that I was not successful. I was not lacking financially.
At this stage, I must admit I did not know her that much. We did not get pass talking about investments, business, shares. I don't know much of her personal life and why she was open to meet with someone who is younger than her. At that time I didn't know her age too.
We bade goodnight to one another and she went to bed at her usual time. Few hours later, she told me she can't get to sleep and revealed that all the sex talk got her excited
I never expect myself to be fucking L because I thought of all the missed chances but I guess it help that I did not delete her number and that she was receptive to chat with me again after all these years.
To other bros out there, it ain't over till the fat lady sing. Some times, the timing is not right but when you gathered enough experience the stars will align for you =D
Sorry I am not a great writer. Just writing it down and treating it like an online open diary
By patiently writing so much, it already shows u like to write to share with others yr story n experiences in life esp yr romantic n sex life ...good !...keep it up !
Please do not flame me. Been a silent reader all these years and initially I did not have any intention to share my story. Please skip this sharing, if you detest guys who date married ladies. Those who enjoy do not have to up my points because many years as a silent reader, I have no idea what those points can do.
A little fuzzy with the details. Got to know a mature elegant lady (let's call her L) around 7-8 years ago who is a naturalized citizen. Back then, I was in my 20s. From her profile picture, I knew she is a mature lady and someone who is older than me which fit the profile I was looking for. There is just something about matured ladies that I find attractive in. Was previously in a relationship with 2 older married ladies which explained why I was so keen to meet her.
I thought I was equipped with all the know how on tackling older ladies considering I was quite matured for my age. But boy was I wrong. I got intimidated by L because she is a very successful lady that does not lack in anything financially.
We met up occasionally here and there while I continue to gather courage. At this stage, I must say I never even came close to leaving first base. We begin to lose touch with one another due to me being intimidated by her.
After not seeing each other for 2 years, I thought I would have accrued more experience and was convinced I won't feel intimidated so I contacted L. Once again, I felt intimidated and small.
I must clarify, it is not that I was not successful. I was not lacking financially. By then, I was running my family business and maturing along the way. Thinking back, probably the lack of worldly experience was what contributed to my "downfall". Once again, I stopped contacting her and had in mind to delete her number out of "embarrassment", convinced that I will never be able to earn a position in her heart. Lucky me, I never got around deleting her contact.
At this stage, I must admit I did not know her that much. We did not get pass talking about investments, business, shares. I don't know much of her personal life and why she was open to meet with someone who is younger than her. At that time I didn't know her age too.
So few months back, out of the blue I thought of her and I decide to view her profile picture. My jaw dropped, I found out she has 2 kids and it looks like her daughters are in their teens. All I could think of at that time, I didn't know L was married. Is she single now or is she experiencing some trouble with her marriage. Dropped her a text message. Found out that she went back home to visit her family and was doing her quarantine in a hotel. This time I did not have the pressure of meeting her and I decide to invest time in getting to know her. We talked pretty much about shares, investment and what she was doing in her birth country. Wasn't too pushy considering that we have not seen each other for 5 years. I persisted and text her every day even when she doesn't reply me. I thought she wasn't too keen to continue the friendship so slowly I faded away.
1 month passed and I know she is back in Singapore. Decide to drop her another text message without any expectation at all except to see if she was keen to meet up for coffee. Surprisingly, she said yes. Wanting to be a gentleman, I cued her by informing her that when I see her I am going to give her a big hug and for her to treat it as a casual way of saying "Hi, it's been a long while".
I must say that with age you become a bit more conscience of your surrounding and stare. We met up, gave her a big hug and we found a cafe to sit down and have coffee and catch up with one another. Found out more about her personal life and why she was so receptive about meeting younger guys back then. Found out that her marriage with her husband was not all that great and at that time she wanted to look for a guy who can be there for her emotionally and to get back at her husband who was having affairs with many ladies locally and overseas. I shared with her my own experience dating older married ladies and dropping hint here and there. Could feel that she was uncomfortable being seen in public with me considering I am younger than her.
We left and continue to keep in touch. I certainly wasn't expecting anything because L mentioned that she has already gotten pass the stage where she doesn't see a need to seek revenge.
I decided to confess to her and I told her back then I was already attracted to her but because I was intimidated by her I choose to do nothing about it. Reminding her again and again that I do not want to scare her away with my confession and honesty. I am already in my 30s and I do not want to hesitate but I also respect that she is married and not looking for anything beyond friendship. That I will not cross the boundaries and if she allows I will love to hold her hand the next time we meet. At this stage everything indicate that we are just going to be friends.
We continue chatting with one another. On a particular day I was busy with work and L texted me. Seeing that I did not reply promptly she asked me did she said something wrong? I told her she did not say anything wrong and that I am still going to be thick skin and ask her out. This was the start when things began to change for the both of us. She begin to reveal more about her personal life. Found out she is a mother of 5. I must say that her figure is fantastic. There is no way that anyone will think that she is a mother of 5. She told me to wait for her to cross the boundaries.
With that statement I held some hope that maybe something good may happen. L started to drop more hints like I haven't been getting a good sleep, must be because I am thinking of you but remained coy about getting together. L was also starting to be more opened when talking about sex and asking me how do I satisfy myself whenever I have an urge. I am single and not seeing anyone.
We bade goodnight to one another and she went to bed at her usual time. Few hours later, she told me she can't get to sleep and revealed that all the sex talk got her excited and revealed she actually like to talk about sex. That perked me up. She jokingly accused me of seducing a good and dutiful woman like her. L told me to stop talking about holding hands or respecting the boundaries. Let's get straight down to fucking each other. We arranged to meet at my place. The stars must have aligned for all these to happen. After renting out my place for years, my tenants decide to end the lease and not renew.
We met at my place and I could see L was nervous and she find this so refreshing. She confessed even when her husband cheated on her, she did not cheat even though she had the intention to do so.
We have been seeing each other for a month fucking each other brain out. We try to meet up twice a week whenever our schedule allow. Later on I found out, it is because she spotted her husband with another lady and this time because I was around that she decided to fuck it and start a relationship with me.
I never expect myself to be fucking L because I thought of all the missed chances but I guess it help that I did not delete her number and that she was receptive to chat with me again after all these years.
To other bros out there, it ain't over till the fat lady sing. Some times, the timing is not right but when you gathered enough experience the stars will align for you =D
Sorry I am not a great writer. Just writing it down and treating it like an online open diary
There's nothing wrong in looking the more matured ladies, but if you deliberately look for the married ones, then something ain't quite right.
If they were to become serious in wanting to be with you by divorcing the husbands, or the day comes when they patch back with the husbands and you realise you have fallen in love, you will be heartbroken.
Long and short, if you are single, find someone you love to be with. Else, be very careful in choosing your ONS or FWB.
I personally don't know what's the fuss about this points thingy. This forum is for everyone to share or even for some to treat it as their little black diary to record their ventures, concurs or even some sins that they can't anyone else in their real life, while the rest of us learn from their pitfalls or mistakes or we simply enjoy and even fap for the pics and vids they shared.
Hence, let's all stop all these and continue with some interesting stories.
02-11-2021, 06:47 PM
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